People like Le Jia, Jin Xing, and Tu Lei, who are known as "poisonous tongue", occupy a place in their respective fields. However, there are very few people who can still be "sooth in the world" after leaving the stage.

has a characteristic of doing variety shows. Those who dare to tell the truth will definitely be "black and red".

like Lejia , Venus , Tu Lei , they are known as "poisonous tongue" and occupy a place in their respective fields.

However, there are many golden sentences on the stage, but there are very few people who can still "clear" when they leave the stage.

In 2000, Tu Lei opened a company with his friend with 500,000 yuan, but was cheated of it all. He directly asked his friend with a knife.

If the police hadn't arrived in time, he wouldn't have known how ridiculous things would have done that night. Later, he switched to the media industry and became an emotional mentor.

From then on, he was the host of the witty words on the stage and a good husband who loves his wife as his life.

2020, Tu Lei, who had been popular for many years, said goodbye to the stage overnight and disappeared from the front of others.

No one understands why he suddenly left the program team, but his wife understands that he is using actions to prove his love for home...

01. Young wishes, give parents a better life

Tu Lei, born in Jiangxi in 1977, his parents love each other very much. My father is the backbone of the family, and my father is worried about all things big and small.

htmlTu Lei, who is over 02 years old, stretches out his hands to let his mother hug him every day, but his mother can only lie on the bed, looking at his child with a look of guilt.

When Tu Lei was in elementary school, he realized that his mother had a very serious disease and could not walk on the ground. She even had to support her when going to the toilet.

Even so, the father did not abandon the family, but instead took care of his mother with all his heart and strength.

When she wants to go out to see the scenery, her father will carry her out on her back, and Tu Lei will follow her parents with a water cup and a backpack on her back.

A few years after treatment, her mother's illness improved, and she took care of her husband and son wholeheartedly. Because it is not particularly convenient to move, my mother will prepare the meals for the day in the morning. Tu Lei will go home at noon and in the evening, and you just need to heat up and eat it.

My mother at that time had a bad temper because she was sick and often quarreled with her father. Everyone in the family persuaded their father to divorce and find a better woman.

But no matter how their parents quarrel, they have never mentioned the word divorce. The father couldn't stand his mother's provocation and would yell at her loudly, but he would still cook for her after the yell.

When Tu Lei was young, he had only one wish to make a lot of money and let his parents live a better life.

Seeing the father’s love for his mother, Tu Lei also understood that the most beautiful feeling in this world is the love that never leaves.

Many years later, Tu Lei still couldn't help but his eyes were rosy when he talked about the love he saw on the stage.

Tu Lei was already very sensible in middle school. Not only did he take care of his parents at home, he also studied hard every day, and his grades never fell out of the top three.

Mom is very strict with Tu Lei’s education and she regards her children as her only hope. Perhaps influenced by his father, Tu Lei prefers to dominate the business world more than studying hard.

He once fantasized that he would become a very powerful businessman and talk about big orders every day. However, no matter how beautiful the imagination is, reality will tell you that success is not easy.

1999, Tu Lei graduated from university and entered a bank to work. Originally, he wanted to start a business, and his parents advised him to find a strong job so that he could find a partner in the future.

Due to the wishes of parents, Tu Lei had to go to work in the bank.

For countless days and nights, Tu Lei was repeatedly asking himself: "Do I really want to do nothing like this for a lifetime?"

No, he is unwilling to give up. He wants to start a business and be a boss.

A few months later, Tu Lei found a sales job and slowly exercised his social skills.

23 years old, Tu Lei had already become the general manager of the company and he also saved more than 500,000 yuan in deposits. But he was still not satisfied, so he turned around and invested with his friends and started a company.

Tu Lei never dreamed that his friend would be jealous of money and just took away all his money.

Only after he couldn't contact his friends did he realize that he was deceived. When he was angry, Tu Lei rushed to his friend's house with a kitchen knife in his hand. He didn't even know what he wanted to do.

Fortunately, the police arrived in time to avoid a bloody storm. The trust between people is as thin as ice, and under the interests, there is a cruel reality.

02, became a well-known emotional mentor, gave up his career for his wife

was deceived by his friends, which brought a big blow to Tu Lei. He felt sorry for his parents' cultivation, so he went to live in another place alone.

In 2004, Tu Lei went to Hunan to develop and by chance entered "Lushan Night Talk" as the host.

This is an emotional answer job, which is far from his previous work direction.

Tu Lei encountered a big problem on the first day of work, and a guest asked him to resolve the conflicts at home.

After listening to the other party’s story, Tu Lei was so angry that he directly scolded the other party for disrespecting women. After Tu Lei finished scolding, his colleagues were stunned, and even the director rushed over.

Director wanted to scold Tu Lei angrily, but unexpectedly, the ratings skyrocketed. Overnight, Tu Lei went from being fired to becoming a hot host.

Everyone held a temporary meeting to discuss a decision, and Tu Lei was responsible for the "poisonous comment". As long as he does not violate morality and is so sharp, he can say it.

In less than two years, Tu Lei's popularity has been very high, and the Taiwanese decided to let him show off more. So, Tu Lei was transferred to the interview program as the host.

Good luck is that his love is also quietly coming when his career is booming.

By chance, Tu Lei met "Little Maruko" who was 9 years younger than him.

The other party is a college student, with a cheerful and lively personality, and he can chat with Tu Lei very well. Tu Lei was attracted by the other party, but he didn't know how to confess.

Perhaps he was always struggling, and the other party could not wait, so he took the lead to confess. Tu Lei saw that the other party loved him so much, and was excited and had only one thought: he would be kind to her for the rest of his life.

