Note: This article is based on the original novel "The Children of the Qiao Family", and the pictures are derived from the TV series "The Children of the Qiao Family".
When the eldest son Qiao Yicheng was 12 years old, Wei Shuying gave birth to her fifth child.
In order to save money from taking a taxi, Wei Shuying walked to the hospital with her big belly. She was in pain in the hospital because of the dysfunction of labor, but her husband Qiao Zuwang was leisurely playing mahjong at the card table.
Someone advised Qiao Zuwang to the hospital to see Wei Shuying. Qiao Zuwang didn't even raise his eyelids and said casually:
"What's the good looking? Which woman doesn't have a baby? It's not the first time she gave birth to a baby. Why is it so expensive this time?"
Wei Shuying, who has been pregnant and given birth many times, has been in a bad state for a long time. The publicity staff of Family Planning once suggested that Wei Shuying take off this baby, and the neighbors also said, "multiple children open their mouths" and suggested that she not have another baby.
But Wei Shuying, who was cowardly, did not listen. She could not give up the flesh and blood in her stomach. In the end, she died of heavy bleeding in the delivery room of the hospital because of this child.
Wei Shuying's sister Wei Shufang pulled Qiao Yicheng and his siblings to the hospital to see his mother for the last time. The children were too young and they didn't know what their mother had experienced. They even needed adults to guide them when they cried.
In a hurry, Qiao Zuwang held a funeral for Wei Shuying. Qiao Zuwang, who had been stingy all his life, finally became generous and hung a red tent for Wei Shuying. Qiao Zuwang said:
"She has never worn a good piece of clothing in her life. She is dead. Make a tent, let's make a note." At this simple funeral, Qiao Yicheng did not cry. Outsiders said that he was cruel, but they didn't understand. Qiao Yicheng did not shed a single tear. It was not that he was not sad, but that he never accepted the fact that his mother died young.
It was this funeral that made Qiao Yicheng see all kinds of people. They said that people left and tea were cold, and human nature really couldn't stand the test. Those three ugly faces were the biggest irony of Wei Shuying's dedication to his life.
"Sisters are easy to marry"
Wei Shuying and Qi Zhiqiang grew up together. They were childhood sweethearts. When they reached age, they got engaged successfully. The Qi family gave the betrothal gift to the Wei family.
Wei Shuying was waiting to marry Qi Zhiqiang with her yearning for a happy marriage. However, her biological sister Wei Shufang knelt in front of Wei Shuying and cried and said:
"Give Zhiqiang to me, Qiao Zuwang is also very happy with you. He has a shop and the conditions are good."
In order to force Wei Shuying to give up Qi Zhiqiang, her sister actually sought death. If Wei Shuying disagreed, she would jump into the river.
The kind Wei Shuying softened her heart. She promised her parents that she would take good care of her sister. If something really happened to her sister, she would not be able to explain to the two elders in Quanxia.
Wei Shuying really followed Qiao Zuwang before the wedding.
Qi Zhiqiang, who was kept in the dark, didn't know what he had done wrong. Seeing his fiancée marrying someone else, he had to accept Wei Shufang who was passionately pursuing him.
Wei Shuying sacrificed her marriage for her sister and also ruined her life's happiness with her own hands, but her sister was not grateful to her for this. After Wei Shuying's death, her sister even left the only "precious" object at her funeral - the red tent.
Wei Shuying's hospitalization fee was not paid. The newborn child Qiao Qiqi was thrown in the hospital. Qi Zhiqiang paid the money and took Qiao Qiqi back. Wei Shufang said to Qiao Zuwang:
"I tell you brother-in-law, that money must be paid back. We borrowed you, not for you! You have to remember to pay it back! We are close relatives, it doesn't matter if we don't write the IOU, you remember to pay it back."
My sister died of dying delivery. Wei Shufang cried in grief, but compared to losing her close relatives, she cared more about her sister's hospitalization fee was paid by her family. She kept remembering this money and reminded Qiao Zuwang at least three times.
After Wei Shuying left, Qiao Zuwang still had to go to work. He didn't have the energy to bring Qiao Qiqi in his cradle. Qiao Zuwang entrusted Qiao Qiqi to Wei Shufang, and Qiao Zuwang paid his living expenses on time every month.
As the second aunt of the child, Wei Shufang still does not change her calculating nature. While urging Guan Qiao Zuwang to ask for money, Wei Shufang was afraid of avoiding Qiao Qiqi's illness.
Qiao Qiqi had a problem with his legs and feet when he was a child. Wei Shufang quickly sent Qiao Qiqi back to Qiao Zuwang. It was Wei Shufang's eldest son Qi Weimin, who had no mother since birth, felt sorry for this little cousin who had no mother. He carried Qiao Qiqi to see a doctor and was cured by Qiao Qiqi.
At that time, Qi Weimin was only in his teens, but he could treat his brothers kindly with compassion. Wei Shufang was not as good as the young Qi Weimin in this regard.
