On October 6, news that Du Haitao and Shen Mengchen were suspected of a divorce became a hot topic. This is a bit surprising. After all, they only received their marriage certificate in February, and they have not even held their wedding. So what happened?

On October 6th, the news that Du Haitao and Shen Mengchen Suspected marriage change became a hot search. This is a bit surprising. After all, they only received the marriage certificate in February, and they have not even held their wedding. Is this a marriage change?

The cause of the incident was that someone found that Shen Mengchen and Du Haitao's social accounts could not find each other's updates.

According to common sense, after getting the certificate, you haven't held a wedding yet. If the relationship is sweet, you will definitely show your love openly. Now, I can't even find the previous updates. What is the situation in

? We also look forward to the response of two people in the future.

According to the entertainment major v, the situation is mainly 3 points:

. The two have had a very unpleasant fight recently and have had a big quarrel several times, and almost everyone in the circle knows it. Shen Mengchen lowered his expectations and did not expect to hold a wedding anymore. Just maintain the status quo.

. Shen Mengchen has moved out of the love nest, and the two are now in the state of half-separated .

. One of the conflicts between the two is related to the wedding.

According to reports, there were several groups of talks on wedding sponsorship alone, but the following was delayed.

Du Haitao wants to do live streaming and sell goods at the wedding site. All wedding supplies are sponsored by merchants, and Shen Mengchen has different opinions on this. It is hard to say who is right and who is wrong.

may Haitao 's considerations are more pragmatic. Such high traffic of does not need to be used for nothing. Not only does it cost money, it can also make a lot of money. How great is it.

But women must consider more factors in their relationship. Generally, they hope that the wedding is a wedding, a witness to the beautiful relationship between two people. It is best not to mix too much other things.

Just imagine, you are wearing a beautiful wedding dress, brewing deep affection, and are about to say that you have a lifetime, but suddenly you have to intersperse an advertisement, take a logo and give a close-up, and then add a link: "omg, buy it and buy it!"

is a disappointment. We don’t know whether the above revelations are true.

No matter what, it is not easy for two people to be together for 9 years, and I have obtained the marriage certificate. I still hope to have a good ending. If you have a baby again, the whole family will live a long life.

But what if it really changes? After all, the marriage is not going well.

1. No matter how she tried her best, he remained calm and remained unmoved

Shen Mengchen's "hate marriage" is almost everyone knows.

To be honest, the two of them have come to this day, it is obvious that Shen Mengchen is more devoted to his feelings and is more eager to have a result.

She took the initiative to chase Du Haitao. The two broke up during their relationship, which was also her active recovery. Love has been running for 9 years, and she has publicly "urged to get married" many times.

Once, someone asked her: "If you create a tag for yourself, what kind of person do you want to be the most?"

Shen Mengchen's answer was: " The tag that most wants to be Du Haitao's wife the most, and the tag that he wants to tear off the most is Du Haitao's girlfriend !"

Unfortunately, let her do everything possible, and he remained motionless.

For this reason, Shen Mengchen also smiled bitterly:

"Since she fell in love with Haitao, her biggest trouble is to urge her to get married, her parents, relatives, and audiences, and all kinds of urges, but the biggest problem is that Haitao can't urge her at all, and even a tornado can't urge her to Du Haitao."

It can be seen that she really has no choice but to express her grievances and helplessness in public, and hopes to promote the marriage through public power.

Even since 2019, Shen Mengchen began to prepare for his own wedding, and he had thought about all kinds of details and even his wedding speech.

But in the end, she said with regret: This dream wedding has been delayed due to various reasons, and with the increase in age, she no longer needs such a fairy tale world.

is said to be not needed, but I am afraid it is more of a helplessness in requests but not .

Shen Mengchen's desire for marriage is almost bright, but Du Haitao has never responded, either saying that he is too busy.

Even netizens can’t stand it anymore. Someone left him a message: If you don’t want to marry Shen Mengchen, don’t delay others!

too busy? hehe.

