[China Yangnet Online News] For parents, it is the most proud thing for a child to be admitted to the first choice, but is it really the best result for the child himself? A female alumnus of Beiyi stated in a PO article on "Dcard" that Beiyi was the most painful 3 years of her life.
According to a Taiwanese media report, a female alumnus in Taiwan said, "You will definitely not believe that I, who have been out of social work for more than 2 years, still often have nightmares of those 3 years at night." Until now, I still dream of “I’m late for school, I forgot my homework, I was left out by my classmates, I can’t find someone to practice in a team” and so on. I saw high school classmates writing on Facebook, “The North Girl is the most Happy 3 years, I asked 100 times and I didn’t regret the school I attended.” She couldn’t stand the torture and deleted all her high school classmates from her friends, because those posts seemed to ridicule her. Only she was unhappy in the North and she was a failure. By. The female alumni of
said that she used to be an optimistic and cheerful child, she didn’t care about grades, she didn’t pursue superficial brilliance, and she wouldn’t compare with others, but she became snobbish in her personality since she started studying at Beiyi Girl and she would be unconscious. To compare education, appearance, even work and happiness with other people, even if the heart knows this is not good, the body is completely out of control, and finally heartache writes "Beijing First Girl Middle School, one made me no longer look like this Own place".
Many netizens who graduated from prestigious schools sent warm encouragements, "Come on, I was like this in high school, and I can appreciate your mood", "I used to study so happy, but it really changed when I went to high school." I have this kind of painful feeling", "I am a girl in Beibei also suffering from depression due to school pressure."
Everyone's stress resistance is different, but many parents who graduated from star schools do adopt high-pressure "elite education" for their children, which makes them unbearable. In September of this year, a female freshman from Beiyi jumped to commit suicide because of schoolwork pressure, and wrote a suicide note "No need to find it, it’s me". Her parents usually take elite education and even watch movies in their leisure time. Xiao Wu's daughter wrote a report on her experience, but she didn't expect it to turn into such a pity in the future.
