But in such a huge entertainment industry, as long as you have come into contact with people who are still popular, they will say that he is low-key, introverted, humorous and humble. As an actor, Shang Yubo is dedicated to acting, serious in his work and a gentle personality.

Speaking of still as a actor, , maybe everyone feels unfamiliar with the name.

But in such a large entertainment industry, as long as you have come into contact with people who are still popular, they will say that he is low-key, restrained, humorous and humble.

As an actor, Yubo is dedicated to acting, serious in his work and a gentle personality.

between the eyebrows and eyes, there is also a kind of elegant temperament of Japanese and Korean celebrities, which makes people feel sunny and warm when they smile.

In 2009, Shang Yubo became popular for the inspirational idol drama " Du Lala's Promotion ". With a bright future, he could have made his own world in the circle.

But in less than two years, Shang Yubo chose to jump from a high building and end everything in the 28th year of his life.

Before his death, Shang Yubo left 17 words on his mobile phone, every word was heart-wrenching.

Everyone was surprised by Shang Yubo's sudden death. What did this man who was usually very cheerful and laughing have experienced and had to make such a decision.

It has been 11 years since Shang Yubo passed away, and how is her mother Mao Aizhen doing?

What my mother is still doing now is really tears.

1.

In Jingzhou, Hubei Province, a boy named Shang Webber was born and later changed his name to Shang Yubo. Not long after

was born, Shang Yubo was taken to Shenzhen by his parents.

At less than a few years old, Shang Yubo began to have the style of a little star.

The reason why she is young and outstanding in temperament is because Shang Yubo's mother is a beauty. With the good genes of her parents, Shang Yubo has also made a lot of success in her future acting career.

In Shenzhen, Shangyu Bo’s parents do art-related work. Due to their livelihood, Shangyu Bo is often left at home and lives alone.

Year after year, the hard work of their parents has indeed given Shang Yubo better and better living conditions, but the distance between Shang Yubo and his parents has begun to drift further and further away.

Since childhood, I lacked the close companionship and care of my parents, and I still won my heart. I gradually felt lonely and helpless.

Even in school, Shang Yubo doesn’t like to communicate with classmates and always stays alone.

As we grow older, Shang Yubo often finds ways to divert his attention and get used to life alone.

When I was at home during holidays, Shang Yubo liked to watch TV and movies. If I saw the protagonist in the plot had the same experience as me, Shang Yubo would put himself into the role and learn from the TV role every move.

was also at this time, which made Shang Yubo have some ideas about the performance.

In high school, Shang Yubo was still not good at socializing, and immersing himself in a person's world was his daily life.

Perhaps the lack of care too early, and those who like to observe their words and expressions have become sentimental.

But Shang Yu won the heart, but he fell in love with performance, so when the school’s drama club needs newcomers to join, Shang Yu Bo decisively signed up.

In the drama club, Shang Yubo has outstanding temperament and is 1.84 meters tall, which is very eye-catching. Soon, in the performance of the club, Shang Yubo became the male protagonist of the drama.

and Yubo is still the child of other people's families who are called by many parents. In addition to liking to act, Yubo's study is not delayed at all.

Three years in high school, Shang Yubo's ranking has always been at the top, and there is no need for the elders at home to worry about it.

A person has lived for a long time and has a very strong ability to take care of himself.

2.

In the midsummer of the senior year of high school, Shang Yubo entered the first turning point in his life.

In the college entrance examination room, Shang Yubo easily dealt with the exam that fought against countless people.

After the final college entrance examination results came out, Shang Yubo scored 670 points and made a different choice for his life path.

Because I yearn for performance, Shang Yubo wants to apply for Central Academy of Drama .

Fortunately, the parents fully support their son's dream. In 2001, Shang Yubo successfully reported Central Drama , and was in the same class with Niu Mengmeng and Zhang Xinyi .

Central Opera School students come from all over the world, everyone has their own characteristics and is full of talent.

At that time, many students were still immersed in the world of making friends, but Shang Yubo was still the same as in high school, focusing all his energy on his major. After

, Shang Yu won his efforts and was recognized by teachers and classmates. Soon Shang Yubo worked as a class leader as a class leader.

In order to temper himself, Shang Yubo has participated in the school's professional course competitions many times and won the honor of the Excellence Award.

As a student in the performance department, at a certain period of time, he needs to leave school and go out to film and exercise.

But Shang Yubo did not follow the crowd, but calmed down and stayed at school to rehearse the sketches.

That fashionable Yu Bo has no idea of ​​being a star. He loves acting and just wants to become an excellent stage drama actor in the future. If he can finally get a job in the national drama group, it would be better.

For this dream, Shang Yubo always shuttles back and forth between the rehearsal rooms, dormitories, and canteens.

