Remember the round-faced female star Ariel Lin ?
Although this is a bit of a revealing age, Sister Sa really liked her dramas before, and she felt that she didn’t have the real cuteness of celebrities. .
Actually, I have seen some news about her trying various methods to get pregnant. Now she finally waits until she officially announces the good news about her pregnancy. It is said that the due date is at the end of October. Sister Sa really feels for her. Happy!
After 6 years of marriage and 3 years of pregnancy, Ariel Lin's dream of becoming a mother was not easy to come true. As a public figure, there are always too many rumors.
Some people say that she was not seen by her in-laws because she was not pregnant, and some people said that because she was not pregnant, the relationship between husband and wife was at odds. There are even legends that she is willing to try a remedy to eat frogs in order to assist in pregnancy... She has done a lot of hard work, and has also endured a lot of pressure.
Since 19, she even put down her work, suspended filming, and devoted herself to pregnancy preparation. This is really not easy for a female celebrity who needs exposure and traffic.
She tried all the methods she could try, including artificial insemination test tube baby,According to media reports, Ariel Lin has been trying to do test tubes in the hospital since last year. During this period, he experienced repeated injections, egg retrieval, implantation, and pregnancy tests, and his body was suffering.
Seeing these, as a person who almost went to the reproductive center to line up for IVF, he also encountered hardship almost every day in his daily work. The obstetrician and gynecologist who is struggling to get pregnant, Sister Sa, I really feel deeply.
I was also married and waited for three years before I came to my Kangkang. During this period, I also experienced a lot of hardship. Why do I get up every morning to play urine? After ovulation test, Early pregnancy_ I have tried and experienced span3span, what B-ultrasound does follicular detection, what salpingogram, what hysteroscopy , I have all tried and experienced.
Kang Kang is 2 years old
did not find the reason, the baby is late at that time, I hope and disappointed every day to encourage myself Through the alternation, enduring physical pain and psychological suffering, but also forced a smile.
Knowing that I am not happy, my husband even said that it’s a big deal that we will never go back to my hometown again. Those who save me who are idle-mouthed ask questions.
In addition to my own stress, there are also people around me. Intentionally or not, every time I go back to my hometown, my relatives will ask: I have been married for three years.Why haven't you had a baby yet?
I have done tubal drainage, done tubal radiography, and the last time I did a hysteroscopy.
Because I did it in my own hospital, I didn’t need general anesthesia. I was sober during the whole process, because I also want to see if there is really something wrong with my body and why others look at it. It is always so easy to get pregnant, but I have been excluded by luck.
I endured the soreness and pain caused by the uterine dilatation fluid, and I looked at my uterus on the screen, and I watched my two oviducts. The aunt who had the operation encouraged me and felt pain again, saying why not get anesthesia, you want to look back and take pictures for you.
The hysteroscopy didn't see anything. I gently clamped off a small polyp with pliers. Everything else was normal.
After I came out, I lay on the bench and rested. My belly and waist were sore and painful. The stimulation of the operation made me a little nauseous. I couldn’t get up. I felt weak and weak. Talking, and no strength to walk.
I didn't cry when I was doing the pain, sour and swelling, but after it was over, there was no one around and I cried in my mother's arms. I said I don't want to suffer anymore, I don't want to check again, I have had enough, and I just go to the test tube.
husband is standing beside,I took my hand and didn't speak, and my mother was so distressed that she was crying, and she said she could not do it or not. Let's go to the test tube next month.
coincidentally, that month I started to concentrate on preparing for the examination of the attending physician, and I did not consider pregnancy at all. As a result, my aunt was late after the examination!
I thought it was a postponement of my aunt due to the mental stress of the exam. Looking at the early pregnancy test paper , which was full of drawers, it was about to expire. I was in the mood of "Try it anyway. , Here comes one.
I really couldn’t believe it when I saw the second bar appearing. I took a photo and sent it to my husband, and my husband gave me a sentence back for a long time:
1 This is the test paper span. Isn't something wrong?
For more than five years, I still feel very clear every time I think of this memory. The bitterness in my heart still makes me cry.
At that time, I was full of longing, hope and disappointment. Every time I draw blood, do a B-scan, the cold tingling pain in the body is propelled by the potion, and the sadness in my heart is staggered out of the operating room. I remember it all.
Fortunately, in the end I finally got what I wanted. Kangkang chirped every day when his mother and mother yelled, and I was tired with him.I think, yes, the sins I suffered in the past are finally worth it.
Kang Kang is 5 years old
Looking back on this journey, looking at the three years of hard preparation for pregnancy. Lin Yichen, who is about to welcome her baby right away, seems to have seen herself at the beginning. At the same time, Sister Sa also wants to say a few words to the brothers and sisters who are still struggling on the road to pregnancy:
1: Pressure is often given by yourself, sometimes it’s really important to relax
There will always be people who don’t know how to measure. If you are really tired of talking about this topic with some ignorant relatives and friends, then try not to wrong yourself, giving birth is a matter for your husband and you, take care of others. More!
2: Pregnancy is not a matter of one person, and the common struggle and consideration of the father-to-be is indispensable
It may be a hard work for two people to prepare for pregnancy. If the wife is working hard, the husband should also work hard. In addition to developing a healthy lifestyle together and staying away from the basics of tobacco and alcohol as much as possible, psychological support and encouragement are also indispensable.
3: Don’t blindly over-examine, and absolutely can’t refuse the examination that should be done
I have seen troubles just three months after the oviduct was performed again. Sister,I have also encountered that I have been pregnant for two years and there is still no movement. The doctor suggested a salpingogram, but he hesitated and hesitated to do a girl who didn’t want to do it. In fact, it is unwise to over-check and refuse the check-ups that should be done. .
When it is necessary to find problems that may affect pregnancy, some checks are the basic means.
But like tubal radiography and hysteroscopy, after all, they are invasive examinations accompanied by pain and trauma. It is not that you can do it whenever you want. If you want to come a few times, you still have to be . Follow the doctor’s advice .
The road to pregnancy may be difficult, and the daily life of raising a baby may be hard. After this period of wind and rain, we will never look back. At the same time, I will cherish the happiness I have even more.
Sister Sa sincerely hopes that all hard-working mothers-to-be will be able to have a smooth pregnancy throughout their pregnancy, welcome their babies safely, and upgrade to motherhood!
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