I am 28 years old, with a nice face, tall and divorced, and my son is 2 years old. The last 4 blind dates have all failed. I just want to find a man who can accept my son, but the men are too realistic. They all like me, but they can’t accept my son. It is said that women divorce and remarry, how come the reality has changed?
My ex-husband and I met in free love and we have always been happy after we got married, but everything changed after we gave birth. My income started to be unable to support the family. I just wanted to use imported milk powder and diapers for the children. My husband despised me as a prodigal. , Said a lot of complaints.
I didn't dislike his low income. He even disliked me, which made me very chilling. He just wanted to be nice to the children. Is it wrong? After
, I have been arguing with my husband continuously for 2 years. I divorced last year and the child became mine. My ex-husband paid monthly support until the child became an adult.
It’s not easy to take a child by yourself. My sister-in-law stays in her natal family every day and is not happy, thinking about remarrying, not to bother my parents and my sister-in-law.
My skin is very good, my face is fair, it is oval face, it looks very comfortable; I am 169 in height, 98 in weight, and I am relatively tall; I have a college degree and currently earn 6k.
requires a man to be 7cm taller than me, his education level cannot be lower than me, his income is twice that of mine, and he can accept divorce, but it is best for him to have no children.
I chatted a few times on the Internet. After meeting in private, they all liked me. They talked well. I said that I was divorced. They didn't mind very much, but when I said that I brought my 3-year-old son, they flinched. , Began to say inappropriate.
I asked why men can’t accept it? A man said: I am satisfied with everything about you, but I don't want to raise other people's children.
I think a man is too realistic. My child will be his child after marriage. He will be filial to him when he grows up. Why can't everyone accept it?
all say that women can remarry after divorce. I have good conditions, but I have a child. Men don’t choose me. Why do people say that they are different from reality?
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(Story of a netizen)
Actually, I think it is men who are more real. I understand your dissatisfaction, and I also understand the choices of men.
Your own conditions are very good, the market value of marriage and love is very high, you can easily remarry, but the other half you require will have a high market value for their marriage and love, and they can also find the other half.
Since a man is in good conditions and can find quality objects, he will become picky in his choice. Since you have something that makes him dissatisfied, it is normal not to choose you. Blind date itself is a choice between each other, others did not choose you, it does not mean that you are not good, just inappropriate.
Your advantages and disadvantages in the marriage and love market are obvious. The advantage is that the external conditions are good, and the internal is good; the disadvantage is that the divorce brings children.
is not to say that divorced women with children are not good, but it will increase parent-child uncertainty. If a man is afraid of marrying you, will he face the risk of divorce again? Will you be entangled with your ex-husband constantly, will you and your ex-husband face The problem is replicated in him. Because they don't understand, men dare not choose.
In the future, when you meet a suitable person, you can let the other person get to know you deeply, and fall in love with you from the outside. You have to be single-minded, able to live a life, not pretentious, and you want a long-term stable marriage, a man Believe it, you tell the other person that you have a child. Only in this way, the possibility of a good man accepting you will be higher!
