Many families have children, and the conflicts deepen and the relationship between husband and wife is broken. There are also some families who have no children, and their lives are still prosperous.
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Of course, this does not mean that you don’t have children, but that mutual respect is actually more important.
A few days ago, Xiangtai posted photos of Xiao Mihuang’s 2nd birthday and Longan’s 100-day banquet on Weibo.
Image source: Xiang Tai's Weibo
Guo Biting , who made his first appearance after the second child, is in really good condition. She wore a long blue dress and woolen curly hair, like a 17-year-old girl.
Image source: Xiang Tai's Weibo
sharp-eyed netizens found that the child's father Xiang Zuo was absent.
Xiang Tai explained that it was a visa issue, but netizens still did not buy it and began to speculate on the marriage status of the two.
The most mysterious brain is the comment from this netizen:
"I originally thought that Guo Biting was a 'fertility machine', but I didn't expect Xiang Zuo to be."
Since Guo Biting got married, the voice of implicitly mocking her as a "fertility machine" has not stopped.
"The second child is really fast, it is impossible for a wealthy family to have a son."
"Marrying to a wealthy family is indeed a life."
But marriage is like drinking water, and you will know the warmth and coldness. This is especially true for
.
Putting aside everything else, Guo Biting herself once said that she liked children very much and revealed that she wanted to have 3 children.
Like children and give birth to children according to their own wishes. Why is it a "birth machine"?
Question: Where are there many "fertility machines"?
Answer: In the mouths of netizens!
I don’t know when it started, but women seemed to have fallen into a vicious circle.
Anyone who has one more child will easily be labeled as a "fertility machine". The same is true when the couple Jay Chou
Before When they had their third child with Jay Chou and Kunling .
At that time, Jay Chou announced the good news on a social platform and exposed a picture of his daughter's sleeping face. The child’s pink and tender face has made the hearts of many netizens cute!
Kun Ling, who suffered the pain of childbirth, was mocked by people, "I have three children in 7 years of marriage, which is the birth machine of King Zhou!"
What's more, she said that she tied Jay Chou's heart by giving birth.
In fact, Kun Ling was interviewed a long time ago and said that he wanted to have 3 children.
On the contrary, after Jay Chou was born, he felt that his wife was too hard and did not want to have another child.
Kun Ling was in the hospital for giving birth, Jay Chou was basically taking good care of him. Even Kun Ling wanted to go up to help when he went to the toilet.
Jay Chou did not become the boss in the process of raising children.
Almost all Jay Chou took care of the children at night. Once Kun Ling got up to coax the children, but he drove them back:
"Go back to sleep."
The two have been married for so many years, Jay Chou is almost in a semi-retired state. He either accompanied his wife or took care of the children in daily life.
The king of the generation has made himself a half-family man.
But some netizens turned a blind eye, they only saw Kun Ling giving birth to three children.
also called a "birth machine", there is also Myolie Wu , which has 4 years of giving birth to 3 babies.
Little did I know that Myolie Wu once explained the reason why she had so many children on the show.
On the one hand, she was really happy in this marriage, and on the other hand, she was influenced by her original family.
She grew up in the environment of three sisters and felt the happy atmosphere of parents' love and sisters' unity and harmony.
so she also hopes that her children can get such happiness.
There is also who gave birth to a third child at the age of 46. Ada Choi was mocked by " Zhang Jin The family has the throne to inherit."
The fact is that all the time I want to have children is Ada Choi.
After giving birth to the third child, Zhang Jin firmly asked Ada Choi to "seal her belly".
In addition to celebrities, many ordinary women cannot escape such ridicule.
A blogger posted a video online saying that his menstrual period was postponed and he was afraid he was pregnant with his third child.
is such a simple sentence. Unexpectedly, it was mocked by the crowd. Many people said that she was a "fertility machine".
I want to have a baby, but who is it wrong?
