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Preface
Li Na is Chairman Mao’s most beloved daughter, and she has a unique meaning of life to Chairman Mao.
She once resolutely chose to divorce and raised the child alone. She once made Chairman Mao cry with pain and was also the child he cared most about before his death.
Li Ne was born - a warm and loving childhood
1940, Li Ne was born in Yan'an, Shaanxi. She is the only child among Chairman Mao's children to spend her childhood with Chairman Mao's company.
During these long days of company, Chairman Mao called Li Na the "big doll" and Li Na called Chairman Mao "little dad".
The birth of the "big doll" Li Ne also became a spiritual comfort in Chairman Mao's battles in the north and south - he is a husband and a father, and he must become a qualified or even an excellent role model.
start a business and it is even more difficult to start a new family in a country.
And Li Na's words "Dad sleeps" when Chairman Mao was tossing and turning for his career, is enough to make Chairman Mao muster up the courage and clarify his ideas in the chaotic state affairs.
Companionship is a process of mutual dedication. The young Li Na gave Chairman Mao enough confidence with innocence and simple love.
Chairman Mao often takes Li Na to swim and fight against the wind and waves. He asked every child to work hard, and Li Ne was no exception.
When Li Ne was learning to swim, the guard wanted to give Li Ne a lifebuoy, but Chairman Mao asked Li Ne to follow him to swim in the sea without bringing a lifebuoy.
's initial trembling and his leisurely travel after finding the rules of the waves allowed Li Na to see Chairman Mao's tenacity and belief--to face difficulties bravely.
Chairman Mao used his specific actions to make the "big doll" realize that every difficulty in life requires oneself to overcome fear and work hard in order to truly win in life challenges again and again.
, which also supported Li Ne's spiritual strength to bravely become a single mother later.
Perhaps human inheritance is more of the inheritance of this spiritual power.
Li Ne's study and career - youth that has been struggled
Chairman Mao requires his children to be self-reliant. Children cannot use Chairman Mao's name to gain attention or benefits in their study and life.
When Li Na was in elementary school, the school asked parents to attend parent-teacher meetings at school. Every student was accompanied by his parents, and Li Na was only surrounded by his father's guard. It is precisely because of such a relationship that does not involve any interests that the relationship between father and daughter is purer.
In middle school, she was admitted to Beijing Normal University Girls' High School . Li Na never made any noise about this school full of children of cadres. The only exception is probably the lateness of class.
Every time Li Na goes to class, no matter how he goes, he has to go to the classroom with one step late. After the school teacher asked this question, Li Na rarely came late again.
She loves literature and history knowledge very much. Chairman Mao often explains many historical stories and philosophical principles to Li Na, and the two often chat until the early morning.
consciously made her a better person. Li Ne encountered the problem of professional choice when she was in college - literature and history are her hobbies.
Chairman Mao does not advocate excessive interference in children's free choices, and even hopes that children can have their own independent choices.
During college, the "Little Dad" also gave Li Ne a lot of ideological guidance. The more difficult the period is, the stronger the willpower you have to get out of the predicament.
When Li Na experienced three years of natural disasters, she was always unable to eat enough at school. After returning home, Chairman Mao had a few bites of food and stopped to leave it for his daughter to eat.
But no one told Li Ne that this meal was just because she came back, and Chairman Mao could only eat one meal of wild vegetables a day.
After graduation, Li Ne joined the People's Liberation Army Daily as an editor, with the pseudonym "Xiao Li". Her hobby and accumulation of literature and history since childhood also became her later career support.
And a large part of her success is related to Chairman Mao—strict requirements, patient guidance, low-key standards, kind attitude, objective thoughts, mature vision…
In addition to this, we should also recognize Li Ne’s own efforts—the thought of hard work has supported her for a long time.
Li Na’s marriage - Happiness always comes so suddenly and so short...
It’s time to reach 30 years old, which is an age that makes women feel embarrassed at that time - Li Na has not yet talked about marriage.
"Don't be too harsh when choosing a marriage." Chairman Mao said this, Li Na, who devoted all his experiences to work and career, began to think about what kind of partner he should choose.
"Dad is not trying to force you to get married as soon as possible, but dad cannot be by your side forever. You must find someone who can take care of yourself."
Every time Chairman Mao has a meeting with his daughter, he will nag about the "big doll" like this whenever he has time. Unexpectedly, "little dad" has such an ordinary and simple side. "Nagging" actually gave Li Ne more happy experience.
Chairman Mao attaches great importance to his daughter's own views, and he also constantly guides his daughter's values. He hopes that his daughter can find a more down-to-earth and reliable young man, and even goes to the countryside, he thinks it is worth it.
Later, Li Na came to 57 Cadre School to study and work, and met Xu Ning during this period.
The colleague Li Na met at the May 7th Cadre School always kept a distance from himself. The daughter of the President of the People's Republic of China did not actually live such a special treatment.
It is in such an environment that there is only a down-to-earth and hardworking young farmer who contacts her and helps her without any hesitation. Later, the two of them had more contact, and Li Na gradually felt Xu Ning's goodness.
Fate needs to be fought for by "taking the initiative", and feelings need to be cultivated by "contact".
After Xu Ning pursued himself for more than half a year, Li Na began to try to fall in love with Xu Ning.
She never blocked Xu Ning from her standards for choosing a spouse because of her low education. At that time, she must have felt that Xu Ning was the one who would accompany her for the rest of her life.
Before marriage, Li Na also sought the consent of his father Chairman Mao. Chairman Mao believed in the vision of "big doll" very much, and he believed that Li Na must have his own choice. He agreed, and sent someone to send a complete set of Mar Eng on the day of Li Na's marriage.
