Quiet, once evaluated by Jiang Wen, "She is a time bomb", it is indeed a walking topic maker!
The first issue of "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves" just aired on June 12th. So far, in just 5 days, the quiet commentary has changed from "Sister Jing, I can" to "Female German spokesperson."
25-year-old flash marriage, 33-year-old divorced, 48-year-old chose to be single, but said that he wanted to be in love all the time and never had the peace of a window period. It is estimated that he would one day become the eyes of netizens. "Female Virtue Spokesperson", "Niang Tao Textbook".
The fuse was two interviews in her early years. After the broadcast of "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves", the corpse was pulled out by the forum and whiplash.
One of the passages was about a man’s cheating. She said this: “(Man) likes a certain woman or even one-night stand. It’s okay to engage in some ambiguity. It doesn’t mean that he really doesn’t love you. Men do Sometimes I do something extraordinary, maybe I want to prove my existence, so I don’t ask for it very much."
"You will find out later that, in fact, because you have done well enough, He went from the frequency of ten times (derailed) to three or five times, but if he didn’t have one, don’t think about it.”
Another paragraph is an interview about "Men's temperament" and "Macho".
She said: "It's okay for a man to have a little temper, because you always don't forget that you are a woman, that is, your temper should not be bigger than him."
How do you understand the two interviews with tranquility? The
forum also became a quarrel. Some people think that tranquility is to indulge in derailment, speak for men, and are full of "grandfathered", "female morale spokesperson" and "motherhood textbook".
On the contrary, another group believes that Tranquility is precisely "anti-female morality", and she likes machismo men and women not to have too much temperament, top It's mostly a personal preference in a relationship, and it can't reach the height of "mother way" and "female virtue".
Combined with the peaceful past love history and her sturdy life experience, for this woman who is full of contradictions, it is really impossible to simply use "yes" or "no". Judge her.
It can be said that the three men have shaped the tranquility of the "contradictory body" today.
These three men are: her father, ex-husband Paul, and career noble man Jiang Wen.
1, Ning Jing and Dad
On April 27, 1972, Jing Ning was born in Guiyang, the oldest in his family, as well as younger siblings.
The original family has too much influence on tranquility. The parents are very hot-tempered, so they start at home at every turn.
Even for a daughter who looks like a doll, she is also raised by stick education.
A violent family brings tranquility with an extreme lack of security. When she was a child, she thought violence was a passport.
It is said that none of the classmates in her class has not been beaten by Tranquility. The probability is about the same as that of half of Beijing children who beat Zhang Wei.
Quiet and hot temper has a great relationship with her childhood experience.
is not only insecure, but also resistant to intimacy.
Tranquility looks good when she is a child, because she is so good-looking, she will be watched when she goes out;
is also hugged by adults when she goes to kindergarten, so that she now has a strong resistance to other people’s physical touch psychological.
Tranquility’s parents divorced when she was a teenager, so she secretly made up her mind at a young age:
"I want to get married earlier, I want to have children earlier, I want you to see, The child should be raised like this.”
It can be said that she debuted at the age of 18 and yearned for marriage at the age of 20. When she was still ignorant at the age of 24, marrying Paul Kesai is definitely related to her mentality of making up for her childhood.
Tranquility has held an escape mentality towards parents for a long time.
You did not take care of me in my childhood, and do not participate in my adult life.
Regardless of getting married or giving birth to a son, Tranquility did not tell his parents. They only knew it through media reports.
Until her father remarried, she asked Tranquility for advice. She said: You don’t need to ask for my advice. You can find anyone. As long as you love her, I will love her.
When people are middle-aged, their temper is like a barrel of peace when they are young, and they begin to learn Buddhism.
Because of this, the relationship between her and her father has gradually reconciled, and now both her father and younger brother live with Jingjing.
On February 13 this year, during the epidemic, Tranquility recorded a video cheering for Wuhan. The silver-haired Tranquil father appeared in public for the first time.
2, tranquility and Jiang Wen
Jiang Wen is an aristocratic man in tranquility, but it is Guo Baochang, director of The Great House, who brought tranquility into Beijing.
Few people know that Tranquility worked as an animator in an animation company in Guangzhou before becoming an actor.
In 1990, the 18-year-old Tranquility first made a cameo appearance in Zhujiang Film Studio's "Love on Ice", then was discovered by Shanghai director Zhuang Hongsheng and starred in the movie "I'm Ugly, but I'm Very Gentle".
In 1991, Guo Baochang invited Jing to play a supporting actress in "Joint Detectives", and then quietly entered the Beijing circle.
In this film co-operated with Yu Rongguang, Guo Xiuyun, and Hong Yuzhou, the 19-year-old tranquility is the first to show the beauty of "stunner".
In 1994, another mainstay in Beijing, director He Ping, selected Jing Jing to play the leading role in "Spring Branch" in "Cannons and Two Lights".
He Ping said that the reason he likes tranquility is because of her somewhat cold and aloof personality.
At that time, Tranquility had just turned off another movie and was recuperating at home due to illness. After receiving the notebook handed by Heping, he immediately agreed.
