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It is said that no matter how good the couple is, they always have the idea of divorce hundreds of times in their lifetime.
That's because everyone is human, and facing the same face every day is easy to get aesthetically tired.
If the couple still work together, it will be even more bored.
No matter how good the relationship is, it cannot escape the law of "touching each other and getting tired of each other".
singing group Jiuyue Miracle confirms this.
both of them have been partners for 13 years and can’t live a peaceful life. They have been married for less than two years and can only end up with divorce.
And after the divorce, it was a bit embarrassing for the two to appear as partners. They could only go their separate ways and go their separate ways.
The development of the two people afterwards was not satisfactory. Wang Xiaohai gradually found no such person. Although Wang Xiaowei found a new partner, his popularity was no longer as before.
This is why the two people who are hindered from their development plan to remarry and reunite.
I don’t know if it was because I realized the other party’s goodness after the divorce, or because I realized that I left the other party and my career was stagnant after the divorce?
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The fate of Wang Xiaohai and Wang Xiaowei dates back to 2003.
Before this, Wang Xiaohai was just a boy who likes to sing and did not undergo professional music training.
All his concepts about music come from his mother.
Wang Xiaohai's father is a professor at Northeast University , and his mother is a music teacher.
He has learned to sing with his mother since he was a child.
When he was in the third grade of elementary school, he appeared on the stage of Shenyang People's Theater. The song "Manchu Children Love to Sing" not only made him receive a lot of applause, but after being promoted by newspapers, his reputation spread throughout Shenyang.
This "famous young" experience made him like it very much, and his love for music became stronger.
However, despite his great interest and very good talent, Wang Xiaohai's parents opposed him to learning music.
After all, it is because his father thinks singing is not a serious profession, and he is afraid that his son will not be able to support himself after learning music.
With the intervention of his parents, Wang Xiaohai could only temporarily bury his musical dream in his heart and study hard.
The college entrance examination ended. He applied for the most popular major at the time - accounting major. After graduation, he worked in an accounting work in a company.
But work is extremely boring, and Wang Xiaohai's inner music dream is ignited again.
When he was not working, he went to the bar to sing.
One day in 2003, Wang Xiaohai went to a bar with his friends as usual, and was attracted by a girl who played with double row key .
This person is Wang Xiaowei.
Wang Xiaowei's growth experience is exactly the opposite of Wang Xiaohai.
She has also liked music since she was a child, but she is a little lucky than Wang Xiaohai, and her parents support her very much.
Even when she was 7 years old, her father bought her a piano specifically.
A few years later, Wang Xiaowei came into contact with the double row key and wanted to learn the double row key.
The father immediately sent her to study without saying a word.
In such an environment, Wang Xiaowei's musical talent has been greatly developed and held a concert in Hong Kong at the age of 14.
At the end of the college entrance examination, she naturally chose Shenyang Conservatory of Music .
When you are fine, you go to various bars to sing on the spot, so you have the chance to meet Wang Xiaohai.
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Wang Xiaohai immediately attracted her when she saw Wang Xiaowei playing with the double row keys. After the performance, Wang Xiaohai immediately rushed to the backstage and asked Wang Xiaowei for contact information.
After chatting, the two realized that their names were only one word apart.
I have to say that the two are really destined to be together.
Wang Xiaowei also joked: "Our name is so similar, we can't be brothers and sisters who have been separated for many years."
Wang Xiaohai also joked: "Or we can just recognize a brother and sister.”
Wang Xiaowei didn’t say anything, but he didn’t refute it.
is like that, The two began to be called brother and sister in private.
Wang Xiaohai ran to Wang Xiaowei to perform every day. Seeing her shining on the stage, Wang Xiaohai couldn't help but be moved.
But he did not confess directly, but silently buried his feelings in his heart. After all, at that time, he was just an ordinary accountant, and he was afraid that he could not give the life Wang Xiaowei wanted.
The friends around him saw his thoughts and instigated him to go on stage to sing a song with Wang Xiaowei.
Wang Xiaohai was embarrassed and blushed and refused. It happened that Wang Xiaowei had finished performing a song. Seeing that he wanted to sing but was embarrassed to sing, he took the initiative to invite him to go on stage to cooperate with him.
