The old sayings in rural areas all have reminders and prompts, what should be done and what should not be done? Just like how to understand the three sentences of "Don't send umbrellas when you are happy, don't send cigarettes when you are happy, and don't give up after you are happy"?
1. I don’t give me an umbrella if I like it.
Whether in the countryside or in the city, marriage is a major event for a person and a major event for a family, so we call it a happy event, but in this happy event, we can give all kinds of things as gifts, but we cannot give umbrellas. This is the most taboo thing in the countryside, because "umbrella" and "san" are homophones. If you send an umbrella to others, you are blessed to others as soon as possible. If you just get married, bless them to others as soon as possible. There is no such reason.
Of course, with the development and progress of society, most of them give gifts, whether in rural areas or cities, and with WeChat payment, you can send WeChat red envelopes. If you have something to do, you can't send a WeChat red envelope and then you can solve it.
2. No smoking is given for life.
When congratulating people for birthdays, when facing elders, you can give money and goods, but you can't give cigarettes to elders. No matter how good cigarettes are, you can usually send cigarettes and wine to elders, but on the day of birthday celebrations, you can't send cigarettes to elders, because "swallow" and "swallow" are homophones. On the day of elders' birthdays, sending cigarettes to elders contains the meaning of letting elders disappear as soon as possible and letting elders "swallow" as soon as possible, which is very unlucky.
3. No remedy after death.
1. This is easy to understand. After the funeral is dead, those who want to pay their respects and give gifts should be delivered before the funeral is handled. You cannot do these things after the funeral is completed. If you do these things again, you will expose the scars of others and curse the meaning of someone else's death. So after the funeral is not caught up, and it will be passed. If you are very friendly, you can go to Qingming Festival to pay tribute. This is OK.
Summary
In rural areas, these three things are very taboo. In the process of handling these things, you must pay attention to your sense of proportion. You cannot do good things badly, which will make people misunderstand and lead to conflicts.
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