In the early morning of March 26, 2017, Hong Kong Star Pier.
An old man in his seventies, independent of the cold wind, took a look in a certain direction and jumped into the sea. Seeing this, fishermen near
quickly called the police to the Hong Kong police: Someone jumped into the sea to commit suicide!
The old man who jumped into the sea to commit suicide is Yang Qinji, and he is a retired senior teacher.
Before jumping into the sea, Yang Qinji left a suicide note of ten thousand words, pointing directly to the superstar of the king Andy Lau
In this suicide note, every stroke is full of the old man's anger and resentment. One of the sentences: Liu Dehua, your heart is black.
even revealed the old man's anger.
Why is an old man so sad and angry at the superstar Andy Lau?
All of this starts with a dream of Yang Qinji's daughter Yang Lijuan ...
01
1994, 16-year-old Yang Lijuan had a dream:
There is a mural in the dream with a handsome man.
The left and right sides of the drawing read: You are particularly close to me, and you meet me in true love.
woke up from her dream, but Yang Lijuan recorded this man. She felt that one day, this man would enter her life and appear in her life.
However, what Yang Lijuan did not expect was that for a long time, this man would appear in her dream every night, bringing her sweetness and peace of mind.
Sometimes, she is playing in the sea of flowers, and men will look at her quietly.
Sometimes, a man holds her hand and takes her for a walk by the beach, feeling the temperature coming from her palms, making her feel both sweet and warm.
More times, she was in a villa with a photo of her and a man in it. The back of the photo reads: You are my woman.
16 years old, it is the age when I first fell in love.
The man in the dream satisfies all Yang Lijuan's fantasy about love, making her unable to extricate herself.
She firmly believes that this man is her true destiny and must find him if you have the chance.
However, Yang Lijuan is sensitive and introverted and does not like to interact with others. She dropped out of school at the age of 14 and stopped leaving the house.
So, even if she wants to find the so-called true emperor, she can do nothing.
During that time, Yang Lijuan's only chance to understand the "love man" was in her dream, but every time she wanted to ask about the "love man" something, she woke up.
As the saying goes, never forget, there will be a resounding response.
Once, the classmate came to her house to play and showed her a poster.
It was not until this time that she realized her identity as the "love man" and was the superstar Andy Lau.
The moment she learned the identity of the "love man", Yang Lijuan was so happy that she felt that she had found a destination for her life.
That night, when Yang Lijuan met the "love man" in her dream, she asked the other party: "Do you have it in your heart?"
But "Andy Lau" held her hand tightly, looked at her eyes, and replied affectionately: "I have you in my heart."
At that moment, Yang Lijuan was wrapped in a huge sense of happiness.
- Yang Lijuan told her father Yang Qinji about the things in her dream.
Who knew that Yang Qinji also told Yang Lijuan that she had the same dream.
In fact, Yang Qinji didn't think too much at the time, just wanted to make his daughter happy.
However, Yang Lijuan was affirmed by her father and secretly made a decision: she would never marry forever if she could not see Andy Lau.
02
Many people are puzzled, why does Yang Qinji spoil Yang Lijuan so much?
The year Yang Lijuan was born, Yang Qinji was 40 years old and was a woman in old age.
So, Yang Qinji loves his daughter in every way, even to the point of spoiling her.
At that time, Yang Qinji worked in Agan Town, Lanzhou, and his wife and daughter lived in Lanzhou city.
In order to see her daughter, Yang Qinji would take two hours to return to Lanzhou city after get off work every day.
As her daughter grew up, Yang Qinji's spoiled her daughter became more and more serious, reaching the point of responding to all requests.
Once, Yang Lijuan wanted to drink Red Bull , but Yang Qinji agreed without thinking.
When he went to the convenience store, Yang Qinji realized that he had not brought any money.
In order to allow Yang Lijuan to drink Red Bull, Yang Qinji took advantage of the fact that no one was paying attention to it and took advantage of the situation.
Yang Lijuan wants to drop out of school, so Yang Qinji immediately agreed and went to her daughter's school to tell the teacher about dropping out of school.
When the teacher asked about the reason for dropping out of school, Yang Qinji said directly: "The child doesn't want to study, what can I do?"
The teacher looked surprised.
In Yang Qinji's eyes, nothing is more important than his daughter's requirements. Even if the sky falls, it must be fulfilled.
So, Yang Qinji only agreed when his daughter said that she was in love with Andy Lau.
Even if he knows that Andy Lau and they are not from the same world, he will do his best to help his daughter realize her dream.
However, what Yang Qinji didn't know at this time was that this saying would make his daughter happy would take his life in the future.
