Singer Daolang: My ex-wife is determined to get a divorce, and I am married to a stray singer. Xinjiang is my blessed land.

In 2004, a song called " 2002's first snow " turned out to be one of the hottest songs of that year.

song creator and singer Daolang also went viral.

In the following years, he used his works to speak and gained a lot of fans. But when his career was in full swing, Dao Lang chose to fade out of the public eye.

He is like a mysterious warrior who has made a name for himself and walked away in style.

So, what kind of life does this vicissitudes of life singer have?

All of this, we still have to start from the beginning.


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Daolang's real name Luo Lin was born in 1971. In addition to his parents, he has an older brother.

Back then, Daolang's mother was a dancer, and his father was engaged in lighting stage work. Both of them were members of the Sichuan Zizhong County Cultural Works Troupe.

When Daolang was young, his parents were busy with work, and his grandmother often took care of him, but when Daolang was 6 or 7 years old, he often went to the countryside with his parents to perform.

Over time, the little Dao Lang has also become his father's helper, playing like a professional, and his understanding of music began at that time.

It can be said that Dao Lang grew up in a family with a strong literary atmosphere.

But at first, his dream was not to make music. As a child, Daolang, like most children, had many ideas in his mind.

When "Shaolin Temple" was in theaters, he still had the idea of ​​learning martial arts in the past.However, after a day of walking with classmates indistinctly from north to south and feeling hungry, the plan failed.

Later, Dao Lang had a good wish to become a scientist.

This time Daolang is not a whimsical, because his academic performance has been very good, until he went to high school, Daolang still served as the monitor of the class.

But as he grew up day by day, he gradually learned that what he really likes is music.

It happened to be a cousin of Daolang who was doing music creation at the County Cultural Center. In his eyes, Daolang was regarded as a talented musical talent.

It was also under his persuasion that Daolang's father began to support his younger son to learn music. At that time, the family also spent 300 yuan to buy him the electronic organ .

Since then, he has truly embarked on the road of learning music.

However, just when Dao Lang was obsessed with it, a bad news broke Luo's life. When he was 15 years old, his brother died unexpectedly.

Originally, this was just an accident, but the death of his brother made Daolang repent for more than 20 years, and he couldn't even let it go all his life.


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In the heart of the young Daolang, his brother is a character who is both good and evil.

He is 5 years older than Daolang. He has a straightforward and righteous personality. He is a big brother. On weekdays, his parents are busy at work. Daolang’s behavioral norms are often the responsibility of his brother.

After a long time, the two brothers always have disputes, and there are also big fights.

But sometimes, Daolang is bullied by others, and his brother will turn into a protector and seek justice for him.

But before Dao Lang's heart warms up, a new round of lessons has begun.

At that time, Dao Lang resented his brother very much. When the relationship between the two was at its worst, Dao Lang even secretly scolded his brother to die.

Everyone knows that they are just anger to vent their emotions, and no one would really think so.

But there is also a saying that can be said to be true, who can think of it! This 20-year-old boy really ended his life early.

Before his brother's accident, Daolang had a solid fight with him.

At that time, because his brother had a beautiful girlfriend, Dao Lang accidentally heard that this girl had a history of love, and he had always been at odds with his brother, so he regarded this as a point of revenge.

The brothers fought for this, and the younger Dao Lang was naturally at a disadvantage. In the end, the mother could not see it, so he came forward and said something to his eldest son.

In this way, my brother suffocated, slammed the door and left home.

A week later, he closed his eyes forever because of a car accident. The moment he learned the bad news, Dao Lang couldn't tell what he was feeling in his heart.

After he was busy with the adults, his cursing to his brother, and the recent quarrel, gradually became a big stone on his heart.

For a long time, Daolang believed that he was the culprit who killed his brother, which made him painful.

In the days of suffering, music has become the thing that comforts Daolang the most.

At the age of 17, he had not finished high school. He asked his mother for 10 yuan, left a note, and ran away from home.


03

Dao Lang later said,There were many reasons for leaving home, but the main reason was that I wanted to study music in a larger place.

His father once persuaded him to apply for a conservatory. Although Daolang was still young at the time, he made it clear that it was not the way for him.

So, according to his own ideas, he began to wander around.

During this process, he often worked in bars and once formed a band. Although he is not old, he has many years of musical foundation, so the Dao Lang standing on stage is still very charming. of.

Therefore, when Daolang's music career still couldn't see the way forward, a love came to fruition first.

