Last month, Yang Yi posted photos on Weibo to watch the lanterns in the Mid-Autumn Festival.
Honey is holding Xiao Zhenzhu, and she is carrying Eden, who is 9 months old.
Family of four, full of happiness.
And the selfie's bare face is really hard to bear, tight and delicate, and it is not easy to find any pores.
From the traditional standards, Yang Yi is not a beauty, High cheekbones , long middle, wide jaw... She is born with seriousness and insulated from the girlish feeling, very ostentatious.
But in every work, it is the beauty of its personality.
The word "sweet" is enough.
Now, 43-year-old Yang Yi can already control various roles, be an actor, a mother, and a wife.
Living so confidently and vigorously, and she is so beautiful and proud and enthusiastic. What kind of life energy does she hide?
From "unknown supporting role" to "top visual master"
Yang Yi was born in a single-parent family in 1979.
The father passed away when she was 2 years old and her mother remarried at the age of 7.
In the eyes of many people, children from single-parent families are inevitably marked with inferiority complex.
But Yang Yi has rare confidence and firmness.
She has a sense of resilience and has been independent since childhood.
At a young age, I have already worked part-time to help with family use. After graduating from the fifth grade of
However, TVB has never paid attention to artists from training classes, but instead likes to make the actresses who debuted in Miss Hong Kong.
Yang Yi has neither the halo of Miss Hong Kong nor the background background. It is even more difficult to make a name for herself in a short period of time.
so they can only be arranged to play supporting roles in large and small crews. Without a single line, it is no different from a transparent person.
Watch others play the role of a princess, she plays the role of a nun; others play the role of the male lead's first love, she plays the nameless secretary.
Even so, Yang Yi has always adhered to her love and persistence for acting. Compared to impetuousness and anxiety, Her heart is very stable, knowing what she wants and where she wants to go.
crunchy, she decided to do something down to earth, and polished her acting skills after work.
In 2002, Yang Yi played the maid Su Yingxue in "Rebirth of Rebirth ", officially entering the audience's attention.
Although he plays a maid, he has a well-educated and well-educated lady temperament in his every move.
Yang Yi took every step hard and worked hard. She was waiting for the day when the opportunity came.
In 2008, the opportunity finally came. She played the straightforward and daring adopted daughter Ayue in "Heart and Greed 2".
The kindness and tenacity in the character's character coincides with Yang Yi's pure mind and her persistence in being herself.
In 2009, Yang Yi played the role of the black-bellied girl Yao Jinling in " Palace Scheming ", which was full of aura.
The classic sentence "If you hit you, you will hit you. Do you still have to choose a day?" makes people hate him and completely snatch the style of the female lead, making her famous!
Others say she is a "professional bad woman", but Yang Yi said:
"This time I'm just a scheming woman. I think I'm the strongest woman among the strong women!
I actually like to play bad guys very much. It's challenging enough. It seems that every audience wants us to fight harder."
At the end of the same year, Yang Yi successfully won the "Best Performance Award" and "I Favorite TV Female Character" award at the 42nd anniversary
Since then, Yang Yi has risen to the top and has become the first-tier actress.
is famous, but with it comes high-intensity work pressure.
Because of a long-term continuation, Yang Yi fell ill due to overwork while filming " Truth ", and she didn't even have the strength to speak and talk. In the end, she only took one-third of the shot and left crying.
When visiting, the reporter questioned her with this experience. She smiled and said, "It doesn't matter, life always passes, it doesn't matter."
No matter how the external environment changes, Yang Yi still maintains a calm mind.
did not fall into anxiety and confusion because of the increasing uncertainty around it. After recovering from the illness, Yang Yi never stopped fighting. Finally, with the role of Taikang Zijun in " Famous Family ", he took the throne of "TVB's first public opinion queen".
Standing on the podium, Yang Yi was very moved:
"Thank you, the audience in Hong Kong for voting for me. The road has been very difficult for more than ten years, but I have never given up. Thank you mommy, you must be so proud of me."
After 13 years of hard work, the most glorious moment, the taste was so delicious, and the face was full of tears.
She has made a strong mark on every character.
Only by being yourself and acting yourself can you be so at ease.
From an unknown supporting actress to the actress's heroine, Yang Yi became the only actress who won all the awards from TVB.
also came another great news.
Yang Yi is in love.
From conquering the "prodigal son" to the two of his children,
In 2011, because of the filming of "on call 36 hours ", Yang Yi and Luo Zhongqian sparked the spark of love.
For a moment, it caused a lot of controversy.
The relationship between the two is often criticized by the outside world. Since the official announcement, it has been ridiculed for 5 years.
First, they are 5 years apart in their siblings; second, Luo Zhongqian is not worthy of Yang Yi in terms of career or fame.
