Zhang Ailing once said: I love you, for your happiness, I am willing to give up everything, including you.
Good love should look like this: I love you and it has nothing to do with you. As long as I can see your happiness, I can give anything, rather than care about whether the effort can be rewarded.
"I'm at the end of time" waiting for you, tells such a beautiful story of love, protection and fulfillment.
1 I am willing to give everything just for you to wake up
Ringer lost his mother when he was a child, and his father was drinking heavily and didn’t care about him. Children of the same age bullied him and laughed at him, but Qiu Qian was willing to accompany him and be bullied Willing to help him when Qiu Qian is like an angel, giving Ringer a lot of good and happy times, and since her appearance, all of Ringer's beautiful memories are only related to her.
Two little no guesses, childhood sweethearts, if everything is normal, they may also become a very loving couple, living the ordinary days experienced by most people, counting the firewood, rice, oil and salt, but fate made a big joke for them.
When Qiu Qian was eighteen years old, Qiu Qian had an accident. Ringer outside the operating room was in distress. He promised that as long as Qiu Qian wakes up safely, he can give anything.
God seemed to have heard his prayer and gave Qiu Qian a chance to be born again, but at the cost of taking Linger's time. Ringer grew old a lot, and there was no trace of Ringer's existence in this world. Not only Qiu Qian didn't know about him, but no one, including his father, knew about Ringer's existence.
Ringer and Qiu Qian became strangers, he became people outside this world, living in a world where no one remembers him. But that's it, he still has no regrets, even though he can't be remembered, he still chooses to stay with Qiu Qian and guard him in another way. What does it matter if you don't remember
? For Ringer, he loves her, she can live, and he can protect her, which is the happiest thing.
2 Good love does not count gains or losses, just for the sake of perfection
If he has never been remembered, and his efforts will be rewarded, Ringer will regret his unhesitating sacrifices so much?
exchanged his time for Qiu Qian's life three times, which is the best answer that Ringer gave: I was willing to pay without asking for anything in return. I love you, just hope you have a good life, it doesn't matter if you don't be remembered, as long as you are happy, all the sacrifices are worth it.
In the United States, two people had a very happy and sweet time. The two people in love felt meaningful and hopeful in everything together. Together, they yearned for a house with large French windows and raised a small one. Dog, get married when everything stabilizes.
Seeing Ringer take several jobs in order to go to school, Qiu Qian felt very distressed. They promised to bear all the hardships together and not to put the burden of life on one person.
But fate made a joke with them again, Qiu Qian had an accident again, time was restarted again, Ringer was a lot older, he was wiped from this world again, Qiu Qian no longer remembered him .
Looking at Wu Hang who was holding up the umbrella for Qiu Qian, watching others standing beside Qiu Qian, watching himself once again forgotten, Ringer secretly shed tears in sadness, but he did not regret it or feel it not worth.
In order to give Qiu Qian the stability and happiness he wanted, he quietly left. He went to another place alone, day after day, year after year, living a lonely life without being missed by anyone.
For Ringer, what if he doesn’t get anything, the person he loves is still alive, it is a great comfort to him, as long as Qiu Qian can be loved and cared for, as for who is next to her, to him That is not so important.
is like Jin Yuelin's love for Lin Huiyin. His love is fulfillment and silent guardianship. For many years, he has chosen to live next to Lin Huiyin's home, but he has never crossed the thunder pond to help Lin Huiyin.
He may love Lin Huiyin more than Liang Sicheng. Lin Hui left for some reason, Liang Sicheng turned around and married someone else, but he never married for life. Although Lin Hui had been there for many years, he also cried many times because he missed Lin Hui. Once he invited a lot of people to dinner. On the table, he pretended to say something lightly: Today is Huiyin’s birthday. Although
did not get it, he has been fulfilling and paying, And never get tired of it.
The best love is that Jin Yuelin is so selfless, not asking for rewards, paying silently, and guarding silently. As long as you can see from afar, you know that she is living a happy life.
3 I love you not only for your advantages, but for all
Yang Jiang and Qian Zhongshu's love makes many people envy.
Qian Zhongshu is a talented man of Tsinghua University, but he is very "clumsy" in life. He doesn't know how to tie the butterfly buckle of shoelaces. He can't even distinguish between his left and right feet. He uses chopsticks every day. Not so good.
Qian Zhongshu is very uncomfortable in life. When he first arrived in Oxford, he kissed the land of Oxford. He went to take the bus by himself. When he got off the bus, he didn't stand still, the bus left, his face He fell to the ground and knocked off most of his front teeth.
Qian Zhongshu in life is not as cool as he is when he is making a fuss, like a child who cannot take care of himself. Even in interpersonal communication, Qian Zhongshu is like an innocent child, and all the problems encountered in life need to be solved by Yang Jiang.
Yang Jiang loves Qian Zhongshu, loves his talents, and can tolerate his shortcomings, and never tries to change him. Since life is an area where he is not good at, then she will be at ease to be his backing, so that he has no worries. During the 63 years of their company, she never bothered him with any housework, and even if there was trouble, she quietly solved it by herself.
is a little woman who should enjoy her husband’s care, but because she is married to Qian Zhongshu, she must make herself very strong, just like Qian Zhongshu’s younger brother described: she is like a tent, covering both elder brother and Qian Yuan. Inside, the wind and rain outside are all resisted by her. She always wants to keep the family and not let the eldest brother and them suffer a bit.
She is willing to be Qian Zhongshu's green leaf and foil, to solve the problems in life for him, no matter how hard and tired, she will not feel wronged.
Because of love, she has the courage to bear and face the suffering of life. I love you, not only for your strengths, your halo, the house and the black, but also your shortcomings and everything in you. The
movie is at the end, because of a manuscript, Qiu Qian knows all the truth. This old man loves her with his own life. Looking at the old and dying Ringer, Qiu Qian did not dislike her, but firmly grasped Lin. Ge's hand, said: I will never forget you again.
Faced with Ringer’s departure, she made the same choice as Ringer, and did not hesitate to exchange her time for Ringer’s life, even if she knew that it would be the same as Ringer’s experience. The world is forgotten, and she did not hesitate for a moment. If fate gives them another chance, she chooses the forgotten one and replaces it with her. Someone commented on
: The story is old-fashioned and tacky, and the plot is full of loopholes. It can't be called a good movie, but the concept of love conveyed behind the movie is moving.
In this reality where the material is supreme, and we want to be rewarded when we give, we may have forgotten to think, how should we love someone?
is like what Zhang Ailing said: I love you, I have no purpose, just love you.
What should be the purpose of loving, I love you, and I am willing to pay for you without asking for anything in return. It just so happens that you also love me, that should be the happiest thing.
In love, there is too much care, and love loses its original taste.