Although in the eyes of film critics, "Cannon-playing Double Lanterns" does not surpass He Ping's previous work "Swordsmen in Double Flags", but tranquility, a lady with a steadfast personality and disguised as a man Shine.
The film brought back the first queen of life for Tranquility: Best Actress Award at the 42nd San Sebastian International Film Festival, when she was 22 years old.
Therefore, when Guo Baochang started filming "The Mansion Gate" based on his own story in 2000, not only the Beijing circle, but also the basic names and surnames in the circle went to guest appearances: Chen Kaige, Jiang Wen, Zhang Yimou , Tian Zhuangzhuang, Huang Zongluo, Li Xuejian, Yu Rongguang...
Quiet, of course, I also went to "The Mansion Gate" for a day, and acted as a brothel.
Jiang Wen guest starred, Futai Master, Zhang Yimou guest starred Eunuch Li Lianying.
Jiang Wen chose Quiet because of a glimpse from a distance in the dining room.
"Sunny Day" is regarded as Jiang Wen's "Morning Ceremony". It is his first directed film and one of his most important works.
"Milan" starred in tranquility is the goddess of sexual enlightenment of a generation.
Sensual, sunny, and wet, a red swimsuit overwhelms the hearts of men.
In her body, there is a scorching, wild charm.
The meaning of "Milan" to that generation is comparable to Monica Bellucci in "The Beautiful Legend of Sicily".
Wang Shuo once said "Milan": "It seems that the girl is clear only in the dim space. Seeing hard, it purifies and turns into a vulgar thing. It can be seen that this thing is hard to find, rare, maybe just A projection of our soul."
After "Sunny Day", almost every female character in Jiang Wen's works has the shadow of "Milan".
When she first turned on, Jiang Wen felt that she was not full enough and asked her to gain weight.
also did not expect that the water and soil in the north are too nourishing, and the weight of tranquility will reach 138 jin when she gets fat. Gu Changwei also used a wide-angle lens to shoot her "radish legs"!
Jingjing said that she would not dare to watch this scene.
The behind-the-scenes story of "Sunny Days" is enough to eat melons and the crowd is onlookers to this day:
Once the funds for this movie were in a hurry, it was Liu Xiaoqing who used his contacts to raise Jiang Wen around钱;
It is said that during the shooting, Liu Xiaoqing realized that Jiang Wen and Jing were getting better, so he negotiated with Jing a few times. After unsuccessful negotiations, Liu Xiaoqing's sister Liu Xiaohong introduced the French girl Sandrine to Jiang Wen in 1995.
As for which statement is credible? We only know that in the autumn of 1997, Jiang Wen and Sandrine registered their marriage in France and soon gave birth to a daughter named Jiang Yilang.
And quiet?
In 1996, she partnered with American actor Paul Kersey in "Red River Valley", and she had a flash marriage in early 1997.
Yes, she and Jiang Wen were married in the same year, and even quietly half a year earlier than Jiang Wen.
Jiang Wenhe tranquil, was it the sympathy between partners or the secret love between men and women?
Quiet Flash Marriage is married to a little-known American 18th-line actor. Is the love in the brain or is it stimulated by Jiang Wen?
The parties have different opinions at different stages-
In 1999, Tranquility solemnly refuted the rumor: "You have friendship with Jiang Wen but no love."
But in 2017 in "The Temptation of Dinner", she generously admitted: "I like each other with Jiang Wen."
At that time, Ma Dong and Cai Kangyong continued to ask Tranquility: "Does Jiang Wen like you? Do you like Jiang Wen?"
The answer from Ningjing was: "Of course I like it, why not?"
There is no doubt that Jiang Wen is a quiet and nobleman in performance.
"What he taught me is not how you should say and act this sentence at this time. He just tells you a feeling that slowly I have a feeling of being opened up."
Quiet film awards were basically concentrated before 2000.
After Guo Baochang, Jiang Wen, and He Ping, Beijing directors Huo Jianqi and Feng Xiaoning went to Tranquility to film "Winner", "Red River Valley" and "Yellow River Love" respectively.
Above: "Red River Valley"
Golden Rooster and Hundred Flowers, the first-line actress in the mainland with the highest pay in the 1990s, she was directed by the Beijing circle for a play. He quickly reached a position where he could sit on an equal footing with Gong Li.
Even in "New Shanghai Beach", the C position on the poster is quiet, and Andy Lau and Leslie Cheung will also match her.
After getting married and having children, Tranquility and Beijing circle gradually moved away.
is different from Xu Jinglei, the C heroine of the Beijing circle. Perhaps Tranquility has never really established a lasting and effective connection with the core of Beijing circle.
After 2000, Tranquility moved to TV dramas, from "The Secret History of Xiaozhuang" to "The Emperor of Dahan" and "The Empire of the Great Qin", becoming a professional "Queen".
3, Tranquility and Paul
This tranquil marriage, in her opinion, is a mistake.
Although Paul is a very good person, when she married Paul, she was already soberly aware: "I don't love him".
I hate the tranquility of marrying, the only marriage in my life, I made the wrong decision at the wrong time.
In 1996, when Paul proposed to Tranquility, he only took a small diamond ring and proposed to the highest-paid female star in China. Tranquility still nodded with tears.
