Yu Meiyan, 18 years old, followed her parents' arrangements to marry a good man. At the age of 28, she jumped into the sea with tears and committed suicide because of her unrestrained body. This tragic life is largely due to "the more you lack what you want."

more beauty , and is called "the first lustful woman in the Republic of China" , because there are more than 3,000 men related to . In that era when feudal ethics was extremely valued, this was really shocking.

18-year-old Yu Meiyan followed her parents' arrangements to marry a good man. At the age of 28, she jumped into the sea with tears and committed suicide because of her unrestrained body. This tragic life is largely due to "The more you lack, the more you want" .

yu Meiyan's first marriage

yu Meiyan was born in Guangdong, which has been a businessman since the Ming and Qing Dynasties. His father was a pawn merchant.

The generous family conditions gave Yu Meiyan the opportunity to study. In addition, the coastal areas such as Guangdong and Fujian at that time had close commercial trade with the West, so the books Yu Meiyan also read also contained a lot of ideas from the West.

Under this subtle influence, Yu Meiyan's thoughts gradually became inconsistent with Chinese traditional culture.

When Yu Meiyan was 18 years old, her parents arranged for her to marry a young master Tan.

Originally, Mr. Tan often goes to the United States to do business and has many overseas ideas, and has progressive consciousness and thoughts, so he still has a common language with Yu Meiyan.

But the problem is that Mr. Tan is too busy and cannot see anyone for many years. Yu Meiyan, who just got married, was very dissatisfied with this. In addition, she had a disagreement with her mother-in-law, so she ran away from home in anger and went to Guangzhou alone.

As a result, Yu Meiyan was arrested and imprisoned as soon as she went to Guangzhou. It turned out that the day before Yu Meiyan arrived in Guangzhou, the chief of the Navy of the Beiyang government (equivalent to the commander-in-chief of the country) of Cheng Biguang , was just assassinated in Guangzhou. At that time, the whole city was searching for suspicious people.

A woman dressed in an extremely gorgeous manner at this time, naturally she was extremely eye-catching in the crowd.

Although the Tan family and their parents bailed Yu Meiyan, after this incident, both families did not like Yu Meiyan very much.

Tan family first formally filed for divorce from Yu Meiyan, and then Yu Meiyan's father, as a more traditional man, sent Yu Meiyan to School of Arts .

Yu Meiyan began to be slutty

Art Institute, it sounds like a place to learn craftsmanship, but it is actually a semi-mandatory prison.

Most prisoners in prisons will enter art school and learn a craft during their sentences. Yu Meiyan's father sent her to the art institute, and wanted her to learn more female workers and become a more traditional woman.

If we consider it from Yu Meiyan's perspective, we will think that Mr. Tan and Yu Meiyan's father are unreasonable. How can there be a father in this world who is wronged but sent his daughter to prison?

So, Yu Meiyan, who came from her studies, chose to break up with her family and acted even more debaucherously.

, helpless and without any worries, Yu Meiyan began to frequently go to casinos, dance halls and other places to make friends with noble men who "go out to play".

On the one hand, Yu Meiyan, who has no income, has to rely on these young men to help him. On the other hand, Yu Meiyan keeps having sex with these young men, so Yu Meiyan is famous in Guangzhou for a while.

There are many tabloids similar to gossip media. During that time, she relied on Yu Meiyan to support her. She was also called "Strange Woman" .

However, in his unrestrained life, Yu Meiyan soon met her second husband, a Hong Kong businessman named He. The businessman was very sympathetic to Yu Meiyan's experience and even proposed to marry Yu Meiyan.

After Yu Meiyan agreed, she became the second wife of the businessman named He. After marriage, her husband even spoiled her into a princess, and the requirements for Yu Meiyan were also satisfied as much as possible.

However, Yu Meiyan's life was too extravagant and wasted. The businessman surnamed He couldn't stand her for a long time, so he divorced Yu Meiyan with a divorce letter. After

Yu Meiyan met the third person she fell in love with, that was the son of the county magistrate of Nanhai County at that time. But the relationship between the two aroused unanimous opposition from the second generation of the official.

The second-generation father of the official even planned to punish Yu Meiyan in the name of "local prostitute" . After three marriages, Yu Meiyan was completely disheartened about life, so she traveled to San Francisco, USA.

Yu Meiyan was discouraged

But when San Francisco , Yu Meiyan met her first husband, Mr. Tan, and proposed the idea of ​​reuniting, but Mr. Tan was quite disgusted with Yu Meiyan's previous life and decisively rejected her. After

was rejected again, Yu Meiyan gave up on love. Then she began to write a book called "Modern Love Letter" (also known as Romantic Love Letter) , and then became a monk.

However, the "Modern Love Letter" she wrote is well-known in the country and has become popular all over the country.

Yu Meiyan, who had become a monk, was approached by her third husband soon after, hoping that the two would reconcile again.

But at this time Yu Meiyan was already discouraged. She knew that it was impossible to be with this second-generation official, so she refused the other party.

However, this second-generation official was very persistent and came to the door many times. The temple could not bear the harassment of this second-generation official, so he drove Yu Meiyan down the mountain.

Yu Meiyan, who went down the mountain from the temple, was helpless and completely desperate on a steamship to Shanghai, jumped into the ship and committed suicide.

Generally speaking, Yu Meiyan's experience has its own factors, but it is also a tragedy for the entire society.

In a turbulent period like the Republic of China, women's pursuit of progressive ideas was still regarded as heresy and would be excluded and suppressed.

, coupled with Yu Meiyan's depravity after the setback and self-abandonment, eventually led to this tragedy , and the number one lustful woman in the Republic of China died.