I was born with a blind eye. When I first met people, I had no impression of them when we met again after a while. Especially when you get older, you know people you know well, but you can't call them by their names, which makes you embarrassed and the other person feels uncomfortable, so you both have to laugh at yourself, "I'm old, I'm no longer useful!"
updated What's worse is that because of my poor eyesight, I know nothing about fashion in today's society. I can't even name Vacheron Constantin and Parmigiani watches, and I don't know about Ferrari, Aston and Aston. Of course, there are world-famous brands such as Hermès bags, Kalinka sunglasses, Gucci leather shoes, etc. that have nothing to do with me, let alone the reason! No wonder people laugh at me because I have “eyes that don’t recognize gold and jade”. I’m so blind!
Although my poor eyesight prevents me from fashion, my poor eyesight can make people calm. In today's materialistic and colorful society, it is still of great benefit to be a little less discerning in dealing with the world.
Clumsy eyes can make people "detached from themselves and kind to others." The so-called detachment of oneself means that when I am "at home", I try to maintain a "tranquil and far-reaching" state of mind, put aside worries, forget unhappiness, and keep everything "detached" from things, not to be happy or sad. According to the current saying, it is to live a more "chic" life and not to be "too tired". To act kindly means to be kind, sincere and humble, to be approachable and easy-going when dealing with others, so that people feel close to you; to work with others in a style and magnanimity so that people can feel respected.
Clumsy eyes can also make people "decided about everything but clear about nothing". I regard this as the dialectic of "work when you have something to do, and leisure when you have nothing to do." To put it bluntly, when doing things, you must have a vigorous and resolute style. You must be thoughtful and resolute, clear and decisive, and make decisions when necessary; you must comply with laws and regulations, People's sentiments must be fair and reasonable, so that they can unite people's hearts and unite their will. When you are free, don't be impetuous, let alone cause trouble. Use the opportunity to read books and newspapers to enrich yourself, cultivate your character, and improve your own quality. You can also have leisure and entertainment, cultivate your sentiments, and make your body and mind happy.
Clumsy eyes can make people feel "calm when they are proud and calm when they are frustrated". This is my correct attitude towards fame, wealth and status. When things are going well, I should never forget the times when I am frustrated and hesitant. I believe that when a person is satisfied with his ambitions, he should be humble and indifferent to fame and fortune. He must not be proud and complacent or domineering. When he has made achievements and is praised by others, he should not forget about it and should treat it "indifferently" . On the contrary, if you are frustrated, you should take it "calmly", because a person's life cannot always be smooth sailing. It is inevitable that there will be "three longs and two shorts", bumpy roads, and "unsatisfactory things often happen"! When encountering frustration, you must not give up on yourself. It is best to deal with it calmly without losing your composure.
The above-mentioned "Six Naturals" are the "Six Natural Trainings" proposed by the Ming Dynasty scholar Cui Xian in "Listening to the Songtang Yujing" and praised by later generations. It is also a motto that I, a blind person, always take as a lesson.
has this "Six Natural Lessons" as its motto, which has benefited me a lot. When I get older, I can always remind myself: if I don't get impatient, I will remain calm despite the temptations of the colorful, feasting, and fashionable brands in the world. For the rest of my life; second, do not compare, " I don't know the Han , regardless of the Wei and Jin Dynasties", like to live a simple life of "one basket of food, one ladle of drink, in the back alleys, without changing the joy"; third, don't fall behind, "I don't know the old generals" "To", live until you are old, learn until you are old, never let a leaf blind your eyes, accept new things, and follow the trend of the times step by step.
For this reason, I am even more convinced that clumsy eyesight is a treasure! It is pure when the eyes cannot see, it is peaceful when the ears are not listening, and it is peaceful when the mind is not agitated. Of course, when I talk about blindness, I don’t mean blindness, quiet ears don’t mean earplugs, and peace of mind doesn’t mean a crooked mind.
