Faye Wong , what's wrong?
Two days ago, Faye Wong's recent photos were exposed, and she rarely lost her composure.
Paparazzi photographed Faye Wong leaving early at the party and covering her mouth and leaving with a painful expression, and she suspected that she had just cried. There were friends around me supporting her, as if to comfort her.
Is this a sad thing?
"Fengfei Love" is finally coming to an end?
Didn't cry when they divorced twice. Faye Wong, who was always calm and quiet, accidentally lost control of her emotions in front of the public this time, which made netizens really worry.
Some netizens speculated: Is
related to Nicholas Tse ? Has there been a major change in the relationship between the two?
For a long time, the relationship between Faye Wong and Nicholas Tse has attracted much attention from the outside world.
This subconscious speculation is also due to the news of the two breaking up from time to time, and Feng Fei has really not been in the same frame for a long time.
Hong Kong media even revealed that Nicholas Tse and Faye Wong have broken up long ago, and Faye Wong turned around and had a new love, and she is still a young man.
There are many rumors. Faye Wong's photo is suspected of "crying" and has also made the outside world more doubts and concerns about the relationship between the two.
After all, the relationship that only falls in love but not gets married gives both parties more freedom, but also adds more uncertainty to this relationship. Once the relationship is exhausted, it is the end.
If you end it at this , it is a bit regrettable.
As a sugar-killing crowd, I still hope that the "Fengfei Love" that has been around for 22 years so far can last longer and usher in a successful ending.
At the same time, like many people, they were also amazed at the magic of this "legendary love":
22 years, breaking and reuniting in the middle, each of them had one or two failed marriages, and there was an age gap of 11 years. What made them successful when they can get to where they are today?
After breaking up, why are some feelings exhausted while others have become new?
①
The Godfather of Music Lee Zongsheng In "Hong Kong Song for Himself ", there is a sentence like this:
"I know only the long-lasting separation, and I have never seen the long-lasting separation."
This sentence may apply to most couples who part ways, but it seems unconvincing to Faye Wong and Nicholas Tse.
In 2000, there was a rumor about Faye Wong and Nicholas Tse.
At this time, Faye Wong, 31 years old, was a queen of music, divorced and took care of her child.
Due to the intervention of photographer Gao Yuan, he ended his 53-year marriage with Dou Wei. With the 2-year-old Dou Jingtong , he just recovered from a deeply hurt triangle relationship.
And Nicholas Tse, 20 years old, is a young and immature.
As a new star in the entertainment industry, he has just made his mark, but in front of Faye Wong, whose career is already at its peak, he is just a younger brother.
In that era when my thoughts were not so open, this 11-year-old sister-brother relationship was shocking and everyone was disgusted.
Even Nicholas Tse himself was revealed to have chased Faye Wong because of a "bet" with his friend for $1 million.
But this pursuit also gradually changed from the initial reckless aura of youth to appreciation and love.
In 2000, Faye Wong and Nicholas Tse held hands in the century, causing a sensation
They ignored the strange eyes of the world and loved them in a high-profile and enthusiastic manner.
On Faye Wong's birthday in 2001, Nicholas Tse bid for the license plate "FE1" for a high price of 800,000 yuan, giving Faye Wong a birthday gift, and also hinted in the interview that Faye Wong was the marriage partner.
But with the emergence of Cecilia Cheung , this high-profile "sweet period" gradually "turns around".
20-year-old Nicholas Tse has an unstable mind and is still far from the word "maturity".
was photographed by the media many times and has been accompanied by Cecilia Cheung, and there are constant scandals.
The relationship between the two people gradually faded from the beginning of the love that was swept by freshness and passion, and then faced the ambiguity of the third party, quarrels, breaking up and reuniting, and finally broke up in 2003.
Faye Wong, who has always loved her so much that she is fearless and enthusiastic, is also moving forward all the way, unintentionally being hurt by the thorns on the roadside.
When she was exhausted, she met Li Yapeng , which seemed worth relying on.
In 2004, the two fell in love; in 2005, they entered marriage; in May 2006, their daughter Li Yan was born, but she suffered from congenital cleft lip and palate.
, and Nicholas Tse was photographed holding hands with Cecilia Cheung a year after breaking up with Faye Wong.
When Faye Wong was exhausted from treating Li Yan's cleft lip, Nicholas Tse and Cecilia Cheung married in September 2006.
The two fell in love, broke up, and got married and had children. I thought that at this point, the entanglement between them had come to an end.
But 2 years later, the turning point came.
