The "love" of the devil? In-depth restoration of Ms. Xu Guolilai’s marriage and the details of the lesser-known case

The much-anticipated "Hangzhou Wife Murder Case" has finally been sentenced. 's wife-killing demon Xu Guoli was sentenced to death in the first instance ! This murderer who pretended to the people of the whole country in front of the media interviews had this ending, and it was really pleasant.

This person's meticulous thoughts and ruthless methods are rare in the world. 's actions can only be described as extinction of humanity .

And the recent court decision finally gave this matter a final result, but only one result is obviously not enough, because there are still too many questions in our hearts ......


Xu Guoli in trial

What is the marriage between Xu Guoli and Ms. Lai ?

Why did he commit such a murderous attack on his dependent wife ?

What happened between the two on the day of the incident? Why did the lady woke up at 12 o'clock that night and found that Xu Guoli had a motive for murder, she did not struggle to resist, but was willing to die ?

This article will disclose more details of Xu Lai’s marriage and some of the circumstances on the day of the crime. Perhaps you will get a final answer after reading it.

First, from his first love to being "beaten by a mandarin duck", Ms. Lai’s tortuous love and marriage with Xu Guoli

Before Xu Guoli became inhuman, there was actually a very touching moment between him and Ms. Lai love.

In 1965, Xu Guoli was born in a poor mountain village in Zhuji City, Zhejiang Province. His family was extremely poor. 's mother died when Xu Guoli was 4 years old. The three brothers were brought up by his father .


Xu Guoli’s birthplace is Anhua Town, Zhuji City, Zhejiang Province. The picture shows the local attraction Wuzhishan

When he was 18 years old, Xu Guoli joined the army. His arm is not an online scout, but a Ordinary engineer. After 3 years in the army, Xu Guoli stepped into the society after he was demobilized .

Because Xu Guoli himself is not well-cultured and has no skills in himself, he is not very happy in the society. In 1987, Xu Guoli went to Hangzhou to do fish meal business. He rented a house in Zhangjiaba, Hangzhou, . The landlord of this house is Ms. Lai’s father .

During the renting period, Xu Guoli naturally met the landlord’s daughter, who was only 19 years old at the time.

Judging from the old photos, Xu Guoli looked quite beautiful when he was young. In addition, he has been in the army for many years, so he has a military temperament in his gesture. Ms. was very young at the time, and she was quickly attracted by Xu Guoli, a young man from other places. .

The two have been dating for 3 years, and both are each other's first love . From the perspective of the two divorced and coming together later, their relationship should be sincere.


Hangzhou in the 1980s

But like all the plots in emotional TV series, Ms. , the rich girl meets the poor boy Xu Guoli, and the "love" between the two is destined to be twists and turns .Ms. Lai’s parents did not agree with the marriage at all, and they drove Xu Guoli out of the rental house, trying their best to separate the two alive.

It is natural to be heartbroken to lose her beloved lady. Xu Guoli has no psychological changes after this incident, but we don’t know, but depending on his later actions, he should have vowed to get ahead.

Frankly speaking, this sadomasochism has been a good cover for Xu Guoli for a while after committing the crime, especially Lai’s family members played a considerable role in deceiving . When the Hangzhou police got some evidence and suddenly took Xu Guoli away, Ms. Lai’s eldest sons also firmly believed that "cannot be Xu Shushu" , the main reason is because of this extremely sadistic love history between the two.

After Xu Guoli was driven away by Ms. Lai's parents, he went to work and do some small business, but there was no big development. During this period, he met an ex-wife official, the two married and had a son. At this time, the lady also married others and gave birth to a daughter.


Xu Guoli

It is undeniable that after the two got married, did not forget the unforgettable first love of the past , and this is what happened after the two met again. The key reason that each divorced and finally came together, is also the source of the tragedy of the later lady.

In 2004, Xu Guoli, who opened a duck farm in Shanghai and withdrew, accidentally contacted Ms. Lai. After the two met secretly, the relationship quickly rekindled .

At this time, Sanbao Village , where Ms. Lai is located, began to demolition, and Ms. Lai received millions of compensation for demolition.

Ms. Lai, who is financially free, is now fully qualified to control her own destiny.In the eyes of Xu Guoli, the rich and old lady Lai is also infinitely attractive. Therefore, the two decided to break away from their current marriage and go together, and then continue the front line .

The reason why Ms. Lai made this important decision is not difficult to understand, just four words: for love ! However, Xu Guoli’s motive for deciding to be with Ms. Lai is very debatable. Is more affectionate or more money ?

No one knows the answer to this question, except for Xu Guoli, who is now dying in prison.

Anyway, the two began to implement their "divorce plan" .


Lady Lai before her disappearance

Ms. Lai’s determination to be with Xu Guoli is extremely huge .

