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Yufeng Zhi, Zhang's first wife. Everyone knows the legendary love between Zhang Xueliang and Zhao Yidi, life and death, but few people know the story of Fengzhi.
Yu Fengzhi’s autobiography is the first biography that the author has ever read. Many years have passed, and I still remember the lonely beauty in the depths of those years.
Yujiayou female early grows into
June 7, 1897, I was born in a wealthy merchant family in Jilin, my father Yu Wendou served as Lishu County President of the Chamber of Commerce.
It is said that on the day I was born, a wandering expert happened to pass by the door. Seeing the newly-born baby girl in the family, she combined her birthday horoscope, and predicted on the spot: "This woman has a deep blessing and a phoenix fate."
Father heard that I will be able to marry a high school in the future. He was overjoyed and took it for me. Name Fengzhi. However, the expert didn't tell his father the calamity of my hit, and left in a hurry.
My enlightened father taught me to read and write since I was young.
In 1911, when I was in my cardamom years, I went to the grassland with the husband of the private school. Write the next song "Guomen East": "The sun is warm and the wind is clear, the scenery outside the wall is bright, the ancient city west of the green grass with red flowers. The vast prairie, wild fruits and juice, the crowing of the orioles and the frogs. Accompanied by Mr. Wind..." Mr.
was surprised and greatly appreciated.
There are poems and books in the belly. Outstanding girls are always a focus wherever they go.
Father has a life-and-death acquaintance is Zhang Zuolin. His father has a life-saving grace for Zhang Zuolin, and Zhang Zuolin has always been in his heart.
Uncle Zhang visited my house once and saw me who was smart, dignified, and knowledgeable, and showed everyone's demeanor. Immediately thought of Zhang Xueliang (the character Hanqing), the sixth son of his family who was just right and not yet married.
I heard my father say that I have a deep blessing, my life is Feng’s fate, and my name is Fengzhi. Uncle Zhang was even more happy and immediately decided to make a marriage with my father.
I became the prospective daughter-in-law recognized by Zhang's father.
Uncle Zhang’s eyes are really poisonous. I chose me to be my daughter-in-law, knowing that I know how to filial off my in-laws, I can educate my children, I can help my husband when I go out, and I can take care of the affairs of the house internally.
In addition, his son married our Yu family's daughter, and can also get financial support from my family to strengthen the Northeast Army.
In a word, in Zhang's father's view, the combination of two people who match the two characters is not conducive to a good thing. It will surely promote a good marriage and achieve a good career.
In that era, as a daughter of the Yu family, my lifelong event was the order of my parents and the words of the matchmaker.
A handsome door is as deep as the sea
In 1913, I was 16 years old, and I have passed a good year. The results were admitted to Fengtian Women's Normal School.
In this year, Zhang Zuolin became the king of the Northeast, mastering Fengtian's military and political power and separatizing one side.
Zhang Xueliang, like the new youth of that era, was deeply influenced by the new thoughts. He also yearned for free love in his heart and opposed arranged marriage.
When he heard that his father had already made a marriage appointment for him without his knowledge, he was surprised that the other party was a woman he had never met before.
The marriage he advocates is definitely combined by love, but facing the strength of his father, he strongly refutes it. In a stalemate between the two parties, his father promised that as long as he acknowledged the marriage, he would not stop him from looking for "true love" outside.
Zhang Xueliang was unwilling, but he was extremely dissatisfied with the conflict. He arrived at Zhengjiatun when he proposed a marriage, and he deliberately avoided seeing him. I immediately returned the gift list to the matchmaker, and gave a five-character poem:
Qin Jin Dynasty from ancient times, the first one.
The gifts are so pricey that it is difficult to touch the hearts of the people.
matchmakerAfter returning, Zhang Xueliang was curious as soon as he saw a match, and he simply came to see who I was.
When he met me for the first time, he found that what Zhang's father said was not false.
In 1915, Zhang Xueliang and I officially held a wedding, and we were married. I was 18 years old and Zhang Xueliang was 15 years old.
One is a handsome man, and the other is a daughter of Fengming. It seems to everyone that the conclusion of this marriage is a match made in heaven.
Unexpectedly, when I entered the handsome door, it was as deep as the sea, and the rest of my life was really troubled.
