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You may not be familiar with Zhang Jingyu's name, because she is an ordinary person, not a celebrity, but you should be familiar with her husband Wang Zhengzheng .
Wang Zhengzheng is a singer. The songs he sang by him, such as " Beyond Dreams ", "Eternal Still" and "I Love China" and other songs are still regarded as classics by fans.
However, what is little known is that when Wang Zhengzheng fell in love with Zhang Jingyu at first sight, it was the most down-and-out time when he went south, and Zhang Jingyu was a rising star in the Shenzhen Song and Dance Troupe.
In order to pursue Zhang Jingyu, Wang Zhengzheng tried his best, but after getting it, he failed her twice. Zhang Jingyu even cut off relations with his parents for the sake of him and married him in 2001.
Ibsen said: "Marriage is a great test in life."
deeply agrees. Especially marriage to love is a gamble.
If you win a bet, you will be happy all your life; if you lose a bet, you will be miserable all your life.
Back then, in order to stay with the poor and innocent Wang Zhengzheng, Zhang Jingyu quit his "iron rice bowl" job despite his family's opposition and bet on everything he has done to marry him.
Now 21 years have passed, how is she doing? Have you won the bet?
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Zhang Jingyu was originally the pride of his parents.
She was born in the Inner Mongolia grassland, with an older brother and sister on it. She is the youngest in the family and has been deeply loved by her family since she was a child.
Zhang Jingyu has been good at singing and dancing since she was a child, and she is particularly beautiful. After graduating from high school, she was admitted to Shenyang Conservatory of Music. After graduating from
, Zhang Jingyu first worked as an actor in Guangzhou Ballet Troupe , and was then seconded to work in Shenzhen Song and Dance Troupe.
Zhang Jingyu is 1.75 meters tall and has a unique temperament in dancing all year round. She is always the most eye-catching one in the crowd. Because she is too tall in the group, few matching male actors can lift her up, so she can only dance and lead the dance.
But this does not hinder her pursuit of dreams.
At that time, Zhang Jingyu had never considered personal issues. She was the pride of the whole family. She hoped that she would make achievements in her career and then consider making friends.
, and Wang Zhengzheng is different from her. He just chases him when he likes it, but it is precisely this kind of personality that he did not leave any good impression on Zhang Jingyu when he met for the first time.
Wang Zhengzheng is also from Northeast China. He was born in an artistic family in Shenyang, Liaoning. His father was a tenor singer at the Liaoning Opera House, his mother was an actor at the Liaoning People's Children's Art Theater, and his sister graduated from the professional music school of music.
Wang Zhengzheng was deeply influenced by them and was interested in singing since he was a child, but his parents did not want him to learn this.
Because this road is too difficult, they hope that he can take the university normally and have a stable and decent job.
However, Wang Zhengzheng's ambition was not here. He was still interested in music. There were many children as old as him in the courtyard who studied bel canto and some learned musical instruments. Wang Zhengzheng also wanted to be like them.
Seeing that their son had no other specialties, the percussion was OK, so Wang Zhengzheng went to learn drum set . After
, I entered Central Conservatory of Music and studied. After graduation, I successfully joined the Liaoning Opera Symphony Orchestra and became a professional drummer.
Wang Zhengzheng satisfied his parents' wishes and had a stable and decent job, but he himself was becoming less and less happy because this was not what he loved. He was more willing to become a singer than playing drums.
Especially in the early 1990s, Hong Kong and Taiwan pop music was popular, which attracted Wang Zhengzheng like a magic. He was thinking about singing when playing drums.
How great it would be if I could sing these songs.
Although others are in the north, their hearts have already reached the south. Soon after, he made a decision to give up his existing work and go south to Shenzhen to pursue his dreams.
At that time, Wang Zhengzheng was in the unit, and he had good conditions and was well treated, but compared to these external things, his spiritual richness made him feel more secure.
So he resolutely chose to go south to pursue his dreams. It is precisely this that he has the opportunity to meet Zhang Jingyu, which may be the destined fate.
02
For the first time we met, Zhang Jingyu did not have a good impression of Wang Zhengzheng. He is tall and handsome, but he is a bit frivolous and doesn't look like a serious person.
But for Wang Zhengzheng, knowing Zhang Jingyu is like a beam of light shining in his dark life.
