Zhao Lei and Banxia almost parted ways.
Banxia turned the steering wheel frantically, and Zhao Lei recalled every bit of the past while checking the tickets. Fortunately, they were reluctant to part with this hard-earned relationship, so they quickly turned around and hugged each other again. Although the feeling of losing and gaining was only changed in just a few minutes, missing it may be forever.
Zhao Lei knelt on one knee to propose, and Banxia stretched out her right hand without hesitation. Everything was just right, everything was so perfect.
The more painful it is to break up, the sweeter it is to hug each other again!
always thought that adult love is restraint, weighing the pros and cons, and calmness. It was not until I heard the pre-marriage vows of Tong Xiaoqi facing President Gao, the strong mother-in-law, that I realized that love is not about age or conditions, and those who are willing to enter the marriage must be determined as they wish.
Tong Xiaoqi's pre-marital vow
Tong Xiaoqi is a person who is unwilling to change. He always wants to protect his own acre of three-point land, including Gao Xinyi, his lover.
What makes people lucky is that Gao Xinyi was a rebellious rich girl, but now she is awake, but she has become a progressive person who can easily be admitted to prestigious American universities.
used to be Gao Xinyi running after Tong Xiaoqi, but now now is Tong Xiaoqi running after Gao Xinyi. He ran slowly and was disliked and his wife disappeared without running.
He bought the pair of rings, and Gao Xinyi also agreed to get married, but it will be separated after marriage, which will take at least four years or more. What should I do? The wife sings with her husband.
At first, I was planning to buy the team, and then take the chef certificate , and go to Chinatown to come to Sichuan Restaurant. My wife went to school to learn about the new world, so he was responsible for making money and companionship. Later, he handed over the convoy to his good brothers, but his plan remained unchanged.
Tong Xiaoqi is indispensable for making this decision. After all, people in their twenties think so at least in the eyes of President Gao.
Especially when he heard the news that Gao Xinyi announced his marriage on December 31st in a notice, although President Gao was not so excited that he broke up the couple, the difficulties of the reminder were raised one by one without any concealment.
Seeing that the road of his daughter was not working, he went straight to find Tong Xiaoqi.
In fact, he was a little afraid of President Gao, or he was not confident enough. After all, the gap in family background and education cannot be overcome. Now he is getting married in a hurry, and it is inevitable that he is opposed.
President Gao asked him if this marriage was just a bad move by Gao Xinyi to make him feel at ease, would he still be willing?
He just paused for a moment and replied, "I just thought we should get married before we made this decision."
Originally, President Gao was standing condescending. It is not difficult to see from his expression that President Gao even prepared a lot of questions and waited to question him one by one until he suspected that he gave up his marriage.
However, the word "should be married" not only blocked all the problems, but also successfully melted President Gao's heart.
Whether it is love or marriage, there is nothing to do with it, it is just whether you are willing to be responsible or not, or whether you want to give a result.
Tong Xiaoqi is fulfilling the responsibility a man should have, and he really loves Gao Xinyi deeply, so he will make the decision to give up himself and fulfill his lover.
What is more valuable is that it does not give any function to marriage, but only treats marriage as marriage.
President Gao is right. Marriage is about living a life, food, food, salt, and three meals a day. But if the original intention of marriage is pure, it can withstand more hardships in life.
Tong Xiaoqi's pre-marriage vow won the consent of his mother-in-law and correctly understood the true meaning of marriage. The beginning is good, but the result will not be bad.
Zhao Lei proposed to Banxia
Seeing Tong Xiaoqi wearing groom's outfit, Zhao Lei was very envious, especially when the bride and groom put on the pair of , which symbolized the entry into marriage, his eyes when he looked at Banxia, could bloom.
That's right, he wants to get married, and the bride is Banxia.
In fact, when he saw that Banxia was pulled on the stage to grab the bouquet, he hoped that Banxia would get it and then he could propose.
Later, Gao Xinyi took the lead in making a fuss to ask him to propose. Although he didn't answer, he did not refuse in his heart. Because the ring is in his pocket, but he understands that Banxia doesn't want it.
Especially the sentence "I have the final say in our family, it's useless for you to ask him."
Zhao Lei really doesn't mind women being his own decision, but he is afraid that he will be rejected after a sudden proposal. It is a trivial matter that cannot come to Taiwan, and it is a real dead end to not even have to do friends.
He and Banxia stood by the river, waiting for the sunrise to appear. This is a beautiful meaning. He encouraged Banxia to make a wish. Although his tone was normal, the dimples were happy.
As long as Banxia can close her eyes and make a wish, he can kneel down on one knee to propose, which is also beautiful to recall.