According to the information, in order to divorce her husband, she sued the court twice and claimed to her husband that if he did not divorce, then she would go outside to borrow and create joint debts to force her husband to sign the divorce agreement.

And Xu Guoli's method is more tyrannical, he even pinched his ex-wife’s neck and threatened the poor woman viciously : "If you don’t get divorced, you will never die!"

After several years of "struggle" , the two finally got their wish and walked into the palace of marriage together in 2008.

I really can’t comment on the experience of the two of them, because this is real life, both humanity and reality .

Second, how did the devil come out? Xu Guoli from Human to Devil

From the time when the lady met Xu Guoli in 1988, the two became legal husband and wife in 2008. After 20 years of wind and rain, the two talented people have survived the tragedy. Raising the butcher knife, this unswerving love between the two is really touching.

At least Madam Lai was deeply moved by herself.


Ms. Lai and Xu Guoli's wedding photo

In 2009, the youngest daughter of the two were born. It should be noted that Ms. is 41 years old at this time, , but she still gave birth regardless of the risk of an advanced mother A daughter, it can be seen that she does have deep feelings for Xu Guoli.

Although Xu Guoli made some money by raising ducks in the past, the matter did not become big and withdrew halfway through. Therefore, Xu Guoli did not really have a "excellent" in the first half of his life, but Xu Guoli is an unconventional person.

There was a "duck raising interview" circulated on the Internet before . From the interview, it can be seen that this person has a strong desire for expression and control, and is eager to succeed all the time.

But when he got married with Ms. Lai, it was a good year. It was obviously too late to start a business. Moreover, he himself had no knowledge and no capital. It is really difficult for to "success" .

But Xu Guoli himself was not discouraged. Instead, found what he thought was a "road to wealth". What way was ?

Stocks!

Stock trading requires capital,But after marriage, Xu Guoli didn't have much income, and he didn't have any wealth. So he put his idea on Ms. Lai .

The beloved suggested that "stock stocks and do a business" , Ms. Lai would naturally not stop, so Xu Guoli "borrowed" from Ms. and got 1.6 million in principal. Invest in the stock market.

Obviously, Xu Guoli is not Buffett or Xu Xiang's material. Soon he lost everything in the stock market. , 1.6 million is a huge sum of money even today, and it was even more okay at that time. Buy two small apartments directly in the main urban area of ​​Hangzhou.

There is no doubt that Ms. Lai is very angry about this . In fact, no matter which family’s husband loses such a large amount of money in stocks, the wife may not be happy. is therefore usually right. Xu Guoli has a lot more complaints or nagging .

According to the two relatives and friends, the husband and wife quarreled many times about this. When the quarrel was extreme, Ms. Lai even threatened to divorce Xu Guoli.

In fact, it is common for the husband to do something wrong between the husband and wife, and it is common for the wife to nag a few words occasionally. Any husband who has a bit of wisdom in life will not pay attention to it. After all, no matter how troublesome it is, it is a husband and wife. Strong2strong, who can come together hand in hand, will not easily tear up the contract.

But Xu Guoli obviously doesn't think so. This is related to his own personality .


In his early years, Xu Guoli talked freely when interviewed by the media.Very strong desire for expression and control


As mentioned above, this person is very ambitious and talented, and has a strong desire for control. Therefore, he himself hates Ms. Lai’s accusations. With the accumulation of , this person has experienced some problems. Some thoughts .

Family conflicts are one of the important reasons for Xu Guoli's final murder, and the temptation of huge amounts of money is the second reason !

After making a huge loss in stocks, Xu Guoli worked as an online ride-hailing driver for about half a year, and later as a truck driver, and his hands were always not well-off.

And here Ms. Lai still has a 7-figure deposit , and Ms. Lai works as a cleaning company in a company, and earns 4000 yuan a month. Although the two are husband and wife, from the perspective of economic conditions, Ladies' life is obviously much more relaxed .

In addition, after the demolition, Ms. Lai also got 2 sets of relocation houses, one is a small apartment of 55 square meters where the couple and the youngest daughter live, and the other is 110 square meters. This house is also here. A nursing home for the lady to consider in the future.

So Ms. Lai herself has a lot of money. The total assets are about eight or nine million based on the present value. Just as a husband and wife with Ms. Lai, you only have the right to use the house.

Xu Guoli, who has a strong desire for control, obviously wants to have control over these properties .


According to media reports, Xu Guoli once asked Ms. Lai to give him and his ex-wife's son a wedding room. Such unreasonable requests were naturally rejected by Ms. Lai.

Increasingly accumulated conflicts between husband and wife, coupled with the temptation of huge wealth, Xu Guoli, finally moved the infinite murderous intention to follow the person next to his pillow !

Third, what happened on the day of the incident?

