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"The bad news came suddenly, and I am still stunned now. I have been in love with Xie Yuan for more than 30 years. He said that jokes are a special master, because of their humor and high-quality aftertaste. lacks a person who is happy when they are together, and there is more laughter in heaven. "
This is after Xie Yuan's death, Ge You misses what his former friend said.
Back then, the two of them and Liang Tian, "The Three Musketeers of Comedy" is a youthful memory of a generation, bringing endless laughter to the audience.
In August 2020, Xie Yuan, who was only 61 years old, died of a heart attack. has worked as a university teacher, won the Best Actor, and married Qiu Yue, a student 17 years younger than him. He has no children in his life. has had glorious moments and many regrets.
Before his death, he left a will and insisted on not holding a funeral and not holding any ceremony. Why did he make such a choice?
01. The "performance genius" that gave the teacher a headache
In June 1959, Xie Yuan was born in an intellectual family in Beijing. His father unfortunately passed away. His mother later remarried with him when he was young. The incomplete family did not make him feel inferior. Instead, is more lively and active than other children and has a naughty personality.
When Xie Yuan was in middle school, he was a famous figure in the school. He was not good at studying and excellent in grades, but was famous for his good at imitating teachers in various subjects.
Foreign language teacher spoke authentic Cantonese English, and said on the podium, Xie Yuan secretly imitated it below, performing vividly, , especially the body movements, which always make the classmates laugh.
teachers did not let go of all subjects, and in the end the teachers were so scared that they had to take a detour when they saw him.
Although Xie Yuan has a talent for comedy performance, he has a special liking for history. ’s dream at that time was to be admitted to the archaeology department of Peking University .
Unexpectedly, the final college entrance examination score was more than 200 points different from the target score line, and his archaeological dream was completely shattered.
A year later, the undergraduate department of Beijing Film Academy began to recruit students. Xie Yuan, who learned the news, immediately applied for the acting department and decided to become an actor in the future. So he mustered up the courage again and happily took the exam.
The first test performance topic was "carrying cement" and the re-examination was "stealing watermelons". He passed all the smoothly. Finally, the examiner asked the students present if they had any other skills.
Xie Yuan stood up at this time and said: "I can't dare to perform here anymore," the examiner of suddenly felt hung up.
Then he imitated the speech of the old mayor of Beijing Wu De, with a slow tone, his speech was sloppy, and in an instant, the people in the classroom burst into laughter.
admitted 32 of 6,000 candidates. Xie Yuan was lucky enough to be one of them. After entering , he realized that his grades were the last. If he received less than , he would fail!
Xie Yuan is still the most naughty one in the university.
He had a crush on five girls including Zhang Shu, Shen Danping, , and others, but they didn't like him. was exposed by the teacher on the spot in a later show.
Zhang Tielin Going to the toilet, he and his friends hid in the dark to scare people, causing them to fall, Zhang Fengyi practiced his left leg injury, and he told the teacher that he saw the actress in the crew fall, these are common things.
The object of this is Zhang Fengyi
Teacher also gave him eight words directly on the graduation evaluation: "The image is average, no acting skills", but fortunately, the values are correct and the people are honest.
0 Years passed by, and four years of college were the best days in life for Xie Yuan. He often complained about these old classmates on the show to make the audience happy, but he still secretly wiped his tears every time he reunited.
Speaking of which, Xie Yuan is not the best grades in the class, nor is he the most obedient, but he has obtained the only place to teach at school. because there is something more important than these in him, that is, "loyalty" and "loyalty" to his acting career and the college.
He has trained many excellent actors such as Zuo Xiaoqing , more than men , Xing Jiadong , etc. In the eyes of these students, Teacher Xie is not a good person, he is the most difficult one to "treat".
02. Xie Yuan: Art should go to a higher level, life should look downward
"Don't look at them as male gods and goddesses in your eyes, they are nothing in me. I have seen many sloppy things with slippers and plain faces," Xie Yuan said on the show.
He was the most naughty one when he was in school. Now he is the time to rectify the next generation, and he is particularly good at this.
Every class teacher has something that cannot stand the most for students. What Teacher Xie cannot stand the most is being late.
Class at 8 o'clock in the morning, he stood at the door on time and "locked the door". The students holding soy milk and fried dough sticks in their hands rushed in. From to 8:01, there were a bunch of students at the door, and he directly rushed out and refused to let them in.
treats students, and he has always been very strict. He finds that he is playing with his mobile phone in class, so he shows no mercy and throws it out on the spot to serve as a warning to others.
However, he is relatively relaxed in terms of dating. For example, he does not interfere with the relationship between Huang Lei and and Sun Li .
Xie Yuan does not allow his students to wear strange clothes. No matter how rich he is, he cannot drive into the school gate, because he believes that "art goes to a high place, life looks downward" , and keeping a low profile in life is a respect for art.
Xie Yuan’s educational philosophy is very advanced. He insists that performance is never released, but restraint. A good performance of does not necessarily have to be hysterical, express all emotions at a glance, and cannot perform for the sake of performance, but must go deep into the character’s heart.
His usual merciless style made the students angry, but when they entered society, they realized that these are all famous sayings.
Once walking on Wangfujing Street , he heard someone shouting from a distance: "Teacher Xie Yuan!
" When a former student saw him again, he was grateful and rushed up excitedly and hugged him tightly.
teaching career is brilliant and perfect, but his marriage life is not very satisfactory.
