less anger and more tolerance
From Zhihua in " Return to the Condor Heroes 3" to Empress Fucha in "Story of Yanxi Palace", Qin Lan has become the white moonlight and cinnabar mole in many people's hearts.
But she is over forty years old and is still unmarried, so she naturally cannot escape the fate of being urged to get married.
Her remarks about marriage and childbirth were also dug out by netizens:
"My attitude towards love and marriage is the same as acting. Let it go naturally and do not force it. There were also people who urged to get married a few years ago, saying that people don't want to be responsible if they don't get married. I think it's strange. Getting married for the sake of getting married is irresponsible, right? Some people say that having children is a woman's obligation. I want to say that if my uterus is not used, it has something to do with you."
As soon as these words came out, the comment area was quickly captured by netizens.
" Uterine can be dug out if you don't need it." "I don't know if the uterus is used, but the vagina must be used." "This kind of selfish person has a face, and humans have become extinct as early as you..."
is already 9022, and there are such foul remarks!
just because her words were slightly worse, she was pointed at by thousands of people and became the target of public criticism.
Nowadays people are too busy and have too much hostility.
famous sociology master Li Yinhe once said this:
"Almost all people have become cynical, and everyone has become a master of irony."
"Irony masters" show their skills on the Internet, speaking directly with their fists, seemingly standing on the side of justice, but in fact they are fueling the perseverance of society.
only knows unscrupulously sarcasm and attacks, regardless of the possible harm to others, and negatively guides the social atmosphere.
Don't let morally kidnap , destroy your kindness
rebukes Qin Lan for "selfishness" and other comments, which remind me of the popular "forcing donations" incidents.
Last year, many places encountered floods, so some netizens jumped out and began to force celebrities and companies to donate.
donate and scold you, "there is no conscience at all";
donate and scold you, "I donated so much";
donate and scold you, "I donated so much";
donated and scold you, "Why didn't I donated more last time";
donated publicly He told him to scold him, "I just knew how to spend money to buy a character"; he didn't make any announcement and scold him, "Everyone has donated, why don't you donate yet?"
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, such as celebrity Yang Zi , once donated 300,000 yuan to the Zhengzhou Red Cross, but was despised as "too stingy".
But what is the truth?
Yang Zi not only donated 500,000 to China Poverty Alleviation Foundation, but also donated 500,000 to Henan Charity Federation and donated 5 million with the company.
was pushed to the forefront because of his low-key behavior and labeled "for wealth and unkindness", becoming a target for public opinion.
also forced marriage, forced children to support brothers and sisters, and forced mothers to breastfeed...
These people think they are upholding justice, but in fact they practice "moral kidnapping" in the name of justice!
stole the basic moral norms and civilized etiquette norms, but stood on the moral high ground and wanted to mock others.
is really a double standard!
Ancient people said: "Do not do to others what they want."
Respect others' choices is a great kindness.
As Gu Hongming said in "Awakening Age":
"In us Chinese, there is something that no other nation does not have, that is gentleness. Gentleness is not docile, nor is it cowardice. Gentleness is a kind of power, a kind of sympathy and human wisdom."
's words still sound like Huang Zhong Da Lu, thought-provoking.
gentleness is the nature of the Chinese people.
Please don’t let moral kidnap, ruin your kindness!
Slut humiliation is a manifestation of incompetence
At the same time, the slut humiliation in these comments is also shocking.
others just say something, and some people start maliciously speculating on her sex life.
either keep your genitals in your mouth all day long, or make things happen out of nothing and insult women wantonly.
Some time ago, Ms. Yu from Anhui posted her engagement photos on the Internet.
is young and beautiful, and cannot get it because of your request.
Then, some people had orgasms and all kinds of dirty words came out:
"I know this woman, and she is the technician No. 8 of a club." "Oh, the man is so pitiful, and it is an honest person who took over again." "Really, I know her, technician No. 8, and I have also ordered her."
Just like that, Ms. Yu was stigmatized as a "slut".
Her fiancé was collectively besieged by netizens.
even explained to her friend was also blasted online.
even though she posted a clarification that she was engaged in financial work in a private enterprise, she also attached a screenshot of her work record.
and they were even more excited, "Oh, I can edit the picture." "She was anxious, she responded, she must be number 8."
This kind of slut humiliation is not only a contempt for women, but also a manifestation of his own lack of kindness.
Mr. Lu Xun said it well:
"The strong are angry, swing the sword to the stronger; the weak are angry, swing the sword to the weaker."
Men with strong abilities and high quality do not need women to sacrifice themselves to fulfill their perfect life.
Only incompetent people can achieve self-psychological satisfaction by suppressing and attacking others.
Please remember: true kindness is never limited to gender.
When can boys truly respect women and affirm women be the best way to an equal society.
people, it is very important to become human!
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