, Jay Chou became popular because of playing the piano with fruits on Nicholas Tse’s show !
In the show, Jay Chou showed off his talents. He played a piece of "Blue and White Porcelain" with bananas, and also played "Old Wounds" by Nicholas Tse with a bigger pineapple! Although
looks entertaining, in fact, behind is the mastery and proficiency of the instrument , and you can "play" the instrument as you like.
As the saying goes, one minute on stage, 10 years of performance off stage, Jay Chou's level of performance is actually obtained by by practicing for 2 hours every day since he was 4 years old.
In the show, this skill of Jay Chou kept Nicholas Tse shouting: is amazing, too amazing!
and Nicholas Tse sincerely said: I look at you like this, I really hate myself! I regret it, why don't I listen to my mother like Jaylen. . .
Jay Chou was forced to practice piano by his mother. He is a very famous "tiger mother" terrier. . . Z3z
After that, Jay Chou revealed in the show that he was supervised by his mother to practice piano since childhood.
First of all, Jay Chou started to learn piano when he was only 4 years old. Zhou's mother stipulated that he must practice for 2 hours a day.
The point is that Jay Chou was very naughty when he was a child, and he was not a boy who could settle down. Every time
does the piano, he has to be naughty.
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But his mother is very insistent, staring at him practicing piano through wind and rain, and both soft and hard, not let him bargain.
and Jay Chou is a single-parent family. His mother is not financially wealthy, but she is frugal. Z3z hires the best piano teacher for him and spends all his savings to buy a good piano.
This makes Jay Chou very distressed: Why is it that everyone can play outside? It is painful for me to be in (the room).
often even questioned: why should I learn piano?
Zhou's mother is devoted to the child practicing piano.
Jay Chou said when he recalled: "Every time I practice the piano, my mother stands behind with a cane."
But he himself said "But now I really thank her."
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Now whenever he talks about his mother on the show, he will express his gratitude.
"If I say that my music has a deep foundation, it was forced by that cane."
Hearing this thank you, I think Jay Chou's mother would really feel relieved, right?
Because of his gratitude, Jay Chou also wrote the song "Listen to Mother" to thank her mother, thank her mother for always urging him!
Listen to what his mother said, Jay Chou
And what’s more exciting is that now Jay Chou sincerely likes music, even when his daughter was born, he said in an interview that after a little week like officially started to learn the piano, he My mother "forced" her own way and "forced" her daughter to practice every day!
▲ Jay Chou’s daughter played the piano in his MV
I was really impressed by Jay Chou’s performance.
In fact, behind every child practicing musical instruments and sports, there must be a parent who takes the child to class and accompanies the child to practice in the sun and rain.
When we grow up, we have a great skill. In fact, most of us would thank our parents and forced ourselves to grit our teeth and persevere.
will also be envious of why people do this and that, and I don’t seem to have so many specialties. . .
Although the material conditions are generally improved now, many parents think it’s okay for their children not to be masters. Many people think that “it’s better for children to be happy.” However, the competition is fiercer than before. When in the city, children themselves feel inferior and unconfident.
Mom and Dad’s camp has also experienced it myself. Because of my "happy education" concept, when I was 5 years old, I enrolled my child in swimming private tutoring, but she cried when she was in the water and clamored to come up. finally took 2 classes. The money was thrown into the water, and I didn't learn it.
ended up in elementary school. They had swimming lessons every week. The whole class was the only one who could not even get water. She was hit all of a sudden and came back to tell me. So there was no way, I hired a coach for her to make up swimming lessons on weekends.
My child still often refuses to go to swimming lessons because of the stricter coaches, but she also knows that because of the lessons, she has changed from the only child in the class who can't even draw water to swim and compete by herself Children who can still be in the middle reaches. The moment
makes her happy and proud, even though she always yells not to go to swimming lessons, she can still finish the lessons happily every time with our insistence. This thing about
actually gave me a deeper understanding of "happy education"
, should children be forced? Still needed. Even if you don't force it, you should at least push it "wisely."