03. After experiencing a failed marriage
Xie Yuan stayed at school to teach, the high school teacher found him because his daughter Xiaolin (pseudonym) also had to take the Beijing Film Academy and wanted to ask him to tutor his homework.
The young boy and girl got together during the tutoring lessons. Unfortunately, Xiaolin did not get into Beijing Film Academy.
Although she is young and beautiful, she looks awkward in front of the camera. Later, she was admitted to Medical University and was assigned to the hospital as a midwife nurse after graduation.
Xiaolin went to college for four years, and he waited for four years. Finally, in 1984, the two became husband and wife and officially entered the palace of marriage.
got married just after graduation, both good and bad. At this time, Xie Yuan was poor and could not give his lover a family. In order to make more money, he kept going to the crew to make money. A movie " Children's King " which collaborated with
and Chen Kaige , made him famous, and then he came to the door for a lot of film appointments.
Two years after getting married, Xiaolin became pregnant. Xie Yuan was filming in another place and was unaware of it.
witnessed too much life and death in the hospital delivery room. She was deeply afraid of giving birth and was not ready to be a mother. so she made a decision and aborted the child.
When he rushed back, he realized that it was too late. Xie Yuan did not blame her for aborting the child, but was angry that she had to make a decision without hiding it.
Because of this, there was a gap between the couple, and then more and more conflicts emerged. In addition, they had a long separation from the two places and could not communicate effectively. In the end, they embarked on the road of divorce.
, who has been single again, has not escaped from his sadness, but he is targeted by Qiu Yue, a female student who is 17 years younger than him.
04. Love that transcends age
Qiu Yue is not a student in the performance class. He accidentally heard a classmate telling that Teacher Xie’s class was interesting, so he went to listen. ended up being unable to extricate himself as soon as he heard it. He was attracted by the teacher’s strong personality charm. She never missed every time she went to class.
Qiu Yue always discusses problems with the teacher after class, . For Xie Yuan, she is a student with a strong desire for knowledge.
It was not until later that they officially met by chance. Xie Yuan, the crew of "Love You No Negotiation" , was both surprised and happy to see Qiu Yue. because she was as passionate as the sun, and she shined everywhere she went.
Maybe she met an acquaintance. Qiu Yue always chatted with him in his spare time and asked questions about astronomical knowledge. "Do you know how far the moon is from the earth?" she asked casually.
Unexpectedly, Xie Yuan happened to be interested in astronomy and geography, so he answered her: "Far from 2.15 cm."
Qiu Yue looked in awe, He didn't expect that Teacher Xie, who is usually not at ease, was very noble in his heart, and he admired him a little more.
After the continuous contact, she felt the teacher's personal charm and felt love for him.
did not hide. During a consultation, Qiu Yue asked directly: ", will you like a girl 17 years younger than you?" 's purpose is obvious.
Xie Yuan replied: "I will wait until she grows up before talking about it."
After several years, these two people really came together.
At that time, Xie Yuan said: "I've been divorced and I'm still 17 years older than you. Do you really don't mind?" Qiu Yue answered firmly: "I love your people and talents, nothing else matters."
1998, the two were preparing to get married and needed to see their parents before marriage. Because of the huge age difference, Qiu Yue was afraid of his parents' opposition. Unexpectedly, it went very smoothly. Xie Yuan made the two elders laugh and the marriage was settled.
After marriage, the couple's careers have made rapid progress. Xie Yuan has become the "four-profile" actor and has won mercy in the awards. Qiu Yue has more and more film appointments. They are famous and loving old couples in the circle.
, but for more than 20 years, the couple never gave birth to a man or a woman. didn't want it at first due to career reasons, but when they calmed down and prepared for pregnancy, they didn't get pregnant.
Xie Yuan said that he would let the flow and he did not expect others to live in his old age. However, the parents of both parties would regret it. He believed that: "Living is living, and dying is dead. There is no need to worry too much."
is such a free and easy person who died of a sudden heart disease on August 18, 2020 and died of a sudden heart disease.
04. Qiu Yue: I regret not giving birth to him
The news came too hastily, without any warning, my friend Cai Ming later still felt unbelievable when he recalled it, and said: "I thought it was a rumor at first, and Xie Yuan always had a flying joke, which was very funny," 's eyes were filled with tears when he spoke.
Liu Yifei , Ge You, Liang Tian, Liu Xiaoqing and others were all mourning the artist at the first time.
Xie Yuan once said that he was timid and did not dare to attend the memorial service, so he also reminded his relatives during his lifetime: "Don't set up a mourning hall at home, nor do you hold any memorial service.""
Come quietly, he just wants to walk quietly, wave his sleeves, and not take away a cloud.
According to the will, there was no memorial service. Qiu Yue held a small farewell ceremony at home. former friends Zhang Fengyi and others came to attend, each crying and crying, his eyes were red and swollen. Xie Yuan's jokes and imitating the teacher's appearance is vivid in everyone's mind. He will always be the treasure in everyone's heart.
For Qiu Yue, the most regrettable thing about is that he was unable to give birth to a child for his lover before his death. Zi, now he passed away, she lost her thoughts.
Xie Yuan has passed away for two years. Every time she misses her deceased husband, she cried. Because she was immersed in sadness for a long time, her mental state was very poor. Fortunately, she had the persuasion of her friends around her, and she gradually improved.
On August 18 every year, Qiu Yue would repeatedly watch the film and television works of her deceased husband as a memory.
After all, she is only in her forties and the future is still long. I hope she can see it openly. Only a good life is the greatest comfort to the deceased.
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