Love someone deeply, no matter how busy she is, she is free, for fear that she will run away.

But if you don’t want to get married, you’re embarrassed. Not only will you be “very busy”, but you will also feel that the other party’s public “urge to get married” is putting pressure on yourself, so you are even more resistant.

Not wanting to get married is not a sin, but love or not is like drinking water and knowing the warmth of the cold and warmth of the water.

2. The strong melon is not sweet. Love is to go in two directions, not to persevere

" The Legend of the Condor Heroes ", Zhao Min has a famous saying: " I have to barely ."

But there is a prerequisite here, Zhang Wuji also likes Zhao Min very much in my heart. If it were someone else, such as Ding Minjun , Miejue Shita , I'm afraid he would rather slap himself than agree.

A beautiful relationship is never enough to work hard alone, it requires two-way pursuit.

Shen Mengchen once said that Du Haitao had cried many times during the love process, and the longest cold war lasted for 3 months. During that time, she suffered from anorexia psychotropia , and she lost 90 kilograms in a short time, almost losing her form.

Another time, Shen Mengchen was sad and cried, but Du Haitao said, "What are you doing with ? Are you acting here? Who are you crying for? "

Later, Shen Mengchen talked about this on the show, Du Haitao was very embarrassed and quickly changed the topic. However, Shen Mengchen asked him seriously: "Dare you say you haven't said it?" The scene of

is indeed quite embarrassing.

can be seen that Shen Mengchen felt a lot of grievances in his heart. Because of his deep love, he swallowed it into his stomach, but the grievance did not disappear and would run out as soon as he had the chance.

As for Du Haitao, I will take the liberty to speculate.

At first, he always admired Wu Xin, and he might not be able to hold on to others in his heart.

Then Shen Mengchen. I feel that his attitude towards Shen Mengchen has been hesitating.

Getting married is a little unwilling to accept it, and giving up is still a little nostalgic, Shen Mengchen chases him tightly again. After talking for so long, if we really break up, we will be responsible for bad public opinion and affecting our career. Finally, I got married awkwardly with this twist.

There is a saying that Shen Mengchen was pregnant, and Du Haitao agreed to get married and made a very detailed pre-marital agreement with her to protect herself.

It is not clear whether the two are really "half separated" now.

But the old saying goes: a forced melon is not sweet.

cannot force others or yourself.

The one who loves deeply is inevitably self-paralyzing because he can't give up.

Sometimes, even though they know that the other party is perfunctory, they will still help him find various reasons to convince himself. But the real thing cannot be true, and a person has to face reality after all.

The one who loves shallowly, if you barely get married, your heart will be filled with "unsatisfied" and will always be ready to move. You can't deceive others or yourself.

And love is equal, the other party does not need your mercy and charity, but you love her, care about her, and respect her.

When she feels cold, the grievances and cold treatments she has encountered before will become old accounts, and will be dug out from time to time, becoming weapons of attack.

So, marriage is not a bit forced, you must face your heart!

3. Women have short flowering period, and stop loss should be timely!

I always think that adults usually have a bad result when they have been in love for too long and don’t get married.

I haven’t gotten married for so long, and there is only one reason: I don’t want to get married.

and dragged it for too long, the woman's biggest impact is actually the woman.

Due to factors such as physiological characteristics, cultural environment, etc., the flowering period of women is relatively short, and they also have a shelf life for childbirth. Once you pass the age, a good marriage will not be easy to touch.

So women must be sober and self-sustainable.

Those who truly love you are reluctant to let you suffer grievances. If you want a relationship to bear fruit, but the other party always has an unclear attitude, then stop the loss in time.

is here to turn the story, and after tears, they still have a sonorous rose!

also advises men not to be stubborn when it comes to their relationship.

If you don’t love enough and can’t make a promise, then don’t delay others. The longer you delay, the greater the cost of sinking , the easier it is to get entangled into a resentment.

Let go early, and she will be overwhelmed after a pain. If she wasted too long, she might be the only thing she could have hatred.

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