The "nude photo scandal" incident in 2008 made Cecilia Cheung, who was originally a victim, fall into a scandal. Not only did her career suffer a Waterloo, but her relationship with Nicholas Tse also faced an unprecedented test.
There are constant rumors about "Fengzhi's marriage change", but Nicholas Tse chose to stand with Cecilia Cheung and face it together:
"I met Cecilia since I was 18 years old. Since I chose her as my wife, I will definitely accept all her past."
Nicholas Tse's maintenance did not bring about the mutual understanding that should be.
In May 2011, after the "nude photo scandal" storm, three years later, there were rumors:
Cecilia Cheung met Edison Chen on the plane, took the initiative to change seats, and took a photo with Edison Chen, as if the "nude photo scandal" of that year had never happened.
Although Cecilia Cheung denied that this was the fuse of the two's divorce, Edison Chen later admitted in an interview that this incident was the fuse of the two's divorce.
In May 2012, Nicholas Tse and Cecilia Cheung survived the most controversial moment, but still reached the point of divorce.
And Faye Wong and Li Yapeng, the combination of stars and businessmen, has survived 9 years, but it is still unable to get through.
reached the end in September 2013.
I don’t know whether it should be attributed to fate or destiny. Some people meet and fall in love when they are young, with passion and full affection. If they enter a marriage, they may not have consumed the waste and dullness of their own.
On the contrary, in middle age after "seeing oneself, seeing the heaven and earth, and seeing sentient beings", it is more likely to stay together for a lifetime.
In September 2014, in the surprised eyes of the entire network, Faye Wong and Nicholas Tse reunited in the century.
At this time, they had been separated for 11 years, and during this period they each went in different directions, experienced situations that many people of all sizes could not experience, or that they could not experience, or that they met under the dramatic arrangement of heaven.
One is 34 years old, the other is 45 years old, it will be you after going around in circles.
walked into the siege of marriage, and after savoring the powerlessness and conflicts, he walked out of the siege.
In the end, the two chose to only fall in love but not get married.
It can be said that they are confident that their relationship does not require a marriage contract to bind each other, or they can be said that they do not want marriage to add too much trouble to each other, and just want to simply accompany each other through the rest of the road. As for how far they can go, they do not force or force them.
Now, they have been together for 8 years, from the initial love of their youth to the present 22 years.
But compared to back then, they seem to fall in love more now.
The relationship that reunited after breaking up is generally difficult to maintain, because it is difficult to return to the original, and the changing feelings can only move towards separation again and again through repeated reunions.
But why can their relationship last longer and become stronger?
Why is this?
There are about 3 reasons:
1. After separation, the two have made more mature changes in their understanding of their relationships and their life experience;
2. The original scars, contradictions and conflicts have faded or have a better solution;
3. After breaking up, they have more clarified their emotional needs.
They did not meet again, but met each other again.
They do not repeat the past love pattern, but know how to establish a new and unthorny relationship based on the increase in experience and cognition.
The "uneasy" after separation allows us to understand the importance and irreplaceability of each other, and begin to understand who is the most suitable for us.
Shu Qi and Feng Delun have been breaking up and reunited for 20 years, and finally achieved a good result;
Kan Mok broke up with his German first love boyfriend, and after more than 20 years of going around, he continued his relationship again;
Xue Zhiqian got married twice, and both of them were Gao Leixin .
Ancient Greek philosopher Heraklit once said: " people cannot step into the same river twice ".
Why do we fall in love with the same person over and over again?
When I was young, I was unstable and I didn’t know how to cherish the people I met too early.
After experiencing the vicissitudes of life, seeing through the love in the world, and experiencing the test of separation, we deeply understand the preciousness of loss.
This is time, the answer that tells us. After going around, we will eventually have to stay with each other's most suitable soul for the rest of our lives.
②
Fai Wong and Dou Wei’s divorce and Nicholas Tse’s miss are all due to the intervention of the two people, with the intervention of a "third party".
And this third party has never been someone else, but his own inner uncertainty.
that year, Yuanquan , Xia Yu , Gao Yuanyuan , that's it.
Xia Yu once wrote in her autobiography:
"Yuan Quan is my third girlfriend. Their (three girlfriends) have completely different personalities. The three of them may be suitable for me, but why did the first two break up and get along with Yuan Quan for so long?" "Because I used to want to find someone who I like and who is suitable for me, but now I understand that it is impossible, so I think the best way is not to find 100% of people, but to strive to reach 100% of the two people together."
In the face of love, we all have an illusion: next time will be better.
We always want to find that more perfect and better person, so in the face of contradictions and separation, we seem to be fearless: If we don’t meet you 100% fit, then I’ll try others.
