Love is the most beautiful thing in this world, because it is sweet, it is beautiful. But there are also some loves that become bitter and cruel for various reasons. Such love will become a scar that cannot be erased in a lifetime. Our country has attached great importance to etiquette since ancient times. When discussing marriage, we must pay attention to the right person. Therefore, teacher-student relationship in our country has always been a relatively sensitive topic, and many people feel that they violate ethics.
Even though teacher-student love has been criticized in our country, there are still people who are willing to bear the criticism of others in order to pursue their love and eventually get happiness. There used to be a mother and daughter like this. They both had similar experiences and fell in love with their teacher, But the mother finally got her wish and was happy with her lover, but her daughter’s love was under the prevention of her mother. Died early and ended in fruitless. This daughter is Qiong Yao, a very famous romantic novel writer in my country.
My mother fell in love with her teacher, and finally got her wish with persistence.
I believe everyone has heard of Qiong Yao. After all, her romantic novels are so famous that many people like to watch her. Book, but not many people know Qiong Yao's family. Qiong Yao's mother was Yuan Xingshu, born in a scholarly family. The Yuan family used to be officials for several generations. Yuan Xingshu’s father was also a scholar of the Qing Dynasty. Therefore, the Yuan family is very rich. Yuan Xingshu has been a daughter of a daughter since she was a child.
Yuan Xingshu was born in the scholarly family, so she was influenced by knowledge since she was a child. Her parents knew the importance of knowledge to a person, so Yuan Xingshu was sent early The school accepts education .
Yuan Xingshu's academic performance in school is pretty good, although it is not particularly good, it is better than the average. When she was in middle school, her parents arranged her to study in Liangji Girls' High School in Beiping, is where she met her life partner .
Yuan Xingshu was influenced by the family environment and was interested in literary works since she was a child. When she was studying in Liangji Girls' High School, she met Chen Zhiping, a Chinese teacher who also loves literature. Chen Zhiping looks very handsome, and Because he likes to read books, he has a unique temperament , so from the outside, he feels that this person has a talent.
Yuan Xingshu was at the age of seventeen or eighteen. At the beginning of her love affair, she began to approach Chen Zhiping by discussing literary issues, and the two of them gradually became familiar with each other. Although the two are teachers and students, the actual age difference is only seven years, . The two are very close to each other. Finally Yuan Xingshu expressed his heart to Chen Zhiping and received a response from the other party.
Yuan Xingshu at the time wanted to announce this to her home after she graduated, but when she was about to graduate, Chen Zhiping was transferred to Taiwan Normal University as a professor of Chinese Studies because of work reasons. Therefore, Yuan Xingshu wanted to identify to his family before Chen Zhiping left, and he notified the incident in advance, but he was unanimously opposed by his family.
Her parents disagree with her marrying Chen Zhiping. On the one hand, the relationship between teachers and students will be criticized. They don’t want their daughter to suffer from a blind eye after marriage. On the other hand, Chen Zhiping’s family is too much. When they are poor, the Yuan family will not marry their daughter to a poor man to endure hardships.
But Yuan Xingshu did not give up so easily. She made a lot of trouble with her family in order to get her love. even had to sever the relationship with her parents. is also helpless to this unruly and wayward eldest lady and his parents, had to agree to let her marry Chen Zhiping, so Yuan Xingshu came to Taiwan with Chen Zhiping.
gave birth to children, but did not agree with her daughter
Yuan Xingshu was very happy to marry a loved one, Soon she gave Chen Zhiping a child and a daughter . Just thisThe two children were born at an untimely time. At that time, it coincided with the national disaster and social turmoil. Yuan Xingshu and Chen Zhiping had no choice but to flee everywhere. The originally impoverished family suffered a lot in the process of fleeing, but it is strange to say that Yuan Xingshu, who was a daughter from a young age, was able to live a life of displacement with her husband without complaint .
Later, the family fled to Shanghai, where they lived temporarily. The price level in Shanghai is extremely high. The family will have no work for a while, and the family life is even more impoverished. Qiong Yao was not full of food and clothes when she was young, and her childhood was not happy .
Soon after living in Shanghai, Yuan Xingshu gave birth to another child. Parents who had no energy on Qiong Yao were even more neglected since the birth of his younger brother. has almost lost her position in the eyes of her parents. , Qiong Yao in childhood became extremely withdrawn and reluctant to talk to others because she was not cared for, but her parents did not seem to notice this. She is still indifferent to her, also breeds Qiong Yao's resentment towards her parents.
My daughter fell in love with the teacher, but her mother tried her best to stop her.
Qiong Yao reached the age of school, Yuan Xingshu sent her to the boarding school in order to save worry, is usually not used Go home to . Due to her childhood experience, she is withdrawn and does not interact with others, so she has no friends at school and no one to help her in her studies. This has led to Qiong Yao's unsatisfactory academic performance and serious problems with partial subjects.
her daughter has a problem, Yuan Xingshu’s first reaction is not to comfort and guide, is to beat, scold and sarcasm, she often ridicules her daughter even more shocking Qiong Yao’s self-confidence. There was even one time when Qiong Yao was disappointed and wanted to take sleeping pills to commit suicide. After being discovered, Yuan Xingshu was beaten and scolded again, and didn't care about his daughter at all.
Gradually Qiong Yao also grew up, she discovered her interest-writing novel . When she was 16 years old, she wrote the first novel in her life, "The Shadow of Clouds", but Yuan Xingshu scolded her: she is not doing her business. Qiong Yao, who was disappointed with her mother, no longer wanted her recognition. At that time, the only reader of her novel was her Chinese teacher Jiang Ren.
Jiang Ren is very kind. He not only reads Qiong Yao's novels, but also gives her some practical suggestions. From Jiang Ren here, Qiong Yao has received the care he has never felt before. She slowly fell in love with the feeling of being with Jiang Ren, the two of them were like-minded and soon fell in love with each other, Even though there is a gap of 25 years between them, Qiong Yao doesn't care about .
But after Qiong Yao told Yuan Xingshu about the incident, Yuan Xingshu did not support her daughter because of her own experience. She ran to Qiongyao’s school and made a big fuss. In the end, Jiang Ren was also dismissed because of this incident. In this way, Qiong Yao's love was ruined by her mother. .
In the end, she was close to collapse and married a man who loves literature, but after marriage, she and her husband were still at odds and could only use writing to pass the time, during which time she wrote about her later fame The book "Outside the Window", This book has been recognized by most people but not only by her husband and mother.
Her husband felt that the love story in her book was too explicit, and he couldn't bear it and chose to divorce. And her mother Yuan Xingshu also felt that her daughter's book was too embarrassing to her. In anger, she broke off the relationship with her daughter under .
Today, Qiong Yao is an old man who is nearly eighty years old. Her life is indeed unfortunate, but these can not stop her talents. Qiong Yao’s mother may not love her, but she has readers who loves her a lot. It’s enough to have these. Qiong Yao should be happy for the rest of her life.
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