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When Zhang Haohao appeared on the stage, she was a famous official singer in Beijing. She was as lowly as other women from lowly backgrounds and was not free, but she was different from other women in that she had her own goals in life and The height is that she became an oiran by virtue of her singing, enjoying the honor bestowed by the emperor. Liu Jiuguan, who is the best at writing lyrics in the world, leads her horse.

can be said to be famous in the capital, attracting everyone's attention. Even Song Yinzhang was infected, and he had his first real awakening in his heart.

Many people criticized what Zhang Haohao said to Song Yinzhang, because the four words "Israel to serve people" were criticized when they appeared on many occasions in the play. But when we look back at the end of the play, maybe we all The focus is wrong. The key point of Zhang Haohao's words is not the first half of the sentence, where he told Song Yinzhang to rely on his imperial salary and skills, but the second half of the sentence, where he relied on his own abilities and did not feel inferior or belittle himself.

Destiny prevents them from choosing their origin, but they have to live how they like. This is Zhang Haohao's life goal.

But this does not mean that Zhang Haohao does not accept reality. On the contrary, her clear understanding of reality is no worse than Zhao Paner. She was an oiran gifted by the emperor, but when she went to Xiao Xiang's Mansion to add to the entertainment, she would tell Song Yinzhang that their status was indeed not high, and even the servants of the Prime Minister's Mansion could boss them around.

You will find that Zhang Haohao has never used the fame given by Yuci to fight for anything. In contrast, Ke Xiang gave Song Yinzhang the inscription on his pipa, and Song Yinzhang could use it to scare the officials in charge of the river embankment. Because Zhang Haohao, just like her name, has always lived a low-key and sober life.

Life gives us infinite possibilities, but many times it only gives us a world. In this limited world, how to live your own wonderful life and how to realize the life you want is the most important thing.

Zhao Paner knows this, and so does Zhang Haohao.

Let’s take the matter of denaturalization as an example. Many people say that Zhao Paner has too many double standards. On the one hand, she deregistered herself early, and on the other hand, she advised Song Yinzhang not to deregister in a hurry. In fact, just look at Zhang Haohao and you will know. Zhao Paner also It's really not a double standard. On the contrary, she really has plans for Song Yinzhang and plans for reliable happiness.

According to the system of the Song Dynasty at that time, it was a punishment for Zhao Pan'er, a family member of a prison officer, to be cast into a lowly status. However, Zhang Haohao and Song Yinzhang belonged to several generations of musicians and were classified as lowly. They were not only in the lowly status but also as teachers. Fangsi is a salary from the imperial court, so the normal rule for denaturalization is that you can deregister after reaching a certain age. Before that, no matter how rich you are, you can't spend money to deregister for yourself.

After watching the whole drama, I realized that the system of low status was an accessory to protect the interests of nurses and doctors at that time. It can be said that not allowing denaturalization is to prevent the loss of this kind of people. It is also for the purpose of not allowing intermarriage and only concubines. Consolidate the interests of the scholar-official class and prevent them from being impacted by other classes. Because the mother is a concubine, it indicates that the son will not be able to inherit the family business and will be born as a concubine. The system of

is of course unreasonable. It was a management method of class rule at that time and will not be discussed further here. I just want to say that it is very difficult for them to deregister. After watching this drama, you will find that it is very difficult to deregister. Even the emperor cannot change the fundamental system.

Maybe you will ask, why did Zhao Paner deregister so easily? In fact, it was not the case. Zhao Pan'er was an old subordinate of her father who was deregistered, that is to say, he was also an official. He came to Qiantang specifically to handle this matter and rescued Zhao Pan'er. It can also give a message that officials can be deregistered.

However, just as Du Fuzi said to Ouyang Xu, the official family could find connections to help him deregister, but the Song Dynasty official was very powerful, and most people would not help others for no reason for the sake of official reputation. The matter of deportation.

said all this to say something good about Zhang Haohao. Many people said that Zhang Haohao and Chi Yanei had been on good terms for so long. Why didn't Chi Yanei help her deregister? I think both Zhang Haohao and Chi Yanei have thought about denaturalization. After all, Zhang Haohao can only get married if Zhang Haohao deregisters.

The problem lies in the fact that Chi Yameni cannot help Zhang Haohao deregister. After watching the scene of building the river embankment in Chiyanei, you will understand that he is a citizen after all, not an official. Even if he is the general leader of twelve industries in the capital, he cannot compete with a small official who manages the river embankment. , forced to the point of having his shoes licked, in the end it was Song Yinzhang who took the pipa and Zhao Paner to work together to resolve a crisis and conflict.