According to Article 20 of the "General Principles of the Civil Law of the People's Republic of China":

If a citizen's whereabouts are unknown for two years, the interested person can apply to the People's Court to declare him as a missing person.

Article 23 also stipulates that if 's whereabouts are unknown for 4 years, interested parties can apply to the people's court to declare the missing person dead .

Once the court decides that the missing person is dead, can inherit the missing person’s related property if interested parties such as spouse and children are allowed.

Xu Guoli, it is this vicious abacus .


Screenshot of the media interview with Xu Guoli after the incident

If he wants to inherit the property of Ms. , then he must let Ms. Lai completely "disappear" from the world , once he comes If a lady never sees a person or a corpse when she is born, he will be able to seize her huge wealth in just a few years.

Not long before the incident, Xu Guoli successively purchased tools such as utility knives and cutting machines. Obviously, Xu Guoli had already figured out how to make Ms. Lai "disappear completely" .

And the Hangzhou court’s judgment also made it clear that " (Xu Guoli) committed criminal acts in a planned way ...... intentionally killed people with premeditated intentions,, it’s enough to prove that Xu Guoli’s criminal behavior was well prepared.

It’s the day of the crime on July 4, .

This day is the birthday of the two youngest daughters, and Xu Guoli is with him in the morning. When Ms. Lai went to the hospital to see a doctor, is nothing unusual at this time, and he still plays the role of a "good husband". Ms. Lai is still at a loss for everything, she doesn't even know that it will be a few more hours.

In the evening of the same day, the family celebrated their little daughter's birthday, and happily cooked meatball to eat, Xu Guoli was responsible for cooking, and Ms. Lai was responsible for cleaning Xu Guoli. I bought the meat grinder .


During the cleaning process, Ms. Lai’s finger was accidentally cut by the blade, so Ms. complained about her husband .

What did the lady say, I don’t know, , but it is certain that the two sides had a quarrel at that time, and the words of Ms. Lai severely stimulated Xu Guoli, who was already psychologically distorted. According to Xu Guoli’s later confession: "The kid was at home, I just No seizures, for fear of fighting in front of the child.

At this point, Xu Guoli finally had a murderous intention and decided to do it to his wife tonight.

Before going to bed at night, Xu Guoli quietly put sleeping pills in the milk that his wife must drink every night, and Ms. Lai drank it without any precautions. Go down and go to deep sleep.

And Xu Guoli, the demon, is not sleepy. After 11 o'clock in the evening, Xu Guo uses a quilt to wrap her up in the future.She sealed Lai's mouth with tape again, and pressed the pillow tightly on Lai's head .

During the period, Ms. Lai finally woke up. She yelled softly: "Xu Guoli..."

But Xu Guoli did not feel soft because of this, but continued to cover her mouth and nose with a pillow. , And eventually led to the death of Ms. Lai due to hypoxia.


Xu Guoli who made the bed

After Ms. Lai was brutally killed, and Xu Guoli stared at her body for more than an hour. No one knew what the devil was thinking about .

The above is Xu Guoli's later confession to the police about the incident, and the person also explained to the police that Ms. Lai did not struggle during 's crime, but let him murder .

There is a detail in Xu Guoli's confession that is very puzzling. Why did Ms. Lai not struggle in the process of being killed ?

After reviewing this case repeatedly, I think there are two possibilities.

In one case, the sleeping pills given by Xu Guoli were not as effective as . Ms. Lai was still weak and unable to struggle.

Another situation is when Ms. Lai wakes up and finds that Xu Guoli is going to kill her. In order to avoid making a big disturbance and awakening her little daughter, she has to use her life to protect her little daughter because she sees the process of Xu Guoli killing her_ strong2strong.

Because Ms. Lai doesn't know if the crazy demon in front of her will attack the little daughter who witnessed the incident, , so her mother is willing to die to protect her daughter from harm !


Lai Lai and her youngest daughter photo

The true situation is unknown,But I know that at the moment when Xu Guoli raised the butcher knife, Ms. must be full of despair in her heart. She may not know until she died, why her husband, who had been with him for more than ten years, wanted to attack her .

Xu Guoli is extremely vicious, it is really exhausted, and a bullet should be the final fate of such demons!

Fourth, the capture of the devil—the four investigation directions of the Hangzhou police

Ms. Lai "disappeared" Two days later, Xu Guoli ran to the Sijiqing police station in his jurisdiction as planned.

As Xu Guoli's description of Ms. Lai 's "disappearance process" was too suspenseful and bizarre, quickly attracted the attention of the media and netizens all over the country. Her attitude is still fresh in our memory:

She can't go out alone. With her IQ, she can't go out alone.


The Sijiqing police station where Xu Guoli and his eldest daughter reported the case

Obviously, Mrs. Lai’s IQ in Xu Guoli’s eyes is not as strong as that of his "smart man" . Seeing Xu Guoli's usual contempt for Ms. Lai.

