"Hold your hand and grow old with your son" is one of the best vows of life. "Regardless of birth, old age, sickness, death, poverty or wealth, never give up, always take care of him, respect him, and love him" is also the happiest marriage vow.
Although many people are full of yearning when it comes to marriage, marriage is sometimes like a wall. People outside want to go in, and people inside want to come out. Marriage is also like a "gambling game", marrying the right person will have a happy life, and marrying the wrong person will regret it for a lifetime.
There is a paragraph on the Internet that says, "The tears shed after marriage are the water that enters the mind before marriage." Many people are dazzled by love before marriage, regardless of what they have in each other's body. Disadvantages, resolutely marrying the so-called love, but after all, it cannot withstand the ruthless blow of reality.
If two people grow up together, elementary school, junior high school, high school and even university are all in the same school. Or work together for a long time, and gradually understand the character of this person and his family, such a person can still be married. After all, no one can pretend to be for decades.
However, there is a situation that you need to pay attention to. If you have known a man for a short time, you do not have any understanding of his family, character, friends, etc. But this person will especially please you and is very attentive. Be careful in this situation.
I met a 36-year-old woman before. She has always been a strong woman. She has never talked about anything for her career. When I was successful in my career, I felt a little bit more envy when I saw that my friends and families around me were happy, so I was ready to get married.
I met a man after. The man said that he had just returned from abroad, and he often asked her warmly, took good care of her, and often took her to travel. The woman felt that she had met in love, so she was going to marry him and follow him to settle in the United States.
The man said affectionately that she will not marry in this life, but it takes some formalities to bring her back to the United States, and money is needed to smooth the relationship, about 200,000 yuan. After several months of getting along, the man was generous and the gentleman was polite, and the woman agreed without thinking.
so he gave him all the 1 million on his card,The man brought the money and said that it would take a week to complete the formalities. One week passed, and the man was nowhere to be seen. One month later, the man still couldn't be contacted, and he thought to himself that the woman had reported the case and was indeed deceived.
People who may have been concerned about online fraud for a long time find this example a bit familiar. It is a bit similar to the so-called " killing pig ". Single women are often deceived. It ranges from a few thousand to hundreds of thousands or millions. Some women are full of yearning for love because they are older or not deeply involved in the world. At this time, a "handsome, rich, talented, kind and considerate" man appears, and it is indeed easy to be overwhelmed.
However, it is precisely the psychology of some single women that the liar can run rampant. When the problem is discovered, it is too late to regret.
Therefore, it is better for girls to know the basics when looking for someone, or to introduce some people they know through family, relatives, and friends. In addition, in the process of communication, it is still necessary to maintain a certain degree of vigilance for money. Don't have vanity, it's easy to be deceived.
In short, for an unmarried girl with a love mind, if a boyfriend has this feature, even if he is in love, try to leave him as much as possible, otherwise you may regret it.
.-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-