03
As the days pass by, Yang Lijuan is becoming more and more obsessed with Andy Lau.
As long as it is about Andy Lau's surroundings, Yang Lijuan does not hesitate to pay for it.
Gradually, Yang Lijuan was no longer satisfied and saw Andy Lau on the poster and on the TV.
Instead, I hope to meet the real Andy Lau. She even believes that as long as she meets Andy Lau and tells him everything about the dream, he will think of me and fall in love with me.
What's even more terrifying is that as Yang Lijuan talks about her dreams over and over again, Yang Qinji and his wife also believe that Andy Lau is the destined of his daughter.
Let Yang Lijuan meet Andy Lau, and became the only target of this family.
In 1997, in order to support Yang Lijuan in pursuit of love, Yang Qinji took out all his savings, a total of 99,000 yuan, and asked Yang Lijuan to go to Hong Kong to find Andy Lau.
After coming to Hong Kong, Yang Lijuan walked alleys and searched for Andy Lau.
However, until all the money was spent, Yang Lijuan did not see Andy Lau herself.
However, Yang Lijuan's journey of pursuing love has never stopped, and her father Yang Qinji still strongly supports it.
In 2004, Andy Lau came to Beijing to hold a concert.
In order to meet Andy Lau, Yang Lijuan emptied her family again and came to Beijing.
However, for Andy Lau, who has tens of millions of fans, Yang Lijuan's existence is just a drop in the ocean, as small as gravel.
So, even if Yang Lijuan spent a lot of money and bought the front seat of the concert, she would not be able to get the opportunity to meet Andy Lau alone.
However, Yang Lijuan has long been in a vain.
In order to meet Andy Lau, he proposed to his family that he would go to Hong Kong to find Andy Lau.
At this time, it was already 2005. Yang Qinji's retirement salary had increased to more than 2,000. He could already live a good life in a small town like Lanzhou.
However, over the years, in order to support his daughter, Yang Qinji's monthly salary has been spent not a single cent.
The savings in the family were also emptied.
So, this time, Yang Qinji was a little hesitant.
Yang Lijuan said angrily when she saw this: "You don't support me to find him. Then I will marry him from now on. If I have money, I will definitely not support you."
Yang Qinji saw that his daughter said this, and immediately made a decision: sell the house and support her daughter at all costs.
In October, the Yang family father and daughter came to Hong Kong.
This time, they found Andy Lau's villa and squatted at the door every day.
However, until their money was spent, Andy Lau did not show up.
Yang Lijuan had to entrust the letter to Andy Lau's neighbor and returned to Lanzhou.
The family of three also moved into a rental house worth 400 yuan.
Yang Lijuan, who returned from Hong Kong, lived a life waiting for Andy Lau to reply.
At this time, the Yang family’s sales of houses and chasing stars also attracted the attention of the media.
During that time, the reporter almost flattened the threshold of the Yang family and interviewed Yang Lijuan.
One of the reporters asked Yang Lijuan: "Who is more important than Mom and Dad or Andy Lau?"
Yang Lijuan said: "To me, Andy Lau is more important."
such an answer shocked all visitors and also caused an uproar in social public opinion.
Yang Lijuan didn't have time to care about public opinion. Seeing that Andy Lau had not replied, she was extremely anxious and prepared to pack her bags and go to Xingang again.
However, at this time, the Yang family had already been barely buried and had high debts, so they could no longer support Yang Lijuan's journey to chase stars.
Seeing that his beloved daughter was so anxious, Yang Qinji made a decision that shocked the world : sell the kidneys and support Yang Lijuan to continue chasing stars.
04
Yang Qinji sells his kidneys to support his beloved daughter’s star-chasing. After continuous fermentation of the media, it completely ignits public opinion.
Many people in the society condemned Yang Lijuan's behavior of forcing her father to sell her kidneys.
However, Yang Lijuan was unmoved and didn't care at all. She just said to her father lightly:
"I think you'd better borrow it, it hurts your body."
Seeing Yang Lijuan's attitude, some reporters couldn't bear it anymore, so they persuaded Yang Qinji to give up the idea of selling kidneys.
However, Yang Qinji publicly stated: "I am still alive when I remove one kidney, but my daughter can see Andy Lau; only when I see him can our family live a good life! "
It can be seen that seeing Andy Lau has become the obsession of the Yang family.
At the same time, Yang Lijuan's deeds also reached Andy Lau's ears.
However, unlike Yang Lijuan's fantasy that Andy Lau would be moved, Andy Lau said: is incorrect, abnormal, unhealthy, and unfilial.
