Marriage is a very beautiful thing, and relatives and friends come to express their blessings should be something to be happy about. But what is unexpected is that the marriage remarks of a woman in Shanghai have attracted a lot of people to scold her.
So, what's going on?
It turns out that there is a Shanghai woman whose family is pretty good, so she wants to hold a dream wedding at Disney. In fact, it is understandable that women have this idea. One reason is that which girl never dreamed of Disney when she was a child, right? Second, the woman's family background is indeed enough to support her in holding a wedding banquet at Disney.
But there is a problem with holding a wedding banquet at Disney, that is, the threshold for holding a wedding banquet is very high, and each banquet requires 18,000 yuan. This money will be almost a few months of income for many ordinary families. Although the family conditions of a woman are not bad, who has no relatives in financial difficulties, right?
The woman admitted: "If you want to hold a wedding at Disney, then, according to the number of people, each family needs to give at least 5,000 yuan in shares."
However, even in the big city of Shanghai, the per capita share is only about 1,000 yuan. Therefore, the woman thought that if these "poor relatives" held a banquet, will she use the average share of Shanghai to receive gifts in the future, or will she receive gifts in the standard of receiving gifts this time, 5,000 yuan?
Then, the woman posted the confusion in her heart online. Her original idea was to hope that netizens would show their powers to help her advise, but unexpectedly, when the woman posted the matter online, she did not get everyone's answers and answers to her questions, but was full of angrily scolding.
Many netizens have said bluntly that when you hold a wedding, others will give you money for the sake of love. This is a good blessing in itself, but after you are so careful in your calculations, it only makes people feel philanthropic. Not to mention that you are holding a wedding at Disney, even if you hold a banquet in other more advanced places, no one would want to come.
In addition to this, netizens said that if you really think that your family is not short of money, then why should you be petty about the amount of gifts from others? What's even more bizarre is that you actually counted the average person.
However, in the face of many netizens' doubts and scoldings, the woman took it for granted, and she directly retorted: "What's wrong with my idea? If relatives are rich, isn't it appropriate to give more money? If you can't afford 5,000 yuan of money, why should I invite them to do it? Do you want to fight Qiufeng?"
It is obvious that from the perspective of a woman's vision, the weight of family affection is linked to the thickness of money, and weddings are even more an occasion to show whether family affection is enough. As for how to show it, it goes without saying that it still depends on the thickness of the red envelope.
Perhaps, this is a matter of opinion, but I still want to say that if money can measure the thickness of family affection, then this family affection is probably not worth much money. After all, things that can be measured with money must not be very important.
What do you think about this? Do you agree with the woman’s point of view? Welcome to leave a message below to discuss and express your thoughts!
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