Yesterday, it was suspected that Hua Chenyu 's new relationship was exposed, and she was photographed holding hands with a girl to go home. Today's news says that the girl in the video is Wang Yueyi and Yang Lingzi from " Joe's Children ".
Wang Yueyi has a very literary ex-boyfriend named Jing Yue. They have a small number of CP fans who are very obsessed. These fans are even more angry when they see that Wang Yueyi is suspected of being with Hua Chenyu , asked "Is Jingyue 10,000 times better than Hua Chenyu?" , after all "yes we have a child" is too heavy.
Under Zhang Bichen's Weibo, fans left a message "Stay away from garbage, and give me a good career in the future". Fans probably have no choice. Since it is a fact that the two have a child, they can only start now. Over and over again, she left messages warning Zhang Bichen to concentrate on her career and to love herself and her daughter.
But to passersby,When I think of Zhang Bichen, who had a child with Hua Chenyu but never married, and Wang Yueyi, who is talented and good-looking in the rising stage of her career, I still don't understand what these two female stars are thinking.
Do you want to be a mother without getting married?
Some words may sound blunt, but I will.
They all say that fans are the parents of stars, giving them attention, popularity and money, but some fans also take themselves too seriously, taking care of stars every day is like high school parents Holding a loudspeaker and shouting in the star's ear, "stay awake, stay away from men, and do a good job in your career."
I can understand why fans do this, it is a word for "love" after all. But this kind of refraction of love is nothing more than in other aspects, let's save it in emotional life.
Don't try to use the values of ordinary people to set the love life of celebrities, understand? What we do with them is a different kind of test paper.
I have a friend who is getting married this year. For ordinary people, getting married requires a house, especially in third-tier cities like my hometown, where housing prices are not as high as those in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou. So terrifying, so many parents believe that a house can be owned by hard work.
Buying a house is like this,Most people subconsciously think that this is what they are going to do in this life, so they stick to the basic principle of rather lack rather than abuse, and choose to cut meat to buy a relatively large house with a better orientation and a better community.
My friend is like this. Everyone persuaded her that second-hand houses are not very expensive. She paused, shook her head and said, "Hey, I guess it's only this suite in my life, so let's buy a new house."
The gap between new houses and second-hand houses is a stark difference in money.
The two families pay a down payment, and the rest of the mortgage is repaid by the couple's monthly salary. The cost of a house accounts for almost 90% of the entire marriage cost. At this time, many people will subconsciously make sorting and switching. The first house is a necessity, and the ring hardware and other items can be placed in the back, and it does not matter if it is not up to expectations.
My friend first decided to come to Beijing to see the diamond ring, then it became a custom diamond ring, and then I thought that my home jewelry store might be able to see what I liked.
As for hardware jewelry, my friend said that these things are not very important, as long as you have them, you don't need to buy special ones.
Young girls may not be able to accept this kind of psychological change, and feel that marriage is a lifetime thing, and they must be perfect in every aspect. But if you really take this step, when the perfection of every detail requires money to make a choice, you will be willing to take a step back.
Because there is also a thought in it, you will suddenly realize that you are going to live with this person for decades,In these long decades, there are countless places to spend energy and money, and what is left at this stage is likely to be just needed in the future.
I learned this theory from my friends. There is a divide called " pragmatic " between unmarried and unmarried people_ span10span .
Two ordinary people decide to get married, which is equivalent to two private enterprises signing a lifetime (not necessarily) contract.
During the performance of the contract, both parties actually provide their own value, including economics, their own capabilities, future potential, emotions, resources...even appearance.
Say something that will destroy a young girl's fairy tale: the high probability of marriage is not a huge crystallization of love, it is two people who adapt in various dimensions, and then carry out an exchange and appreciation of their own value.
But the stars, especially our female stars, don't need to think about that.
Last week Liu Shishi Wu Qilong was revealed to be divorced.Divorce is nonsense.
This marriage is not widely recognized by the public. The two have been married for seven years, and Douban 8 will still post their wedding photos from time to time.
It is said that Liu Wu took two sets of wedding photos in those days, and one group was taken by Wu Qilong. The style of the whole wedding dress is very studio style, you must know that the wedding photos in the second and third tier cities are not taken like this at this stage.
Later, we saw this set of very textured wedding photos, which is said to be taken by Liu Shishi looking for photographer Liu Zongyuan, who has a good personal relationship.
(Liu Zongyuan, a well-known photographer in the industry, often photographed by top fashion magazines)
Think...why? In the end, when it comes to love, it is all about the measurement and calculation of details, especially in the stage of marriage and marriage, how much is your family, how much is my family, how much thought you have spent, how much thought I have spent...
But Liu Shishi's actions show that she is OK, if you find it is not suitable, then replace it with me. Because the personal foundation is strong enough, and taking wedding photos happens to be a very small corner of her cognition.
I sometimes see the marriage of Liu Shishi and Wu Qilong on the Internet,The subconscious thought it was impossible. Obviously, most of the feelings like them being scolded by the outside world for one party to overtake the other party are true love. Because two people who are so inappropriate are together and get married, it is not because of what true love is.
The female stars in this era are no longer short of money, let alone social fame. They don't need to consider the "value parity" of ordinary people when choosing a mate and marrying. What they care more about may be - I am happy unhappy.
Because there were only so many ways to monetize female stars in those days, and there was no social status, some people would choose to marry a wealthy businessman.
But you see now, the tone of the entertainment industry has completely changed, we rarely see female stars squeeze their heads in order to marry a wealthy family, the self-worth and commercial value of female stars can be obtained by themselves, So in the matter of choosing a mate, the part they need to endure is very small, and they don't need to prove themselves through the other half.
I'm thinking, maybe this is the reason why celebrities in your circle get married, divorced and married again. The beginning of a marriage is not a burden for them, and the end of a marriage will not be bruised.
Looking back at Zhang Bichen, if Zhang Bichen is replaced by an ordinary person in real life, then the pressure on her shoulders is really fatal. But she is a female star, with all the resources, popularity, economic ability... she can afford the life she chooses.
Some people say that Zhang Bichen is "self-motivated". He and Hua Chenyu are not married and have a child. Now Hua Chenyu has a new relationship.
But even if Zhang Bichen is moved by herself, she is also moved by her endorsements and shows.
There is also a female star who officially announced her love is Selina , we all know what kind of story she has on her shoulders - her body was burned extensively, and her life was caused by illness She put it on hold for several years, her appearance and body shape have changed, and she divorced her ex-husband not long after recovery...
The cruel thing about the world is that the same story can be different for different people Effect.
Ordinary people may directly cut off the idea of meeting true love and starting over, because reality makes ordinary people pragmatic; but female stars may have more opportunities for trial and error and more opportunities to dream.
Selina tweeted: "Forty-one flowers for women, lucky love is sprouting... My spring is here too!"
This sentence is beautiful, but it is also quite sad.
Sadly, not everyone in the world has the confidence to expect a "spring".
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