As soon as I saw my third child, some netizens spoke ill without hesitation.
calls women who have many children a "birth machine". This is not only prejudice, but also naked malice.
Although many netizens have an inclusive and understanding attitude in the matter of childbirth, the debate has always existed.
If you have too many births, you are a "fertility machine", and if you don't have children, you are called a "loser".
Yang Liping once uploaded a video of eating hot pot. In the video of
, Yang Liping was eating hot pot surrounded by various flowers. At the age of 62, she was fair-skinned and elegant.
But the comments in the comment area are jaw-dropping:
"A woman's biggest failure is that she has no children. The so-called 'living herself' is all foolish."
"No matter how beautiful or outstanding you are, you can't escape the destruction of time. When you are 90 years old, you can't feel the joy of family life in the house of children and grandchildren."
What is even more unexpected is that more than 10,000 people agree with this remark full of arrogance and prejudice.
When did a woman's success become a child?
Chinese dance Artist, Vice Chairman of the Chinese Dancers Association, Outstanding Actor, and Member of the Expert Committee for the Level Examination of the Chinese Ethnic Folk Dance...
Take out any title, which is a height that others cannot reach.
Not to mention, Yang Liping is also the first dancer in China to hold a personal dance party, and is also a double champion in the creation and performance of national dance competitions.
Her dance works such as " The Spirit of the Bird " and "Two Trees" are well-known and have won numerous awards. How could Yang Liping, who is such an excellent person as
, fail?
When Yang Liping was attacked, Qi Wei said:
"A person's biggest failure is: to this day, he still defines the 'woman's', and regards the whole family of children and grandchildren as the only achievement of a woman."
It is obvious that it is not Yang Liping who fails, but those keyboard warriors who only stare at women with a few children.
Murakami Haruki once wrote:
"Live your own other life, you have to be obedient, not all fish will live in the same sea."
Someone yearns for marriage, some people will be willing to be single; some people like children and grandchildren to get around their knees, some people will choose DINK .
1 Reproduction is a right, not an obligation.
Furthermore, women's contribution to society should never be determined by childbirth.
Xie Nan When talking about the topic of female childbirth in the program, he said:
"The child is my next life. I have the right to decide, and I must have a larger share of the right to decide. ”
strongly agrees.
Why do women have to take reproductive rights in their own hands?
Because once someone else falls into the hands of others—
First of all, the situation will become difficult, and secondly, the situation will lose oneself. In the end, it is likely to pay a heavy price.
Some people may think this is an alarmist statement, but it is true.
Do you still remember Fang Mouyang?
The poor girl who was abused to death by her husband's family.
Her marriage was not pure from the beginning, and her husband wanted to pass on the clan. The tool for succession.
When she learned that Fang Mouyang could not get pregnant because of abortion, the days of her abuse came.
Can't eat enough, don't wear warm clothes, beat her anytime and anywhere, and eventually she lost her life.
We don't want Fang Mouyang's tragedy to be staged again.
ml1 They have the right to decide whether to give birth, when, or even how many give birth.
No matter what choice a woman makes, it is understandable, and others have no right to point fingers.
Just like Qin Lan said:
"My uterus does not use it, what does it have to do with you? "
The value of women's life is not just about having children.
They can go to the nine days to catch the moon, and go to the five oceans to catch turtles.
What men can do, they can, and they can even be better in some aspects.
So, please put away your mockery and stop the definition of female childbirth.
So, please put away your mockery and stop the definition of female childbirth.
html ml1How many children can you give birth, what method to give birth, or what kind of life to the future... it should be decided by women themselves.
Respect others' choices and less pointing fingers at others. It is not that difficult.
Author: Mr. Zhishu, say good night with you for a lifetime. This article is reproduced from the WeChat public account: Mr. Zhishu (ID: svop133). Image source of this article: Internet, if there is any infringement, please contact us to delete it. Cover source: Stills from the movie " Tiny Times ".
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