The key to grasping the balance between words and deeds lies in judging the situation. When you speak more, you should speak boldly, not less, otherwise the words will not end; when you should speak less, you cannot say more, otherwise you will lose if you speak too much; when you are silent, practice silence It's gold, silent.
Foreword
People still need to learn how to get along with each other. Nowadays, many celebrity couples in the entertainment circle have divorced or rumors of discord. If it's not very suitable to get along with each other normally, it doesn't matter. But some are involved in derailment. Watching too much also makes many people not believe in love in the entertainment industry. Today, people's boundaries for derailment are becoming more and more blurred. What kind of behavior is considered cheating? Then let's discuss in depth with the topic of "Yu Xiaoguang's apology".
Yu Xiaoguang let the girls sit on the thigh
(1) Yu Xiaoguang was photographed suspected to be derailed
Yu Xiaoguang is a Chinese mainland male star and married a very beautiful His wife is called Choo Ja Hyun. Is a Korean. But since I am married to China, I am considered a member of my own family. Her personality is very popular, she is the kind of gentle and gentle but very tough woman. Yu Xiaoguang also let everyone know because of marrying Choo Ja Hyun. In layman's terms, it is because Choo Ja Hyun will be pleasing to Xiaoguang.
But this is how the celebrity couple, who is envied by everyone, caused a lot of dissatisfaction in an instant due to a move by the man. Yu Xiaoguang was photographed having a dinner with a girl, and then the girl rode with Yu Xiaoguang in the car. Yu Xiaoguang also motioned the girl to sit on her lap. Then the girl didn't refuse, and just sat down without shy away.
(2) Netizens have accused Yu Xiaoguang
After the incident, netizens were really angry about this matter.One after another criticized Yu Xiaoguang on the Internet. In fact, this is not to blame netizens for complaining, because Yu Xiaoguang's behavior is really disgusting. In fact, the editor has always envied the relationship between Choo Ja-hyun and Yu Xiaoguang, but suddenly such an intimate action appeared, and it was really unacceptable. It is also right to be scolded.
(3) The company responded that the woman is an acquaintance
After this incident, the joint brokerage firm of Yu Xiaoguang and Choo Ja Hyun came out to respond, and they responded several times. The first time it seemed that this girl was a neighbor. And the second time it was said that this was an acquaintance, this time the incident was an unexpected incident after a dinner together. The third time is to determine if the person in the video is Yu Xiaoguang. But none of these three responses satisfied the netizens, and even made them even more angry. Because even if you are acquaintances or neighbors, you can't sit on the thighs.
(4) Yu Xiaoguang had set up his wife’s setting before, and felt distressed that Choo Ja Hyun rushed to the hot search
The main reason why this matter made people so angry is that the previous Yu Xiaoguang Let's set up a "wife-loving person" thing on variety shows. They were interviewed before, and Yu Xiaoguang also said that he would not cheat. Will always take care of Choo Ja Hyun. But I didn't expect that Yu Xiaoguang, who was so affectionate in the end, was also photographed letting a beautiful woman sit on her lap.
The hot search of distressed Choo Ja Hyun has not come down since this incident was exposed. Because Choo Ja Hyun himself is a very bitter person, the original family is not very good, patriarchal, and no one loves himself. In order to give birth to a child for Choo Ja-hyun, I have recovered from the ICU for a long time. In short, I feel very distressed.
and then issued an apology to Choo Ja-hyun
(1) Yu Xiaoguang’s reputation plummeted, and later issued an apology
After Yu Xiaoguang’s reputation plummeted, the company’s statements before and after it did not matter, maybe It was the subsequent itinerary that was affected. So Yu Xiaoguang came out to apologize. To sum it up,I explained the matter with "misunderstanding", and then regretted it, and then expressed some guilt for Choo Ja Hyun, thinking that Choo Ja Hyun is so good and shouldn't do this. At the same time, he said that he would pay attention to his words and deeds.
(2) Choo Ja Hyun and Yu Xiaoguang apologized simultaneously
What I didn't expect was that Choo Ja Hyun also responded, and it came with Yu Xiaoguang's apology. He even took Choo Ja Hyun out to apologize. This is what Choo Ja Hyun said. She said that everyone who saw the video must be disappointed, and she also criticized and accused Yu Xiaoguang. Thank you all for your encouragement and warmth to her. At the same time, Choo Ja Hyun also promised to let everyone see them more mature and beautiful.
(3) Netizens complained that Yu Xiaoguang's apology was not as good as Choo Ja Hyun's sincere
But when two apology letters were sent out together, it was very interesting. There is really no harm if there is no contrast. Yu Xiaoguang's apology turned out to be shorter than Choo Ja Hyun's. It was Yu Xiaoguang who did the wrong thing, and Choo Ja Hyun shouldn't apologize. The key Choo Ja Hyun also synced Yu Xiaoguang's apology to the ins, absolutely. Yu Xiaoguang’s apology is not as sincere as the victim, Choo Ja Hyun.
but it is not derailed
(1) Why is Yu Xiaoguang’s apology not accepted
Yu Xiaoguang’s apology is obviously not accepted, why? Because his apology was not sincere. It feels like it's to deal with things. And what he said was exactly the same as the tone set by his former lover, but netizens who had been deceived once would obviously not believe it anymore. Moreover, Yu Xiaoguang said such words at his fingertips, and who promised not to say it? The most important thing is how to do it.
(2) It's not that you only have to do it to be derailed.
Love is selfish and does not allow others to participate. In love, it is not a derailment that is called a derailment, and a mental derailment can also be regarded as one of the derailments. Maybe they don’t care about it,It was a bit hypocritical at this time, but I still wanted to say why a girl was allowed to sit on her thigh, and why she was still holding her waist with her arms when she got in the car. These actions all revealed the ambiguity. It is not a misunderstanding that can be explained clearly.
(3) The sense of proportion in love is very important
Once again speaking of the famous saying at the beginning of this article, "the key to grasping the proportion of words and actions is to judge the situation", sense of proportion, what kind of It should be clear what kind of behavior should be done and what kind of behavior should not be done. As a married man, he should restrain himself everywhere and keep his distance from other women. This is a sense of proportionality and the respect he deserves.
I hope Yu Xiaoguang really understands it. What do you think of this matter? Welcome to leave comments.
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