Married into Zhang’s Mansion, only to realize that the relationship between the handsome mansion is so complicated. There are several aunts and aunts on the top, and various people on the bottom. I am neither overbearing nor overbearing. With my innate ability, I am able to manage my housework with ease. It didn't take long for me to get praise from my elders and respect from my subordinates.
After I married into Zhang's family, I took the initiative to attend the Law Department of Northeastern University South School. Knowing that my husband is going to fight on the front line, I once wrote a small poem for him, embedding my worries, thoughts and blessings in the lines:
Evil-sleeping Jiaoer crying even more, Qingqiu Lengyue Bairu day.
Two tears flow, people are poor and thin, looking to the end of the world with red sleeves.
The wind on the mandarin pillow is violent, and the sky is terrifying.
Pray to the heavens for blessing, the recruitment should be as usual.
The life after marriage is harmonious. Our husband and wife respect each other as guests, but we always feel that something is missing.
Han Qing was originally a playboy. He was so romantic and confiscated at all. He felt that he had married his wife so early, who was virtuous and capable, taking care of himself in everything, and felt bored and bored.
So, not long after marriage, he lingered in the wind and moon field again, spending the whole day drinking and drinking, and the peach color continued.
I am helpless, I also have my pride, can't let go of face, and don't want others to watch jokes, so I can only put my ears to ears, pretend to ignore, and swallow the sadness alone.
My husband’s romantic nature has shattered my self-esteem. A woman like me with a good family background, good cultivation, and good character, even the handsome looks at me with admiration and trust, and my aunts also treat me. Very satisfied, but I only failed to win my husband's heart.
My elder Han Qing is three years old. After getting married, he does not call me his wife, but is used to call him eldest sister. This "elder sister" speaks of my sorrow, and reflects my pale youth.
To my husband, I am more like a big sister than a wife. My husband treats me more with respect, rather than tender and considerate.
I forgive Han Qing for being young and frivolous, young and vigorous, waiting for the day when he matures.
Unexpectedly, what I was waiting for was news of Han Qing's blatant derailment.
Wen Jun's two meanings become infinite
The other party is Zhao Yidi, who is called Miss Zhao Si because she ranks fourth among sisters . She also came from a famous family and was young. At the time, she was studying at Tianjin Noble Girls' School and she was also engaged.
They met in 1926. The 25-year-old Hanqing met Zhao Yidi, a 14-year-old middle school student in Tianjin’s social field.
Miss Zhao Si is naturally beautiful, smart and cute, graceful posture, graceful posture, and suddenly attracted Han Qing's attention. The two fell in love at first sight, were overwhelmed and fell in love ever since.
A young woman who is obsessed with the young handsome man, is only in pursuit of the true love in her heart. The young woman loved so vigorously, she retired for the marshal, and broke up with her father, went to Shenyang alone, just to see her sweetheart.
In 1929, when Zhao's father Qinghua learned of her daughter's elopement, he was ashamed and angrily declared that he had severed father-daughter relations with the four daughters.
I know that there are not many women in Hanqing in these years, and those romantic anecdotes have been ruined. I just treat him as a pleasure-seeking and acting every time. But for Miss Zhao Si, he was serious, and sparks ignited in his heart.
This Miss Zhao Si, she looks so elegantQuiet, in the face of the menacing love, I can ignore it.
Han Qing was unable to parry, took her to the door, and resolutely said to me: "I want to keep her."
As a wife, I firmly refused.
Zhao Si begged hard, saying that as long as she could stay with the marshal, she would be willing to be a secretary, not a status. Seeing such a delicate woman in front of me, a woman who is infatuated with love and selflessness, I feel compassion and intolerance.
Zhao Yidi said: "I am willing to sacrifice everything for him." She was simply with him, ignoring morals and ethics, ignoring rumors, regardless of namelessness, and even accepting the break between her father and her.
Miss Zhao Si's determination to fight the fire with moths, chooses Han Qing, is willing to attend to the side, and follow resolutely.
Han Qing on the other side also looked firm. At this moment, I admit that I was shaken and softened. There was a strong sense of frustration in my heart, and I read from their eyes that it was hard to separate.
