I believe that many women have heard one sentence: Men care more about women's figure and appearance. But many people should also realize that men who are not good at "sedying" don't really care about these two things.
So, it is very difficult for men who don't care about their figure and appearance, but it does not mean that they have no weaknesses.
In terms of feelings, there is a saying: It starts with the value of appearance, is trapped in talent, and is loyal to character. Two people may be together at first because of their appearance, so the two people have sustained development. But whether you can stay together for a long time is not determined by your appearance and figure.
1. Independent thinking and awareness
The beauty of women is indeed to some extent, can give people a very good first impression and leave a very deep impression. However, in the subsequent communication process, the role of face value is negligible.
And many people have discovered that in real life, some beautiful women may not live very happy lives, and there are not many friends around them. Therefore, sometimes people cannot be judged by their appearance, especially for animals with rational thinking like men.
Therefore, independent thinking and consciousness are more important. In today's society, what men care more about is a woman's knowledge and cultivation. When they reach the level of appreciation, they will naturally be seduced. To some extent, the appreciation of independent consciousness and thinking is much greater than the appreciation of "face value."
2. Personality and the ability to behave
For men, no matter how beautiful a woman looks and her body is good, she has a bad personality and lacks the ability to behave, so she can really get along There is a great risk.
Many women think that what men love is appearance and figure. So, always relying on yourself to look beautiful,Just make it petty. In fact, this risk is very high in the long run, and over time, the other party will feel very annoyed.
Therefore, it is a kind of mature charm to have a compatible personality, as well as great ability to behave in the world, which will be appreciated by men. If he can show this kind of charm around him, he will feel that in the process of getting along with him in the future, he will gain more understanding and be more tolerant, and the two people will get along better. Therefore, this kind of person with personality and strong ability to deal with others is more attractive to men.
3. Innerness
A woman's innerness makes the spiritual world of two people coincide, and the two people will have more common language. In this long and not much fun life, two people will have fun in common.
In the process of getting along, if you can show a very beautiful inner life, it will be very attractive to men. Because it will make her feel that in the future life, two people will have common hobbies and fun.
Generally speaking, men who are not easy to "seduce" have their own motives. They are not interested in the appearance and figure of a woman. Of course it is good to have these, but they are more interested in a woman with rich and connotation.
As the saying goes: good-looking skins are the same, interesting souls are one in a million. Being beautiful is of course a woman's advantage, but a man who is not easy to seduce is not only hooked because of his appearance. Only by guaranteeing their most unique charm can they attract a man for a long time.
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