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Look at a short story first.
3 frogs fell into a bucket full of fresh milk together. The first frog said, "This is God's will." So it shrank its hind legs and did not move. The second frog said, "This barrel is too deep, I really can't jump out." After that, he didn't move any more. Only the third frog did not give up his efforts.
It thought: "As long as my hind legs still have some strength, I must put my head on the fresh milk." It just swam slowly, swimming. Suddenly, it felt like its legs touched something hard. Try it, I can stand on it. It turned out that it kept swimming around, stirring the fresh milk into cream. The third frog stood on the cream and jumped out of the bucket. In this way, the third frog turned danger into safety and successfully escaped.
The different handling attitudes determine the different directions of things and the frogs' respective "destiny". is obviously, leaving fate and setting limits on one's own will not make the bad situation better, but will further deteriorate. Never compromise or do your best will make seemingly impossible things possible, and the seemingly hopeless desperate situation becomes a "springboard" that soars into the sky.
In human society, the principle of survival of the fittest and the winner is king is common. When everything goes smoothly, it is difficult to see everyone's ability to analyze and solve problems. When encountering a crisis, whether a person can get rid of the restrictions and sort out clues and find ways to resolve conflicts is crucial for personal growth and development. If one cannot change one's own ideas and treat the outside world with a stubborn cognition, it will be difficult for a person to get out of the quagmire of subjectivism and can only go further and further on the wrong path and cannot turn back.
Never give up until the last moment, and try every means to achieve your wish. This is a necessary quality for successful people. There is no doubt that there are only two results in failure and success when doing anything. If you can't rack your brains and concentrate on achieving success, you are preparing for failure . With the belief that "victory must belong to me", "I can solve all problems", and "my power is infinite", there is no difficulty that can stop "I" from moving forward, and there is nothing that cannot be done.
Facing adversity, he did not feel sorry for himself, but instead became self-reliant, which allowed many heroes to leave their reputations in history and shine for thousands of years. Sima Qian , who created "Records of the Grand Historian" , is a erudite and unyielding person who is tenacious and unyielding in adversity. The castration caused Sima Qian to suffer physical and mental damage and severe damage. In response to this, Sima Qian was ashamed and humiliated, reluctant to part with day and night, and finally worked hard to complete the amazing work.
In " Report to Ren An ", Sima Qian confides his thoughts and feelings to his friend Ren An: "So those who endure to live, stay in the dirt and refuse to refuse, hate their selfishness, are despised and have no world, and their literary talent is not expressed in future generations."
Tolerance to live is a very painful way of living. However, in order to write books and write history to clarify his ambitions, Sima Qian overcame all kinds of discomforts in the living environment, faced the various tests in adversity calmly, and finally fulfilled his wish. Nowadays, people have deep respect for Sima Qian when reading "Records of the Grand Historian".
adversity is a touchstone that can make talented people shine. To get out of adversity, we not only need clear thinking, flexible mind, broad mind, and agile actions, but also have a kind of wit to adapt to changes. Taking adversity as a test, not being nervous, not retreating, or complaining will make us look at everything with an optimistic and open-minded attitude, which will make us feel more grateful for a peaceful and peaceful life. It is the emergence of difficulties and difficulties that make us cherish everything that is hard-won.
No one knows what will happen in the future, we can only live every moment of today with our heart. When adversity comes, we must never panic, but firmly believe that all difficulties and depression are temporary and cannot defeat our entire life.Comparing a person's existence with the universe is as small as dust; comparing a person's pain with the world cannot be considered pain; putting a person's hatred into the world cannot be considered hatred. A big mind and great tolerance are the ideological roots for solving all problems. How can a small adversity make you unable to recover and surrender?