At that time, when she was only 24 years old, she hated marrying so much that she thought "no one would marry me except Paul."
Affected by the original family, when tranquility was in her 20s, her view of marriage and love was very traditional, and she was eager to get married and start a family early.
However, the men around, love her, pursue her, but don't want to marry her. She said that maybe because of her appearance is more "meat" and not "vegetarian".
"I give many men a misunderstanding, and I think it is a woman who is not easy to discipline. I feel that I am not giving birth or cooking at home, so no one will marry me."
Paul's Appearing made her feel recognized and relieved her sense of crisis.
However, on February 14, 1997, when Tranquility and Paul got married on Valentine's Day, the atmosphere around them was in love, but she once again made her mind clear: "I don't love him."
Even so, Tranquility still worked for this marriage for nearly ten years.
She worked so hard for a while, and almost thought that she was in love with each other, but it was a pity that she didn't love her.
Tranquility gave birth to her son Reina in 1998, and then lived in the United States for two years. She was still unable to adapt. The two quarreled and quarreled to the point of falling apart, so she simply returned to China and joined the TV industry.
In 2003, the 31-year-old Tranquility appeared at the "Silver Valley" press conference and shaved himself a big bald head.
At that time, people thought she was sacrificed for the play, but she did not admit: "Summer is here, just to cool off!"
Many years later, Tranquility said: During that time, She ran on both sides of China and the United States, and her marriage saw her, and she was most exhausted.
From 2003 to 2005, Tranquility and Paul started a cold war. Because of the failure of the green card, Tranquility stopped going to the United States and separated from Paul.
Until 2005, she formally filed for a divorce with Paul, and the two of them had been involved in the issue of their son for a long time... During March and April 2011, the divorce lawsuit was only completed, and Tranquility officially admitted to the media that it was "due to cultural differences." "Divorced Paul.
If Tranquility learned from this doomed marriage, except for her son, she grew up at the speed of light and realized the meaning of marriage:
"It’s like a song. Play in an infinite loop until the battery runs out.”
and strengthened the determination to talk about love for a lifetime and never get married again.
4. Tranquility and boyfriends
Marriage is also a woman’s school. The tranquility after divorce has grown up in a period of love.
once complained and felt that she was "not enough vegetarian", could not get married, and the tranquility of her love mind changed. She became more concerned about self-feeling and did not take love too seriously:
"He loves me a lot Some, I don’t want to love him so much, I don’t want to read him, but he must read me, this is very important. In other words, women don’t spend so much time to understand men, so tired. Why? Don’t do yourself better when you have time. I think women should have their own space and don’t give them all to men. You have already lost when you are always thinking about him."
once hated to marry, a man proposed to marry herself to the other side of the ocean, she became convinced that even if we get married and have children, the most important thing is the woman herself:
"We Chinese women, how old are we?" It’s just that you have pressure. When you get married, you have pressure when you have a child. I don’t know why. You are still you. Apart from whose wife and mother you are, you are still yourself. The most important thing is yourself, so this is Don’t throw it away.”
and the opening paragraph, her view of “man cheating” seems to be that she has experienced many betrayals. She sees through human nature and feels “a creature like a man doesn’t No derailment":
However, as early as 2014, she also ridiculed a man swearing to be struck by lightning:
was asked in 2017: "Spiritual derailment" Which one can’t accept derailment with the body?”
Her answer is again: “I can’t know about the derailment of the spirit, and I don’t want to accept the derailment of the body.”
To put it bluntly, People will grow up, even though the innermost part of her heart is still the little girl who needs a sense of security in her childhood, but the road she has walked and the people she met taught her to learn from the blood blisters worn out by inappropriate shoes——
She already understands that she can't rely on others for her sense of security.
The girl who was full of fantasy, persistence and longing for marriage at the beginning, after experiencing marriage, slowly became not obsessed with marriage... Not only is tranquility, many women have also walked such a long road full of thorns.
After the quiet divorce, two of the most famous romances, one is Gu Lei, and the other is Wang Xiaoyi, both of them are peers, both of them are in love with brothers and sisters, and they have not come to the end.
broke up with Gu Lei in 2014 and broke up with Wang Xiaoyi in 2015.
Above: Wang Xiaoyi is 11 years younger than Jingjing, because of "Great Qin Empire".
The official announcement of the breakup was announced in 2019 by Wang Xiaoyi four years after the breakup.
As for who we are with now, we don’t know anymore. My sister said: "An empty window is not an empty window."
On June 20, 2018, Tranquility posted a hand-held photo: "Would you like to go together?"
I don’t know which man the hand belongs to. All we need to know is that my sister is already running for five, and still has a sweet love conversation, it is enough.
As for the tranquility of 48 years old, is it possible to step into marriage again?
is like "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves", her expression of "dancing": "I am afraid of dancing, but I want to dance."
Reason tells her not to, but sensibility can't restrain wanting.
So, although Jing said: "I want my boyfriend to be with me, the one request not to mention is'marry me'!"
Who dares to say, will my sister be here? When you meet someone who is enough to make her heart fascinating, how about entering marriage again?
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