In the short life of singer Cong Fei
After his death, his wife Xing Dan inherited his charity.
Cong Fei and Xing Dan used their ordinary and great love and light to ignite candles that were about to go out. They were kind enough for half a lifetime, but they were both desolate in death. It makes people sigh: "Oh my god, are good people really not rewarded?"
Cong Fei and his widow Xing Dan died unexpectedly one after another, their beloved daughter, who was only five years old, became a fatherless orphan. Their life and study issues were closely concerned by the whole society. Now 16 years have passed. What is their current situation of orphans?
Don’t live for yourself in your life
"He doesn’t know how to reject others very much. This is his advantage, but it is also his weakness." wife Xing Dan commented on her husband in this way.
Cong Fei didn't know how to write the four words "to be safe" in this life. He died young at the age of 37. People say that this good person is exhausted to death.
Cong Fei's real name is Zhang Chong . He was born in the countryside and worked hard since childhood. He loved singing since childhood. When he grew up, he was admitted to Shenyang Conservatory of Music . After graduation, he went south to work hard to work hard, sleep in a bridge hole in Guangzhou or Shenzhen, picking up other people's leftover lunches to satisfy his hunger, frequently enter and go to entertainment venues, and strive for every opportunity to perform on stage and become a stadium resident singer.
His appearance fee is also rising, from 80 yuan per game at the beginning to 10,000 yuan per game later.
1994, Cong Fei participated in a charity performance in Chongqing with the theme of helping out-of-school children return to school. After the performance, Cong Fei donated all the only 2,000 yuan he had and decided to fund 20 children to complete two years of schooling.
Since then, Cong Fei has resolutely embarked on the road of charity and has continuously sponsored poor children in poor mountainous areas to study.
Cong Fei's friend was the first to discover his changes. When several brothers were having dinner together, Cong Fei always talked about how much tuition fees this meal could be converted into for poor children.
The brothers all felt that Cong Fei was crazy. Everyone laughed at him at first, but later they gradually lost their understanding: I can just chant once or twice, but I have to chuck around no matter how I go back and forth?
Cong Fei doesn't like to be arrogant when doing things. At that time, no one of them knew that Cong Fei had started to quietly support children in poor mountainous areas.
Cong Fei's career had improved at that time. He had good acting skills, imitating celebrities, and singing well. The audience liked to watch his programs. Cong Fei's programs were often used by the organizers to make ten thousand yuan in one performance. Sometimes Cong Fei's income was even as high as tens of thousands of yuan per month.
Make so much money, Cong Fei is still poor and lives in a 58-square-meter broken house. The security door is in ruins, there is no valuable property in the house, and the clothes are all cheap street stalls.
Sometimes people around you are confused. Where did Cong Fei earned?
Until later, a magician who went to Hunan with Cong Fei to perform, saw Cong Fei donate the 20,000 yuan of appearance fee he earned on the spot after the performance.
After 2003, SARS broke out across the country, Cong Fei's performance opportunities also dropped sharply, and his income was getting smaller and smaller, and sometimes he could not even pay the children's tuition fees.
In order to prepare for the tuition fees for the sponsored children before the start of school, Cong Fei mortgaged all his valuable things, borrowed land to raise money, and owed 170,000 yuan in debt.
"I have three titles, idiot, madman, and psychopath." Cong Fei smiled.
Later Cong Fei also frankly admitted his embarrassment at the time, saying that when he first planned to help others, he did not expect to get himself to the point of ending his life.
It is also during these poorest and most destitute years that Cong Fei has gained true love.
Borrowing from Life
Cong Fei had a failed marriage. His first wife was a foreigner. Because he could not bear Cong Fei's free donation, he divorced Cong Fei unbearable and left his 2-year-old daughter Ruirui to Cong Fei.
Later, Cong Fei met Xing Dan in Shenzhen.
At first, Xing Dan's family and friends were incredible about their friends' fancy Cong Fei.
They were so angry that they advised Xing Dan, what do you want to do? If you want a house but no house, no car, no car, not only poor but also a second-married man with children, 12 years older than you, why are you rushing to be a stepmother for others?
Compared with Cong Fei, who was born in poverty, Xing Dan is definitely "white, rich and beautiful", with a beautiful appearance, a wealthy family, and a decent job. After graduating from Aviation Academy, Xing Dan came to the Shenzhen Branch of China Southern Airlines as a flight attendant.
As the golden phoenix was about to tread into the thatched hut, relatives and friends were almost angry.
But Xing Dan insisted that Cong Fei was a very responsible good person. She had enough material life in her life and was eager to find a partner in the spiritual world that could resonate with herself. After learning about Cong Fei's selfless deeds, the prosperity and noble character of this man deeply attracted Xing Dan. She admired Cong Fei from the bottom of her heart.
Cong Fei also knew that he was not worthy of Xing Dan and was unwilling to drag down his girlfriend. He wanted to break up with Xing Dan, but Xing Dan said in tears: "I admire you, love you, and I am willing to eat braised vegetables with you!"