There was also an episode in this ten-year relationship between Yuan Quan and Xia Yu, from school uniform to wedding dress.
In 2007, 31-year-old Xia Yu and 28-year-old Gao Yuanyuan starred in the drama "Accomplice" as the male and female protagonists.
Just like the name of the drama "Accomplice", the emotional scene between the two extends from the stage to outside the play.
During the drama performance, the media also photographed Gao Yuanyuan staying at Xia Yu's home for two consecutive days. Faye Wong , what's wrong? Two days ago, Faye Wong's recent photos were exposed, and she rarely lost her composure. Paparazzi photographed Faye Wong leaving early at the party and covering her mouth and leaving with a painful expression, and she suspected that she had just cried. There were friends around me supporting her, as if to comfort her. Is this a sad thing? "Fengfei Love" is finally coming to an end? Didn't cry when they divorced twice. Faye Wong, who was always calm and quiet, accidentally lost control of her emotions in front of the public this time, which made netizens really worry. Some netizens speculated: Is related to Nicholas Tse ? Has there been a major change in the relationship between the two? For a long time, the relationship between Faye Wong and Nicholas Tse has attracted much attention from the outside world. This subconscious speculation is also due to the news of the two breaking up from time to time, and Feng Fei has really not been in the same frame for a long time. Hong Kong media even revealed that Nicholas Tse and Faye Wong have broken up long ago, and Faye Wong turned around and had a new love, and she is still a young man. There are many rumors. Faye Wong's photo is suspected of "crying" and has also made the outside world more doubts and concerns about the relationship between the two. After all, the relationship that only falls in love but not gets married gives both parties more freedom, but also adds more uncertainty to this relationship. Once the relationship is exhausted, it is the end. If you end it at this , it is a bit regrettable. As a sugar-killing crowd, I still hope that the "Fengfei Love" that has been around for 22 years so far can last longer and usher in a successful ending. At the same time, like many people, they were also amazed at the magic of this "legendary love": 22 years, breaking and reuniting in the middle, each of them had one or two failed marriages, and there was an age gap of 11 years. What made them successful when they can get to where they are today? After breaking up, why are some feelings exhausted while others have become new? ① The Godfather of Music Lee Zongsheng In "Hong Kong Song for Himself ", there is a sentence like this:
"I know only the long-lasting separation, and I have never seen the long-lasting separation."
This sentence may apply to most couples who part ways, but it seems unconvincing to Faye Wong and Nicholas Tse.
In 2000, there was a rumor about Faye Wong and Nicholas Tse.
At this time, Faye Wong, 31 years old, was a queen of music, divorced and took care of her child.
Due to the intervention of photographer Gao Yuan, he ended his 53-year marriage with Dou Wei. With the 2-year-old Dou Jingtong , he just recovered from a deeply hurt triangle relationship.
And Nicholas Tse, 20 years old, is a young and immature.
As a new star in the entertainment industry, he has just made his mark, but in front of Faye Wong, whose career is already at its peak, he is just a younger brother.
In that era when my thoughts were not so open, this 11-year-old sister-brother relationship was shocking and everyone was disgusted.
Even Nicholas Tse himself was revealed to have chased Faye Wong because of a "bet" with his friend for $1 million.
But this pursuit also gradually changed from the initial reckless aura of youth to appreciation and love.
In 2000, Faye Wong and Nicholas Tse held hands in the century, causing a sensation
They ignored the strange eyes of the world and loved them in a high-profile and enthusiastic manner.
On Faye Wong's birthday in 2001, Nicholas Tse bid for the license plate "FE1" for a high price of 800,000 yuan, giving Faye Wong a birthday gift, and also hinted in the interview that Faye Wong was the marriage partner.
But with the emergence of Cecilia Cheung , this high-profile "sweet period" gradually "turns around".
20-year-old Nicholas Tse has an unstable mind and is still far from the word "maturity".
was photographed by the media many times and has been accompanied by Cecilia Cheung, and there are constant scandals.
The relationship between the two people gradually faded from the beginning of the love that was swept by freshness and passion, and then faced the ambiguity of the third party, quarrels, breaking up and reuniting, and finally broke up in 2003.
Faye Wong, who has always loved her so much that she is fearless and enthusiastic, is also moving forward all the way, unintentionally being hurt by the thorns on the roadside.
When she was exhausted, she met Li Yapeng , which seemed worth relying on.
In 2004, the two fell in love; in 2005, they entered marriage; in May 2006, their daughter Li Yan was born, but she suffered from congenital cleft lip and palate.
, and Nicholas Tse was photographed holding hands with Cecilia Cheung a year after breaking up with Faye Wong.