Several years of college life have passed, and Shang Yubo has begun to shine his own light before he graduated.

2

In 2004, Shang Yubo was still a junior student. Director Shen Dong found Shang Yubo, hoping that he could participate in the military-themed film "The Gunner" directed by himself.

This movie is of great significance to Shang Yubo and is his first work to enter the entertainment industry.

During filming, Shang Yubo played with actors such as Cui Lin , Ling Xiaosu , Fan Lei , and Shang Yubo played the role of Xiao Cong in the film.

has always been performing on the stage of drama before. Being able to make a movie, Shang Yubo felt the infinite charm of being an actor, and his heart was firmly determined that he would take the path he would go in the future.

So when I graduated, I still learned from my business parents, hoping to find a way to start a business and make some achievements by myself.

Soon in school, Shang Yubo found three or five friends and invested in the drama "The Anecdote of the Bench".

personally directed the drama, rehearsed, and finally performed. In the theater, the audience watched the drama created by Shang Yubo and his friends, giving the loudest applause from the audience.

The first time starting a business was better than I expected, and Shang Yubo started working harder.

In addition to performing in Beijing, many theaters in other places also invited Shang Yubo to lead the team to perform.

personally did something he loved. Shang Yubo not only gained fame, but also brought benefits to the team. Both of them gained rewards. Shang Yubo was more obsessed with dramas.

3.

But everything did not develop as expected by Shang Yubo. After graduating from the Central Academy of Drama, Shang Yubo did not continue to stay in the position of drama actor.

After getting exposed to many fields, Shang Yubo gradually fell in love with the feeling of being on the screen.

In 2005, Shang Yubo appeared in the modern military drama " Army Special Forces " directed by Han Gang. The role of Nie Zhiyuan became the character of Shang Yubo's first TV series.

slowly emerged, Shang Yubo got more and more resources. A year later, Shang Yubo collaborated with well-known actresses such as Cecilia Cheung and Pan Hong .

Although Shang Yubo is just a small role with few scenes in the play, for Shang Yubo, every time he acts, it is a brand new exercise.

As the number of film and television works taken over has increased, Shang Yubo has gradually become well-known to the audience.

In 2008, Shang Yubo played the role of Long Guanyi in the emotional drama " Tianya Nothing ".

In the past year, Shang Yubo was favored by two TV series, one was the family emotional drama " The Story of the Family HTML ", and the other was the urban inspirational idol drama "Du Lala's Promotion".

, and the latter Du Lala's promotion record made Shang Yubo become a well-known actor overnight.

In the play, Li Hongming, played by Shang Yubo, is a man who is smart in the business world but has no courage or grandness.

At that time, after "Du Lala's Promotion" was broadcast, the ratings soared, and the actors in the play also received more attention, and Shang Yubo was one of them.

4.

However, behind the popularity, the psychology of winning has changed.

In 2009, Shang Yubo was still filming the TV "The Story of the Family of the Drama", but some obvious problems arose in his body and mind.

For a long time, Shang Yubo couldn't fall asleep normally. He often lie down but found it difficult to fall asleep. Even the whole night was tossing and turning.

When Feng Yu Bo woke up during the day, he couldn't get interested in his career and was a little depressed.

The problem in his heart could not be resolved, and Shang Yubo told his mother his bad mood : "Mom, I seem to be depressed."

The mother was surprised and hurriedly pulled her son to run to the hospital. Shang Yubo dragged her mother and said that she had gone to the hospital for treatment and was in the medication stage and would soon recover.

Shang Yubo was afraid that his mother would be too worried and said his true situation was calm.

Because in life, Shang Yubo always brings his best side to everyone, sometimes humorous and sometimes warm as spring breeze.

For the sake of his son's mood, the mother did not ask about the condition again.

However, the fact is that when Shang Yubo told his mother, he was a little unable to face it.

In 2010, Shang Yubo chose to resist depression tenaciously and took on three dramas. During this period, Shang Yubo also had the work of a host in addition to filming.

Three dramas were filmed one after another, and Shang Yubo had no chance to breathe, but what he did was a career he truly loved. Even if he was tired, he had to complete it professionally.

In the past year, Shang Yubo needed to shoot another movie than the previous year. "The Story of My Mother's Family" has been filmed in the third movie.

continues to appear on the screen, and Shangyubo has gradually accumulated a lot of fans. If he continues to develop and Shangyubo's career, he will definitely be more prosperous.

5.

However, behind the glory, Shang Yubo began to feel a little unable to hold on.

It turns out that depression has not been cured, and it has even become more and more serious, which has affected normal life.

In the midsummer of 2011, the condition of the disease was once uncontrollable.

In order to save himself, he tried to put down his work and go out for a trip, see the mountains and rivers, and get close to nature. Shang Yubo, who was born after

, went out for a while with his mother.