Everyone accused Luo Zhongqian of being a playboy, a domestic violence man, and a soft-fighting man; Yang Yi was scolded and her value was reduced.
But the unmatched match in the eyes of outsiders is the affection in Yang Yi's eyes.
Yang Yi grew up in a single-parent family, is precocious, independent and independent. She knows very well that she does not need a big man to be the backbone.
Luo Zhongqian gave her testimony that she wanted, caring for everything in detail, loving her everywhere.
During the filming of the movie, Luo Zhongqian would care about what Yang Yi had for a night snack every day, and he would accompany her to start work every night. He only followed her on Ins.
Marriage view, the two are also very similar.
Luo Zhongqian once publicly stated: "I will definitely not divorce when I get married."
Although Yang Yi can make money, she has a strong sense of family in her bones.
And Luo Zhongqian values family personality, which just meets her expectations;
plus the confidence brought by career success, as strong as her, how could he be afraid of the rumors behind the "sister-brother love"?
so Yang Yi is particularly open-minded in her relationship and sees it very clearly.
No matter what negative rumors are faced, she always deals with doubts in one sentence:
trusts him the most.
even said: "Men can suddenly have a fresh consciousness and are not loyal, I think it's okay."
Such an attitude is shocking.
This is Yang Yi. Other people's eyes and comments will not easily shake her emotions.
In order to keep love, not only dowry gifts of 20 million yuan, but also do your best to clear the difficulties and give them enough face.
The reason why Yang Yi has a stable enough self-evaluation system and confidence is because she has a strong "cohesional self".
She thought she was "the best" from the bottom of her heart. This kind of narcissism formed a kind of cohesion , which not only allowed her to raise her sense of determination when facing external doubts and denials, and not be troubled by various projections;
also allowed her to have the ability to jump out of the environment to observe and maintain inner stability.
Therefore, Yang Yi has the ability to face her choices without regretting her love.
In the end, this love was also fulfilled.
In 2016, the two held a wedding;
In 2020, Xiao Zhenzhu was born, completing the transformation from a woman to a mother's identity;
And Luo Zhongqian was also under Yang Yi's "training", Aquaman was calm and not only caring for his wife and children;
also actively reached a consensus with Yang Yi that one person would go out to make money, and the other would take on housework and take care of the children at home.
Looking back on the journey, whether it is career, love, or marriage, raising children, they are arranged in an orderly and crisp manner by Yang Yi.
And she is in her heart's persistence when she takes every step, and she is completely prepared to take responsibility.
She said: "The path I chose must go on no matter what. Marriage is a stage, and it cannot be described as whether you like or not. The focus is on how to manage it. I enjoy my current life very much."
1 The son is not a fish, how can you know the joy of fish?
In the eyes of the public, Luo Zhongqian may not be a perfect husband, but for Yang Yi, it just fits.
In the complicated world, live a life just
Yang Yi has been walking all the way, and life is very similar in and out of the play. In the play, she has been singing all the way from a little maid to a young lady, to a concubine and a wealthy wife; outside the play, she has been rising from an unpopular supporting role, supporting role, and finally to the audience.
perfectly interprets a sentence: domineering life does not need explanation.
Whether it is love or career, she lives a life without twists and has her own persistence.
Yang Yi's refreshing beauty is because she is confident enough. No matter how her identity changes, the only thing that remains unchanged is: the kernel is stable.
means: the integration of stable values (reasonable response to external evaluation) + beliefs (self-firm inner attitude) + behavioral codes (to realize life pursuits in a self-recognition way).
This kind of beauty of growth is enviable.
While admiring her, you also need to remember: everyone can be as confident and cool as her.
You can try to know yourself, try to experience, explore, and think as much as possible, what exactly do you want?
When you find it, please do it boldly and with all your might on the road of pursuit.
If the voices from the outside world come to you, please learn to recognize yourself and believe that everything you yearn for can be realized one by one.
As psychologists say: "A person needs to gain a feeling: truly show his will and firmly believe that his will can basically be realized."
This feeling is not only "I am good", but also "I can control my life."
Only the more focused you are, the more the energy of happiness will take care of you.
Secondly, learn to face yourself truly.
This means that you must truly unfold your vitality and accept every state that appears in your body and mind at any time. You must objectively evaluate setbacks, and listen to suggestions objectively, and reflect and change yourself truthfully.
continues to make progress and develop on the basis of forming self-healing and evolutionary capabilities.
Dear, although we are not perfect, having "inner stability" allows us to "continuously improve" with our lives.
I hope you can build yourself into a solid ship, cross the stormy waves, and head towards a happier future.
Planning | Liuji
Editing | Yutian
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-