In the end, the couple broke through the worldly obstacles together. After obtaining the consent of their parents, they tied the knot and formed a happy and happy family.
After marriage, Xing Dan quit her job and focused on being Cong Fei's virtuous support. She regarded Ruirui as her own, took care of everything at home in an orderly manner, and fully supported her husband's charity. She often volunteered with Cong Fei, and had no complaints no matter how hard she was.
Xing Dan said: "He has provided a funding beyond his ability, which is very exaggerated to others, but it seems natural to me."
She knows her husband's character very well, has a compassionate and soft heart, has a strong empathy ability, can't stand others suffering, and cannot withstand the begging of others. Not to mention the poor children in the mountains, even if their friends ask for soft words, Cong Fei will rush to the knife.
The couple lived a happy life until the bad news that Cong Fei was diagnosed with cancer came.
In order to provide poor children with school, Cong Fei fled to save money, and in order to maintain the performance, Cong Fei never ate before going on stage.
Since 2004, Cong Fei has always had stomachache , accompanied by vomiting blood and blood stool . Everyone around him advised him to go to the hospital for a check-up, but when he thought of the high cost, Cong Fei refused and just took medicine.
In early 2005, Cong Fei participated in six disaster relief performances in the Southeast Asian tsunami-stricken area with illness. His condition was very serious and it was difficult to swallow food, but he still donated all the 15,000 yuan performance fees.
A few months later, a friend forced Cong Fei, who was unbearable in pain, to the hospital. After investigation, he was diagnosed with gastric cancer .
Cong Fei was hospitalized for surgery. After the operation, he asked the doctor about the condition, but neither the doctor nor his family gave him a clear answer. They dared not tell Cong Fei the truth - the cancer cells had spread.
At this time, Xing Dan was already five months pregnant. Compared to her husband's anxiousness when he was just admitted to the hospital, her mood has calmed down much, but there are still some things that bothered the couple.
A few parents of mountain children who have been sponsored by Cong Fei for a long time often call Cong Fei to ask about tuition fees, which makes Cong Fei very disturbed.
The parents spoke aggressively on the phone and asked Cong Fei, saying that they would give my child to college, but now that they are halfway through the payment, they suddenly stop paying off. Isn’t this a scam?
"Sorry, I'm sick and haven't performed for several months. I can't send money for the time being."
The other party refused to give in: " When will the disease be cured? "
Cong Fei was silent. He didn't know when his illness would be cured. Since he was hospitalized, the doctor had never mentioned him to discharge.
He had a vague premonition that this disease would never be cured.
When his family was exhausted and his life was in danger, he was subjected to such a chilling complaint. Cong Fei had also been depressed. He admitted that he was indeed "a little sad", but after thinking He never expected to get rewards from his recipients when he reached his original intention. There are more people who are grateful for their kindness. The children are satisfied with their ability to go to school, so they don’t care about the grievances of others.
In February 2006, Cong Fei was named one of the top ten people who moved China in 2005. He dragged his sick body to the award ceremony in Beijing.
Heaven does not bless the good people, April 20 Cong Fei died because of the worsening of cancer, and he was buried in the Evergreen Garden of Yoshida Cemetery in Shenzhen.
In Cong Fei's limited 37 years of life, he provided various charitable funding for 11 years. He never really lived for himself in this life.
The death of the rose
Xing Fei left, leaving Xing Dan to pull his two daughters alone.
一个Cong Fei, who realized that he was not long ago, was unwilling to drag his wife down. He hoped that his wife would abort the child so that he would lose a burden in the future and seek new happiness.
Xing Dan refused in tears.
On October 16, 2005, Xing Dan gave birth to a daughter, Cong Fei decided to let the little baby take her mother's surname, and the couple named her little daughter: "Xing Xiaocong Fei. "
When Cong Fei passed away, his young girl was not one year old and he was dead. Xing Dan wanted to continue moving forward with Cong Fei's bloodline.
The government arranged relevant work of the Education Bureau for Xing Dan. While carrying the whole family, Xing Dan also took over the baton of her husband's charity. Cong Fei's volunteer work number was 2478. After Cong Fei left, 2478 became Xing Dan's work number.
Xing Dan practiced to interpret what it means, "After you leave, I will live like you."
Xing Dan has been working for charity for many years and has been praised as "Shenzhen Rose".
However, a flying game in 2011 came The sudden disaster caused the rose to wither.
On the evening of April 13, 2011, Xing Dan and his friends drove from Huizhou to Shenzhen.
Xing Dan and his group of people were driving on the highway, three bad teenagers were discussing throwing passing vehicles with stones on the side of the highway.
A car passed by, a teenager smashed over with concrete stones.
Xing Dan, who was sitting in the passenger seat, was hit. The stone passed through the windshield and smashed through Xing Dan's left lower jaw face. The driver immediately sent Xing Dan to the hospital for emergency treatment.
