Introduction
Nanny, also known as a housekeeper, mainly works in to care for children, the elderly or take care of patients at the employer's home. When did the nanny's profession originate in
? There is no record in historical materials. However, historical materials say that nanny evolved from female concubine.
The so-called " concubine" was a woman that a man married in the old days in addition to his wife.
A historian pointed out that starting from the weekly , any aristocratic woman needs to marry a sister or aunt or niece of the same race to marry. These "dogmen" are called "mothers" and live in the side room. Since the husbands of noble women also have "stolen fish", "女" becomes "concubine", which makes it difficult to distinguish between "女" and "concubine".
When Han , some officials began to take concubines blatantly. Some officials of higher ranks could even take 8 concubines in addition to having a regular family, but for ordinary officials, they could only take 2 concubines.
In the official's home, the status of " concubine" is lower than that of the main bedroom of . In normal times, they not only need to meet the various needs of the officials, but also have to help the main bedroom take care of the children. If they have children themselves, the main bedroom will not help them take care of them.
Since the daily life of " concubine" is often with children, " concubine" has another title - Nanny. In fact, this is the origin of the nanny.
For a long time after the liberation, there was no profession of "nanny" in our country. The main reason is that the new China emphasizes that everyone is equal, so the profession of "nanny" disappeared. However, since the reform and opening up, with the continuous influx of Western thoughts, the profession of "nanny" has begun to flourish again.
In order to regulate the profession of nanny, the relevant departments have issued a series of regulations. The relevant regulations require that nanny must have good moral qualities and a high sense of responsibility; flexible ways of dealing with the world, strong adaptability and patience, and also require that nanny must have proficient housework skills and basic knowledge of law, safety and hygiene.
stipulates in the "Regulations on the Standards for Residential Nanny" that nanny must keep a certain distance from the opposite sex of the employer's employer and must not engage in too close behavior with the employer of the opposite sex. However, the regulations are dead, but people live. What will the nanny do in the household? It is the nanny's own business.
A senior netizen said that since many employers are worried that nanny will have some bad behaviors, most employers who have idle people at home will ask their relatives to work as nanny at home.
In fact, this senior netizen’s statement is very correct. Look, Sun Mouhui, a woman from a certain place in Anhui, took the post of a nanny at her aunt, Ms. Ding's house. However, Sun Mouhui's behavior was a bit unlucky, so when she got married on October 1, not only did no one be present at her family, but she also sent an errand runner to send a knife.
Event
Yesterday was National Day. There is a custom among the people in our country that many young people like to get married during the National Day. Sun Mouhui, a woman from Anhui, also selected the happy day of her marriage on the National Day.
According to folk customs, when a woman gets married, her parents' family will definitely send someone to attend the wedding. However, what is puzzling is that at Sun Mouhui's wedding, no one of her family members was seen, so that Sun Mouhui's wedding seemed a bit monotonous and embarrassing.
So, why didn’t Sun Mouhui’s family come to attend her wedding? Sun Mouqing, an insider in
, said: "Sun Mouhui is 21 years old. Because her family is relatively poor, after graduating from junior high school, she was invited by her aunt Ms. Ding as a nanny at home by her aunt Ms. Ding in the family." Sun Mouqing, an insider in
, continued: "In fact, Sun Mouhui is the honorary nanny at her aunt Ms. Ding. Strictly speaking, it is Ms. Ding who raised her for nothing to take care of her.Generally speaking, Sun Mouhui does nothing at her aunt Ms. Ding’s house. Even if she cooks, washes and other housework, most of the time she does it. Sun Mouhui is just helping her aunt Ms. Ding buys groceries. "
insider Sun Mouqing continued: "Although Sun Mouhui doesn't do much work at her aunt Ms. Ding's house, her aunt Ms. Ding will pay Sun Mouhui at a monthly standard of 4,000 yuan. It should be said that Sun Mouhui got a salary for nothing. "
insider Sun Mouqing finally said: "Although Sun Mouhui only graduated from junior high school, she is eloquent and has a sweet mouth, especially since she is particularly good at expressing herself in front of her uncle He. Perhaps because Sun Mouhui is particularly good at acting, her uncle He likes her very much, and it is because her uncle He likes her very much that her uncle He doesn't know when she will be "good" with her. In order to be able to "benefit" with her uncle He forever, she publicly forced her aunt Ms. Ding to divorce her uncle on the grounds that she was pregnant. After more than two months of "civil war", Sun Mouhui's aunt Ms. Ding divorced because she could not stand the joint "torture" between her and her uncle He. After her aunt Ms. Ding divorced, the obstacles she had to marry her uncle He were cleared, so she and He held a wedding ceremony yesterday. Because Sun Mouhui's behavior made her parents feel embarrassed, not only wasn't a single person in her family attending the wedding yesterday, but also sent an errand runner to send a knife, which means: the relationship is broken. "
The above is a general process of this incident.
When many netizens learned about this incident from the Internet, netizens started a heated discussion.
netizen voice
netizens are booming: I think my mother's family is doing very right. For people like Sun Mouhui who are unethical, their mother's family should cut off their relationship with her. Because her approach is really embarrassing. If her mother's family still treats her as a daughter, she will not be able to hold on to her face, so it is appropriate to break up with her.
netizen Come and go: Ms. Ding is bringing wolves into the house! For people like Sun Mouhui, Ms. Ding shouldn't have pityed her. If she hadn't invited her to her home as a nanny, how could her marriage be so unbearable? But now it's too late to say anything.
In short, netizens have a lot of discussions.
Lao Hu's view
The word "morality" comes from the book "Tao Te Ching" written by the thinker of the pre-Qin period------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Therefore, all things respect the Tao and value virtue. The dignity of Tao and the nobleness of virtue are always natural. "Since then, the term "morality" has emerged.
A sociologist said that morality is an ideology , which is a basic norm and norm that needs to be followed in people's common life and behavior. Once a person is unwilling to abide by this norm and norm, he will inevitably go astray.
Sun Mouhui in this incident is an unethical person. No matter what the reason, he cannot rob his husband with his aunt. However, Sun Mouhui actually robbed his uncle, thus violating the basic principles and norms of in life and mistakenly entered Astray.
In the folk, anyone who is unethical is easily criticized by all people in society. Of course, Sun Mouhui is no exception. Judging from the performance of her mother's family, Sun Mouhui has become a lonely person, and the life of a lonely person is monotonous. It should be said that although Sun Mouhui grabbed her uncle, she did not win happiness and happiness. Her life will be a lonely life, and her life is also destined to be a failed life, but now that things have come to this, I am afraid that even she can't save herself!
What do you think?
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