When Faye Wong was exhausted from treating Li Yan's cleft lip, Nicholas Tse and Cecilia Cheung married in September 2006.
The two fell in love, broke up, and got married and had children. I thought that at this point, the entanglement between them had come to an end.
But 2 years later, the turning point came.
The "nude photo scandal" incident in 2008 made Cecilia Cheung, who was originally a victim, fall into a scandal. Not only did her career suffer a Waterloo, but her relationship with Nicholas Tse also faced an unprecedented test.
There are constant rumors about "Fengzhi's marriage change", but Nicholas Tse chose to stand with Cecilia Cheung and face it together:
"I met Cecilia since I was 18 years old. Since I chose her as my wife, I will definitely accept all her past."
Nicholas Tse's maintenance did not bring about the mutual understanding that should be.
In May 2011, after the "nude photo scandal" storm, three years later, there were rumors:
Cecilia Cheung met Edison Chen on the plane, took the initiative to change seats, and took a photo with Edison Chen, as if the "nude photo scandal" of that year had never happened.
Although Cecilia Cheung denied that this was the fuse of the two's divorce, Edison Chen later admitted in an interview that this incident was the fuse of the two's divorce.
In May 2012, Nicholas Tse and Cecilia Cheung survived the most controversial moment, but still reached the point of divorce.
And Faye Wong and Li Yapeng, the combination of stars and businessmen, has survived 9 years, but it is still unable to get through.
reached the end in September 2013.
I don’t know whether it should be attributed to fate or destiny. Some people meet and fall in love when they are young, with passion and full affection. If they enter a marriage, they may not have consumed the waste and dullness of their own.
On the contrary, in middle age after "seeing oneself, seeing the heaven and earth, and seeing sentient beings", it is more likely to stay together for a lifetime.
In September 2014, in the surprised eyes of the entire network, Faye Wong and Nicholas Tse reunited in the century.
At this time, they had been separated for 11 years, and during this period they each went in different directions, experienced situations that many people of all sizes could not experience, or that they could not experience, or that they met under the dramatic arrangement of heaven.
One is 34 years old, the other is 45 years old, it will be you after going around in circles.
walked into the siege of marriage, and after savoring the powerlessness and conflicts, he walked out of the siege.
In the end, the two chose to only fall in love but not get married.
It can be said that they are confident that their relationship does not require a marriage contract to bind each other, or they can be said that they do not want marriage to add too much trouble to each other, and just want to simply accompany each other through the rest of the road. As for how far they can go, they do not force or force them.
Now, they have been together for 8 years, from the initial love of their youth to the present 22 years.
But compared to back then, they seem to fall in love more now.
The relationship that reunited after breaking up is generally difficult to maintain, because it is difficult to return to the original, and the changing feelings can only move towards separation again and again through repeated reunions.
But why can their relationship last longer and become stronger?
Why is this?
There are about 3 reasons:
1. After separation, the two have made more mature changes in their understanding of their relationships and their life experience;
2. The original scars, contradictions and conflicts have faded or have a better solution;
3. After breaking up, they have more clarified their emotional needs.
They did not meet again, but met each other again.
They do not repeat the past love pattern, but know how to establish a new and unthorny relationship based on the increase in experience and cognition.
The "uneasy" after separation allows us to understand the importance and irreplaceability of each other, and begin to understand who is the most suitable for us.
Shu Qi and Feng Delun have been breaking up and reunited for 20 years, and finally achieved a good result;
Kan Mok broke up with his German first love boyfriend, and after more than 20 years of going around, he continued his relationship again;
Xue Zhiqian got married twice, and both of them were Gao Leixin .
Ancient Greek philosopher Heraklit once said: " people cannot step into the same river twice ".
Why do we fall in love with the same person over and over again?
When I was young, I was unstable and I didn’t know how to cherish the people I met too early.
After experiencing the vicissitudes of life, seeing through the love in the world, and experiencing the test of separation, we deeply understand the preciousness of loss.
This is time, the answer that tells us. After going around, we will eventually have to stay with each other's most suitable soul for the rest of our lives.
②
Fai Wong and Dou Wei’s divorce and Nicholas Tse’s miss are all due to the intervention of the two people, with the intervention of a "third party".
And this third party has never been someone else, but his own inner uncertainty.
that year, Yuanquan , Xia Yu , Gao Yuanyuan , that's it.
Xia Yu once wrote in her autobiography:
"Yuan Quan is my third girlfriend. Their (three girlfriends) have completely different personalities. The three of them may be suitable for me, but why did the first two break up and get along with Yuan Quan for so long?" "Because I used to want to find someone who I like and who is suitable for me, but now I understand that it is impossible, so I think the best way is not to find 100% of people, but to strive to reach 100% of the two people together."