When he first arrived in Shenzhen, Wang Zhengzheng was not familiar with the place and could not understand the language. In addition, the fast-paced lifestyle here made it difficult for him to adapt. It can be seen that the road to pursuing his dreams was not going smoothly.
For a long time, Wang Zhengzheng can be described as poor and destitute. Just when he was thinking about whether to persevere, Zhang Jingyu appeared.
Due to work reasons, Wang Zhengzheng met the leader of the Shenzhen Song and Dance Troupe. The leader admired him very much, so he introduced him to a very beautiful fellow villager in Northeast China, who was Zhang Jingyu.
Before he saw this, Wang Zhengzheng was thinking in his heart how beautiful this fellow villager was, because the leader said a lot of good things along the way, which made him full of expectations.
When Wang Zhengzheng saw Zhang Jingyu for the first time, she was moved by her unique height and temperament. I don’t know if it was because of her fellow villager or his heartbeat made him unconsciously want to get close to Zhang Jingyu.
The first greeting was: "Old girl, she is quite tall." As she spoke, Wang Zhengzheng's hand was placed on Zhang Jingyu's shoulder.
Originally, Zhang Jingyu thought that the person in front of him was good, tall and handsome, but the hand he put on made her feel disgusted:
Who is this person? He just held her arms and shoulders as soon as he met. It's too casual.
Zhang Jingyu's intuition tells himself that this man is not reliable and he should stay away from him in the future.
Wang Zhengzheng was the opposite. When he met for the first time, he was attracted by Zhang Jingyu, thinking about how to meet her for the second and third time...
And when he met for the second time, Wang Zhengzheng directly gave Zhang Jingyu a nickname called "Big Beauty", which means to praise her for being tall and beautiful. If others were praised, they would definitely be very happy, but Zhang Jingyu did not agree.
She always felt that this person was unreliable and was too familiar. She would tie her arms around the shoulders the first time and give her nickname the second time, but for the sake of face, she could not directly hold her face.
It is precisely because of this psychology that it encourages Wang Zhengzheng's enthusiasm.
Wang Zhengzheng asked about Zhang Jingyu's news everywhere. After learning that she was single, he began to pursue her.
, but he did not dare to confess his love openly. One is because he was afraid of scaring people away, and the other is because he was worried that he would be rejected directly and would not be able to bear the weight.
So he thought of the trick of treating guests to dinner. At first, he invited the sisters in the group to eat together, and gradually fewer and fewer people, and later they became the two of them.
During this meal, Zhang Jingyu had a new understanding of Wang Zhengzheng. She appreciated his persistence and pursuit of dreams, and was even more moved by his courage to pursue his dreams regardless of everything.
In the past, she regarded Wang Zhengzheng's generous and enthusiastic as frivolous. After learning about it, she found that he was really enthusiastic and generous, and was sincere in dealing with others and not being petty.
Just like that, the two young and throbbing hearts got closer and closer, and they were together.
Love is proud and career is gradually on the right track. Wang Zhengzheng has gained a certain reputation in the Guangdong Music circle through singing competition, but he is still a hundred thousand miles away from his dream of becoming famous nationwide.
is that gold will always shine. Wang Zhengzheng is lucky. Just when he was going to a new level for his career, he met Xu Peidong, the first nobleman in his life.
03
1997, Shenzhen held the Top Ten Singers Competition. The famous composer Xu Peidong participated as a judge. Wang Zhengzheng won the second place with the song "The Vine Entangled Tree" and also won the favor of Xu Peidong.
Backstage of the competition, Xu Peidong found Wang Zhengzheng:
The image and singing skills of yours should go to Beijing to develop. You come to Beijing, I will help you find work.
received recognition and praise from Xu Peidong. Wang Zhengzheng was very excited. In fact, he had wanted to go north for a long time, but he almost felt confident.
This time, with Xu Peidong's support and encouragement, his confidence increased, and he happily shared this good news with Zhang Jingyu when he returned.
However, Zhang Jingyu did not agree very much at that time, because he had just improved a little in Shenzhen. Now he went to Beijing to start from scratch again, and everything was full of unknowns.
Wang Zheng was determined. He knew that he would regret it if he missed this opportunity.
But he didn't want to ruin his love because of this, so he promised Zhang Jingyu that he would take Zhang Jingyu over when he came to Beijing.
