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Modern people are very particular about Feng Shui. In fact, Feng Shui does not only refer to a person’s destiny and aura. Feng Shui of his life.”
In other words, Feng Shui has a close relationship with people. A person's heart, speech, and behavior all determine the course of his life.
Feng Shui is reflected in our daily subtle habits.
Let’s take the simplest way of eating. The appearance of eating alone hides his life’s feng shui!
’s eating phases can be seen in cultivation
The phase, down to the common people, must abide by the corresponding etiquette norms.
The ancients pay attention to "stand and sit, and sit."
You should also pay attention to eating and eating.
The "Book of Rites" has formulated a detailed "table etiquette": "No kneading, no feeding, no drinking, no eating, no bones, no anti-fish, no dog Bone , no solid gains, no raising of rice. Rice glutinous rice is not used for chopsticks, no soup, no soup, no thorns, no food."
means that when eating, the leftover rice in the hand cannot be put back into the food container. , Do not pour the soup, do not gnaw the bones, do not heat up with your hands, do not readjust the soup made by the owner, and do not swallow the soup without chewing the vegetables in the soup.
Whether the food is good or not, it reflects a person's self-cultivation from the side.
Zeng Guofan When the army was stationed in Anqing, a relative from the countryside abandoned his field and rushed to find a position in the military camp. Seeing him coming from afar, Zeng Guofan settled him down first.
One day, at the dinner table, Zeng Guofan discovered that this relative was picky when eating, devouring the big fish and meat on the table; while he did not touch the vegetarian dishes, he also picked out the tares from the rice bowl. Throw it on the table unceremoniously.
Seeing this situation, Zeng Guofan couldn't help frowning. He immediately prepared travel expenses for him and wanted to send him home.
The relatives are puzzled and ask what is going on. Zeng Guofan said to him, "You don't usually live a wealthy life, and you haven't been a guest outside. It has only been more than a month in our barracks, and you are so picky when you eat. I am worried that you will be dragged down if you change your mind in the future!"
After After many pleadings, Zengcai left this relative, but he did not place him in the barracks, but instead asked him to manage the vegetable garden.
As the saying goes, "details see cultivation", there are so many big winds and waves in life, a person's inner cultivation can often be glimpsed from the daily small things.
The way you eat when you eat is small on the surface, but it is enough to show whether a person is simple and unpretentious, or admiring vanity; is it down-to-earth or high-minded; is it thrifty or extravagant?
China has always been a country of etiquette. We have been taught by our parents since we were young: "Elders should sit first, and younger generations can sit", "No chopsticks or spoons can be used to knock bowls", "No food, no words to sleep" and so on.
Because of eating phases, self-cultivation can also be seen.
You don’t pay attention to rules and laws, courtesy and courtesy at the dinner table. Other things in your life, I am afraid it is difficult to have rules and laws, let alone quality, so how can you get help from the nobles and have a good future? ?
The eating style, you can see the character
Mencius Said: "Food and color are also." For a lifetime, watching beautiful scenery and eating delicious food is a kind of enjoyment.
Since it is enjoyment,When a person is eating and drinking, it is often the most relaxed time, and the things in his subconscious will be unsuspectingly exposed.
I remember that when I was young, my parents always kept the family diligent and thrifty. A distant cousin came as a guest. When his father saw him in plain clothes, honest appearance, and real words, he warmly welcomed him.
However, during the reception, his impression of his cousin was greatly reduced.
The meatloaf was eaten on the table. This cousin threw away all the pie crusts and picked the meat inside to eat. My father couldn't help but wonder: Why is there such a big difference between a person's appearance and heart? In desperation, I had to eat up all the crusts myself.
My father thought that his cousin was dressed frugally, he must know the hardships of the world, but he expected it to be more wasteful than the rich man's brother. This bad habit of extravagance made him completely cold when he was thinking about finding something for his cousin, and soon sent him home.
The old saying goes: Don't take the good to be small, and don't take the evil to be small. Although the habits at the dinner table may seem trivial, they actually reflect a person's personality.
What a person's character is, you can know one thing or two after eating a meal with him.
When some people eat, they just order the dishes they like, regardless of whether they like it or not.
The guests have not arrived yet, and when they see the food being served, they can't help but make a small gesture and secretly eat a few chopsticks first.
When you have a meal, go through your picks and feast on what you like. Sometimes looking around, dancing and chatting, saliva flies.
This kind of foodie has no one else in his heart and does not know how to take care of other people's feelings. In life, he must also be a selfish person, regardless of the whole.
Some people can always take care of the whole when ordering, taking into account the preferences of others, whether there are foods that are not to be eaten, etc.
Wait until the host politely greets everyone to eat, and the host starts to move the chopsticks before he is willing to move the chopsticks. Eating food is not fast or slow, and it is like a spring breeze.
No waste, no noise, no pretentiousness when eating.
eat good friends,It will create a harmonious and beautiful dining table atmosphere. Everyone sits together and enjoys it!
On the contrary, people who eat differently will destroy the warm atmosphere and add to the heart. No matter how rich the meal is, it will be tasteless. , Break up without joy!
positive so-called: meet the character of each other. From the daily trivial things like eating, you can see a person's character is good or bad!
eating phase, you can see the pattern
Lao Tzu said: "The big things in the world must be done in detail, and the difficult things in the world must be done easily."
means: must start with small things to do big things, and start with easy things for the difficult things in the world.
Every success is actually an accumulation of details. Without the support of details, there is no such thing as a leap from quantitative change to qualitative change.
At the dinner table, you can often see the size of a person in the small details of pushing cups and changing cups.
is a lot of voluminous, or a small belly? Is it tolerant and kind, or selfish?
At the banquet, I didn’t know how to drink, but I did it hard, but after three glasses of wine, I became blushing, dancing and making a fool of myself; I was able to drink, but holding a shelf pretended not to drink, and secretly Try every means to instigate others to drink. Others don’t get drunk and refuse to give up. If you can drink, you can drink according to your own amount. You don’t want to drink or persuade others to drink.
The world is different on the wine table, which shows the difference of people's minds;
looks on, and you can get a glimpse of a person's pattern.
As the saying goes, " is a person's feng shui."
From the dinner table, you can see a person's self-cultivation, character, and pattern.
May we all pay attention to our own cultivation in our lives,Constantly improve one's connotation, in order to be dignified and decent in various occasions, and to be more than capable in the stage of life!
About the author: Lime Yimeng, formerly named Zou Yanli on this road, walking, writing, feeling...
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