My self-cultivation cannot allow me to beat the mandarin ducks and break them up, and I do not want Han Qing to resent me from now on. No matter how unwilling I was, I was forced to let go.
Maybe only an innocent and innocent woman like Zhao Si can bring Han Qing infinite freshness. My wisdom and virtuousness have been lost to her Qiaoxiaoqianxi.
I agreed to accept Zhao Si, but I also offered my terms.
The two people who got the answer were happy, and I watched them cheering in front of my eyes, and my heart fell into coldness in an instant.
Han Qing quickly arranged for Zhao Si to live in Beiling Villa. Since then, they have been like glue and lacquer, lingering companions.
Their romantic love spread throughout the city in Shenyang, and I finally understood that I was completely wrong in this step.
My generosity and tolerance are the happiness of another woman. I have perfected Hanqing and Zhao Si, but I forgot to perfect myself.
Later I learned that this accomplishment is just the beginning.
Lin Hua Xie Chunhong, too in a hurry
In 1930, the crystallization of their love came to the world.
I heard that Miss Zhao Si was weak after giving birth. I visited many times and sent a lot of nutritious supplements to provide everything needed.
I even thought about taking Zhao Si and her children into the Marshal's Mansion.
On December 12, 1936, Han Qing and Yang Hucheng launched military remonstrances in Xi'an to force Chiang Kai-shek to resist Japan, and the "Xi'an Incident" broke out.
Finally Chiang Kai-shek accepted the idea of "stop the civil war and unite with the Communist Party to resist Japan", and the incident was resolved peacefully, but Jiang seized Han Qing! .
I am anxious, he is in trouble, I want to help him through.
The world was unpredictable. Later, Xueliang’s detention place went from Fenghua, Zhejiang, to Huangshan, Anhui, to Pingxiang, Jiangxi, to Chenzhou and Yuanling, Hunan, and to Xiuwen City, Guizhou in 1939...
This It was the catastrophe in Han Qing's life, and I accompanied him through four years of confinement.
He often shed tears and chanted "Life is precious, love is more expensive. If it is for freedom, both can be thrown away". I was kind enough to persuade him in exchange for his will to survive.
Long-term displacement, more than a thousand days and nights of labor, unfortunately, I contracted a serious illness and was diagnosed with breast cancer.
The illness is ruthless, and only going to the United States for medical treatment can save his life.
Han Qing also persuaded me to go, hoping that I would be treated. In desperation, I agreed.
Before leaving, I want to settle Hanqing's daily life. He needs a person who loves him like life to take care of him and accompany him.
This candidate can only be Zhao Si, and I wrote to entrust Han Qing to her.
Zhao Si readily agreed, and I can let go of my heart a bit.
In 1940, I took a flight to the United States for medical treatment. At that moment, I never thoughtAfter this time, he and Han Qing have never seen him again in this life.
The Xi'an Incident was like this, and it quietly changed the fate of Zhao Si and me. Zhao Si stayed with Han Qing until her death at the age of 88. And I was across the ocean in the United States, and spent the rest of my life alone.
I was treated in the U.S. and had several surgeries, and I was tortured. Originally, I insisted on conservative treatment, but for good luck, I had to accept the doctor’s recommendation to remove the breast to prevent the spread of cancer cells.
Faced with my incomplete body, I have been depressed, and I have been worried about my husband on the other side of the ocean, but I still look forward to returning to China as soon as possible to be with Han Qing.
During the painful days of chemotherapy, I seemed to be in purgatory, ready to suffer.
I finally got through.
Since people grow and hate the water long east
The cost of serious illness, and the children who have to study to live, my economy Stretched.
Han Qing’s release from prison is far away, I decided to make more money in the future to ensure his life is worry-free.
Therefore, I began to think about the way to make money. With my extraordinary courage and business talent from a merchant family, I ventured into Wall Street and started trading stocks and real estate.
I have a sharp eye and a superb predictive ability. I quickly made my first pot of gold in my life. Later, I also gradually made a breakthrough in the stock market. I was also known as the "God of Oriental Women".
While trading in stocks, I used my accumulated wealth to buy houses and land, and at the same time, I was actively fighting for Hanqing's early restoration of freedom.
However, in 1960, news came from China that Han Qing believed in Christ and Christians who wanted to be baptized must be monogamous.
