don't like to be followed. This is a habit, which is definitely not suitable for universal values, because what everyone accepts is not really applicable to everyone, but just a habit of some people.
Some people are accustomed to loneliness and like to stay home. Is that wrong? Is accustomed to being alone a disease? It's just other people's habits that have nothing to do with the illness. This is to hinder others' lives with their own paranoia.
Many people are not strong in their hearts. There are also some weak people. They need to be cared for and taken care of by everyone, but not everyone is willing to accept help from others. When
was crossing the road, a row of cars stopped there and just passed by. It felt like being watched. It felt like a monkey in a zoo being watched. This is just not used to being watched.
is suddenly concerned, is it a violation? Because you didn't pay attention to it before, the other party noticed your difference when you suddenly communicated, and realized that you actually have such advantages.
This creates a sense of gap for the other party. I used to be like this. Why didn't you notice, but now it brings so much inconvenience to yourself. This is not your own problem, but someone else's problem. There is a situation in
, that is, oneself will not take away the last "hope". For example, there is only the last piece of food left on the plate. Everyone wants to eat it, but there is no one to do it. Why?
Because you want to leave the last goodness to others? In fact, it is not all, but everyone is embarrassed to leave such a bad impression. This is the result of the prejudice of others.
If you fall on your own, there may be a glimmer of hope. No one will feel anything when you see it, but if someone pays attention, you will feel uncomfortable. This is to expose your embarrassment to the public.
can often turn a blind eye. This is polite to others and may violate everyone's universal values, but this is the practical way to make others more convenient. Why not?
is unwilling to accept public praise, maybe this is not self-confidence in yourself? Don’t have lofty ambitions, just want to be a simple person, do your own thing, and live for a lifetime, isn’t it just for a better life?
Let yourself feel the happiness of your own habits. This is the situation that everyone should pay attention to. After all, your life is not for others to see, it is just a way of feeling.
is unwilling to express his opinions. This is really a problem. If you can't make your life more convenient, then why should you stand in this team? Therefore, this issue should be taken seriously.
Among the many expressions of loneliness, this is perhaps the most unfavorable practice for oneself? Because this is against the original intention of making your life more convenient, express it if you have any doubts!
is unwilling to contact strangers. On the one hand, it is good, but on the other hand, it is not very good to oneself, because people who live in the same environment with oneself indicate that they still have some fate with them.
Is this relationship going to be severed? Hiding behind the door, waiting for others to leave, and then leaving by yourself is not an efficient way of life. It will only make yourself more lonely. This may be a disease.
When you eat, do you pay attention to the situation of the opposite person? It seems that some people will not, but will only add some unnecessary troubles to their meals, and they obviously want to be quiet. Why is
now being asked to do something meaningless communication? You can only have food in your eyes, but you should have friends on the other side, because people are social animals.
should keep a proper distance, but it should also be convenient for others. For example, when you are on a bus, you have a seat between yourself and others. Why can't you use this position?
This can give more people more space. For myself, this is an opportunity with myself and a convenience for others. Loneliness is not a disease, but a reasonable communication between each other, giving myself a chance. Smaller space!
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