"Dajiang Dahe 2" Song Yunhui: Growing men prefer "comrade-in-arms" women

Since going to the East China Sea, Song Yunhui's life has been like hanging out. Of course, he cannot do without his own efforts. The reason why Song Yunhui has today's achievements is achieved by himself.

For a man who came out of the countryside with no background and no financial resources, he can only do everything on his own. It is precisely because he has understood this for a long time, so he works hard at work.

In comparison, his wife Cheng Kaiyan is not so motivated.

may be due to family relations. Cheng Kaiyan’s father is the director of the factory. She has a good family background. As a daughter of a manufacturer, she has always been spoiled and grown up. She has a simple mind and has never seen any storms, so you can say her The first half of my life went smoothly, for example, I met Song Yunhui, a potential stock.

However, Song Yunhui didn't like her at first, but why he chose her in the end may be related to his situation at the time. At that time Song Yunhui was still an unknown little man. Although he worked very hard, he did not achieve much in his career, and his ambition was not too obvious.

However, with the development of society and his abilities were gradually discovered, Song Yunhui’s ambitions in the character were gradually opened up. The reason why the factory manager Cheng favored him as a son-in-law was also because he saw his abilities. And quality, so even if everyone else is opposed, but he still supports his daughter to marry him.

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Recently, the divorce of Dong Huahua and Jiang Fan has been raging. Some people say that it is wise for Jiang to choose Zhang Da. After all, this woman is not only beautiful but also very strong, and men will be more advanced with such a woman.

What kind of person you are, just look for that person. This sentence actually makes sense. If you find someone who is very different from yourself, you will have more problems later, and at least you will find someone similar to yourself. The break-in period will not be too difficult.

Although Song Yunhui and Cheng Kaiyan look very sweet, I have never been optimistic about their marriage. On the one hand, it is because Cheng Kaiyan is not a clear person, and can't distinguish between his own family and her natal family. On the other hand, this couple does not possess the same qualities at all.

Song Yunhui has actually experienced a lot along the way. Because the family was poor, his sister Song Yunping was admitted to a good university at first, but the family funds were only enough for one person to go to university, so in the end it was her sister who gave up his place and he went to university. After graduating from university, he also entered his ideal factory as he wished and became a technical talent. In the process, he met the factory director’s daughter Cheng Kaiyan, and finally, on Cheng Kaiyan’s initiative, he worked hard to match with Cheng Fu. Only then did he and Cheng Kaiyan slowly come together.

But in fact, they were never the same kind of person. One is the big boy who was headed early by the poor family, and the other is the spoiled daughter of the rich family. There is a saying that Cheng's father is right. If Cheng Kaiyan is in trouble, he will look to Song Yunhui. If he doesn't work hard, he can easily get caught The husband looked down.

In the final analysis, what Song Yunhui really likes in his heart is a "comrade-in-arms-like" woman who can stand alongside him.

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For a man in the growth stage, he needs the kind of comrade-in-arms woman, two people can work together, hand in hand, and walk towards the future together. This kind of woman has a strong mentality and can guide him at a critical moment. Even help him. Everyone who has been in the military knows that the so-called "comrades in arms" are generally lifeless friendships. Therefore, many veterans are kinder than their relatives when facing their old comrades in arms. If

can be a "comrade-in-arms type" between husband and wife, it basically shows several advantages: trust each other unconditionally, fully support each other, and have common goals.

As a comrade-in-arms, trust is the first priority. Only when you fully trust the other party can you give your life to him. The most important thing between husband and wife is trust. Only when you trust each other will you not Contradictions caused by misunderstanding.

People will encounter many things in their lives. At this time, if your partner can support you unconditionally, then there will be unlimited motivation for you. There is actually trust here, and it is also because of trust Therefore, it is possible to fully support any decision of the other party.

Why do many couples walk farther and farther away, fundamentallyIt is because the goals of each other have deviated. Maybe you have set a goal, but over time and with each other's insights, you unknowingly go in the opposite direction, or are too far apart, once the goal cannot be agreed, you can only go further and further. In

"Daughters in Love", I have always been optimistic about the pomp, thinking that he is a responsible and responsible, and very practical boy, he has a clear plan for his future, unlike some boys, I asked I don’t know the future plan.

A man who is not clear about the future is terrible, because even if he can give you love, you can’t see the future from him, because even he himself doesn’t know how to go in the future. People, how can a woman be happy and stable?

The recipient has something to say:

people who work hard prefer to be with people who work hard, so that they can make progress together.

For a good person, the resonance in the mind is more able to touch the inner spark. While they desire to be understood, they also need to be recognized. Only people who are equal to them can stand in the same position as themselves and look at each other.

Good love is not about looking up and looking down, but being able to stand in the same position and look at each other.

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