"Dad, don't lock yourself in the room, okay are you coming out?"
2015, singer Geng Weihua was heartbroken after divorce, locked himself in the room and cried bitterly.
The daughter refused to see her father in such pain, and stood at the door crying and asked her father to open the door.
Geng Weihua saw her daughter crying after opening the door. She could no longer contain her inner emotions and hugged her daughter and cried bitterly.
Wife Zheng Jia was once a loyal fan of him, and even did not hesitate to get caught in the heavy rain just to see him.
Her persistence moved Geng Weihua, and the two finally succeeded in holding hands.
But after 15 years in love, Zheng Jia left resolutely after leaving behind her husband and daughter, without even leaving a photo. What exactly is the reason for
that makes Zheng Jia so "ruthless"?
Now that the two have been divorced for 7 years, how is Geng Weihua doing?
1997, Geng Weihua collaborated with Lu Jihong , Yu Wenhua and Li Danyang to sing the song "Walking Back to the Wind and Fire" on the Spring Festival Gala.
Lights illuminate his handsome face, and his tall and strong figure look particularly majestic.
He showed his singing skills on the stage without reservation, winning strong applause from the audience.
At the same time, it also attracted the attention of a little girl in front of the TV, that is Zheng Jia.
Zheng Jia stared at the TV intently, and a undercurrent surged in her heart, as if she fell in love with Geng Weihua at first sight.
"It would be great if I could marry him in the future."
In order to bring in the distance between me and my idol, Zheng Jia studied hard, lived hard, and waited for the day when the opportunity came.
At that time, Geng Weihua jumped into the public's attention because of his outstanding performance on the Spring Festival Gala.
He struck while the iron was hot and released the song "Green Military Clothes", which once again caused a wave of enthusiasm.
This song can be said to be his official pass to enter the music industry.
It is precisely because of this song that Zheng Jia, who is 14 years younger than him, is more determined to marry him.
1988, Geng Weihua came to Xi'an where Zheng Jia was located to hold a concert.
Zheng Jia never expected that the opportunity came so quickly.
She asked for leave from the school and rushed to the concert site in a hurry.
Although she had not seen Geng Weihua yet, her heart began to pound.
Finally, Geng Weihua slowly walked onto the stage under the gaze of fans.
Zheng Jia stood up excitedly after seeing this and shouted, "Geng Weihua, I love you."
This is her happiest moment, but she is not satisfied with watching the idol from afar on the seat.
She wants to have the opportunity to communicate with her idol in close contact. After the concert of
, Geng Weihua turned to the backstage under the escort of the security guard.
She quickly chased after her, but there were layers of fans around her and the security guard was walking around her, so she had no way to move forward.
Zheng Jia was in trouble, but soon came up with a solution.
That is to go to the hotel where Geng Weihua stays and wait for him.
She rushed to the hotel immediately. She didn't know how long she had been waiting, but finally saw a business car coming slowly.
Seeing this, Zheng Jia hurriedly took out the paper and pen from his bag.
hopes to stand by Teacher Geng’s side under the excuse of signing.
After seeing Geng Weihua get off the car, she rushed forward immediately.
"Can Teacher Geng sign me? I am your loyal fan."
Geng Weihua took Zheng Jia's book and signed his name casually on it.
Then, at the request of the little girl, Geng Weihua took another photo with her.
After taking the photo, Geng Weihua wanted to get up and walk towards the hotel, but was stopped by Zheng Jia again.
"Can you tell me your contact information?"
Geng Weihua originally planned to refuse for privacy reasons.
But when he looked at Zheng Jia's expectant gaze, he decided to give her his contact information.
At that moment, Geng Weihua thought it was a normal exchange between idols and fans.
He didn't know that this was the starting point when the fate of the two people began.
After Zheng Jia returned to school, he fell into deep thought when he looked at Geng Weihua's contact information on the notebook. How can
stand out among the many fans?
After thinking about it, she decided to start writing letters to her idols to share her life.
To show her uniqueness, she chose to use a brush to write down her love for Geng Weihua.
unknowingly wrote 11 pages, each row and column with a strong and rich emotion. Two months after the concert of
, Geng Weihua, who was at home, received the 11-page letter.
