" once had a sincere love in front of me, which I didn't cherish. When I lost it, I regretted it. The most painful thing in the world is nothing more than this. ——"A Westward Journey"
It is said that this classic line was thought of by Stephen Chow based on his emotional experience when he was on the bus. As we all know, before Zhou Xingchi and Zhu Yin were in the filming of "A Chinese Journey to the West", that "previous relationship" belonged to Luo Huijuan, his first love affair.
Many people think that this passage is for Zhu Yin, but in my opinion, this passage should be addressed to Luo Huijuan.
Zhou Xingchi is recognized as a person who "sees shadows like fate", but in all his classic comedy movies, he keeps depicting the ideal love in his heart, which is undoubtedly an extreme performance.
Because in his real life, he didn't seem to be able to get the pure love in his mind.
Whether it was Luo Huijuan, who has been unforgettable for a long time, Zhu Yin, Karen Mok, even Yu Wenfeng, who finally became an enemy, failed to give Zhou Xingchi the love he wanted.
Reality cannot be satisfied, so I can only put my love in the movie. And this has become one of the reasons why many people think Zhou Xingchi does not understand love.
In an interview, the reporter asked : "Why do you always arrange for the characters in the play to get love when they are down?"
Zhou Xingchi's answer is thought-provoking : "Because in the worst of times Love is more important."
At the same time, he also added: "Love once saved me and helped me find my ideal.
Zhou Xingchi once expressed that his love has experienced life and death, but he will not tell the specific experience.
We don’t know what tragic love he experienced, but from him In a movie, you may be able to spy one or two.
But I very much agree with Stephen Chow’s view of love, why do you say that?
01: It is better to raise your eyebrows than to moisten each other.
Words such as "putting the case together with eyebrows" are used to describe the state of getting along between couples, thinking that this is the best form of love.
But in real life, the most common sentence we hear is: husband and wife are from the same forest. Birds, fly separately when disaster strikes.
This sentence may sound selfish, but in fact there are no couples who have "together". When encountering setbacks in life, it is really difficult to determine whether they can "hand in hand" Advance together".
In today's era, many people can "share sweets" with you, but few are willing to "suffer" with you.
So the meaning expressed by Stephen Chow's view of love, in my understanding, is: It’s wonderful to raise eyebrows together, but it’s true love.
And the reason why I think that in Zhou Xingchi’s several love affairs, he is the most memorable Luo Huijuan, not only because she is Zhou Xingchi’s first love, but also because it was him. People who are willing to endure hardships with him when he debuts.
The person who can spend your life with you is the one who can accompany you through your life.
It is a beautiful imagination to raise your eyebrows, and to live with you is the real life full of fireworks.
02: The charm of love stories lies in the fact that they will never recover.
Stephen Chow once said this: "The principle of love is usually life and death.Joy is short, pain is eternal. "
In his opinion, the most attractive part of 's love story lies in its pain and unforgettable.
What we understand as "a dull and happy life" is unforgettable. The experience of
is just the result.
Two people who are dull from the beginning often find it difficult to find moving and intense love in each other.
Only those who have experienced big winds and waves can truly experience " "Plain" is hard to come by, so that we will cherish and love each other more.
This is where I agree with Stephen Chow's view of love.
"A thousand catastrophes are over" may just be Zhou Xingchi's description of a love story, but he does not rule out his own. Experienced love like this.
There is no shackles of real problems such as marriage in his love, and this is naturally the extreme point of Stephen Chow.
Experience love is a necessary growth for one person, experiencing tragic love is understood by two people The key to love.
03: The meaning of love is feeling.
Some people say that Stephen Chow "abandoned" a few loved ones, but others say that Stephen Chow is "regret" in his life.
Once expressed his own views on this: "The moving part of love lies in the unusual regret.
Happiness is naturally a part of love, but it also contains pain, helplessness and regret.
The meaning of love lies in feeling. In the end, it is not necessary to be together. Of course, the ending of being together is more perfect.
Zhou Xingchi said: "The highest state of love is regret. Only in the story can we keep these dramatic frustrations, regrets, and regrets. "
If we put aside marriage, then the meaning of love may be as Zhou Xingchi said: feeling.
Everyone has their ideal love, but even "ten thousand years" can hardly express their pursuit of ideal love.
However, ideals are only an inaccessible thing. In real life, the "present" is the most important thing.
Ten thousand years is too long, the feeling of this moment is the most important.
Conclusion: love and hate, dare to love and hate.
How can a relationship come to the end? Maybe none of us can give an accurate answer.
But at least in the face of love, we can be like Miss Duan in "Journey to the West": loves and hates, dare to love and hate.
Why can we only feel this kind of love and hate in Stephen Chow's movies?
I love it wholeheartedly and unreservedly, and hate it regardless of the consequences. There are too few people who are so real and free and easy in real life.
In fact, we all understand that this kind of free and easy truth is full of charm and appeal, but it is difficult for us to do it.
is not that we don't know how to let go, but that we are too reluctant to give up.
When "The Mermaid" was released, several people who had had emotional experiences with Stephen Chow had their own belongings, except that he had gray hair and was alone.
Although the theme song of "Journey to the West: Conquering the Demons" has used the theme song "Love in a Lifetime" of "Journey to the West", Stephen Chow modified the lyrics, and one of them is evocative:
"From the past until now, love is still there. ."
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