1 Among the many women in "Scary Step by Step", in addition to the heroine Ruoxi, there is another person who is more favored than her, and that is her sister Marta Ruolan.
Compared with Marta Ruoxi, Marta Ruoxi's life can be described as happy and lucky. Z4z
first talk about her family background, Marty Ruolan, as the Northwest General Soldier, the eldest daughter of General Marty. General, this position is equivalent to the current governor. The Northwest General was even more important as a governor with real power.
still remember that when Ruolan was 15 years old, she followed her father, General Martai, back to Beijing to report on her work. That day, she was riding a horse in the outskirts, laughing like a string of silver bells, floating in the mountains and forests, and it was full of joy. This energetic and heroic girl was seen by the eighth prince, and fell in love at first sight ever since.
Eighth prince asked the emperor and pointed Ruolan to him as a side blessing. His father is an important court official and her husband is an elder brother. From birth to marriage, life is worry-free.
Not only that, except for Fujin Guo Luoluo Minghui, she is the only one in the house of Eighth Brother. You should know that in the Qing Dynasty, after each elder brother was named a prince, he could have one Fujin, two Fujin, and four Fujin, and the rest were collectively called "concubines" or "Gege".
, but there are no extra women in the house of Ba Age, so there is no need to deal with the jealousy in the backyard every day. There are few and clean. I have to say that this kind of treatment can be said to be met but not desired at the time.
If you say, Ji concubine is happy. Then, she was even more fortunate to be loved by Ba Ge. After
got married, eighth elder brother eliminated Ruolan's invitation to Fujin, and followed her wishes, giving her what she wanted. Not only that, at the time, the distinction between concubines and concubines was very serious. However, Ruolan's share is indispensable for what Minghui has in Fu Jin. In fact, eight princes spent time with Ruolan when he kept the year old. The love of
even aroused the envy of the Bafu Jin Minghui. Minghui knew that Ba Age's heart was all on Ruolan, and it was precisely because she saw that the person she loved didn't like herself, that led Minghui to fight her "imaginary enemy" Ruolan for a lifetime.
her family is reliable, and her husband is also good. He even got the only favor of her husband, which should be extremely happy. Therefore, before Ruoxi and Ba Age made a deal, the Ba Age always loved Ruolan.
For an ancient woman, she had no worries about food and clothing, and her husband did not have too many women, and she even got her husband's only favor. This kind of treatment can kill all women at that time. Such a smooth life can be said to be rare in the world.
However, marriage is like a siege. People outside the city want to go out, and people inside the city want to come in.
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Ruolan did not look like she was favored when she played, and she was often bullied by her protagonist Fujin Minghui and her sister Mingyu.
Once, eight princes came to eat, Qiaohui was very happy, busy preparing dishes and hygiene. I still remember that Qiaohui said at the time that although Fang Fujin didn't care about these, others would also look at the dishes. Living in the elder brother's mansion, without grace, and making the Eight Fortunes an eyesore, life must be difficult.
Even when Ruolan was about to die, she didn't want glory or fate, nor fate. All she wants is a divorce letter. At that time, it was an extremely shameful thing for a woman to be discontinued, and this “shame” was what Ruolan wanted in her life.
is obviously favored by Ba Age, and no one in the house bullies her. Why does Ruo Lan Mingming have so many good cards but no good results in the end? I thought, maybe it was because she didn't want to let go of herself, indulging in the past and refused to come out.
Ruolan grew up in the Northwest Barracks. Mongolian girls do not follow the rules everywhere like those in the palace. Drinking alcohol, eating meat, and learning riding skills were all Ruolan's daily routines when she was young. Perhaps it was because of this kind of boldness and joy that Ba Age paid attention to her.
was in the Northwest Military Camp. She fell in love with a Han soldier named Changqingshan. And Ruolan's riding skills were taught by Chang Qing Shan. I thought that they could get married, but when the imperial order came down, Ruolan was forced to marry Ba Ge. After
got married, Ruolan seemed to confess her fate and was pregnant with Ba Ge's child. But when she knew that her father hurriedly pushed Changqingshan to the battlefield because she was afraid of bastard's reproach, and caused Changqingshan to die, Ruolan collapsed. She believes that she herself betrayed Evergreen Mountain.First, kill Changqingshan later.
Since then, she has shut herself in the Buddhist hall and chants every day. He turned a blind eye to Ba Ye’s goodwill, and turned a blind eye to Ba Fu Jin Minghui’s bullying. She seems to be living in her own small world, regardless of external perspectives, and never been to the world. She lives just to survive.