Zhang Jingyu loves Wang Zhengzheng deeply, and at the same time, she doesn't want his talent to be buried, so she chooses to support him.
In this way, Wang Zhengzheng became a "Beijing drifter" again, one in the south and one in the north, and started a long-distance relationship with Zhang Jingyu.
When he arrived in Beijing, Wang Zheng, with the help of Xu Peidong, went from a bar singer in Casablanca to a passionate singer who sang advertisements, and went through countless hardships and hardships, but still failed to get what he wanted.
He was determined to make a name for himself in Beijing and took Zhang Jingyu to his side. Zhang Jingyu missed him very much, and the two could only use the phone to relieve their lovesickness.
In those years, just the phone cards used to make phone calls were thick. In order to end this pain in another place as soon as possible, Zhang Jingyu took the initiative to mention marrying Wang Zhengzheng.
In Zhang Jingyu's view, as long as two people fall in love, support each other, and support each other, they will definitely make a difference.
As a Northeastern man, Wang Zhengzheng has some machismos. He feels that he must first start a career and then start a family. Now he is poor and has nothing to do, and he can't afford Zhang Jingyu's lifelong promise.
The two people quarreled on the phone about this issue, and no one could convince anyone. Wang Zhengzheng even proposed to break up in anger.
The more Zhang Jingyu thought about it, the more angry he got. Since he wanted to break up, he would part. Anyway, the life of separation between the two places was too difficult, and his family didn't agree with being with him.
So Zhang Jingyu followed Wang Zhengzheng's intention and broke up. After the breakup, they haven't contacted each other for a long time.
04
Originally, Zhang Jingyu was still looking forward to Wang Zhengzheng in his heart.
She knew that everything she said on the phone was angry, and she believed that he would come back to find her once he figured it out.
But I never thought that Wang Zhengzheng did not. Shortly after the breakup, she heard that he had a new girlfriend. Zhang Jingyu felt ridiculous about the expectations he had in his heart.
During that time, in order to get out of the sadness of broken heart, she devoted herself to work. She occasionally asked for leave to go out to relax and went back to her hometown to find a hint of warmth.
Zhang Jingyu has made up his mind that he will not have any connection with Wang Zhengzheng in the future, so she will not answer any calls from Beijing.
Wang Zhengzheng felt that he could not live without Zhang Jingyu for the first time, after he had a new girlfriend.
At first, he didn't understand, but he would compare the current person with Zhang Jingyu for no reason. It is precisely because of this that the two often quarrels and break up after less than half a year of dating. After
, he realized that he could not let go of Zhang Jingyu at all, so he decided to chase her back.
Compared to pursuing Zhang Jingyu for the first time, Wang Zhengzheng hurts Zhang Jingyu too deeply, and it is not that easy to catch her back.
So this time, Wang Zhengzheng also gave up his dignity. In order to find Zhang Jingyu, he ran back to Shenzhen just to call her, but after the call was connected, he was still ruthlessly hung up.
In order to find her, he tried his best to find her, and finally, with the help of Zhang Jingyu's friend, he met her.
As soon as she saw Zhang Jingyu, Wang Zhengzheng knelt down at her. At this time, he no longer cared about the dignity of men and just wanted her to come back. As long as she could come back, he would be willing to do anything.
In public, a big man knelt down and begged for forgiveness from a woman. Zhang Jingyu's friends were moved by him, and the onlookers also supported him. Zhang Jingyu looked at the 1.9 meters tall and thin in front of him, and apologized to her with tears in her nose.
She felt a little soft-hearted.
However, she did not promise him to reconcile with him. She agreed to go with him just to end this embarrassing situation earlier.
Back to Wang Zhengzheng's residence, looking at the room with no heating, no toilet, and only a bed.
Zhang Jingyu felt a little distressed. She didn't expect his life to be so difficult. Wang Zhengzheng was afraid of losing Zhang Jingyu again, so he locked the doors and windows, and even when she went to the toilet, he followed her, for fear that she would run away.
This made Zhang Jingyu laugh and cry.
However, during the half month he was "housed under house arrest", they opened their hearts and confessed their feelings for each other. Zhang Jingyu decided to give each other another chance.