He thought he was an ordinary fan letter, but he didn't expect that as soon as he opened the first page, he had no desire to continue reading.
"I like you, I want to be with you, and make you my only one."
Geng Weihua saw the signature and remembered that this was the little girl who wanted to sign at the door of the hotel two months ago.
For a moment, he didn't know how to respond.
may not respond, and this is the best response.
He believes that it may take some time to go away as the enthusiasm fades, the little girl will no longer work on him.
But he underestimated Zheng Jia's firm determination when chasing stars.
Zheng Jia, who had not been waiting for a response for a long time, wrote letters to the other party one after another, but the result was always the same.
She began to sit still, so she tried to call the other party.
accompanied by the vibration of the connection, she was so nervous that she forgot how to speak.
After Geng Weihua looked at the number's location, he guessed that it might be a call from the little girl, so he took the initiative to speak.
"Hello, I still have work to work now, it's not convenient to answer the phone calls for too long, thank you."
Then he hung up the phone, and Zheng Jia was still immersed in the charming voice of his idol. After recovering from her consciousness, she fell into deep distress again.
: I saw myself writing letters and calling, but I didn’t get any response from the other party. Isn’t it really possible?
She was unwilling to give up and didn't want to give up easily.
Since there is no response to the letter, I will directly contact him to express my love in person.
Zheng Jia is a person with strong mobility. She immediately bought a train ticket from Xi'an to Beijing.
When she appeared in front of Geng Weihua, she was shocked.
"Aren't you studying in Xi'an? Why did you appear here?"
"I want to see you, but if I don't get your reply, I'm in a bad state."
g Geng Weihua has no choice but to be patient in his obsession with the girl, so he can only persuade her patiently.
"I am 14 years older than you. I am about to reach the third year of my life, and your good life has just begun. You should focus more on other places."
Zheng Jia did not listen to his words.
She still believed in a daze that her sincerity would definitely be exchanged for Geng Weihua's sincerity.
From there, every two months or so, she would come to Beijing from Xi'an just to look at Geng Weihua.
This made Geng Weihua at a loss. He was afraid that the little girl would fall deeper and deeper, so he began to deliberately avoid him.
He thought this would dispel the other party's idea, but he underestimated Zheng Jia's determination.
One day in 2000, Zheng Jia called Geng Weihua.
"I want to go see you in a few days."
Geng Weihua hung up the phone and said to the security guard: "If a little girl comes to me these days, you will tell her that I am not here."
A few days later, Zheng Jia came to Beijing.
She first came to Geng Weihua's workplace and found that the other party was not there. Later, she found the other party's address.
She wanted to go in, but was stopped by the security guard.
"Teacher Geng has performed these days and is not at home."
"It doesn't matter, I can wait for him to come back."
After she said that, she sat on the steps beside her, waiting for Geng Weihua.
It gradually started raining in the sky, and the raindrops hit Zheng Jia's face, as if urging her not to wait any longer.
She was unwilling to give up and continued to sit at the door.
The rain is getting heavier and heavier, and even the security guard is urging her to go home soon, but she still refuses to listen to her advice.
Then the security guard asked her to shelter from the rain in the security room and told her the truth with a heartache: "Go back, Teacher Geng will not see you."
After learning the whole story, Zheng Jia felt ashamed.
After the rain stopped, she walked on the streets of Beijing like a walking corpse.
minds kept coming from the first meeting to the other party deliberately dodging herself, she shook her head in disappointment.
After returning to Xi'an from Beijing, she was so angry that she couldn't get out of bed because of the rain.
Zheng Jia was lying on the bed, feeling weak in all limbs.
She couldn't even tell whether it was because of excessive sadness or the pain caused by fever.
Looking at Geng Weihua's poster all over the wall, she finally couldn't help crying.
She had just recovered from a serious illness, so she chose to say goodbye to the past.
Zheng Jia decided to write a farewell letter to Geng Weihua, bringing a perfect end to her former self.
"Teacher Geng, this is a farewell letter. Please forgive me for my recklessness and recklessness. It is not my intention to bring trouble to you. Teacher Geng, I decided to give up..."