But it is such a person who, under the cover of the tortuous love history with Ms. Lai over the past few decades, has blinded many of Ms. Lai's family with a series of nonsense.

But netizens don’t know about Xu Lai’s 30 years of emotional entanglement. Therefore, netizens are not influenced by emotional factors.Many people only rely on scattered information on the Internet and their intuition to "guess" that Xu Guoli is the murderer !

Netizens can guess, , but the police cannot guess when solving the case. Instead, they must pay attention to conclusive evidence .

When the Hangzhou Jianggan District Public Security Bureau received the report, Xu Guoli was not listed as a suspect at the beginning. The police initially speculated that "Ms. Lai is still alive, but has left the community" .


The tracing notice posted by Xu Guoli

So the investigation direction at the beginning of the case was mainly towards the disappearance case, so we saw that the police work in the first few days was mainly Check clues and watch surveillance videos.

But after 6,000 hours of surveillance video, there is still no trace of Ms. Lai . This result surprised the police, so the focus of the police immediately shifted to . "Ms. Lai is still alive, but may be trapped in the community. Somewhere in the direction of "."

However, after investigating all possible Tibetan areas in the community, such as rooftops, basements, utility rooms, flues, elevator shafts, etc., there is still no sign of the lady.

The nature of the case began to become serious. At this time, the police further made a judgment "Ms. Lai is likely to have been killed and was done by people in the community." .

Therefore, in the next few days, the police began to conduct a carpet search of the community. More than a thousand households in the community were also checked one by one. Even the refrigerator closet was carefully checked, but no relevant clues were found.


So far, the police once again ruled out the possibility that the residents of the community were the first scene of the crime. When all the possibilities have been eliminated, then the most unlikely object of suspicion has become the biggest suspect - Ms. comes to Ms. Xu Guoli, her husband, and is suspected of committing a major crime !

However, because Xu Guoli handled the scene extremely cleanly, the police did not find strong evidence in Xu's house, so Xu Guoli was still in the process of being suspected at this time.

At the same time, the disappearance of Ms. Lai continued to ferment nationwide. Hundreds of millions of netizens from were attracted by this case and followed it at any time , the Hangzhou police immediately felt tremendous pressure from all sides.

The author has a friend in the Zhejiang police circle. According to what he later said, Hangzhou police often held case seminars all night long, and all personnel were working hard to solve the case as soon as possible .

On July 22, police mobilization personnel began to conduct a careful search of the septic tank against a high temperature of nearly 40 degrees . Xu Guoli could not have imagined that the police had such courage.

After more than 20 hours of hard work, draining and inspecting 38 cars of manure, the police finally found some suspected human tissues in the septic tank, and the "Ms. Hangzhou Lai mysterious disappearance case" officially made a major breakthrough_ strong2strong.

Fifth, the ending of the devil

After DNA comparison, the police finally determined that the human tissue in the septic tank was derived from Ms. Lai, At 1 am on July 23, the Hangzhou police, who had been prepared, immediately responded Xu Guoli implemented the subpoena.


The police exercised control on Xu Guoli

After 9 hours of surprise interrogation,Xu Guoli was finally broken through the psychological defense. At 10 o'clock in the morning that day, Xu Guoli completely confessed to the police the facts of the crime of killing his wife and destroying the body ......

July 26, 2021, Intermediate People in Hangzhou City, Zhejiang Province The court officially pronounced that sentenced Xu Guoli to death for intentional homicide and deprived of political rights for life.

The "Hangzhou Wife Murder Case" that shocked China was settled by this.

After the occurrence of the case, because the impact of the case was too extensive , some women on the Internet issued "fear of marriage and fear of marriage" . In fact, such ideas are unnecessary.

We must see that Xu Guoli is only an occasional extreme situation among China's 1.4 billion people, , he cannot represent the mainstream men in China, and knows from this article that his motives for committing crimes are more of his own reasons .

So if this person’s behavior is regarded as an emotional vent, if we want to deny Chinese men and the necessity of marriage, to be polite, this is because of choking. Make the mind unconscious.

Even today, family is still of great significance to each of us. Whether it is for men or women, marriage is the most important layer of survival in ordinary people’s lives. Children are also ordinary people. The best hope in life.

If a person has neither "guarantee" nor "hope" in his life, how much fun and meaning is left in such a life itself ? At this point, "fear of marriage" or "DINK family" should really think about it.


Xu Guoli in the court

According to the usual practice, I will give some wishes at the end of each long article, but this "wish" is different from the past, I am very sincere Hope that the law enforcement agencies can end his sinful life as soon as possible in accordance with the law, the truth!

Text/Meng Xing Jin Guan City

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