After watching this scene, I understood the reason why Chi Yanei and Zhang had been getting along so well for so long but never mentioned helping to deregister. It’s not that I don’t want to, it’s that I can’t do anything. Chi Yanei knew that Zhang Haohao understood the stakes.

She also knew that the more famous an official like her was, the less likely it would be to leave the country. Zhao Paner also knew this, so she kept persuading Song Yinzhang not to rush the matter, because there was no need to rush, as Song Yinzhang's pipa skills surpassed Quan Fang's. , even Zhang Haohao was compared to her. Can she leave her citizenship easily?

Things that can be checked in real history, Su Shi went to Hangzhou to serve as general magistrate. Because the new magistrate had not yet taken office, he temporarily performed his duties. An old official prostitute applied for denaturalization, and he agreed. Another official prostitute heard that she also applied, but Su Shi did not agree. He said this, "Mu Zhounan's transformation, although this idea is commendable, empty Jibei" If you are a group of people, please do not accept your request. That means, what if you leave the people who love you? Therefore, it is not allowed to marry outside one’s nationality.

This was the current situation at that time, and it was also the current situation of Zhang Haohao and Song Yinzhang. Zhang Haohao saw this situation very clearly, and Zhao Pan'er also knew that only Song Yinzhang made this matter simple, but I don't want to say that Song Yinzhang had anything wrong with wanting to deregister. , her fault was that she failed to see the essence of the matter clearly.

I remember there is a saying in the movie "The Godfather": "Those who take half a second to see through the essence of things and those who spend a lifetime unable to see clearly are destined to have completely different fates."

The women in the play include Song Yinzhang who grew up. They have all become sober people in the world who can see through the essence of things, so they can all find the life and happiness they want.

For Zhang Haohao, some people think that her final ending was not very good, and her relationship with Chi Yanei also broke up, which is a pity. I think this is Zhang Haohao's careful choice after experiencing the prosperity of career and love.

Zhang Hao loves Chi Yanei? She is in love, and she must have always hoped that things would get better like this, and that she could marry Chi Yanei one day when she deregistered. But does Chi Yanei love her? I may have loved, but this love has no roots. A verbal dispute chilled the hearts of both of them, causing them to become separated and their relationship collapsed. I can only say that Chi Yanei has never loved seriously.

When Zhang Haohao ran up the bridge and failed to catch up with Chi Yanei, she completely understood that Chi Yanei did not love her that much. Such love could not support the life she wanted, or the destination for the rest of her life.

Whether it is the glory of the oiran or the pampering of the yamen, it is just like the lyrics in "The Peach Blossom Fan", watching him build a Zhulou, watching him entertain guests, watching his building collapse. This is probably Zhang Haohao's state of mind when he walked off the stone bridge.

Zhang Haohao likes to take advantage of the situation. She does not deliberately find someone to help her denaturalize, but if there is a chance to deregister, she will not give up easily. She met someone who was willing to help her deregister. This person was a foreign official and had the ability to help her deregister. Because he is a foreign official, Zhang Haohao will leave his hometown once he is deregistered. Not many people will know Zhang Haohao's origins where he takes office. This avoids a lot of criticism.

What's more important is that the other party is willing to marry her as a wife and not marry her as his wife, but she will be in charge of the family. For example, the wife is still a concubine, but during the wedding, she is treated like a wife, but without the name of the head wife.Zhang Haohao knew that even if a person with a lowly status was expelled from the country, she could not marry someone with an official status. At most, she could only be a concubine. If the other party could treat her like a wife, she was doing her best.

If Gu Qianfan handing over his house deed and salary card to Zhao Paner is a confession of love and real love, then everything this man does to Zhang Haohao is also an expression of love, at least he must take it seriously. Zhang Haohao got married.

is much more reliable than Chi Yanei in this regard. Zhang Haohao met, got along, and investigated, and decided to go away from home with this man to live her own life. She was really not sad. On the contrary, she found her own happiness, because it was her choice. , the life she wants.

Don’t think that there is no love in a marriage based on such a weighing choice. With Zhang Haohao’s emotional intelligence and this worldly sobriety, she will make her life enjoyable, warm and affectionate.

We always think that only with love that makes people swear to each other can we have a happy marriage. As everyone knows, a truly happy marriage requires the ability to make a living before there is the possibility of finding love. What do you think?

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