Li Jian liked his 5 year old wife when he was 10 years old. He exposed Dink’s reason and envied him for having a good mother.
Although many people still think traditionally, they think that people should go through marriage and have children in their entire life. Suffer. But there are also many people who are progressive in their thinking. They have not compromised with the secular. Even though they have been married for many years, they have never had children. Although they have been criticized, they still insist on choosing DINK by themselves.
Li Jian and his wife Meng Xiaobei have been married for many years and have not had children. This is often discussed, but Li Jian's response to his own DINK also sparked heated discussions among netizens. In an interview,
mentioned the problem of not having children. Li Jian also bluntly said that he chose DINK because he felt that he did not need to continue his genes. There was nothing remarkable, nor was it an endangered species. There was no need. Continue yourself.
This advanced remark is also admirable. There are not many people who can think of this kind of thought. But in fact, most netizens think that the genes of Li Jian and Meng Xiaobei are still very good, and it is a pity not to have children. .
But in fact, as early as many years ago, Li Jian said in an interview why he did not have children. He believes that there are many problems in the current society, and he does not want his children to take his own life After going through the hardships again, he didn't feel how good he was. He must have a child to inherit his genes.
In fact, Li Jian’s remarks are not only admirable, but also enviable. In fact, the social pressure is still great now. Many people actually don’t want to get married and have children. However, they are bound by the world. Not everyone can be like Li Jian. Fortunately, you can insist on not being influenced by your own ideas.
Li Jian can carry Dink through to the end. In addition to his own ideas, the support of his family is also indispensable. Many people succumb to reality because of family reasons. Li Jian is undoubtedly very lucky. He has a good mother who is enlightened and supports him. .
Li Jian was born in a family of artists in Harbin. His father Li Jiuquan was a famous Peking opera martial artist in the local area at the time, and his mother was an ordinary worker. Li Jian also had an older sister and younger brother. Li Jian's father originally wanted all three children to inherit his father's work, so Li Jian started learning martial arts at a very young age.
Although such a life is very bitter and it makes his mother very distressed, Li Jian himself does not feel it at all, but he likes the power of swordsmanship. Even because I learned martial arts a little bit, I became the "Kid King" in that area of my family, and he did naughty martial arts.
Unfortunately, as Li Jian grew older and taller, he was no longer used to learning Peking Opera, so there was no way out and his parents had to supervise him to study well. Li Jian's love for music actually appeared in junior high school. Because of his love for music, Li Jian stayed in the piano room every day to watch others play the guitar. Li Jian's mother felt sorry for her son, so she gritted her teeth and spent 90 yuan to buy a guitar for her son. You must know that it was her two-month salary.
Fortunately, Li Jian did not learn guitar on a whim. He practiced silently for many years, and even in the third year of high school, he worked diligently to learn folk singing for several months in order to add points. He was later admitted by Tsinghua University as a literary specialty student. Now, although Li Jian said lightly in the show, he actually put in a lot of effort.
After graduating from Tsinghua University, Li Jian joined the State Administration of Radio, Film and Television to become a network engineer. This was an iron job at the time. Unfortunately, facing this boring job, he felt more and more boring, and finally he chose to quit. After leaving work, he and Lu Gengxu formed the "Shui Mu Nian Hua" combination.
Surprisingly, Li Jian’s parents did not object to his son’s decision. Instead, they believed that as long as the son can support himself, he should not rely on his parents to support him when he grows up. However, Li Jian's mother was still worried about her son's life constraints, so she often gave him money for various reasons, which is considered to be silent support for her son's music dream.
It is precisely because of the support of his parents that Li Jian’s music can set sail smoothly, but his development can be considered smooth. Shui Mu Nianhua is very popular because of the song "I Have You in My Life".Later, Li Jian withdrew from "Shui Mu Nian Hua", but his development is also very good, and now he has become the darling of major variety shows, even netizens like him very much.
Li Jian not only has a smooth career development, but also his love of life that he decided early in his relationship. It can be said that Li Jian fell in love with his 5 year old wife Meng Xiaobei when he was 10 years old.
Meng Xiaobei is also a very good girl. She is the daughter of Li Jian's parents and friends. She is outstanding and versatile, and she has also been admitted to Tsinghua University to become Li Jian's sister. Because of her good looks, she was dug by scouts many times to get her into the entertainment industry, but Meng Xiaobei only wanted to engage in scientific research. She was still a doctoral student at Tsinghua University and worked directly at the institute after graduating from school.
Li Jian and his wife Meng Xiaobei are five years apart. The two have been childhood sweethearts, and the two have become close friends. This kind of relationship is also enviable. Faye Wong’s classic "Legend" was actually composed and sung by Li Jian, and the phrase in the song "Just because I looked at you more in the crowd, I will never forget your face", which depicts Li back then The scene where Jian saw Meng Xiaobei for the first time.
Li Jian and Meng Xiaobei are very affectionate, but the two have never given birth to a child, but Li Jian's mother understands this matter. In her opinion, her son has grown up and has a family, so she shouldn’t interfere with their lives, especially after the death of her husband. Li Jian’s mother also understands that life is nothing but a falsehood. The important thing is to live out your own excitement.
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