Whether it is Ruolan's marriage to Ba Ge, or Changqingshan's accidental death. In fact, everything is an accident. This is not Ruolan's fault, let alone Ba Age's fault. To blame, perhaps Changqingshan and Ruolan have no chance. Therefore, no one is guilty of all this.
Faced with accidents, some people choose to start again and continue to live a good life. However, some people blamed the crime. Perhaps Ruolan didn't want to let her go. Apart from her dislike of Ba prince, she hated the cowardly and incompetent self who was incapable of resisting the decree and let her sweetheart die.
Many people say that if Ruolan doesn't mind so much, she can definitely live well. However, Ruolan's heart is empty. More than ten years have passed, does she still hate Baye? I shouldn't hate it, but I don't love it anymore. What she clings to is only the beauty of her youth and hatred of that weak and incompetent self.
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If we say that Ruolan's escape is only the act of one person, but her escape not only hurts herself, but also hurts others.
First of all, she wasted her life in vain.
Ruolan was about 16 years old when she married into the palace, and she was about 35 years old when she died. For twenty years, she locked herself in a Buddhist hall, praying for blessings except for chanting, without desire or request.
Imagine that you are not allowed to go shopping, chat with friends, and all entertainment activities are forbidden. You are locked in a room, and you are asked to recite scriptures and pray for blessings every day for 20 years. Apart from wasting time, what's the point? ?
Ruolan doesn't understand, but she is unwilling to face a new life, and she is unwilling to accept the death of Changqingshan. Ruolan puts all the days in the Buddhist hall. In addition to remembering the beauty of the past, it is to escape the tragedies of the death of her lover and the marriage of the unloved. However, this kind of evasion, apart from wasting life, does not change any facts.
Secondly, she asked her relatives to worry about her. Z4z
Ruoxi was in the eighth elder brother's mansion, basically because of the quarrel between her sister and Mingyu, and even contradicted the Eight Fortunes and Minghui. Ruoxi is a teenager younger than Ruolan, but such a young girl is worried about her sister, afraid that she will be bullied in the house, and even worried that her life will be bad, so she went to the Eighth Brother to argue. Isn't this Ruolan's dereliction of duty?
In the play, Ruoxi and Ruolan’s parents do not appear. But it is conceivable that if you are a parent and see that your child's heart is ashamed and struggles every day, then you can imagine your inner worry.
There are no parents who do not love their children.
I don't know if Ruolan's father will regret his actions. But if you compare your heart to heart, if your daughter is unhappy in modern times, then many parents will definitely find a way to divorce their daughter and son-in-law. Parents, in fact, do not need how much money their children make, as long as the children are happy and happy.
Unfortunately, Ruolan cannot divorce Ba Age. However, the daughter who knew that her eldest daughter had a bad life and was depressed because of her own reasons. How much should General Martai hate himself, and how much he cares about his daughter. I have to say that Ruolan's cowardice and avoidance also make those who love her worry about her.
Finally, she ruined the sincerity of others.
In the play, Ruolan ruined the hearts of two people. One is Changqingshan and the other is Ba Age. He was a childhood sweetheart with Changqingshan, but in the face of the gift of marriage, he did not dare to refuse, but he was unwilling to open up and sever relationship with Changqingshan. Leading to Evergreen Mountain was finally killed in battle.
Facing the eighth prince, he obviously does not love, but he does not refuse the goodness of the eighth prince. Facing the sincerity of Ba Age, if you can't face each other with sincerity, make it clear. However, what she shouldn't be, while ignoring Ba Age, she also accepted the conveniences and privileges Ba Age gave her.
Everyone’s sincerity is very valuable. Ruolan's heart is in Changqingshan, but her ruthlessness shuts down her trust in everyone, but it also ruins the true heart of Ba Age.
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Ruolan's life is sad but hateful. The sad thing is that lovers cannot stay together, but the hateful is the wavesIt is meaningless to spend my whole life.
If we encounter this situation, what should we do?
First of all, in the face of people you don't love, cut it off. For those who do not love, leaving is the best ending. Don't waste your time, and don't hurt the sincerity of others.
Secondly, don't worry about the past, go to meet the new life. In life, we always encounter many setbacks. For example, loss of love, unemployment, the departure of relatives, etc. These are all sad things, but they are also things that have happened and cannot be changed.
Faced with setbacks, what we should do is not to be immersed in sadness, but to stand up amidst the setbacks and to welcome a new life. Everyone's life is not all smooth sailing. Being immersed in the past will only get worse. And letting go of the past, welcoming a new life, and getting to know new people may make your life better.
Author: fat meow, a little soup writing class students.