In order to cut off Hanqing's back path, the authorities gave him two choices, either to die or to terminate the relationship with me. I didn't investigate the reasons.
In the long wait, how can I accept such a cruel reality. After calling, the young marshal said: "No matter what happens, we are still us."
is so hateful that it leaves the book, and the song ends.
I deeply understand his affection and hard choices. I also thought of Zhao Si as a woman. In the past 30 years, she had no name and no distinction, and it was not easy to serve Han Qing.
In order for Han Qing to live, I reluctantly agreed to sign the divorce agreement, which fulfilled them again.
In 1986, when I was 89 years old, I bought the former residence of Elizabeth Taylor in Beverly Hills at a big price, and planned to leave it to Han Qing as the residence for him and Miss Zhao Si in their old age.
However, after all, this villa failed to wait for the owner I reserved, and it became an unsent gift.
My life in the United States is very generous, living in a mansion, it can be said to be rich in food and clothing, life is worry-free. Unfortunately, of my four children, three of my sons died, or were insane, or were knocked into vegetatives, and died one after another.
My beloved sons who are precious, leave me first, and my heart is riddled with holes. In his later years, only the eldest daughter Zhang Luying and his wife were accompanied.
I am just an ordinary woman, born and separated from my husband, and goodbye to my sons. The pain and disaster in life are really too much for me.
My lonely beauty, slowly withered in the long wait, and gradually withered.
In my old age, I was reminded of old and sick. In 1993, I had a foreboding that I might not be able to wait for Han Qing.
I know that the end is coming, and I took the opportunity to leave a last word to Han Qing, even though he and I have not seen him for 50 years, even though he and I have been divorced for decades. .
I also left a will and asked my daughter and son-in-law to leave a tomb next to my tomb, and wait for Han Qing to lie there with me a hundred years later, just because we have different lives and deaths in the same cave.
On March 20, 1990, I passed away in a luxury villa in Los Angeles, USA. Until I died, I did not see Han Qing.
This life, I have gone through many calamities, both physically and mentally, and tasted suffering. I was Han Qing all my life, and I waited all my life, but did not wait.
I waited from blue silk to gray hair, waiting for half a century. What a long life for decades.
后记
After Yu Feng’s death, Zhang Xueliang and Zhao Si went to her tomb to worship and sighed: Nothing. Unfortunately, this one is the only one to blame.
It's a pity that Yu Fengzhi, who was deeply asleep, couldn't hear it anymore.
Zhang Xueliang also wrote a poem for Yu Fengzhi, this poem looks very affectionate:
Qing name Fengzhi is unusual, Fengzhi fell to Phoenix Mountain.
There are many Sanskrit languages in the ancient temples in the deep mountains.
Even though he was full of regrets and guilt for betraying her, even murmured in tears in front of her grave, but none of these changed Zhang Xueliang's ultimate choice.
After Zhao Si died, he was buried in the famous Valley of the Temples Memorial Cemetery on the east coast of Hawaii. In October 2001, Zhang Xueliang was also buried here.
Same as his choice when he was alive, he chose to stay with Zhao Si until his old age, and still chose to live with Zhao Si at the same point after death.
is like a classic comment given by someone: "Your tolerance and ritual are no better than others' Qiaoxiaoqianxian; your talent is no better than others' coquettish and foolish. Yu Fengzhi has been waiting for half a lifetime, using her tolerance. Harmony made Zhang Xueliang and Ms. Zhao’s legendary life. I always feel that there is no right or wrong between the two of them, but he has never fallen in love with her in his entire life, and she has become a lifelong habit of loving him."
Yes, he has never fallen in love with her in his life, but she has become a habit of a lifetime than him. What a painful irony this is.
Fengzhi had dedicated, waited, waited, exhausted everything, and in the end it was nothing. She failed to become the person her husband loved.
Yu Fengzhi left to the world, after all, the lonely figure of that lonely beauty, and a grave next to the tomb that will be filled with fantasy and will remain empty forever.
(This article is only the words of the author's family, I will talk about feelings and descriptions, and leave everything to be commented by everyone.)
-Author-
Bend, love poetry, infatuated with the Republic of China, willing to use thick paper, light Make a pen, write fleetingly.