Wang Xiaohai was flattered and quickly went on stage, although he was a little nervous. But they seemed to have known old friends for many years, and they had a very tacit understanding. After the song
, Wang Xiaowei joked: "Your voice is so good, I just miss a partner, so why don't we make a combination of them. ”
Although Wang Xiaowei was joking, these words ignited Wang Xiaohai’s dream of singing buried deep in his heart. He was very excited.
The next day, he resigned, found Wang Xiaowei, and said he wanted to partner with her.
Wang Xiaowei didn't expect him to be so straightforward and nodded in agreement.
Because they met in September, and because they both thought the fate of the two was very strange, they named the group "Jiuyue Miracle".
Since then, the two have performed everywhere in the form of male and female partners. Wang Xiaowei is responsible for the double-row keys he is good at, and Wang Xiaohai is responsible for the tenor part.
The combination of male and female partners plus instruments was very novel at the time, so the two quickly became popular in Shenyang. Continuous performances all day long.
However, they are becoming increasingly unsatisfied with the status quo, and both are eager to stand on a bigger stage.
So they gave up the popularity they had accumulated in Shenyang and turned to Beijing.
In Beijing, not so many people know them, and the two have to start from scratch again, and Beijing is fiercely competitive. It is not that easy for the two to make a comeback.
But with their desire for ideals, they encouraged each other and cheered up, and supported them.
In Beijing, in order to save money, they were very saving in eating. Wang Xiaohai even ate fish-flavored shredded pork for several months.
Because his mother kept telling him that he would eat meat every meal, but their salary was meager, so how could he bear to eat meat every meal?
Later, Wang Xiaohai discovered that the fish-flavored shredded pork in the lunch box cost less than ten yuan. Although the meat was pitifully small, it was considered to be there.
ate for several months. So much so that he became famous later, and he never ate this dish again.
Their efforts are worth it. Not long after, the director of " Avenue of Stars " found them and invited them to participate in the program.
novel performance form, the combination of handsome men and beautiful women gave them a lot of support from the audience.
Jiuyue Miracle also knew that the opportunity was hard-won. He worked hard during the competition and finally won the 2008 " Avenue of Stars" Champion. After
, they were even more powerful. They appeared on the stage of CCTV Spring Festival Gala for five consecutive years and performed in the Golden Hall of Vienna.
Their masterpieces "Chinese Beauty", "Chinese Style", "Great Mountains and Rivers", etc. are all widely sung.
And as the popularity of the two became higher and higher, many viewers were curious about their relationship.
Because the names of the two are only one word apart, many viewers mistakenly think that they are brothers and sisters.
But some viewers also felt that the two of them had such a tacit understanding on stage and they must be lovers. But at that time, both of them denied this statement and they had not yet recognized their hearts.
Even when the host asked whether the two would have feelings for each other every day when they were together, Wang Xiaowei smiled and said, "I can have feelings for anyone, but it is impossible to have sex with Xiaohai, because we are too familiar with people, and people who are too familiar cannot be lovers."
As a result, they got married after not long after saying this.
Once, they took a bus to perform elsewhere, but because the itinerary was too tight, the driver was tired.
had a very serious car accident halfway, and the two were knocked out of the car, far apart.
After being rescued, Wang Xiaowei did not look at his injuries at the first time, but ran to Wang Xiaohai regardless of the situation and asked him Is there anything wrong?
At this time, she realized that before she knew it, she had already regarded the other party as her lover.
Both of them were not seriously injured, and they were naturally together after being discharged from the hospital.
But maybe because they were afraid that a relationship would affect their career, the two did not disclose this relationship.
Until 2016, the two posted marriage certificate on social platforms. Only then did the audience realize that the two had already obtained their marriage certificates quietly.
Fortunately, the official announcement did not arouse the disgust of fans. On the contrary, they also received a lot of blessings.
is not common for both partners and couples, so the audience hopes that the two can go on for a long time. When
first got married, the two were really very sweet. Every time they performed, the audience not only appreciated their stage, but also appreciated them. It looks like lovers support each other.
But the good times didn't last long. In less than two years, the marriage came to an end and ended with divorce.
As soon as the news came out, it was in an uproar, and many viewers could not even accept this result.