Judging from the results, it was the emotional experience that Dao Lang was hurt the most, perhaps because of his young age! So when love comes, you will be particularly involved.

In 2004, a well-known magazine reported on Dao Lang's experience. The magazine referred to this lady as Yang Na and called her a dancer.

The article stated that Yang Na had a history of marriage, but Dao Lang still pursued her. Although the relationship between the two was opposed by both parents, they still walked together.

But the good times didn't last long, and Yang Na left without saying goodbye 40 days after giving birth. Later, Daolang wrote "The Punishment of Impulse" based on his mood at the time.

Due to the huge sales of the magazine, Daolang Fang also knew about the existence of this report, but Daolang's agent said that the author has not interviewed Daolang himself, and most of the plots in this should be fabricated.

The person in charge of the magazine said that although the author did not interview Daolang, he had contacted many insiders during the three-month interview.

is right and wrong, outsiders don't know. But Daolang himself also talked about his first marriage in an interview.


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Although Daolang did not talk about the process of meeting the two,But it is conceivable that they must confirm the relationship because of love, and then they got married naturally and had a lovely child.

There is a saying that if the love is not longing, maybe the love that starts is too fierce, it is always difficult to last.

may be the hardship in reality, defeating the two people's eachother.

Soon after the child was born, Yang Na put forward the idea of ​​separation to Dao Lang, and she also said cautiously, please give me 8 days to think about it.

In this way, Daolang was placed on the waiting table. He loved his wife so much that he could not accept such a change. Those 8 days were an extremely dark period for him.

He has a lot of thoughts, he will only sleep for less than two hours tomorrow, and he will never fall asleep again. He drank his sorrows by drinking, but even after drinking a case of beer, he was still sober.

Eight days later, Yang Na did not come back to give him a reply. Daolang was under tremendous mental pressure. After more than a month, he fell ill and finally accepted that he was abandoned. fact.

After divorcing Yang Na, it took Daolang a year before he gradually recovered. This marriage left Daolang, except for a daughter, that is unforgettable pain.

But for what the magazine said, "The Punishment of Impulse" was written for this, Dao Lang also denied it. But he also confessed that he did write a song at that time.

But that song is not the "Punishment of Impulse" that everyone is familiar with later, but another early work called "Child and Mother".

Regarding the previous failed marriage,Daolang has only talked about so much. As for whether the magazine is credible or his own statement is more credible, I believe everyone has their own answer.

To be sure, Daolang's love was gone at that time, and the road to music was still not smooth, which was a period of low tide for him.

The night before dawn is the darkest. After winter, spring will not be far away.

In 1991, Daolang moved all the way to Hainan to sing. Here, not only did his career improve, Yuelao also arranged another marriage for him.


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During those years in Hainan, Daolang once again formed a band. He was a keyboard player himself, and soon gained some fame in the local music circle.

Once, at a dinner after the performance, Daolang met a beautiful Xinjiang girl. Under the introduction of a friend, he knew her name was Zhu Mei, the host of that event.

In Zhu Mei's eyes, Daolang is a very mysterious person. What makes her most unbelievable is that he is only in his early 20s but already has a daughter.

may be the inexplicable goodwill and curiosity, which made Daolang and Zhu Mei have more conversations.

In this way, the two of them have an intersection. In Daolang's memory, it was a sunny day.

But soon, an accident came.

Soon after, Daolang and some friends went out to play on a motorcycle, but suffered a rollover accident. He was bruised all over and his shoulder was torn.

When Dao Lang was recuperating in the hospital bed,Many friends came to visit him, and Zhu Mei, who had only had a few fate, was also caught between his friends and cast a concerned look at him.

Although no one wants to have an accident, but I have to say that Daolang is a blessing in disguise!

Because not long after that, Dao Lang and Zhu Mei came together naturally.

In fact, at that time, although Daolang had some fame, his career did not improve much on the whole. Zhu Mei was able to fall in love with him at this time, which shows that he really fell in love with him.

In 1995, Zhu Mei’s mother had a physical problem and she had to go back to Xinjiang to take care of her family.

At this time, Daolang also made an important decision. He wants to accompany Zhu Mei to live in Xinjiang.

And Daolang's decision also gave his music new life.

It can even be said that Xinjiang is a blessed place for Daolang.


06

After Daolang followed Zhu Mei to Xinjiang, he still did music-related work.

He not only served as the music director of a certain audiovisual company, but also established his own music studio. During that time, Daolang's music works have won many awards in Urumqi.

