All my ambitions are, but I can live free
Text: Beibei | Typesetting: Moon Lane
"When I really started to love myself, I realized that I was actually in the right place, at the right time, everything happened just right, so I was able to calm down, and I also understood that this is called self-confidence."
Girls, true beauty must be the confidence and elegance emitted from the inside out.
1. There are many kinds of beauty, and makeup is just the icing on the cake
But sometimes we need to stop and listen to our hearts and what we really want. Yes, what girls want is beauty, confidence, and becoming charming.
The makeup effect that seems to be plastic surgery circulating on the Internet today just meets the needs of girls, but what we really need is the short and fragile beauty after makeup?
You must believe that it has nothing to do with age or others, and we are beautiful.
Image source/Movie "Red Pig"
2. Reconcile with yourself, don't rely too much on makeup
We are really beautiful after makeup, which can enhance our confidence to a certain extent.
For a while, I had been overly dependent on the beauty brought by cosmetics, so that no matter what I do, I had to use cosmetics to modify my face.
may be overly concerned about the beauty in front of others. After I get home, I don’t pay much attention to skin care.
Slowly, my skin began to get worse, acne acne began to come to my door, and every time I saw my skin worsen, although I knew it was because I didn’t take off makeup and take care of my skin every day.
also knows that my skin needs to be stopped and raised, but because I rely too much on makeup, I find that I can't go out without makeup.
I feel bad every day when I see my skin worsen, but later I learned to accept myself. Acne also has cycles, insist on going to bed early and not staying up late, and clean and care for my skin carefully.
My skin finally recovered slowly, and I also reconciled with my bare face. Only then did I learn to face outsiders with real comfort and no anxiety.
3. Makeup also has two sides
Makeup can indeed bring us a lot of beauty and confidence, but if we are immersed in the benefits of makeup and ignore its two sides, it will be counterproductive.
Some netizens joked: "I have never seen my neighbor's sister look without makeup. Even if I go downstairs and throw away garbage, I have exquisite and full makeup."
This also reflects the over-reliance of girls today on makeup.
Some girls blindly follow the trend, go with the flow, bewildered by all kinds of magical hot cosmetics bragging about on the Internet, wasting hard-earned money and their healthy skin.
Cosmetics will eventually cause some harm to the skin. If we don’t pay attention to skin care, our face will have mild or severe skin problems such as lack of complexion, sensitivity, blocked pores, etc.
When we get used to the beautiful and delicate selves after applying makeup, we lose confidence in our original selves, and our anxiety and inferiority complex will actually increase instead of reducing.
As said in " Kill a Mockingbird ": "There is one thing that cannot follow the principle of herd, and that is the heart."
What we really need is actually the beauty and confidence that comes from the heart, right?
4. Skin care is more important than makeup
Healthy skin is the fundamental basis and important prerequisite for perfect makeup.
After knowing how to cherish your skin, you will also know more about your skin. In this way, when buying cosmetics, you also know how to choose ingredients that suit you more, rather than those cosmetics that are gimmicked.
Skin care is also a protracted battle and a very fulfilling thing.
Watch your skin slowly improve, and when the focus of attention becomes to improve your true self, everything around you will become better and you will become more self-disciplined.
Picture source/Movie "Red Pig"
5. Make changes slowly, and don't rush to become
First, face your heart and accept your imperfection. It is not that you have to isolate all cosmetics if you care for your skin, but use cosmetics healthily and correctly on the premise that you know that skin care is more important.
First solve your skin problems, and have more perseverance and patience. There is never a shortage of beautiful girls in the world. There is not so many audiences in life, and no one will always be fascinated by you. So you have to learn, improve, become irreplaceable, and let yourself truly exude confidence from the inside out.
You must be clear about what you really want, what kind of person you want to become, what kind of life you want to have, and unswervingly think about the positive goal to move forward.
does not need to follow the trend blindly and lose yourself in order to follow the trend. There is only you in the world.
Only by standing firmly among the crowd, listening bravely and following the voice of your heart, and sticking to your original choices can you achieve a better self.
As we are in the era of pan-entertainment, we should always keep thinking and sober, remembering that most of them do not mean that they must be correct. There is no need to choose to follow the trend blindly in order to cater to the trend. We should not become the shadow of others for comfort and stability, and thus lose our original innocent self.
Author introduction:
Beibei, a sophomore who loves words and yearns for freedom~
I am Xiao Yueliang, a self-media writer, 20w+ explosive author, focusing on female growth/ethnic emotions/personal diligent and self-disciplined and practical information/, looking forward to being friends with you and growing into a better self♥
