Zhao Benshan's ex-wife Ge Shuzhen, who started from scratch after the divorce as a dishwasher, forbearing to become a millionaire in 29 years
Most people know that Zhao Benshan's wife is span _span3 Ma Lijuan _span _span3 Few people know that he also has an ex-wife Ge Shuzhen.
Ge Shuzhen has been suffering with Zhao Benshan since she was 19 years old. She couldn't get enough food for a long time, but she didn't complain.
At that time, Zhao Benshan was not as famous as it is now. In the face of everyone's incomprehension, only and Ge Shuzhen supported silently.
However, when Zhao Benshan finally succeeded in his career, the people around him changed from Ge Shuzhen to Ma Lijuan. All the honor has nothing to do with Ge Shuzhen.
The story between the three people still aggravates many people to this day. What happened during this period? What is life like after Ge Shuzhen? The reason for everything starts with poor characters.
Zhao Benshan has a bleak background. He has no parents since he was a child. He was born in poverty. Even the most basic pots and pans are not available at home.
At that time, he had no goals of his own. He lived a life of turmoil every day. It belonged to one person and the whole family without being hungry.
When Zhao Benshan was eighteen or nineteen years old, people of the same age around him began to talk about marriage and marriage, but he was the only one that hardly liked him.
The five grandma who couldn't stand it began to talk to him about marriage, but Zhao Benshan couldn't even support a family by herself, so she refused.
Until Zhao Benshan’s old aunt introduced the honest and capable Ge family girl, and Ge family girl was also alone and did not resist Zhao Benshan.After Zhao Benshan knew about it, he thought of getting married.
It seems that although Zhao Benshan was poor in his early years, he was self-aware, but the marriage of this marriage was still forced by the situation, which became the fuse for the final divorce of the two.
On the day of the wedding, Zhao Benshan didn’t know if he was too nervous. On the day of rejoicing, he went up the mountain to chop wood. Everyone looked for a circle and didn’t find it. But Zhao Benshan came back from the outside with a bundle of firewood. Laughing.
After marriage, Ge Shuzhen really took over all the affairs of the family as the old aunt said. Zhao Benshan felt relaxed for a while, and he felt that getting married was the right thing. Zhao Benshan who had free time was also at this time Began to ponder his own way out.
He has a beautiful fantasy, he wants to live a life of a master, but if he wants such a life, he can only pay the corresponding price. For this reason, Zhao Benshan went to apprenticeship to learn art and kept his family's expenses under On Ge Shuzhen's shoulder.
After this incident came out, people around him talked a lot about Zhao Benshan, and even gave him the nickname " white-faced scholar ". Zhao Benshan was angry and packed his bags and went out.
At that time, Zhao Benshan didn't think about the difficulties he would face when leaving his wife and children alone.
Fortunately, in the face of these, the honest Ge Shuzhen has no complaints, and even assumes the responsibility of educating children.
In order to make a living, Ge Shuzhen worked as a dishwasher in a restaurant, sold socks, gloves, etc., and often got up to work before dawn.
Ge Shuzhen slowly became a rural woman from a young girl accompanied by Zhao Benshan.
However, as Zhao Benshan became more and more famous, the time to go home became less and less. Although there was more money to bring home, the communication between the husband and wife decreased significantly.
The relationship between husband and wife is getting weaker and weaker,Later, Zhao Benshan became popular. Everyone thought that Ge Shuzhen had survived too much, but at such a hard time, the good day did not come.
Before he became famous, Zhao Benshan himself had no feelings for Ge Shuzhen, let alone a successful career now, so Zhao Benshan, who has not cared for his family, returned home less and less frequently, even for several years.
Until now, when Ge Shuzhen talked about this process, she bluntly said that the relationship between the two at that time was embarrassing for her to open her mouth to Zhao Benshan for living expenses.
After thinking about it, Ge Shuzhen finally decided to release Zhao Benshan free and filed for divorce. This 12-year relationship came to an end.
Although this relationship ended smoothly, it still caused great harm to Ge Shuzhen's psychology. In addition, thanks to the traditional thinking of the rural people, this marriage ended, and Ge Shuzhen never wanted to get married again.
In 1992, Zhao Benshan remarried. After seeing this situation, her daughter advised her mother to find someone to start her life again, but Ge Shuzhen, who was disappointed in the marriage, directly rejected the proposal.
And Zhao Benshan also felt guilty about it, and he also released a news about recruiting relatives specifically for Ge Shuzhen, but this was of no use to Ge Shuzhen, and it did not make her think of remarrying.
Ge Shuzhen, who divorced Zhao Benshan, refused Zhao Benshan's help, and left his hometown alone to look for opportunities.
In order to provide better living conditions for the children, Ge Shuzhen worked part-time for several jobs. In winter, her hands were covered with frostbite and she continued to work.
A hard life is not impossible, at least Ge Shuzhen saved a lot of money to plan a better life in the future.
Ge Shuzhen thought that the days would pass by, but the child died unexpectedly due to a heart attack. She was also hit hard by this incident. My body was weak due to grief, and it took a long time to recuperate before slowly recovering.
Ge Shuzhen thought to herself,Although the son is no longer there, but the daughter is still alive and healthy, no matter how sad she must be raised first and work hard.
Ge Shuzhen, who has no culture, returned to her old business and made a lot of money again by selling socks at a stall.
Ge Shuzhen, who has money, did not save everything like ordinary people, but saw that the surrounding restaurants are doing well and opened a restaurant after studying for a while.
Ge Shuzhen used her savings to buy a restaurant in Dalian for 20,000 yuan.
At this time, Zhao Benshan's fame has spread all over the country, but with a little use, Ge Shuzhen's restaurant will surely quickly rise to fame.
However, Ge Shuzhen never thought about using Zhao Benshan's signboard, instead, she kept her feet on the ground and managed her own restaurant.
Because of being a real person, the restaurant quickly became profitable. In 2008, some people roughly estimated that the profitability of the restaurant had reached millions.
Ge Shuzhen forbeared for 29 years and became a millionaire. After reading her story, people have to admire this kind and clever strange woman.
Perhaps for Ge Shuzhen, most of her life has been busy, and over time she doesn't feel how great she is.
But it is this simple, great, and persevering spirit that is the most distressing and admirable.
Anyway, after many years, the matter between Zhao Benshan and Ge Shuzhen has already settled. I hope that they will be well for the limited time of the rest of their lives.
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