However, the degree of pushing the baby, the chicken baby and the forced baby are different.
Jay Chou’s mother feels more like pushing the baby, which means that the severity is not very high.
Lang Lang and his father belong to "forceThe kind of "baby".
Parents Camp has published a very famous article before "The Confession of Piano Prodigy Lang Lang's Mother: The glory is great, the sorrow in my heart is deep! 》Z3z
Lang Lang is now a world-renowned pianist, but he was forced to play the piano by his father before. Even Lang Lang's mother can't bear to remember. From the outside, it is very sad.
she said when she recalled:
"Since our son was 3 years old, our family has been around the piano, focusing on Lang Lang's piano practice, with the goal of him becoming a pianist." The work of the Public Security Bureau, accompanied his son to Beijing to learn piano. Even the young Lang Lang separated from his mother. And when his mother came to Beijing to see Lang Lang, he didn't let her see her son: "Don't come, Lang Lang will fall in love with you and stop practicing piano!"
waited for Lang Lang to get longer The bigger the father is, the tougher he is, and he can't wait for his son to practice the piano in his sleep. And every time his mother went home after watching Lang Lang, Lang Lang was in this state: "He was clutching my clothes and crying like the sky was falling."
Lang Lang's father, the most impressive The controversial point is that he even lost control of his emotions and let his son die because Lang Lang could not play the piano. . . This is a negative case of Tiger Dad out of control. . .
Lang Lang was rejected by a professor at the Central Conservatory of Music. Lang Lang’s father fell into extreme disappointment and confusion. He blamed his son for the failure.
One day Lang Lang went home a little late because he was rehearsing for the choir at school, and Lang Guoren lost his temper. He dragged Lang Lang to the roof on the 11th floor of the apartment, hysterically took out a bottle of strong antibiotics, and forced Lang Lang to eat.
Lang Lang desperately avoided him, he pulled Lang Lang and screamed: "Then you will jump! Jump down and die!"
Under the high pressure of his father, Lang Lang did succeed. What is unexpected about
is that when he thinks back now, he is more thankful to his father.
He said: "Some abilities are indeed innate, but talent does not mean that you can achieve greater success with less effort. Life is a step by step, and this step is the next step."
"Interest is gained from practice! Thank you dad, for making me practice piano!"
▲ Lang Lang and his parents
Many people think that my family does not want any piano masters, my family does not want any musical wizards, and my children are safe and sound. It’s good, my children are happy,
, but in the end you will really find that the children are indeed safe when they grow up, but they are not happy at all.
Because when they have no competitive advantage, even if they do not participate in the competition, they will find that life is cruel, and you will always see various gaps.
There are some chicken soup titles on the Internet,
, in fact, it really reflects the truth.
"Don’t choose for your children at an age when children can endure hardshipChoose ease. "Z3z
This is probably the most likely choice for every parent to make a mistake. There is also a famous chicken blood mother, Tiger mother. Her way of educating children is actually shocking, and the parents camp also introduced it. Read this article "Five years have passed. What about the Chinese tiger mother and her children who caused a stir in the United States?".
Tiger mother Cai Meier requires her daughter to practice violin for 6 hours a day, and at the same time practice. Piano!
Once, the youngest daughter could not practice a piano song for a week, she threatened her daughter to tear down her dollhouse and donate it piece by piece to charity.
She also told her daughter, if If you don’t practice piano, you can’t eat lunch or dinner, don’t give her Christmas gifts and Hanukkah gifts, and you are not allowed to hold birthday parties for two, three, or four years! In response to the child’s challenge, the daughter began to scream at her, openly scolded her, and threw the glass in public! Once the daughter even said madly that Cai Meier was terrifying, and she smashed the glass in her hand madly, and swore If my mother didn’t let her go, she had to smash all the cups! Z3z
Later, Cai Meier also compromised. She allowed her little daughter to give up the violin and choose the tennis she likes. She also reduced the eldest daughter’s daily practice time from 6 hours. One and a half hours.