But if you think about it carefully, it was very reasonable. Just being a partner, the two just had to face the differences in their careers. Marriage becomes a family. If there are differences in careers, the two will have to argue. If there are disagreements in life, the two will still have to quarrel. Over time, the relationship will naturally collapse.
And it is true. Although the two are secretive about the reasons for divorce, according to insiders, the fuse of the two's divorce is that the differences in career and life cannot be reconciled.
first of all, in career, the two's concepts gradually became different.
Wang Xiaohai loves singing, I think that as singers, the most important thing is to deeply cultivate singing skills. The rest are icing on the cake, and it is optional.
But as a little genius of musical instruments, Wang Xiaowei wants to try different instruments every time, and always wants to bring new things to the audience.
To be honest, there is no right or wrong in these two ideas, but as partners, the two have differences in their musical concepts, which is of course not a good thing.
Because everyone is holding their breath, it is right to prove their ideas. If it lasts for a long time, it would be strange if we can be at peace!
In addition to career differences, the two also have considerable conflicts in life.
Both of them were in their thirties when they got married. Wang Xiaohai felt that they were not young and should have a child.
But Wang Xiaowei felt that the achievements of the two were hard-won. We should hurry up in the past few years and devote all our thoughts to our careers.
None of the two could convince each other, and they quarreled constantly, and they could only end up with divorce.
After the divorce, the two were embarrassed to perform on the same stage as a partner, so they parted ways.
What is the current situation of the two people after they parted?
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After the Jiuyue Miracle was separated, Wang Xiaowei found a new partner - Xu Ziwei .
Speaking of Xu Ziwei, he actually has a deep connection with Jiuyue Miracle. He participated in the creation of songs such as "Chinese Style" and "Chinese Beauty" that made Jiuyue Miracle famous.
And he created these songs for himself to prepare for the Spring Festival Gala, but several times in a row, after he finished singing, the director team would always say, "This song is more suitable for Jiuyue Miracle to sing."
That's it, Xu Ziwei missed several opportunities to appear on the Spring Festival Gala, but Jiuyue Miracle became famous all over the country with these songs.
After Wang Xiaowei and Wang Xiaohai divorced, Xu Ziwei and Wang Xiaowei formed the new "Jiuyue Miracle".
Although both of them have different singing skills, the audience does not buy it at all.
's popularity plummeted and there were much fewer performances.
In response to this situation, Wang Xiaowei did not focus on singing, but instead turned to promoting the instrument of double-row keys.
No matter what occasion she performs, she will introduce double row keys, hoping that more people can like this instrument.
She opened a music classroom, which specializes in teaching children to play double-row keys.
It is worth mentioning that this music classroom is also named after "Jiuyue Miracle".
Look at Wang Xiaohai again, the situation is very different. After flying solo in
, Wang Xiaohai also partnered with Xu Haitao, a contestant who was also a "Battle of Stars", but like Wang Xiaowei, the effect of changing people was not ideal.
In desperation, Wang Xiaohai had to perform alone.
, but he lost the popularity of his partner with Wang Xiaowei. He was already more inclined to family and gradually let go of his obsession with his career, doing what he has to do, and not forcing him without a job. The direct result of this "Buddhist" attitude is that there is no such person in the music industry.
If you pay a little attention, you will find that Wang Xiaohai has not appeared in the public eye for a long time.
Some time ago, someone suddenly said that Jiuyue Miracle was going to remarry. Although I don’t know whether it is true or not, this incident directly became a hot search in a very short period of time.
shows the audience's expectations for Wang Xiaowei and Wang Xiaohai's reunion.
But before the audience could be happy, the brokerage companies of both parties came forward to deny this statement.
Some people also said that the two remarried this time not because they had not yet fallen in love, but because after they separated, their career development was much worse than before, and they had to remarry for the sake of their interests.
As for the truth, it will take time to prove it.
is just hope that before remarrying, the two can consider their career and family plans. No matter what the reason for remarrying, marriage is not a joke.
I hope that a few years will allow the two to think clearly that there can be moments of disagreement in their careers, but in the end, one must come forward and make an idea.
You can make noise or make trouble in life, but you must think clearly about how to balance work and life. Never mix the two together, as this will only make the conflicts accumulate more and more.
After all, look at the discussion about their remarriage news, you will know how much the audience is looking forward to it.
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