In the face of love, we all have an illusion: next time will be better.
We always want to find that more perfect and better person, so in the face of contradictions and separation, we seem to be fearless: If we don’t meet you 100% fit, then I’ll try others.
There was also an episode in this ten-year relationship between Yuan Quan and Xia Yu, from school uniform to wedding dress.
In 2007, 31-year-old Xia Yu and 28-year-old Gao Yuanyuan starred in the drama "Accomplice" as the male and female protagonists.
Just like the name of the drama "Accomplice", the emotional scene between the two extends from the stage to outside the play.
During the drama performance, the media also photographed Gao Yuanyuan staying at Xia Yu's home for two consecutive days.
At this time, Yuan Quan and Xia Yu had been in love for 8 years and were in their relationship bottleneck period.
quarrels, friction, dullness, and fatigue made them unable to cope for a while.
Yuan Quan once said:
"The key to my relationship with Xia Yu is persistence. It is not necessarily 100% good for us to be together, maybe only 30% good. Every time I always remind myself that we may have reached a bottleneck period."
Gao Yuanyuan broke in the gap in their relationship, which was controversial, although Yuan Quan and Xia Yu were in the breakup period at this time.
From beginning to end, Gao Yuanyuan is just an "outsider". After the brief "aggression" between
and Gao Yuanyuan, Xia Yu and Yuan Quan attended the 16th China Golden Rooster and Hundred Flowers Film Festival and were photographed returning together. After the breakup lasted only 10 months, the two reunited and had no scandals again.
But it is also the short relationship with Gao Yuanyuan and the emotional crisis with Yuan Quan that allows us to see Xia Yu's "freedom".
Gao Yuanyuan is like the touchstone of their relationship, which shows that it is not others, but the ghosts and monsters in Xia Yu's own heart. "Free" like
undoubtedly hurt Yuan Quan:
"No matter what kind of result this relationship is, it may not be the result that people imagine, but in our hearts, this relationship has blossomed and bear fruit."
has flaws and is hard to let go of love.
When in love, breaking up and reuniting may be the norm. Some people will hesitate and wander between two people, hesitate and hesitate.
This is human nature, and it also allows us to see the rare opportunity of firm choices.
We cannot be sure if the other person is that person. When people who look fresher and better appear, we will inevitably be distracted.
But as said in " Little Prince ", it is precisely because of the time I have spent on him that we become different from each other.
There are thousands of roses in this world, why are you so different?
It is because I carefully watered and sheltered you from the wind and rain for thousands of days and nights, so that our relationship has become irreplaceable.
There will always be better people, but we cannot bear the cost.
Because in repeated wanderings, not everyone can appreciate the preciousness and difficulty of losing and regaining it.
More about the person who is most suitable for you after losing heartbreak is no longer able to catch it.
In this world, not all separations can have the " luck" of Faye Wong and Nicholas Tse.
③
After reunited with Nicholas Tse, Faye Wong was once asked: Why did she reunited?
She said: "I didn't deliberately force it, and I didn't want to refuse when I came."
Faye Wong, who has experienced two failed marriages, has always followed her feelings openly and honestly.
This is different from many people.
She is not like a scarred woman. After seeing through the truth of love, she loses her longing and hope for it.
She broke the stereotype of being a mother. Under the melody of giving priority to children and considering the many concerns of the family, she always puts her feelings first.
In her logic, first of all, you must love yourself. When you are happy, the people around you will also become happy. In the face of lost love, she also has the ability to balance the relationship between love and family.
Time polishing, she no longer used too much force like she was when she was young. She tried to seize it and lost more. Instead, she learned to love gently and no longer forced a conventional ending.
We cannot ask others for the future, we can only love openly and with heart in every precious moment.
Only by not letting down oneself can one live up to others.
So, no matter whether she breaks up with Nicholas Tse this time, and whether she really has a new love, there is never any need to worry.
She has always done a good job, loves openly and has a clear conscience, which is enough.
lit up "looking". I hope every girl can be herself and love herself, and at any time, she can have the ability and courage to love her lover!
#Telebrity Creation Challenge#
So, no matter whether she breaks up with Nicholas Tse this time, and whether she really has a new love, there is never any need to worry.
She has always done a good job, loves openly and has a clear conscience, which is enough.
lit up "looking". I hope every girl can be herself and love herself, and at any time, she can have the ability and courage to love her lover!
#Telebrity Creation Challenge#