On Valentine's Day in 2005, Tu Lei bought a big bouquet of roses to confess to her, and the two successfully became lovers.

Xiaomao looked at the delicate roses in her arms and joked with him: "Didn't I confess my love to you first? Why did you buy roses?"

"I like you too, so we are in love in both directions." Tu Lei was very good at speaking love words, and Maruko was so shy that his face was rosy.

Less than two years in love, Tu Lei ushered in a trough in his career.

The program he hosted was suspended from broadcast on the station because there were too many complaints. For a moment, Tu Lei fell into confusion and didn't know what else he could do in the future.

After hearing this, Xiao Maruko persuaded him to change careers.

Tu Lei thought about it and said that he had been working in this industry for many years and could not be easily defeated. If this platform doesn’t work, go to another platform.

Later, Tu Lei went to another platform to host "9:30". In the program

, Tu Lei still did not change his previous style and became popular again for a while. After

, his career suddenly improved. Many emotional programs such as "Love RV" and "You Are the One" invited him to be the host.

In 2009, Tu Lei looked at the balance in the card and felt very satisfied. He finally had the ability to give his lover a good living environment.

Since their careers entered a trough period, the living expenses of both of them have been borne by Maruko alone. Tu Lei sometimes thought that if it weren't for Maruko's hard work, he might have returned to his hometown long ago.

Tu Lei used the money from the card to buy a house. Although he had to pay the mortgage every month, he had a home.

"Would you marry me? I don't have the money to buy you a diamond ring, but I only have you in my heart and eyes." Tu Lei proposed to marry him in his newly bought house. Maruko was moved and agreed to marry him.

Tu Lei protected his wife very well after marriage.

Although they often post photos of where the two go to play, every time they post it, their wife's face is mosaiced.

2014, Tianjin TV invited Tu Lei to serve as the emotional mentor of " Love Defense War ".

In each episode of the show, Tu Lei’s classic sentences make people say: It’s too heartbreaking and very real.

When encountering some boys who deliberately argue with him, Tu Lei can also use his three-inch tongue to make the other party say nothing.

Some people accused him of speaking too sharply and too extreme and not worthy of being an emotional mentor.

But his understanding of marriage and love makes people have to think deeply. He does not favor anyone, and he always discusses the matter. Quotes about him are circulating on the Internet. I believe that everyone will have a little insight after reading them.

His straightforward words also brought great trouble to himself. In 2019, when he was on a plane, he was caught by someone because he put his foot on the wall, and he rose to "not quality".

Tu Lei came forward to apologize, but everyone still held on to this matter.

However, surprisingly, Tu Lei did not explain again later, but instead directly withdrew from the show and never became a host again. What is the reason why

suddenly leaves? Many people don’t know, but their wife understands that he wants to give his family.

03. I had a five-year appointment with my wife

"Wife, I'm sorry, it makes you feel uncomfortable too."

Tu Lei couldn't help but apologize for his wife when he saw the infamy on the Internet. When he saw his wife's face full of worries, he knew that she was worried about her work.

"Tu Lei, why don't you leave the program team early, and we will live an ordinary life in the future." The wife doesn't want her husband to live in controversy all the time.

That night, Tu Lei thought a lot. He recalled the agreement he had agreed with his wife. When his daughter was 5 years old, he would give up his career and return to his family.

For so many years, he has been working hard to do his career and has not taken good care of his daughter and wife. In a month, I was only two or three days at home, and my daughter was timid when she saw him.

is not short of money, but the warmth in the home is getting less and less.

"Okay, I quit the program team and I will be with you in the future." After thinking deeply, Tu Lei decided to leave the program team.

2020, Tu Lei suddenly disappeared in "The Battle of Love". Countless people then discovered that without Tu Lei, this show would not be watched.

My daughter Xiao Yingtao saw her father holding a schoolbag in her hand and asked in confusion: "Dad, are you going to send me to school today?"

Tu Lei squatted down, picked up his daughter and asked, "Dad sends the baby to school, are you happy?" Xiao Cherry smiled and clapped with her little hands to express her happiness.

This year, the epidemic was very serious, and Tu Lei just gave up his career and had more time to spend with his family.

left the hosting industry, Tu Lei was much more relaxed. He was a good wife slave at home.

His wife asked him to buy groceries and cook. He would not refute a word, but instead felt that such a life was very happy.

For a long time, Tu Lei did not appear in front of everyone.

Tu Lei did not become a consignee until 2022. He introduced the product in the live broadcast room with a smile on his face.

Compared to the previous hard work, Tu Lei can make money at home and accompany his family. No wonder he is so happy.

Many fans expressed regret for his career change, but for Tu Lei, no matter which industry, as long as he makes money by earning serious means, he does not feel regretful.

Conclusion:

Give up the job of a stable and high-paying host and return to the family to be a "cooking husband". It is really not something that ordinary people can do.

Many people think that Tu Lei is just hyping, but they didn't expect that he really quit and never returned to the show.

In fact, Tu Lei has always longed for such a lifestyle.

When he was a child, he had seen his parents' affectionate appearance, and he also hoped that he would have a happy marriage when he grew up.

After getting married to Maruko, the other party was very tolerant of his profession and never scolded him.

But when she supported her, she felt sorry for her husband's efforts and did not get any good reputation.

45-year-old Tu Lei left everyone with the impression that he is a "poisonous tongue" and "sharp emotional mentor".

But what everyone doesn’t know is that when facing his wife and children, every word is like the sun, which makes people feel heartwarming.