▲Cai Meier supervises her little daughter Lulu's piano practice, the picture is from Dailymail
When everyone thinks tiger mother is a negative case, many years later, today I will look at the educational achievements of tiger mother from Harvard, and her two daughters have learned from her. After graduation, and in interviews, they said: They are very grateful for the education of tiger mother...
The little daughter said when she recalled her childhood: "If I could choose between practicing piano and watching TV with friends, I would definitely not Choose to practice piano. "Z3z (the implication is that if you let your child choose, the child will definitely not choose to practice hard)
and she also said: "I will definitely be a tiger mother in the future." Being demanding parents is not always a bad thing. Sometimes it just means you really have faith in your child. "
Yes, when the children grow up, they will be really grateful. The choice of parents is actually to make their lives more possibilities. Angelababy saw Liu Xianhua perfect in a variety show before
Pulling out the violin, said one sentence: "Why did no one force me back then? "Z3z
So there is a sentence on the Internet, as long as the parents after school age
are forced by their parents to thank their parents, but the children who were let go are regretting... z81111zz0 but 13zzzzz81111zz0. Homework can get very high popularity, because parents have found that as long as works with, all the pictures of mothers and children are gone. Instead, they will always be jumping.
practice musical instruments and exercise more. It is the hardest hit area for parent-child relationship, because the practice of musical instruments and sports is accompanied by a lot of failures, children are easily frustrated, and the boring process also bores many children.
4-10-year-old children have different concentration hours, and even each child is different. It is difficult for 99% of children to practice the same thing for 60 minutes or even 90 minutes.
Of course, now that science and technology are developed, there are still many ways to "tweet the baby", whether it is musical instruments or sports, the following solutions are worth recommending to everyone.
The first solution: find professional coaches, sparring partners, and teachers
. This is easy to understand. Z3z plays on its own . It is better to let professional coaches, sparring partners, and teachers to guide the children. Don't be reluctant to pay, it's more cost-effective than you shout for an hour, right?
Reference price:
piano room sparring: dozens to hundreds, all, depending on the city area
online 1-on-1 sparring: cheaper, obviously cheaper than the piano room, no pick-up is required, is only tens of yuan an hour, yes Piano, violin, guzheng and accordion four instruments to practice with . It's not necessarily better than a real partner training, but at least mothers are kind and filial. . .
The second solution: Finding classmates for the child
Finding classmates for the child is equivalent to a sparring and equivalent to a competitor. This advantage is not only to grow up with each other, but also to compare objects. The effect is actually the best.
But the difficulty is that the classmates are not easy to find, and parents need to socialize and even maintain relationships. In addition, different children learn at different speeds, and may not be able to accompany them after a year of learning together, and they need to change to new companions.
The third scheme: regular competitions, grade examinations, and finding goals
This is very simple. Playing competitions can stimulate children very much. Seeing other people's achievements makes it easier to excite children's competitiveness.
Whether it is a musical instrument or sports, participating in a competition is the most intensive exercise for children. Technical level, on-the-spot performance, resistance to frustration and pressure, all inclusive!
Therefore, pushing baby wisely is the most preferred plan in the parent camp. We don’t appreciate the way Lang Lang’s father can push the baby out of emotional control. (Of course everyone may lose control, Lang Lang’s father is not easy) neither Appreciating the threatening way of pushing the baby by the tiger mother, Jay Chou's mother's way of standing up is okay (rattan stands for majesty), but it is recommended that parents use various methods to "push the baby" in a variety of ways. !
Finally, if your baby is learning any musical instrument or sports, give them a picture diary, and then show them progress, to achieve the effect of encouragement. In fact, it is also a good way.
Author: Mom and Dad Camp (ID: bamaying)