Unfortunately, he was sent to Xing Dan in the hospital died of severe injuries.
Several teenagers were completely unaware that they had caused a life, and they were still throwing stones to pass by vehicles. When they approached, they saw blood and glass scraps on the ground, and they were finally scared and ran away immediately.
What is even more infuriating is that these three teenagers were all children who lost school early and gradually became street gangsters. Xing Dan helped out the out-of-school children for half their life, but in the end they died by the hands of the out-of-school boys. How unfair is their fate.
The three teenagers were finally sentenced to imprisonment
Xing Dan's death caused a violent response in society. No one would have thought that Xing Dan would also leave five years after Cong Fei's death.
Current status of orphans
On April 28, the farewell ceremony for Xing Dan's body was held in Shenzhen.
Many people came to the scene. In addition to Xing Dan's relatives and friends, thousands of people also came from the sending bank. Hundreds of students who were sponsored by the couple also came. The children were wearing black and white school uniforms, holding large white cloth, and "Aunt Xing Dan" was written in black and black, making people feel the silent call of the children.
Xing Dan's powerful social influence comes from the good deeds of this Bodhisattva couple for ten years. After Cong Fei left, Xing Dan's label was not only "the wife of the good man Cong Fei", but also "the good man Xing Dan".
The most tearful thing at the funeral was the scene of Xing Dan's five-year-old daughter crying and calling her mother.
"Mom is going to find dad." Grandma hugged Xiao Congfei and said in tears.
Xiao Congfei immediately cried. In her memory, her father had never come back to see her. Does this mean that her mother would not come back either.
"Don't let mother go to heaven, I want mother!" The child's tender cry made me feel nervous.
The relatives and friends were heartbroken and could only tell their children that when they saw their mother, they could cry as soon as they wanted and say whatever they wanted.
But after seeing the portrait of her mother smiling, Xiao Congfei suddenly stopped crying, but tears fell like pearls with broken threads. Even though he was surrounded by adults comforting her, the figure of the girl in a white dress standing there still seemed so lonely.
Xing Dan was buried in Yoshida Cemetery, and her ashes were buried together with Cong Fei, realizing their love oath of dependence on each other during their lifetime.
The parents passed away one after another, and the two daughters became orphans without parents. The whole society is worried about the growth and study of their children in the future. Who will take care of them?
Shenzhen government condolences Xing Dan's family and gave 20,000 yuan in condolences, saying that it would provide certain assistance to Xing Dan Congfei's parents and their children in the future.
Shenzhen Civil Affairs Bureau and Municipal Charity Association also launched a care plan for Cong Fei and Xing Dan's two orphans, and helped the two children solve their life problems by raising charity funds from the public.
Zhongyi Life Insurance Shenzhen Branch gave Cong Fei’s two daughters a series of disease medical insurance worth more than 27,000 yuan.
Municipal Charity Association will allocate 1,000 yuan per capita living expenses from the care funds raised every month to Cong Fei and Xing Dan's two daughters until the child is 22 years old and has the ability to survive independently.
The two sisters did not live together. Because of half-brother relationship, the eldest daughter Ruirui was taken back to her hometown to raise by her grandparents.
Xing Dan made good friends during his lifetime. His friend Feng Changhong is the chairman of Shenzhen Industrial Design Industry Association , and Li Yawei is also a member of the Shenzhen CPPCC. They jointly adopted the orphan of this deceased friend and regularly recorded and shared Xing Xiaocongfei's growth records on social platforms.
It can be seen that Feng Changhong treats Xing Xiaocongfei as his own, and the girl intimately calls her aunt.
Xiao Congfei knows how to repay kindness. On Feng Changhong's birthday, he will personally make small gifts for his aunt and save money to buy a beautiful red dress for him.
Feng Changhong pays great attention to cultivating Xiao Congfei's interests and hobbies. His home is full of children's certificates. As long as the children are interested, the expensive violin is also given away as soon as they say.
Aunt Li Yawei was born in the Conservatory of Music and is a good player in playing the violin. She often gives Xiao Congfei music guidance.
While the art is flourishing, the child's academic performance is also very good. In 2018, Xiao Congfei was admitted to Shenzhen Experimental Middle School. In September 2021, he was admitted to the Affiliated High School of Southern University of Science and Technology with excellent high school entrance examination results.
Feng Changhong is very proud of this, and she excitedly shared the good news on the social platform.
Under the care of Feng Changhong and all walks of life, Xing Xiaocongfei grew up silently.
2022 is already 17 years old. The chubby little girl who was wearing a white skirt and standing in the crowd crying silently has become a girl with a bookish atmosphere. She is over 1.7 meters tall and her beautiful appearance looks very much like her mother Xing Dan.
says that doing good deeds and accumulating virtue. Although this sentence has not been reflected in Cong Fei and Xing Dan, I believe that the good deeds of their parents during their lifetime will make their children with bumpy destinies be favored by happiness and treated with more gentleness in the future.
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