If Wei Shuying knew that after her death, Wei Shufang would even pull her tent away. She was so cold and ruthless, would she still be willing to give Qi Zhiqiang to Wei Shufang? I think Wei Shuying will definitely not regret it, because a person like her is used to sacrificing herself and fulfilling others, which also destined her to have a tragic ending!
The mystery of Qiao Qiqi's life experience
Both biological sisters can calculate and care like this, let alone outsiders?
At Wei Shuying's funeral, few people were really sad. They even talked about Wei Shuying's gossip in front of the children, and the story of "Sisters are easy to marry" was very popular.
It is precisely because Wei Shuying had a relationship with Qi Zhiqiang before marriage that the mystery of Qiao Qiqi's life experience has become a topic of conversation for people after dinner.
They all say that Qiao Qiqi is Qi Zhiqiang's child, and gave full reasons: the four children in the Qiao family all look ordinary, and only Qiao Qiqi is particularly beautiful, and the illegitimate child is the best.
These words reached the ears of 12-year-old Qiao Yicheng. He was suspicious of Qiao Qiqi's life experience, and this incident also separated the biological brothers for more than ten years.
storm and shadows. Everyone will say that in order to satisfy their curiosity, they smeared the dead without any bottom line, and described the white as black, and regarded the bad as fun. This kind of unhealthy trend should be stopped the most.
Only by learning to respect others can we win the respect of others. Even if we cannot sympathize with those with miserable fate, we should not put a detriment.
They won’t know how much harm they will cause to the ignorant children if they speak nonsense and get addicted to their mouths. There is a kind of evil called “a knife mouth and a knife heart”.
"A few days bereavement "
Wei Shuying's difficult labor has a lot to do with her walking to the hospital. In order to save a few dollars of fares, she walked alone with her big belly to give birth. After Qiao Zuwang heard that she was not able to do so, she comfortably sat in the car to the hospital to make trouble.
Wei Shuying passed away tragically, but Qiao Zuwang cheated in the hospital and did not pay the hospital fee. He also left the newly born Qiao Qiqi in the hospital.
Then, Qiao Zuwang enjoyed the bereavement leave for several days and played mahjong for several days in a row, calling it "comfort the pain of losing his wife in middle age."
Does Qiao Zuwang really hurt?
He didn't want to care about the children. Wei Shuying's departure made Qiao Zuwang more free. Qiao Zuwang was addicted to the card table and bathhouse. Qiao Yicheng was forced to grow up and became a little parent to his younger brothers and sisters.
" The Children of the Qiao Family " describes Qiao Zuwang's happy life after losing his wife:
"I made friends with three friends and lived a very comfortable life, but my face was not as dark as before, and my expression became more peaceful."
Some people say that Qiao Zuwang did not remarry and did not find a stepmother for the children, which means he is a good father.
In fact, it is not that Qiao Zuwang doesn’t want to remarry, but that he has no conditions for remarrying, and has 5 bottles of oil. Even if he has a city household registration, even rural women are unwilling to look for him like this.
Qiao Zuwang sold the jewelry left to his daughter by Wei Shuying, making Qiao Yicheng the 12-year-old leader, and found a family and sent Qiao Simei over.
without the protection of her mother, the five children of the Qiao family grew up in difficulty. Qiao Simei knew that she was in love with her family at a young age and escaped from her adoptive parents with superior conditions. She said that she missed her elder brother and father, but Qiao Zuwang had almost no such unsatisfactory family affection for the children.
is such an irresponsible man, but Wei Shuying gave birth to five children with him one after another. Qiao Zuwang doesn't love children so much, he just cares about the fact that the children are "his seed".
Wei Shuying is extremely patient and tolerant of Qiao Zuwang. She is a virtuous and kind wife, but Qiao Zuwang is not worthy of her efforts. Her confused view of marriage and love and childbirth are the biggest driving force that pushes her to a dead end.
written at the end
A woman is really choosing her life to marry. In order to fulfill her sister, Wei Shuying gave her fiancé to her sister, and she married Qiao Zuwang casually. From the moment she gave in, her marriage was destined to be unhappy.
Love is the thing that cannot be given or given away casually. Marriage without love is a great test of human nature.
If Wei Shuying marry the honest and kind Qi Zhiqiang, Qi Zhiqiang would never have let her take the risk of having five children, let alone let her walk to the hospital alone. Women should marry someone who knows how to cherish themselves!
Ironically, after Qi Zhiqiang passed away, Wei Shufang started her second spring and remarried a man who had never been married. In the end, the two were buried together. Wei Shufang ignored rumors and dared to love and hate love. A selfish woman like her is better than Wei Shuying!
Before a woman loves others, please learn to love yourself first. Don’t take yourself too seriously, and don’t despise yourself casually. Qiao Zuwang lived to be old and was served by a nanny. His happy ending should be the most important thing to alert Wei Shuying and others.
Wei Shuying's early death not only made the children's growth more difficult, but almost did not hurt Wei Shufang and Qiao Zuwang at all. Family affection and love are not necessarily worthy of women's sacrifice. Life is short. Before saving all living beings, it is better to live for yourself.
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