After waiting for several years, the third part of "Ode to Joy" is finally released. Although the protagonist and storyline in this one are completely different from the previous two parts. But the creation of characters and the way the story is told are still as familiar as before. In this drama, the protagonists of the story are still five people with completely different family backgrounds, living habits, personalities and hobbies. We can always find our own shadow in them, and we can also learn a lot of experience from them.
is different from the previous two films. The character traits of Xinwu Mei are more obvious and down-to-earth. Zhu Zhe in the play is reasonable, gentle and beautiful, with an intellectual and mature beauty; the scientist Ye Zhenzhen in the play is a free and easy beauty; Ah Chu has a positive and hard-working beauty; not to mention Lucy, she is the most dazzling character in the play, both in terms of dressing and acting style, which can be seen from the red dress she wore when she appeared.
Only the role of He Minhong is disliked by countless viewers. It is not because He Minhong is not good-looking, but because the things she does are too speechless and give people a feeling that they are unclear. People who are unclear must be responsible for their own words and deeds.
01 Can't control one's mouth
As the saying goes: "Keep your mouth when you are in a group, and don't make false statements. Keep your mouth when you are in a group, and don't make mistakes." This means that when getting along with others, you must pay attention to your words and deeds. Only by being cautious in your words and deeds can you avoid unnecessary trouble. Those who speak freely and only care about what they say are not only annoying, but also lose their self-cultivation.
He Minhong's mouth in the drama is really annoying. When she saw Zhu Zhe for the first time, she posted on her WeChat friends her connotation of Zhu Zhe, calling her an "old cucumber with green paint", and also characterized Ah Chu as a social butterfly behind her back. This kind of person who likes to comment on others casually and post it on social platforms is really speechless.
When it comes to dealing with A Chu and her mother, He Minhong always makes indiscriminate comments about others, and A Chu is so angry that he confronts her directly. This episode is really annoying and enjoyable to watch. They all say, "Don't persuade others to do good without having experienced their suffering." He Minhong always likes to evaluate others from his own perspective, but he doesn't know that such an approach can easily offend others.
In contrast, Zhu Zhe's approach is much smarter. She never interferes too much in other people's family affairs. She only gives polite suggestions when asked. Moreover, she knows how to respect everyone's life and does not judge others too much.
02 Poor work ability
In the play, He Minhong had a falling out with Song Li over the manuscript fee. Ah Chu kindly helped her write a manuscript to clarify, but was scolded by He Minhong. She couldn't figure out who was good to her and who was bad to her. In the entire royalties incident, we can also clearly see how worrying Stanley Ho's IQ and EQ are.
When faced with the tasks assigned by the leader, she did not think of doing things as well as possible, but always stood on her own side. When the editor asked her to negotiate with Song Li about the manuscript fee, she confidently said that she would not communicate with others and would only write manuscripts. And when the editor-in-chief strongly asked her to communicate, she told Song Li the truth directly without caring about the company's interests, and revealed all the company's background.
She thought she could get Song Li's understanding by doing this, but Song Li actually pointed the finger at her and posted an article on the Internet to attack He Minhong. The leaders of her company were also distressed by her behavior. Which company would dare to hire such an employee? In real life, she probably wouldn't even be able to find a job.
03 She makes her own decisions and cannot understand
He Minhong always has a sense of stupidity about not thinking about things. She is always used to thinking about problems from her own perspective and is unwilling to listen to other people's opinions. Regarding Zhu Zhe's ex-boyfriend's fraudulent marriage and loan sharking, Zhu Zhe repeatedly reminded He Minhong to tell Chen Zuffa's fiancée Yu Feixue to be careful that there was a traitor among the debt collectors and would tip off Chen Zuffa.
However, He Minhong insisted on standing on his own position, feeling that they were also victims, and suspected others of bad things without any evidence. In the end, it directly led to Yu Feixue not catching Chen Zuffa and extremely collapsed.
Later, out of guilt, she drank and talked with Yu Feixue many times. But when Yu Feixue was so drunk that no one took care of her, she volunteered to bring Yu Feixue home, but told Ye Zhenzhen that her bed was too small and she and Yu Feixue could not fit together, and hoped that Ye Zhenzhen could take Yu Feixue in. This wave of operations simply dumbfounded the audience. When you were drinking with Yu Feixue, didn't you think about the consequences of her getting drunk? You clearly knew that you were living in a shared apartment with others, yet you brought others into your home casually, and even suggested that Ye Zhenzhen take in someone you didn't know well.
There are simply too many examples like this in the drama. In the end, He Minhong also paid the price for his actions. And we should also learn lessons from her. In the process of interpersonal communication, we should control our mouths, do not judge others easily, and do not say hurtful words to others; in career, we should strive to improve our professional abilities and learn more things instead of resting on our laurels. Be self-proclaimed, make less excuses for yourself, and improve your professional abilities more; in addition, when doing things, improve your overall concept, don't act on impulse, let alone act arbitrarily, listen to the opinions of several people, and conduct comprehensive considerations, which can save us from taking many detours.