In the free time, Shang Yubo let go of the pressure in his heart.

In front of his mother, he always smiled happily, making people mistakenly think that this man is living a good life.

is still winning the heart, but it still has not been redeemed.

Because he was afraid that his mother would worry, Shang Yubo hid his painful self. He didn't want his mother to see his embarrassed appearance, nor did he want to be a burden to his mother.

To the end, Shang Yubo did not let his friend know that he was sick. He just wanted to bear all this alone and refused to bother others.

So in the days that followed, Shang Yubo still chose to hide his condition.

In front of outsiders, he is still sunny and loves to smile.

It’s just that after the travel days, Shang Yubo often ran to the roof of his residence and wandered, looking very anxious.

Perhaps because of the torture of illness, Shang Yubo began to feel a little anxious about filming.

Shang Yubo got three scripts at one time and needed to make a choice from them. However, he was emotionally unstable and could no longer see which script is better and which script is not good.

When he was helpless, Shang Yubo found his mother and wanted to hear her mother's opinion. His mother and Shang Yubo analyzed a lot.

finally chose a satisfactory script, but Shang Yubo was completely unwilling to listen to these things. He found his mother, and just wanted to get along with his mother more.

6.

On October 25, 2011, Shang Yubo once again came to the highest level of his residence, but this time Shang Yubo had an accident.

No one would have thought that Shang Yubo, 28, jumped off the building and ended his life.

After the news of Shang Yubo jumping off the building and died, various rumors came, but the final surveillance showed that Shang Yubo alone stayed for three hours after he arrived at the roof.

On the roof, Shang Yubo was always anxious. He walked back and forth, as if he was deciding what was going on.

It turns out that when he couldn't hold on, Shang Yubo had struggled in pain. He also wanted to convince himself to live hard.

But his depressed emotions still controlled him and could not face his future life. Shang Yubo finally jumped down from a high building.

Many people sighed at the actor Shang Yubo's departure.

, and an act that was still before Bo’s death was even more heartbreaking.

During the hours on the top floor, Shang Yubo left a text message on his phone. The last words of seventeen words really made people cry and heartbreak.

Although this last text message is known to everyone, in the entertainment industry, many people still believe in the real reason for Shang Yubo's death.

So some people think that the work pressure cannot be held back, so they acted irrationally.

Some people also suspect that it was trapped by love and that they could not get out, which led to the tragedy of .

The Internet is overwhelming, and the mother who is still sings to the point of being discussed.

So Mao Aizhen issued a notice, telling the real reason why his son Shang Yubo passed away. It was not that he could not resist the pressure, but that he was sick, a disease that could not be controlled.

times, Shang Yubo's body farewell ceremony was held in Changping, Beijing. My mother almost fainted several times because of excessive sadness.

For Mao Aizhen, Shang Yubo was her only child. Suddenly, her son, who was almost thirty, passed away tragically, and Mao Aizhen also lost confidence in life.

However, just a few months after Shang Yubo's death, Mao Aizhen gradually accepted the fact that her son had left. She even began to pay attention to depression and hoped that she could do something.

is for the people who were tortured by illness and for the lonely son in heaven.

7.

In 2012, Mao Aizhen and her husband joined forces to establish the Shangshan Charity Foundation. This foundation mainly targets people who are troubled by depression, helping them prevent and treat such diseases.

In the foundation, Mao Aizhen did everything himself, because his son felt pain in his heart, and losing his closest relative was a scar that would never heal in his life.

As long as you think of it, your heart will feel a little painful.

Mao Aizhen doesn’t want other mothers to be like her. She hopes that the family is complete and everyone is healthy.

Some people even say that after Mao Aizhen founded the foundation, she dreamed that she met her son several times. Shang Yubo was very grateful to his mother and was proud of her.

Today, Shang Yubo has been away for 11 years. Some of his works still have audience memories, and the Shangshan Foundation, whose mother, which lasted for 10 years, is still insisting on helping everyone, which is really tearful.

In Mao Aizhen's heart, he must often miss his son, but after the sadness comes, he can only turn the grief into strength and do meaningful things he can do. Only in this way can the hurt heart not hurt so much.

It is reported that under the leadership of Mao Aizhen, Shangshan Charity has served 100,000 depressed patients in two years from 2018 to 2019, and nearly a thousand offline events related to depression were held.

Even in some big cities, Mao Aizhen's charity foundations and medical subsidies are also given to depressed patients.

I believe that in these ten years, Mao Aizhen has devoted a lot of energy to this matter.

Ko Aizhen believes that as long as the actions are meaningful, there is a need to persist.

believes that time can smooth things out, and I hope that we will care more about the people around us and cherish every moment.