Generally speaking, the relationship between husband and wife should be the most intimate. After two people are together, they will have blessings and difficulties, and they will grow old together. However, not all couples are like this. Some couples will be separated due to various practical reasons such as disagreement in personalities. For example, Peng Dehuai and his wife Pu Anxiu, although they are husband and wife, eventually had to divorce for various practical reasons. .
The husband and wife were birds of the same forest, and they flew separately in the face of disaster. The endings of Peng Dehuai and Pu Anxiu have confirmed this old saying. The relationship between husband and wife can be affectionate and loving, working together, or it can be blessed and shared, but there are difficulties and differences. As one of the founding marshals of China, Peng Dehuai, why did his wife Pu Anxiu take the initiative to ask him for divorce? Why would Pu Xiu'an in his later years regret it?
The two met
As we all know, Peng Lao always came from a bitter background. When he was a child, his family was exploited by landlords. Therefore, Peng Dehuai participated in the revolution when he was young. With the improvement of Peng Dehuai's personal prestige and ability, he The army has a high prestige. During the War of Resistance Against Japan, Peng Dehuai was already the deputy commander of the Eighth Route Army.
Pu Anxiu is different from Peng Dehuai. She was born in a superior family since she was a child, and she is well-educated and well-educated. In 1935, Urayasu, then a student, participated in the December 9th Patriotic Movement. As a female student, Urayasu was not only beautiful, but also had a strong patriotism.
In 1936, Pu Anxiu participated in the Chinese National Liberation Pioneer, paving the way for her to join the Communist Party. At the same time, Pu Anxiu also participated in the Women's Salvation Congress, encouraging girls to stand up, participate in the revolution, and actively promote the resistance to Japan. Men and women, the revolution does not distinguish between men and women, allowing more women to stand up.
In order to better participate in the revolution,Pu Anxiu and some patriotic students with advanced thinking came to Yan'an. In Yan'an, Pu Anxiu felt the revolutionary atmosphere of the revolutionary holy land. There were patriotic students, hardworking farmers, and hard-trained soldiers everywhere.
In Yan'an, Pu Anxiu met Peng Dehuai. At that time, Peng Dehuai was in a period of emotional frustration, because Mr. Peng originally had a wife, but he did not return home for a long time after participating in the revolution. A wife thought he had passed away, and when the army was in chaos and it was extremely difficult for the woman to survive, she had to marry another man.
Ten years later, Peng Dehuai and his first wife met in Yan'an, but they are all different. Her wife has already married another person. The ending is irretrievable. Mr. Peng is very sad but can only accept this. In fact, put all your energy into the revolution.
The emergence of Pu Anxiu gave Peng Dehuai a lot of comfort. Originally, President Peng didn’t want to talk about marriage. He wanted to put the revolution in the first place, but people around him felt that Mr. Peng was already old but his personal affairs were not. As a result, the organization is also very concerned about Mr. Peng.
With the help of others, Peng Dehuai finally got together with Pu Anxiu. The two were satisfied with each other and walked into the palace of marriage together. The two have common ideals, and their life after marriage is also very moist. They are a loving couple.
Realistic reasons were forced to leave
Since Mr. Peng and Pu Anxiu are in love, they have common ideals, why eventually Pu Anxiu will take the initiative to break away from her husband Peng Dehuai?
After the founding of New China, Peng Dehuai and his wife Pu Anxiu were busy at work, and Mr. Peng was always one of the leaders of the country.There are a lot of daily affairs. Pu Anxiu became the leader of the normal university. The husband and wife are both public officials and they are not the envy of many couples.
However, in a special period, due to an accident, Mr. Peng was greatly affected. Not only was he faced with difficulties in his career, but he also had no protection for personal safety and was treated extremely unfairly. As Mr. Peng’s wife, Pu Anxiu was naturally not immune. Her work at the school was suspended and became one of the targets of criticism.
Due to many injustices, Pu Anxiu began to complain about her husband's "nosy" which led to this result. At this time, she lost her basic judgment and complained mostly about her husband. Instead of comforting the stressful husband in the whirlpool, it gave him even more pressure.
Under tremendous pressure, Pu Anxiu first separated from Mr. Peng, and then in order to break away from Mr. Peng, Pu Anxiu asked the organization for divorce. Although the organization did not agree, Pu Anxiu insisted on going her own way. Meet the husband.
Under the heavy pressure, Mr. Peng was exhausted, his body was getting worse and worse, and he soon fell ill. In the critical condition, President Peng wanted to see Pu Anxiu, but because he was afraid of being affected, Pu Anxiu refused to Mr. Peng's request. Until his death, President Peng could not see Pu Anxiu.
regret filing for divorce
President Peng was rehabilitated a few years after his death, and his reputation was restored. After his husband was rehabilitated, Urayasu gradually felt ashamed of his previous behavior. When Mr. Peng was most helpless and most difficult, Pu Anxiu, as his wife, refused to meet him in order to protect himself. Such behavior has also been criticized by many people.
As a wife, Urayasu did not support or understand her husband. Instead, he chose to complain and leave.At the memorial service of Mr. Peng, Pu Anxiu's participation made the Peng family very dissatisfied. Therefore, in their eyes, Pu Anxiu's behavior was "hypocritical".
Pu Anxiu at the time had already realized her mistake, she regretted that she had filed for divorce with Peng Dehuai, but all this could not be remedied. At this time, Pu Anxiu and Peng Dehuai are separated from each other. , There is no chance to talk together again. Now that she knew that she had done something wrong, Pu Anxiu was also trying her best to make up for her fault. She compiled Mr. Peng's life and deeds and published a book "Peng Dehuai's narrative" to let the world know more about her husband Peng Dehuai as a great person.
Conclusion
From the perspective of Urayasu, choosing to leave her husband was considered a kind of self-protection, but as a wife, she was indeed incompetent and did not fulfill her responsibilities and obligations as a wife.
Fortunately, Urayasu finally woke up and realized the mistakes he had committed to her husband, and he tried to make up for it, and did something for the dead Peng Dehuai. After Peng Dehuai was rehabilitated, the country considered Pu Anxiu's situation at the time, understood her behavior, and restored Pu Anxiu's status as Peng Dehuai's wife.
Husband and wife are the closest people. Two people should be blessed and enjoy the same difficulties. It is not right that one party is temporarily in trouble and the other party chooses to leave. In the process of getting along with husband and wife, we should not learn Urayasu's way, otherwise we will regret it sooner or later.
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