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1Director Xie Jin, and his wife Xu Dawen gave birth to 4 children, 3 sons and 1 daughter. Unfortunately, 3 of his wife's children suffered from intellectual disabilities, but the healthy eldest son died of liver cancer in 2008.
Recently, Xie Jin’s last surviving son, Ah Si, died at the age of 66 due to ineffective rescue efforts due to new crown . After seeing this unfortunate news, many netizens expressed their condolences.
Xie Jin has only been married once in his life, and he and his wife Xu Dawen have four children in total.
Xie Jiaqing is the son that Xie Jin cares about most in his life. Because he was frail and sick since childhood and suffered from epilepsy, it was difficult to take care of himself. However, Xie Jin did not have any dislike for his son. Instead, he took care of and loved him in every possible way.
It is reported that Xie Jin got lost twice when his youngest son was being treated.
In order to prevent his son from getting lost and unable to find his way home, Xie Jin often leaves a note on his son, telling everyone that he is Xie Jin's son, and also leaves his phone number and address so that passersby who see him can contact him.
This method is quite effective. Every time my son gets lost, someone will help him bring him back. Xie Jin's fatherly love touched countless people.
Not long after the epidemic was released, celebrities passed away from us almost every day. Director Xie Jin’s last surviving son, Xie Jiaqing, also unfortunately left us because he was infected with the new crown and had underlying diseases.
The news came too suddenly. Netizens felt heavy and lamented how difficult it was for the family. They prayed for Jiaqing's success and sighed: Jiaqing can also be reunited with his father and his brother in heaven.
2Xie Jin is a well-known director that everyone is familiar with. He was born in Zhejiang in 1923 from a scholarly family, and came from a famous family.
He grew up in a privileged family, which provided him with many opportunities to be exposed to drama and art, and he gradually embarked on the path of drama performance. He has shot countless classic films throughout his life, won many international awards, and is extremely talented.
In the turbulent era, Xie Jin was full of national sentiments and had a strong sense of social responsibility and patriotism.
This kind of patriotism can be felt in most of his works. " Wrangler " and " The Old Man and the Dog " are all works directed by him, as well as anti-Japanese-themed movies such as "The Feathered Letter" and "Plain Guerrilla", all of which have very good reputations.
Xie Jin has received numerous honors in his life and is a respectable director, but his life has been full of disappointments.
His fate was troubled, and he suffered helplessness and suffering in his life that ordinary people could not understand.
He and his family experienced house raids, struggles, and even days of living in a cowshed. They continued to patch up their lives, and his parents eventually committed suicide due to the unbearable humiliation.
This is the regret of Xie Jin’s life, coupled with the rough fate of his children.
Maybe it was because life was too hard that he fell in love with drinking. Regardless of happiness or pain, he kept alcohol as his companion all day long, using alcohol to anesthetize himself. Over time, alcohol became his best friend when he was anxious.
Xie Jin drinks a lot. He drinks wine during every meal and even during filming. Whenever I go on a business trip to shoot a film, when I pack my luggage, I would rather carry less luggage, but I also have to bring wine.
But alcoholism brought many sequelae to Xie Jin, and the days that followed brought him endless pain.
3Xie Jin met his future wife Xu Dawen in Chongqing.
At that time, Xie Jin went to Chongqing to study. Xu Dawen, who also loved drama performances, admired Xie Jin's patriotic temperament very much. Because they often practiced and performed dramas together, Xie Jin gradually came into Xu Dawen's heart.
In 1946, they held a very grand wedding in Shanghai, with a strong sense of ceremony. They held both new-style weddings and old-fashioned weddings. It was unusual for such a grand wedding ceremony to be held at that time.
They invited many celebrities to attend, and the witness was Hong Shen . The couple seemed quite happy at the time, and everyone was envious of them.
The two have gone hand in hand for 62 years and have never left each other through thick and thin. Unfortunately, Xie Jin still had trouble changing his bad habit of drinking after marriage, which also caused tragedy for the family.
They gave birth to four children. The arrival of a child was undoubtedly an extremely happy event for a family.
But for Xie Jin and Xu Dawen, it was endless worry and unspeakable pain.
Xie Jin and Xu Dawen’s two sons are severely mentally retarded, and their daughter is slightly mentally retarded. After
's daughter Xie Qingqing was born, she was found to be relatively slow in development and reaction as a baby.
But because it wasn’t too serious, the couple didn’t pay much attention to it, thinking that it would get better as they grow up.
But who would have thought that the situation would be even worse after the birth of the third and fourth children. When the third child was born, because his mother Xu Dawen was in poor health, the third child was raised by a wet nurse.
Unexpectedly, the nanny suffered from severe asthma. The third child drank the nanny's milk and also developed the root cause of asthma. What's even more frightening is that he also suffered from intellectual disability.
The third child eventually passed away due to ineffective treatment. He was only 38 years old when he passed away.
4From the perspective of genetics , it may be affected by genes, or Xie Jin's long-term alcoholism, causing lifelong regret.
Xie Jin once said the truth in grief after drinking: "How could my child be like this? He doesn't know a word!"