A long envelope with all Zheng Jia's past feelings was sent to Geng Weihua's hands.
Geng Weihua thought it was still a letter of confession, but he didn't expect the little girl to be completely disappointed.
When he finished reading the letter, his face was very heavy.
Somehow, he felt very sad in his heart, and a kind of unspeakable bitterness surged into his heart.
At this moment, he did not realize that he had fallen in love with Zheng Jia unknowingly.
Geng Weihua did not take this matter to heart and continued to devote himself to his career.
But in the days to come, he always felt that something was missing. After
, he realized that he was used to Zheng Jia's existence.
This feeling became more and more intense, and he decided to take the initiative to call Zheng Jia. After
is connected, he directly expressed his purpose.
"I apologize to you for my previous behavior. It was me who let down your deep feelings for me."
Zheng Jia originally planned to never have any contact with Geng Weihua again, but when he heard him call on his own initiative, he still hesitated.
For the next period of time, Geng Weihua and Zheng Jia often spoke on the phone.
They went from being restrained at the beginning to saying everything later.
The relationship between two people has been sublimated into a spiritual confidant. Although
is 14 years apart, age is irrelevant in the face of love.
That year, lovers finally got married.
Zheng Jia successfully chased stars, and that feeling was too ethereal.
She couldn't believe that Geng Weihua, who had liked him for two years, was now her boyfriend.
So she boarded the train to Beijing again, and she wanted to make sure again in person.
After she arrived, Geng Weihua had been waiting for a long time.
He held flowers in his hand and opened his arms.
Seeing this, Zheng Jia ran towards Geng Weihua.
"I can't believe this is true."
"I will never let you be hurt again from now on, I will spend the rest of my life to protect you."
The two chose to get married not long after they fell in love.
Love is the soul of two people, and marriage is a trivial matter of life.
Can their relationship withstand the tempering of real life?
Geng Weihua felt guilty towards Zheng Jia. After marriage, he chose to tolerate and care for her in all aspects.
I was reluctant to let my wife suffer, so he took the initiative to take care of all the housework such as cooking and washing clothes.
He is busy with work during the day and will call Zheng Jia before going home at night to ask what dishes he wants to eat today.
Then he went to the vegetable market to buy vegetables and went home, making a table of delicious dishes waiting for his wife to taste.
They have been married for more than ten years, and Zheng Jia has gone to the kitchen for only a few times.
Geng Weihua, a well-known singer, has become a "family man" at home.
Zheng Jia is immersed in happiness and enjoys her husband's love for her.
In 2004, Zheng Jia became pregnant.
She often had abdominal pain so much that she couldn't sleep all night, and morning sickness also accompanied her.
Looking at his wife with a haggard face and a distorted figure, Geng Weihua felt very uncomfortable.
So he will try his best to meet any requests from his wife.
One day, my wife wanted to eat specialties from her hometown in Xi'an, so Geng Weihua hurriedly took a bus from Beijing to Xi'an just to buy a bite.
His kindness to his wife is envious of his friends.
In the same year, Zheng Jia gave birth to a daughter.
The world of two people has since become a family of three, and Geng Weihua is filled with joy.
From then on, Geng Weihua's responsibility has become heavier.
He works harder, while his wife assumes the responsibility of educating his daughter.
The couple has a clear division of labor and will live a pleasant and enjoyable life.
If two people live together, all conflicts will inevitably arise.
Zheng Jia is from a wealthy family and never treats herself badly in terms of food, clothing, housing and transportation.
Geng Weihua is a child who survived the hard days. He experienced a lot of hardships before he became famous.
When he was the poorest, he relied on eating other people's leftover steamed buns to fill his stomach.
Because of this, he always adheres to the idea of frugality and believes that even if you have money, you cannot squander it.
Once, Zheng Jia took her daughter out shopping.
She remembered that her husband had not bought new clothes for too long, so she thought about buying new clothes for her husband.
picks and picks, Zheng Jia looks at a brand of men's clothing priced at 8,000 yuan.