However, after having a child Xu Xiaoning , Li Na quit his original job. Xu Ning's work income was meager and could not provide family expenses, and a conflict gradually arose between the two.
actually caused the relationship between the two to be ripped off because Li Na is a graduate of the history department of Peking University. He has held many important positions and has much higher thoughts and vision.
"Chicken talks with ducks", the small details in life show the problems of education and values between people, which will inevitably lead to the final division of the two people.
Li Na likes reading, and Xu Ning likes farming. After returning home, Xu Ning talked to Li Na about what tricks he found in farming today, or if he did more work than another waiter when he was a waiter.
, and Li Ne originally wanted to share about the idea that Chairman Mao gave him in the philosophy books when he got married, and suddenly disappeared.
is like this. We need to find someone with equal thoughts, talk about topics that everyone agrees with, and form a common goal.
Li Ne worked hard to take care of her children - Who said that no one loved her single mother?
As the conflict deepens, Li Na and Xu Ning's marriage is facing a crisis, and Li Na resolutely chose to divorce and decided to take the child alone, starting the hard life of a single mother.
How can a woman, a literati, take care of her young children alone, survive this difficult life? Li Ne has experienced a long and difficult time. She couldn't work with her children, and she had no stable income, so she naturally had difficulty living.
In 1972, Chairman Mao asked Zhang Yaoshi to visit Li Na on his behalf. Since then, Chairman Mao learned about the divorce of the "big doll" and felt very distressed - "Ne Wa's marriage is still hasty."
The happiness of children involves the thoughts of their parents all the time, and Chairman Mao couldn't help but cry.
Li Na was originally a woman with self-esteem and independent, but in the end she gave up her job for the sake of her children and gave up her self-esteem.
She spoke to Zhang Yaoci: "Can you tell me to 'little dad', can you lend me some money?"
people all said, "Women are weak, but mothers are strong."
But at that difficult time, no man has to rely on for himself, and he cannot go out to work directly for the sake of his children. Li Na is really "end of the way".
After Chairman Mao found out, he immediately asked Zhang Yaoci to give 8,000 yuan to Newa from the royalties he saved from saving money.
As a father, I really can't keep my daughter from listening to her when she's at the end of her life.
Although he has always asked his children to be independent and self-reliant, such a contrary to the principles and the simple love of his old father is really touching.
Later, Chairman Mao asked Zhang Yaoci to bring Li Min 8,000 yuan. After all, Li Min had just given birth to a child and needed a lot of care in life.
We all say that Chairman Mao loves his youngest daughter Li Na, but we ignore the more concerns Chairman Mao has for those children who have never lived with him.
"Water splashed by a married daughter", but reality is always different. How can blood relationships become "cold" because of a common saying?
From ancient times to the present, from kings to the people, almost every father has a kind, simple and silent fatherly love for his women. You may say fewer words and make more requirements, but your considerations for your child's future are far-reaching enough.
Farewell - Saying goodbye to another life should be very heartbroken.
That's it. Chairman Mao helped his daughter so that she could basically live. As for whether she was good or not, it depends on the children's own efforts.
On December 26, 1973, on Chairman Mao’s birthday, he invited all the children to have a reunion dinner, but he didn’t see Li Na. He was a little worried, maybe he was worried about Li Na’s current life.
In fact, Li Na worked hard that day because of his financial difficulties and the pressure to support his family, and had no more time to attend this family gathering. It is because of this that Chairman Mao was worried about Li Ne's life.
long longing and worry, coupled with family and state affairs, Chairman Mao's body became increasingly declining. After learning about this, Li Na hurriedly took the child back to Zhongnanhai .
This is the first time Li Na has seen her father after her divorce. Seeing the medical equipment in the room, Li Na cried out in pain. She hadn't seen her daughter for a long time. Chairman Mao thought of a lot of past and felt apologized.
Chairman Mao always felt that Li Na’s marriage was too hasty and was his fault as a father, which may be the hardest thing he could let go of.
"Big doll, I can't see your face clearly. Get closer and let me touch your face." After touching Newa's face, he lost a lot. Chairman Mao was so sad that he cried...
Everyone has a softest place in his heart. Perhaps "Big doll" is the softest place in Chairman Mao's heart.
Li Na accompanied Chairman Mao through the last two years of his life.
Once she accidentally went out to deal with the matter. After returning, Chairman Mao had passed away. Li Na lay beside her father and cried bitterly, like a baby who had never experienced the world many years ago, crying loudly in her father's arms.
It was just that crying was meeting my father, and this time crying was saying goodbye to my father.
Later, she lived a more embarrassing life, but more decent and happier, the way Chairman Mao liked it.
After this separation, Li Ne's life became even more embarrassing. She could only buy 10 cents of meat for her children to eat at a time, and lived a difficult and lonely life. Li Yinqiao felt that she should help Li Ne.
At the meeting mourning Chairman Mao, Li Yinqiao met Wang Jingqing.He felt that Wang Jingqing was upright in his mind and respected Chairman Mao very much, so he introduced Wang Jingqing to Li Na.
Meeting Wang Jingqing may be another warm and happy experience in Li Ne's life.
Since then, Wang Jingqing took Li Na very much. He understood every little habit of Li Na and tried hard to help Li Na rebuild his confidence. Because of his weak body, Wang Jingqing took Li Na everywhere to see a doctor and spent a stable time with Li Na.
Perhaps for an ordinary woman, "the quiet years are the pursuit of life"!
For Li Na, Wang Jingqing is the person who can accompany her for the rest of her life. Love and fate are really inseparable, and only when fate comes can we get real peace.
people always experience ups and downs throughout their lives, even the President and the President’s daughter. But if we can face our loved ones with a simple heart like them and face all difficulties with unremitting struggle, a happy life will eventually come.