In fact, in order to develop the intelligence of his children, Xie Jin has been buying them some educational toys since childhood. Whenever he has free time at work, he plays with them, hoping that their cognition can be improved.
Little Stone Mill and Tim Dou Zi are both the favorite and most enjoyable games for father and son, because they have to work together to complete them and enhance the relationship and tacit understanding between father and son.
This time is always the happiest and harmonious moment for the family.
The relationship between Xie Jin and the children is very deep, they depend on each other and love each other.
Although Xie Jin is very busy at work, as long as there are holidays, he will put down his work and go home to reunite with his children, post Spring Festival couplets, write couplets, make dumplings, and enjoy the happiness of family.
Although the three children have intellectual disabilities, Xie Jin is still very patient and only treats his eldest son who is healthy. Xie Yan is a strict father figure, very strict. He gives all his hopes to his eldest son.
Xie Jin does not necessarily have to be excellent in character and academics, but at the very least he must shoulder the responsibilities of the family and take good care of his younger brothers and sisters. This is a must.
Therefore, Xie Yan has been very sensible and mature since he was a child, and he has shouldered the burden of the family at a young age.
not only obeys his parents and takes care of his grandparents, but also chooses not to get married in order to take care of his younger siblings.
is completely opposite to his father Xie Jin, who is resolute, carefree, and likes to smoke and drink. Xie Yan is soft-spoken, cautious in doing things, has no bad habits, and is very self-disciplined.
He inherited his father's talent as a director, but he always kept in mind his father's teachings and prioritized family and taking care of his younger siblings. He has always been very low-key in his career.
The eldest son Xie Yan is very outstanding and very smart. He has inherited his father's excellent genes.
He has participated in the filming of many works, such as " Huaqiao Rongji ", " Holding Hands in Life ", " My Girl is Red ", Zhou Xun became popular after starring in "My Girl is Red".
Xie Jinjiao and Xie Yan must take good care of his younger brother no matter what, and he must not abandon this younger brother no matter what.
Xie Yan took his father's advice to heart. Unfortunately, things did not go as planned. In 2007, Xie Yan became unwell and was diagnosed with liver cancer after examination.
In order to prevent his family from worrying, Xie Yan hid his illness, secretly sold his property, changed the insurance beneficiary to his two younger brothers, and made all preparations.
Until 2008, his condition worsened and he could no longer hide it. When his family learned about it, they were devastated.
In August 2008, Xie Jin’s eldest son Xie Yan died young of late-stage liver cancer. He was only 59 years old at the time. He was ahead of his younger brothers and sisters and was not able to accompany and care for them until the end.
5When he passed away from illness, the famous actor Liu Xiaoqing went to pay his last respects in person.
After losing his beloved son, his father Xie Jin was so distraught that he had trouble sleeping and eating. He locked himself in his room all day long without seeing anyone. He didn't even attend his son's funeral.
Fate is cruel. His eldest son passed away and he still had other children to take care of. Xie Jin could only grit his teeth and persist. Nothing was impossible. Time is the best weapon. No matter how ruthless the fate was, he still had to rely on himself to breathe.
Not long after the eldest son passed away, the third son also had bad physical signs. He had an asthma attack and eventually died.
No one can bear the loss of two beloved sons in a short period of time.
Xie Jinlian was hit hard and hit hard, and he collapsed immediately.
At that time, the well-known actor Liu Xiaoqing also visited Director Xie and lamented that the last time he saw him, he was "skinny and dying."
This shows how miserable Xie Jin was in agony before he left.
My eldest son passed away in August 2008. Only 56 days later, his father Xie Jin passed away at the age of 85. When he left, he was in a hotel room with no family or friends around him.
6The departure of Director Xie can be said to be the end of an era of movies, which is deeply saddened and unforgettable in the entire film industry.
After losing his son and husband within a few months, his wife Xu Dawen felt alone.
lost the financial and spiritual support of his family. Finally, with the help of his colleagues, he and his son could barely survive.
Until the beginning of 2016, Xu Dawen passed away forever with longing for her husband, concern for her son Jiaqing and daughter Qingqing at the age of 90.
After that, only two siblings, Xie Qingqing and Xie Jiaqing, were left in the Xie family.
Although Xie Qingqing's reaction was slower than that of ordinary children since childhood, the situation was not as bad as that of his two younger brothers.
She married an ordinary worker. Although his family background was average, he was a good person and took good care of her.
Although the couple lived an ordinary life, they did not have to worry about food and clothing. They were the relatively happy and smooth lives of the Xie family, low-key and happy.
But what Xie Qingqing didn't expect was that his younger brother Jiaqing left so suddenly. Because of the death of her younger brother Jiaqing, she was extremely sad and unprepared.
Xie Qingqing, who is now 75 years old, has been low-key and kind throughout his life. From his appearance, he does not look like he belongs to a wealthy family. His clothes are simple and his style is simple.
would also like to wish the elderly good health, good luck and a safe life!
Conclusion
Seeing the fate of Director Xie Jin’s family, I can’t help but sigh that life is impermanent and that life is indeed too fragile.
What we can do well now is to cherish the people in front of us and around us, do it and cherish it.
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