Although she thought it was a bit expensive, she thought about it and her husband often appeared in various public places and should have decent clothes.
So he gritted his teeth and bought the clothes.
After she got home, she couldn't wait to ask her husband to change it, but when Geng Weihua saw the receipt, she frowned instantly.
The clothes he usually wears are less than 800 yuan, and 8,000 yuan is enough for him to buy a lot of clothes.
Geng Weihua complained that his wife did not know how to be frugal, and Zheng Jia also felt wronged.
"I obviously bought it for you. I think you can wear it more decently in various occasions, but you blame me instead."
Zheng Jia brought the child back to Xi'an with aggrievedly. She didn't understand why Geng Weihua only saw bad things, but turned a blind eye to her advantages.
Finally, Geng Weihua came to Xi'an to apologize sincerely, and the matter was settled.
They reconciled and returned to normal life.
It is common for conflicts to occur after marriage. Every quarrel makes both parties better understand each other.
Geng Weihua disagreed with this, but Zheng Jia became more and more "clear".
She was still young when she married Geng Weihua and believed that love could defeat everything.
But as she grows up, her husband's light gradually fades away in her eyes.
Zheng Jia once loved crazy men, but after living together for many years, she began to become boring.
Her ideological changes were not noticed by Geng Weihua.
In an interview program, Geng Weihua laughed at his marriage: "We often argue and even said divorce in anger, but they were all angry words and it was impossible to divorce."
At that time, Geng Weihua must have never expected that he and Zheng Jia would really have the day of divorce.
In 2015, Geng Weihua admitted on the show that he had divorced.
The divorce was proposed by Zheng Jia, who said she was tired of life today.
Geng Weihua couldn't believe it, and his wife's sudden decision made him at a loss.
I believe Zheng Jia did this big event after careful consideration.
Geng Weihua and Zheng Jia have been with him for 15 years, and his wife has long become an inseparable part of his life.
He tried to keep him, and he whispered to seek peace again and again, hoping that his wife would think more.
Ko Zheng Jia's attitude is firm and has no room for Geng Weihua to retain.
In desperation, Geng Weihua had to agree to the divorce.
After going to the Civil Affairs Bureau to complete the procedures, Zheng Jia disappeared from Geng Weihua's life.
That afternoon, Geng Weihua locked himself in the room and cried bitterly.
He still couldn't believe it, and his wife left him mercilessly.
My daughter was also mixed with feelings when she heard her father's crying.
She knocked on the door of her father's room, hoping that he would not say that he was trapped in the room.
"Dad, open the door, Dad."
The daughter shouted in a crying voice, which made Geng Weihua finally open the door.
The father and daughter hugged each other tightly and cried bitterly, and from then on they were the only two of them who depended on each other for their own lives.
With the company of her daughter, Geng Weihua gradually emerged from the pain of divorce.
He also vowed not to be negative anymore, and even for his daughter, he would cheer up again.
He spent all his thoughts on his daughter and used fatherly love to soothe the child's lack of maternal love.
Later, Geng Weihua once said on the show: "I will not invest in a new relationship. At least I will have to wait until my daughter goes to college before I will consider it."
When the host asked him if he would still accept the love of his fans, Geng Weihua shook his head.
"I won't find female fans anymore."
Love can be temporary, but marriage is a lifelong thing.
Zheng Jia fell in love with Geng Weihua when she was young and ignorant. At that time, she thought that as long as there was love, there would be everything.
But as she got older, she also clearly realized that Geng Weihua was not the right person.
Passion is gradually fading away, leaving only the reality of food, food, oil and salt.
At the time, she was dominated by love, and finally decided to divorce and find her original life.
She was like a gust of wind, blowing the layers of turbulence in Geng Weihua's heart, and then left hurriedly.
Only Geng Weihua is left immersed in the beautiful memories and is sad alone.
Geng Weihua is now 52 years old and is still alone.
He spends most of his time to his daughter to make up for the impact of his original family on his daughter.
After 7 years of divorce, when Geng Weihua was interviewed again, his words were still full of love and regret for his ex-wife.
I believe that when I dreamed of it at midnight, I would still remember those beautiful and innocent memories.