It’s a pity, but Banxia had already tears in her eyes, saying that he couldn’t do it, and even proposed to break up.
This caught him off guard, but he also understood that sometimes feelings are just like breaking up and seeing each other again.
Zhao Lei swallowed all the words he had brewed, just chatting without any pain as Banxia's words.
They really love it. When they broke up, he told Banxia to take good care of her health. Banxia deliberately checked the weather in Beijing and asked him to keep warm.
True love can always be revealed naturally, and it is even more uncomfortable to make the person you love break up than killing him.
Zhao Lei dared not say a word he loved very much. Banxia also stalemate and did not express his love, as if he was the last stubbornness, but also as if he was rational and terrible.
Since I have been on the boat of love, no one can escape unscathed.
Zhao Lei didn't even know what he was going to do when he entered the airport. Banxia, who was driving, suddenly turned the steering wheel.
One ran out crazily and the other rushed back desperately. Fortunately, the time was just right, and the two of them hugged each other again. Even at the bustling airport, they seemed to want to stop for them.
The love that is about to overflow finally broke the reserve, without considering whether the timing is right or not, nor do you want to be rejected.
Zhao Lei finally took out the proposal ring and knelt on one knee to propose to Banxia solemnly. Banxia was only surprised for a moment, and then she stretched out her right hand happily and proudly, put on the ring that she had dreamed of, symbolizing marriage.
Zhao Lei and Banxia have always had a sweet relationship, but the more mature people are, the more likely they are to hesitate, either they are afraid of being rejected or the marriage is not beautiful. It seems to be thoroughly thoughtful, but it also loses the happiness of marriage.
Fortunately, sentiment defeats reason, and there are no couples who do not have problems. They are together to support and solve difficulties. Two people are always much better than one person playing alone, just move forward.
The time has come, and getting married is something you should do.
The gap between Tong Xiaoqi and Gao Xinyi is difficult to make up, but they just got married without hesitation.
will it be a marriage tragedy?
No one knows that the future will be left to the future, and no one can predict it until the moment it happens. The gap in the past is a fact, no one can hide it, the only thing that can be grasped is the present.
Time is here, you should get married, so get married, otherwise, if you regret it for life, you will still plant a thorn. Which result is better? It must be that you love now and get married now.
Zhao Lei knew that he could only love Banxia in his life, and he also understood that Banxia is an uncontrollable woman, but who can explain the relationship clearly?
He must have thought about the scene of his marriage with Banxia countless times. It must be beautiful, but there must be many problems.
Sometimes the problem is unsolvable, and the result is also unexplainable. All you can do is try to obey your original intentions and not trap the future in the present.
I believe that before entering marriage, everyone will be taught by their parents and elders that marriage is a big deal. You must be calm, weigh the pros and cons, and you must keep your private money well.
But the fact is that I have the idea of getting married, it must be suddenly there. Even when I get the marriage certificate, I rely on impulse.
There are too many examples of unhappy marriage around you. Those who can bravely enter marriage should be called warriors. After all, no one can get rid of the law of love for a long time.
Why do people get married?
Because love needs to be further, because feelings need to be sublimated, because two people can be better together, at least that's what they think now.
Kazuo Inamori said: "After getting married, you can discuss something when you encounter something, and if you are bored, you can have someone to talk. If you are tired, you can have a happy meal at the same table."
This sentence is really beautiful. If you don't want to change anything in marriage, you must always have someone around you, and you can talk to each other if you are happy and sad. You don't expect to live a lazy life of having a meal, opening your mouth and reaching out your hands, but you always have to put more bowls and plates, and you will be happy to see it.
This requirement is very simple, at least the family has it, but the simplest requirement happens to be the original intention of getting married.
One person can live a life, two people may not necessarily live a better life, but two mouths can be much more lively, and two bodies can be much warmer when they are leaning together. Isn’t it just a matter of lively and lively life!
Zhao Lei and Banxia want to go to big cities, and the other wants to take root in their hometown.
The most difficult problem is that you cannot take care of when you are sick, you cannot speak when you encounter difficulties, and you have no common topics, so you don’t want to bother the other party. Once the line is drawn, the relationship will be gone.
This is destined to be a tragedy. Instead of waiting for the tragedy to happen, it is better to do the right thing when it is controllable.
The relationship is in place and has been held to the test of time, so get married.
cannot use things that already exist and cannot be changed to bind the path you are going now, and do not use cowardice in the present to cause regrets in the future.
people have to look forward, and they can't live with the grief of the past one after another.Do what you should do, get the results you deserve, and walk slowly without looking back, that's great!