However, Andy Lau's attitude not only did not destroy the flame in Yang Lijuan's heart, but instead became more and more crazy.
Over the years, she has made too much for Andy Lau. She was unwilling to accept this response and was unwilling to believe it.
So, Yang Lihua wrote a letter to Hong Kong officials, hoping to help her meet Andy Lau.
Of course, this letter has also fallen into the sea.
Later, Andy Lau's fans learned about Yang Lijuan's situation. Out of empathy among fans, they arranged for Yang Lijuan to attend Andy Lau's fan meeting.
For this reason, Yang Qinji and his father and daughter have used up all their savings to come to Hong Kong again.
The two have no money on them and can only sleep in a fast food restaurant that is open 24 hours a day.
Even so, in the face of the long-cherished wish that Yang Lijuan could not help but feel excited. She imagined countless times in her heart that when Andy Lau saw her, she would hug her tightly and cry with joy.
However, the greater the hope, the greater the disappointment.
On March 25, 2007, Yang Lijuan finally got into Andy Lau close.
However, this is a flowing fan photo session. Yang Lijuan was invited off the stage without staying with Andy Lau for 10 seconds.
There is no hug and cry in fantasy, nor does it change the fate of falling in love at first sight.
is just an ordinary meeting, and Andy Lau only regards her as an ordinary fan.
After Yang Lijuan stepped down, she told her parents about this.
The family of three was completely defeated.
Over the years, the Yang family has sold their houses, owed debts, and emptied their savings for this so-called decisive marriage.
can be said to be, giving it all.
But unexpectedly, I just changed a photo in the end?
Yang Qinji was filled with grief and anger. He decided to make his daughter a last bet, and even more crazy actions appeared.
05
On March 25, Yang Lijuan met Andy Lau that night.
Yang Qinji silently wrote a ten thousand-word suicide note, and finally came to the Star Pier in Hong Kong, jumped into the deep sea.
Yang Qinji's death completely pushed Yang Lijuan and Andy Lau to the forefront.
All media were wearing long guns and short cannons and went to interview Yang Lijuan, hoping to dig out some hot news.
In everyone's opinion, his father Yang Qinji is dead, and Yang Lijuan should let go of her obsession and live a normal life.
However, Yang Lijuan was still obsessed with it and said: Andy Lau has a certain responsibility for his father's death. He should come to worship his father and then fulfill his father's last wish. "
However, Andy Lau did not give up on such unreasonable accusations and convictions.
Later, Yang Lijuan and her mother returned to Lanzhou with the support of the airline.
And singer Yang Chengang After hearing about this, she also donated 20,000 yuan to deal with Yang Qinji's funeral.
Yang Lijuan still did not give up. At the donation meeting, she called Andy Lau and asked for a goodbye.
However, the shouting fell into the sea.
As time went by, the heat of the incident gradually faded, and the media never reported Yang Li again Juan.
However, Yang Lijuan believed that she was exploited and sued many media in court.
However, she lost the case in the end.
After leaving the court, Yang Lijuan disappeared from the public eye.
Until 2019, Yang Lijuan, who was over 40 years old, was interviewed by the famous host Lu Yu .
Yang Lijuan appeared in the public eye with a brand new look.
She returned to the life of an ordinary person and rented a low-rent house with her mother in Lanzhou.
And she also found a job as a supermarket shopping guide with a salary of 2,000 yuan per month, she was enthusiastic about customers, and got along well with her colleagues.
She had another face There is no trace of paranoia.
Although everything seems harmonious on the surface, her heart blocks the outside world.
Over the years, she has not watched TV, surfed the Internet, and has also accepted new information. She occasionally goes back to a choir to sing and goes to worship her father when she has free time.
Yang Lijuan also claims to have got out of the haze, but Andy Lau has become a taboo in her mouth.
In fact, Yang Lijuan may still know that their foreign loan was Andy Lau anonymously for them to pay off.
The occurrence of the Yang Lijuan incident has many factors that have contributed to it, including father spoiling, and media amplifying and intensifying. There is also a boost from social public opinion.
But no matter what the reason, the root cause is Yang Lijuan's own desire.
If it weren't for Yang Lijuan's desire, there wouldn't be that so-called dream of love for life, nor would there be the so-called search for Hong Kong, and his father Yang Qinji would not jump into the sea for this.
It is normal for a person to have desires. The key is to distinguish in time and treat it normally.
If you keep betting on everything about desires, you will definitely pay an extremely painful price.
So, don't let others pay for their own desires. In the end, it will become a devour all flames and devour your life.
Source:
"He See Later" Issue 3
Southern Weekend: "You Don't Understand My Sadness"
Text | Fengsan
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