Some time ago, various reality shows emerged in our variety show. As a mother, I naturally care about parenting reality shows most.
from the appearance of "Where is Dad?" to the popularity of "Think of a Way, Dad" reflects everyone's concern about parenting.
However, I have a soft spot for a parent-child show, which is about celebrities as intern daddy and experience "Let go of my North Nose" with a baby.
Shows that are followed by idols
In this show, everyone has their own advantages in bringing babies, but I feel that the way Ma Tianyu and Jackson get along is both surprising and yearning.
As a fan of Ma Tianyu, I knew about him through TV works a long time ago, and later I went to watch other shows of him. He feels like a big brother next door, and he is the kind who takes care of others.
So, I am looking forward to seeing him appear in variety shows with babies.
Patience boys are the most attractive
The first scene in the show that impressed me was that Jackson was just sent to Beibi’s home, and he was crying because of nervousness and fear. mode.
Because the first person Jackson saw was Ma Tianyu after the door was opened, he hid in the arms of Tianyu's brother and kept crying.
Ma Tianyu picked him up, accompanied and comforted him; Jackson, cried for more than 20 minutes, Ma Tianyu hugged him until he stopped crying.
Seeing this, I still feel very touched. If my husband treats my children with patience like him, even if I face more trivialities, I will feel very satisfied.
In reality, wives often have a kind of "dilemma" grievance
Now in this big environment, many men who become husbands still retain some macho feelings.
They think that bringing children at home should be the wife's business, and they want their wives to quit their jobs, do laundry, cook, and take children at home.
But when the wife has no financial resources and no longer pays attention to makeup, and surrounds the stove and children every day, they will feel that their wife is not beautiful enough and loses charm.
Furthermore, they will become bored with their wives, and they will gradually become uncomfortable with the way their wives ask for money every time.
Facing the husband’s inconsistent attitude and the life of a feather, and thinking back to the life of an angry horse, the wife will feel very wronged.
They will also wonder: they were married for love at first, and they had children for love; but after marriage, why did everything become scared and hated by themselves?
Actually, I think that the husband is the decisive factor for the quality of life of a couple after marriage.
"Brother Xiaoma"’s love for Jackdon is super sweet
Whenever you look at Ma Tianyu’s good care of Jackson, watch them become familiar with each other from the beginning, and then later become each other Relying on, I really feel a warmth in my heart.
Gradually, Ma Tianyu became the familiar "brother Ma" in Jackson's mouth, and Jackson became the "eldest son" in Ma Tianyu's mouth.
Looking at Ma Tianyu holding Jackson again, I actually found that the two of them are becoming more and more similar. People who may be in love with each other, even their appearance will slowly approach.
In the show, the one that Ma Tianyu takes care of the most is Jackson. He said that Jackson's personality is very similar to his childhood.
He will coax Jackson to sleep and feed Jackson himself. When another brother wants a strict way for Jackson to learn to be independent, he will feel soft.
When Jackson was so wronged to cry and shouted no, he would patiently hold him in his arms to comfort him.
So later, Jackson became Ma Tianyu’s "exclusive pendant", sticking to Tianyu brother like a little koala every day; and Jackson also became a little cutie that Tianyu brother could never forget in this life.
teaches well, spoils and does not spoil
But what makes me even more commendable is: Ma Tianyu’s love for Jackson only is from the heart, not without principle spoil.
Once, because Jackson didn't want to play with another kid in the show, he stretched out his hand and hit her. Therefore, Jackson was educated by the celebrity brothers.
Later, Jackson burst into tears aggrieved.
He opened his little hand and wanted Ma Tianyu to hold him, and Ma Tianyu asked him to apologize to another kid.
When he said sorry to another child in tears, and then plunged into Ma Tianyu’s arms again, crying and saying "Brother Xiao Ma, I was wrong", I knew that at that moment, Ma Tianyu must also be in his heart. Uncomfortable.
But he still has to stick to the principle, because he has to tell the "cute" in his arms what is right and what is wrong.
And when Jackson chose to cry and apologize, he grew a lot in that instant.
And Ma Tianyu finally gave Jackson a big hug, which will definitely warm his injured young heart.
The depth of love, the cut of responsibility
There is a saying that makes sense: the depth of love, the cut of responsibility.
When they hug each other with tears and teach each other with love and warmth, I often feel a warmth that nourishes my heart.
Is their mode of getting along with each other, isn't it the epitome of the mode of getting along with our parents and our children?
Educating children, it should be.
It is necessary to fill their simple and innocent inner world with love and care, so that they can grow up positively, optimistically, and bravely;
And when necessary, "relentless Take your time" and use practical actions to tell them that something is wrong and must be corrected.
Only in this way, our children will grow up to be good teenagers recognized by society, will understand the meaning of responsibility, and will not easily go astray.
My heart is not peaceful, I want to talk to my husband
Ma Tianyu takes care of everyone as much as possible every time, whether it is the children of Beibi Home or The celebrity partners who take care of the children with him;
He always does things that others don’t want to do. After everyone has eaten, he naturally cleans the table and often cooks for everyone;
It seems that he has never been a shining star, just a big brother next door who likes children.
Looking at these details, I would really envy his family.
I can't help but think, if my husband can do one-third of his, I will definitely fly happily.
Recently, I took my husband and asked him to accompany me, and then I did "Let go of My North Nose" several times.
I will think about things he didn’t want to do beforeThink about the theory, then take it out and sort it out again.
I will also tell him my worries and grievances. Fortunately, my husband has gradually realized his problems and is willing to change it for me and the child.
My husband’s change touched me
On that day, my husband actually took the initiative to say to me: "Your god, Ma Tianyu, seems to be very attractive! My life may be better than nothing. Go to other people's house."
"Don’t compare with him, he was once a light of my life, lighting up my way at a certain dark moment; And you, it is me who will walk my life hand in hand People, I hope we can be gentle with each other in the years to come."
After saying this, I blushed and went to rest.
After all, in addition to saying some sour things when we were in love, we haven't been so numb for a long time.
The next day, my husband suddenly said to me: "I also want to be a good husband and a good father; but I don’t know where to start, or I should start with doing housework with you. If you need help in the future, just call me.” Although
is some simple and straightforward words, I still feel very moved.
The best feeling is to make each other a better self
We women get married and have children, not necessarily a perfect model husband,
and Is a flesh-and-blood person who is willing to work hard and change for you despite having such shortcomings and shortcomings.
Some people say that happiness is wind, frost, rain and dew, with hands still clenched;
Some people say, the most romantic thing I can think of is to grow old with you ；
I want to say, The best feeling is to make each other better people.
"Let go of my north nose", Ma Tianyu and Jackson's approach to getting along, the details show the wisdom of marriage and parenting, let us see what a good man looks like.
May we also find the light of idols, become better people, and create a healthier and more harmonious native family for our children; and bring ourselves closer to happiness.
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