Text/Ru Jin
It seems that since the beginning of 2021, the entertainment circle has not been very stable, and a lot of melons will burst out after a while, such as Zheng Shuang DY, Wu Moufan QJ, to the first few Events such as Zhang Zhehan’s kiss to Japan and Zhao Wei’s "disappearance"; besides increasing people’s conversation after dinner, they are actually torturing the ecological culture of the entertainment circle again and again.
When traffic stars challenged the bottom line of humanity and morality and the bottom line of the country, the relevant authority finally made a formal voice, prohibiting bad actors from moving and returning, which should be regarded as a warning to formally regulate the entertainment industry.
01 Do not pay too much attention to the gossip of entertainment celebrities, because they are also ordinary people.
The author rarely writes entertainment gossip. I saw news about a celebrity being married, having a child, or divorced, but I just took it at a glance and knew it; only when I saw an event that is really hard to understand and transcends the bottom line of human nature or morality. , I have the urge to talk about my own opinions, but it is not for the sake of good taste, but to try to find out what is worthy of alert to myself or others from these events.
The author has always had a point of view: no matter what they define as their titles, all the stars, actors, musicians and artists in the entertainment circle are essentially the same as ordinary people. Just a job. It's just that ordinary people's work need not be overexposed in the eyes of outsiders, and their professional nature is destined to have more exposure opportunities, and they have a shining halo.
This kind of exposure is a professional need, and there is nothing special in itself. The only special thing is that their words and deeds will be magnified in front of the general public, and their work standards need to be judged by the general public. , Their glory success or failure also depends on the recognition and love of the general public.
Since you have become a public figure and bear the love of the general public, you must naturally take the responsibility of this love; just like every ordinary person who joins a company, your words and deeds are natural Represents the level of this company,It's just another objective identity of himself.
Therefore, the author never cares too much about the family emotions of those so-called stars, just like not caring too much about the family emotions of leaders and colleagues. Because everyone will not be as perfect as he has shown, and will have an unknown side. As long as this side does not harm society or harm others, the general public has no right to criticize them.
This is their life. They have the right to live the life they want outside of work. What kind of work they make, what kind of friends they make, who they marry, and what activities to attend are all their basic rights as a person. If they are a star or actor that they like very much, then give some support at the appropriate time, such as Look at their works more.
Take a correct view of entertainment and performing arts, and take a correct view of these "ordinary people" with their own aura; but they do not expect too much, but pay too much attention, but are too harsh, and they will naturally not over-expand themselves to lose themselves.
02 I love the characters and plots of film and television dramas, because it is another life experience
Compared with the gossip life of entertainment stars, I prefer to delve into the life chronicles of various characters in film and television dramas. Study their emotions, anger, sorrow, and joy, the real reasons for their choices when they are at a turning point in their lives, or their different expressions and interpretations of family, friendship, and love.
Everyone has only one life and can only have one kind of origin. If you substitute yourself into each film and television drama, you can temporarily forget the reality, experience different life experiences from another perspective, and feel different emotions and lives.
For example, watching "Know it or not, it should be green, fat, red and thin", you can follow the protagonist in the play Sheng Minglan and experience the humiliation and tolerance of a concubine in the Northern Song Dynasty.After experiencing the death of relatives, the loss of love, and the hardships of survival, she finally grew up from a boudoir girl to the life experience of the head mother of Hou Men.
The pain of bereavement that Ming Lan experienced when she was a child, the meticulous care after being adopted by her grandmother, the deep love between cardamom and that could not be loved, and the complicated sisters between Rulan and Molan Affection, the persistence of redressing grievances for the mother, the true temperament of Yu Yan'er and Shen's strong emergence, and the domineering attitude of treating her grandmother while pregnant when her grandmother is poisoned...
all kinds of humanity, all kinds of Feelings can rise and fall with the people in the play. In addition to watching other people's stories, they will also absorb some of the wisdom of being in the world and turn them into use.
can also become an executive of a certain modern company, such as Su Xiao in the recently concluded " Ideal City", or the costume designer in " Your and My Allure Time" Lin 㳀, or the young editor full of vitality in " Moonlight Variations", can also travel to foreign countries to experience the magical world of "Harry Potter", or appear as "The Avengers" "Iron Man" is in an earth-shattering battle with Thanos, who is trying to subvert the world.
In short, the world in film and television dramas is very broad. What you can think of in life, what you can do, what you can’t do, or what you dare not do, can’t do, crazy, warm Land and sassy can be found in film and television dramas.
03 Borrow the lives of others to perfect one's own life
Russian literary and artistic theorist Chernyshevsky once said that "art comes from life, but is higher than life", which roughly means Said: The inspiration of art is taken from life, based on which to create, sublimate, and then reappear, it is different from life.
The stories in film and television dramas are the same, many of which are derived from real events in the real world.Only in order to highlight the conflicts or contradictions, or the multi-faceted human nature, a variety of dramatic scenes will be concentrated in a limited space, but the connotation is still the thinking about life and the world, no matter what type of film and television drama, the most fundamental It's all human nature.
Therefore, the author wrote about the psychological transformation of characters in many film and television dramas, why this person will become that way in the end. Rather than looking for a change in the character, I actually want to find my own shadow in the character, so as to warn myself that if I encounter the same situation, what kind of choice I will make, while understanding the development of the character, I will also Slowly understand many things.
There are many forms of life, life is limited. To expand the breadth of life, watching movies and TV shows is also a good choice.
If you can’t experience it personally, it is better to look for it in the drama; when you can really understand the hearts, emotions and choices of the various characters in the film and television drama, you can borrow the experience of others to manage what you want Life is gone.
The so-called leisurely watching the clouds rise and fall, but after seeing all the prosperous and desolate, you can still understand the original intention and not be surprised at all changes.
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