In 2001, Dao Lang tried to make an album, but only sold more than 2,000 copies. This bleak sales did not make Daolang back down.

He reads a lot of professional books, goes to the countryside to experience life, gather style, and enrich himself in various ways.

In 2003, Daolang released an album called "The Love Songs of the Western Regions". It was also at this time that he began to use Daolang's name to enter the music scene.

Once this album came out,It attracted the attention of the public, and the audiovisual company had to work overtime to produce in order to meet the supply of secondary sales.

It is said that at that time, many tourists who came to the local area would also buy a pile of them and take them home as Xinjiang characteristics to distribute to relatives and friends.

Daolang, who had his first taste of popularity, produced the next album. At that time, even he did not expect that the name of Daolang and his music would soon be like a tornado and become popular across the country.

And this album is "The First Snow in 2002".

According to statistics, this album has sold 2.7 million copies of genuine copies without publicity, and sales of various pirated copies have exceeded 10 million copies.

You know, 2004 was when singers such as Jay Chou , SHE, Sun Yanzi , Jolin Tsai and other singers got together to release their albums.

Dao Lang just relied on the super high album sales, surrounded by popular music, holding high the banner of Xinjiang folk music style, embarked on the peak.

But who can think of it! After he became famous, Dao Lang's road was even more difficult.


07

In July 2004, a singer named Pan Xiaofeng released an album "Looking for Mayila" under the stage name of Daolang .

Because the name Daolang became popular at that time, he bought 400,000 copies of this album.

When Dao Langfang discovered this phenomenon, he decisively took up the weapon of law and took the other party to court. Although Pan Xiaofeng tried his best to defend himself,But he finally lost the case.

After such a disturbance, coupled with the continuous excellent works of Daolang, his reputation is even better than before.

But being a celebrity and being paid attention to by the public is actually not the life Daolang wants, or because he is becoming popular too fast, he is not mentally prepared yet.

The large number of invitations at the time also made Daolang extremely troubled. In order to attract the audience, these organizers often promoted a platter concert as Daolang's concert.

When Daolang finished his performance, the media and the audience would complain again, and Daolang's performance was severely shrunk.

Later, Dao Lang, who was unbearable, had to turn down the invitation he came to his door to avoid being criticized. Unexpectedly, the big-name hat fell on his head immediately.

Some people say that as much compliment as you get, you have to endure as much slander.

At this time of disturbance, the well-known singers in the music circle, when asked how to evaluate Daolang, mostly chose to criticize rather than support.

Yang Kun once said bluntly, is Daolang music?

Wang Feng also analyzed that Daolang is just a phenomenon. Everyone is used to listening to exquisite works. There will be a bit of freshness with such a rough voice.

And the always strong Naying is more direct.

In 2010, when discussing the winning singer of a certain award, Na Ying, as the chairman, strongly opposed Daolang's selection, and frankly said that Daolang does not have an aesthetic point of view.

Although Daolang failed to win that time, but Naying and others' comments,It also attracted public disgust, and the attitude of the professionals did not affect the fans' love of Daolang.


08

In March 2012, Daolang stood on the Hong Kong Hung Hom stage to sing. On that day, he not only invited and Alan Tam as guests, but also burst into the crowded scene many times. A chorus of ten thousand people.

It seems that professionals have standards for judging music, but the public also has their own preferences for music.

And although some people don't recognize Daolang, there are seniors like Alan Tam who support him. For example, Luo Dayou said frankly in the interview that Daolang was born with a singing voice.

But these are not important to Daolang.

In 2013, Daolang gradually withdrew from the public eye. In 2016, he issued a statement on the social platform, saying that he will focus on creation in the future and will no longer attend commercial activities. If he comes back, he will be notified separately.

To this day, Daolang still maintains the state of seeing the dragon without seeing the end, but his student Yun Duo has become a new generation of powerful singers.

This has become the pride of Daolang.

Today, Daolang is 50 years old.

Not long ago, a photo of him showing up at the fan meeting was posted on the Internet. Although Daolang in the photo is slightly fat, he is smiling and in excellent condition.

and appeared with Daolang,And his wife Zhu Mei.

This couple has gone through ups and downs and raised two daughters who are like flowers and jade. After sharing the joys and sorrows, they can still be so loving. It is really rare.

Although the current Daolang is no longer as famous as that year, the new album has never sold astonishing sales.

But for Daolang, it is not a kind of happiness to have his wife and daughter, a group of loyal fans, and a relaxing environment for him to continue to create!

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