05
This time, Zhang Jingyu really invested a lot of money. In order to be with Wang Zhengzheng, he did not hesitate to give up his job in Shenzhen and had a quarrel with his family, and he wanted to cut off the relationship between father and son.
At this moment, for her, love is everything, and she can give up everything for love.
But marriage, not the prince and princess in fairy tales. After love, you can live happily together.
In real life, food, clothing, housing and transportation, trivial matters, any one of them may smash love. However, what is ridiculous is that it is not these that defeat their love again, but Wang Zhengzheng's immaturity.
After reunited with Zhang Jingyu, with her help, Wang Zhengzheng's career made new progress. In 1999, he became popular with an advertising song "Beyond Dreams". After
became popular, he was a little disgusted and asked Zhang Jingyu to break up with him without knowing the height of the world.
In order to be with him, Zhang Jingyu gave up everything. She could not do anything about career or family, but he treated her like this.
She couldn't accept the repeated injuries. This time she was determined not to look back. The two of them had not been in contact for a whole year.
Of course, this time, Wang Zhengzheng couldn't help it. He found that he could no longer live without Zhang Jingyu. He also felt that he was a bastard and actually hurt her twice.
This time he re-interpreted the scene of recovering her for the first time, and promised to get married and get married, and all the profits, houses, and cars in the future will be placed under Zhang Jingyu's name.
For Zhang Jingyu, what she likes is not money, but this relationship. It has been too difficult for eight years from Shenzhen to Beijing.
plus Wang Zhengzheng's "suffering" and Zhang Jingyu surrendered again. Firstly, she could not let go of this relationship, and secondly, she saw his sincerity again, which was the last chance.
Lost and regained is one of the happiest things in life.
Zhang Jingyu promised to get back together again, and Wang Zhengzheng also cherished her very much, treated her as a treasure, and pampered her twice as much.
In 2001, Wang Zhengzheng proposed to Zhang Jingyu, and held a traditional Mongolian wedding in Zhang Jingyu's hometown in Mid-Autumn Festival of the same year.
At the wedding, Wang Zhengzheng was grateful to Zhang Jingyu for giving him a chance. It was a great blessing for him to marry her in this life and he would not let her down for the rest of his life.
Good marriage is a booster of career. With the support of Zhang Jingyu, Wang Zhengzheng's career has reached a new peak.
On New Year's Eve in 2002, Wang Zhengzheng appeared on CCTV's Global Spring Festival Gala and sang "Beyond Dreams". After that, his career ushered in a full-scale explosion, and his albums and singing non-stop, and his profits also rose.
After years of struggle, he finally had his own home in Beijing. In 2004, Zhang Jingyu gave birth to his daughter Wang Meixuan. In order to better take care of the family, Zhang Jingyu retreated to the second line and took care of his husband and daughter at home.
Wang Zhengzheng was like he said. He became more and more mature. He put his wife first in everything. He handed over the financial power of the family to her. When he was at home, he would do everything. Zhang Jingyu was a good leader.
Friends laughed at him for "wife strict control", but he felt that this was a kind of honor and he was grateful for everything his wife did for him.
He is away all year round due to work reasons, but his wife arranged everything at home in an orderly manner, giving him a very warm home.
So he is willing to be this "wife-loving madman" and this "daughter slave", because he is happy when he sees them happy.
, Zhang Jingyu was the right bet.
From seeing Wang Zhengzheng at first meeting, to falling in love after getting along, during which time, he experienced two breakups, and even gave up his career, he was willing to cut off his relationship with his parents...
Fortunately, she won.
" The Temperature of Love " There is a line in:
The chance of lovers getting back together after breaking up is 82%, but only 3% can reach the end. The reason for breaking up again is the same as the last time.
Wang Zhengzheng was lucky to be 3%, lost and regained. Now he has been working with Zhang Jingyu for 21 years.
Because she herself has become a better person, in the future they will firmly love each other deeply, go further, train their daughter to become a talent, watch her start a family and start a career, and slowly grow old together.
Now Zhang Jingyu is very satisfied. She is grateful that she did not give up back then, and gave each other a last chance and won happiness for her whole life.
Finally, I still want to persuade people who love each other:
Don’t say breaking up easily, learn to cherish it. Lost and gain is an accident; missing is no longer the norm.
So, don’t lose it before you realize it’s precious. There is no medicine for regret in the world.
